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How to Focus Your Mind on Your Goals in 2023 Constructively

In this world of distractions due to information overload, it has become a big challenge to focus our minds



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In this world of distractions due to information overload, it has become a big challenge to focus our minds on positive aspects and constructive activities. Sometimes we waste our precious time mentally and physically due to distractions arising out of technology. We must understand our priorities and learn how to focus on them religiously.

Improve Your Attitude

With the right attitude, you can achieve anything and everything in the world. In the 20th century, intensive research was done to identify the reasons behind successful people. It unveiled that attitude made them stand out from others globally. Your attitude determines your altitude of success. 

Globally attitude, knowledge, and skills are widely discussed. Among them, it is attitude that plays a crucial role to acquire knowledge, skills, and abilities. When you discuss personality, attitude, and behavior, it is the attitude that plays a crucial role to improve your personality and behavior. 

When you talk about hard skills and soft skills, it is the soft skills that matter more, and attitude is the crucial element to acquiring soft skills. In a nutshell, it is the attitude that makes your life 100 percent successful and meaningful. 

The three components of attitude are what you feel, think, and do. Your education, environment, and experience determine your attitude. Hence, ensure that you acquire ethical education and are surrounded by positive people to enable you to have positive experiences in life. 

The negative attitude results in self-doubt, low self-esteem, ill health, stress, bitterness, and resentment. Anyhow you are going to invest your energies, then why not invest your energies in building a positive attitude instead of a negative attitude. 

To acquire a positive attitude, you must think positively, surround yourself with positive friends, develop a can-do mentality, appreciate others, and above all, live in the present.

“Our visit to this planet is short, so we should use our time meaningfully, which we can do by helping others wherever possible. And if we cannot help others, at least we should try not to create pain and suffering for them.” —Dalai Lama

Tips to Focus on Constructive Activities

Whenever negative thoughts pop up in your mind, affirm repeatedly that you were born with certain gifts in life. Leverage those gifts to grow and add value to others. Here are some tips in your arsenal to focus on your goals and objectives to achieve amazing success in your life. 

  • Engage your mind constructively on your goals and activities. Fix time daily on them. Avoid multitasking. 
  • Create an environment with the right kind of noise. Surround yourself with friends who are positive, constructive, and healthy. Create a team of strong connections who are experts in creating ideas and taking their ideas into execution. 
  • Share your personal feelings and emotions with your trusted friends. Avoid wearing your emotions on your sleeve.
  • Follow your passions and hobbies. Leverage the technology. 
  • Breathe in and breathe out for a few seconds to divert your mind. Remember to breathe with your stomach and through your nose. Do meditation and yoga. 
  • Engage your mind on household chores. Connect with your family members. Spend considerable time with them. 
  • Hold your mind continuously on your goals for 21 seconds to enable you to stay focused on your goals.  
  • Undertake much bigger challenges and focus on them to resolve them. 
  • Understand the fact that people are quickly glued to negative aspects than the positive aspects. 
  • Stop complaining, criticizing, and condemning others. Take responsibility for your actions. 
  • Focus more on your strengths and less on your weaknesses. Focus more on ideas and less on individuals and issues. 
  • Overcome your apprehensions and anxieties. Stay away from superstitions.  Look at the door that is opened, not the closed one. Have an open mind to resolve issues. Find out what is bugging you. Explore solutions to overcome them. 
  • Travel to unwind. Take a vacation to break from your negative thoughts. Go on a pilgrimage if you are a religious person. 
  • Don’t compare with others. You are unique and a gift from God. Nobody can be like you and you cannot be like anybody in the world. 
  • Be magnanimous to help others and add value to them. 
  • Maintain a gratitude journal to express your gratitude every day
  • Consult a psychologist to seek professional advice.

Strengthen your subconscious mind. Give positive commands to your subconscious mind 30 minutes before you go to your bed. These commands will have a positive impact on your mind and improve your personality, attitude, and behavior. 

Grow your potential by concentrating on your goals; improving yourself continually; forgetting your unpleasant past; living in the present; and focusing on the future.  

You are Gifted with one Life

Don’t visualize negative events in life. Don’t exaggerate them overly. Don’t make a mountain out of a molehill. Remember that everyone has challenges in life. You are not an exception. Understand this fact and enlighten yourself to lead a pleasant and peaceful life.

In reel life (cinema), there are takes and retakes but in real life, there are only takes, and no retakes. You are on a short visit to this planet. You are gifted with one life. Ensure that you lead your life constructively to provide meaning to your life. 

Professor M.S. Rao, Ph.D. is the Father of “Soft Leadership” and the Founder of MSR Leadership Consultants, India. He is an International Leadership Guru with forty years of experience and the author of fifty books including the award-winning ‘See the Light in You’ URL: He is a C-Suite advisor and global keynote speaker. He brings a strategic eye and long-range vision given his multifaceted professional experience including military, teaching, training, research, consultancy, and philosophy. He is passionate about serving and making a difference in the lives of others. He is a regular contributor to Entrepreneur Magazine. He trains a new generation of leaders through leadership education and publications.

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20. Be aware of the tone of your voice: it should be calm and assertive, not aggressive or passive.


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