Mirror, mirror, on the wall, who’s the fairest of them all? Whether you care to admit it or not, rivalry, envy and competition might be a mental habit you indulge in all too often… And it could be destroying your happily ever after in life and business.
For centuries now, the human civilization has been passing down from one generation to the next all kinds of false beliefs about the game of life and how it should be played. We call it social conditioning and belief systems.
So it’s very likely you have inherited patterns of thinking and habits that will greatly hinder your success and prosperity, especially if you’re trying to manifest something totally new. Women take this topic of paradigms and belief systems to a whole new level because we tend to be dominated by our unruly emotions most of the time.
As a female entrepreneur and mother, I am finding that subtle habits, which few ever want to deal with, are now stymieing our explosive evolution into leadership roles and greater wealth. There are certain fundamental shifts we must deliberately make as women especially because we know all too well that our social conditioning has for the most part instilled a tendency to backstab, compete and crave attention regardless of the cost.
We are no longer in the era where all we could do was make babies and look after the home. Our dreams, ambitions and capacities have expanded. Life itself has expanded and opened out to us a fresh new platform from which to play a bigger game, but we must give up those old attitudes that were only focused on the quest of making babies and keeping a husband.
Survival was the name of the old state of consciousness for the masses so the modern woman seriously needs a consciousness makeover in order to thrive.
Part of that makeover is healing these two poisonous mental attitudes that have become second nature to us. And while it won’t all shift in an instant, daily practice as you engage with other individuals especially fellow female entrepreneurs, will transform your life and business rapidly.
Here are the two mental obstacles you need to get rid of for lasting success:
1. Envy and jealousy
In many of his great teachings, we find Dr. Joseph Murphy insisting on how envy, jealousy, condemnation and criticizing others causes wealth to take wings and fly away. He tells us that there is one major emotion behind the lack of wealth in the lives of many. That emotion is envy!
To entertain negative thoughts is destructive because it places you in that same negative consciousness. Observe yourself and the common habits many women tend to indulge in, and it will come as no surprise that all the hard work put in doesn’t yield an overflow of supply.
It doesn’t matter how well you hide it, the one who sees, feels and knows all you are thinking in secret when looking at another’s success, is the only one that matters. So please don’t fool yourself or downplay these emotions if they are showing up.
Tip: If you are going to join a group, community or church to help support you through this entrepreneurial journey, it is paramount that you watch yourself. Watch your thoughts and emotions whenever you come across or receive news of another’s victory.
This isn’t an easy thought pattern to break but with a little deliberate effort and the right prosperous thoughts, you will be able to neutralize its effect and free yourself permanently.
“Our envy always lasts longer than the happiness of those we envy.” – Heraclitus
2. Identifying with and making agreements with lack
There is but one originating power in the universe and that is, the Infinite Power. Unfortunately one of the habits of thought floating within the mass consciousness is one that locks us out of the direct access to this Infinite power especially in relation to money and success.
Since infancy, many of us have been trained into false beliefs about ourselves; what we can or cannot do, how valuable we are and more importantly, what it means to be a woman.
Unless we consciously cleanse these mental and emotional attitudes it is very hard to create lasting success and prosperity in our business endeavors. The default approach we tend to have is that of making agreement with lack.
I have noted a common ailment with my clients especially those who are also mothers. In the name of being caring and sympathetic, they are drowning the very desires they would love to experience because they constantly make agreement with the problem.
If for example you’ve started a business in the past and it didn’t thrive, are you still keeping that memory active? Do you often worry and wonder where the clients are going to come from? Or where the money is going to come from?
These are all active indicators that despite your hard work, you’ve identified more with lack and struggle than prosperity and growth.
Tip: The first thing you must do henceforth is learning how to perceive wealth and divine substance in your life. It will be very tough to cultivate true faith and build your business under the right foundation if your conscious and subconscious mind feels out of harmony within.
“We see the world not as it is, but as we are.” – Anais Nin
The negative emotions and mental states that cause you to feel like your industry is oversaturated, there’s too much competition or that you’ll need to struggle your way to the top are only there because you don’t know how to tap into your own strength, power, sufficiency and wealth.
The more you heal this and identify with the only source of your supply, the easier it will be to step into your day with the knowing that your financial prosperity is guaranteed.
Now we would love to hear through the comments below if this lesson proved useful for you.
Did it give you any insights or clear up some confusion within around why you feel the way you feel? Have you been fighting off some of these feelings lately?
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5 Ways to Prepare for Your Entrepreneurial Journey
There are many ways to get ready for entrepreneurship regardless of whether you’re ready or not. The migration to the unknown will take you through many places, emotions, and people. Your journey will be both easy and difficult, but hopefully in between, you prepare yourself with an expectation of helping people by solving problems. The quest that you are about to enter will be one to remember if you are willing to adapt quickly and not give up.
Arranging for this huge change in your life should be one of the most memorable expeditions that you will ever experience. Looking into the future and being able to lay out a road map for your entrepreneurial journey will definitely be beneficial. Though there will be challenges every step of the way, being prepared will help you achieve your goals more efficiently.
To help you get started, here are 5 ways to plan an entrepreneurial expedition:
1. Form Ideas By Visualizing And Writing Them Down
Before beginning your entrepreneurial quest, brainstorm to come up with many amazing ideas even if you never act upon each of them. It’s always a good thing to write them down on paper, computer or via a mobile device app such as Google Docs. An abundance of suggestions about your processes is better than none or even a few objectives that can possibly help in some way.
The key is to breakdown those ideas to come up with better solutions to move forward in your voyage. See what’s more in line with your mission and values to be effective for your core audience, products or services that you may want to create. Whether you categorize those ideas or check them off one by one, coming up with different concepts will be a great start to your journey.
“Creativity is contagious – pass it on.” – Albert Einstein
2. Begin A Pattern Of Consistency By Quitting Bad Habits
Repetitive actions can present their challenges but if there’s a way to make progress and eliminate bad habits that aren’t hindering your itinerary then keep doing them. Have you ever noticed that negative thoughts, lack of confidence, and no exercise regimen could negate persistence of not only your entrepreneurial journey but other goals as well?
Get your mojo or swagger back by committing to a life of constant and everlasting consistency by stopping eating bad foods, wasting your time with hours of playing video games, watching television and other things that will stall your progress. When you get rid of actions that are slowing down aspects of your life, you’ll begin to pursuing things to help you lay the groundwork for success.
3. Be Disciplined While Listening More
Another way to prepare for your entrepreneurial journey is by being in control of yourself while paying more attention to everything else. It’s quite common to focus on things outside of your realm and instantly become something other than what you see fit. Difficulties can arise if your focal point isn’t there and somehow an opportunity pass right by you.
Mentorship even from a distance from someone that you don’t know can be a key element as you learn the importance of your mission. Listening to podcasts and watching YouTube videos of someone that has validated your idea is a great starting point as well. Mimicking them on some level can help you understand different phases that are ahead and how to deal with them.
“Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning stays young.” – Henry Ford
4. Work Effortlessly And Prioritize Your Time
You will have to work extremely hard with an emphasis on actual time value before pursuing your pilgrimage. We often hear about the results of hard work and it sounds cliche but when many other things are happening outside of your control, finding a way to manage your time can become difficult.
Most people will start off alone with zero help in terms of having a partner and putting in 100% effort. You will likely wear multiple hats as the visionary, programmer, marketer, content creator and so on. You may have to function with only 3 or 4 hours of sleep or even none at times while being respectful and cognitive of the time of others as well.
5. Persist Like There’s No Tomorrow While Planning For The Future
What’s in you? Nobody knows the answer to that question but you and the determination for reaching your destination as an entrepreneur. Whatever the answer is, you should be driven with an undaunted passion to pursue your expedition. Go after your dreams with a tenacity that you didn’t know was within your soul and keep pushing no matter what.
Be mindful that your strong pursuit can be done all while determining the proper destination of where you want to eventually end up. Never lose your focus admist numerous distractions that will happen. The emphasis comes from experience along with talking to other entrepreneurs who had similar occurrences at multiple stages of the process.
Put in the work early with the mindset of expecting obstacles and pushing forward pass them. It will be tedious and preparing for a grind will make your entrepreneurial journey more understandable through tough times. You will be a lot wiser and better after all of the hard work whether it’s considered a failure or success.
Which one of the above 5 ways to prepare for your entrepreneurial journey resonated most with you and why? Share your thoughts below!
7 Things You Need to Do to Grow as an Entrepreneur
Startups are on the rise and youngsters are keen to launch their own business instead of a nine-to-five job. As simple as it sounds, opening a business needs patience and the right planning. Moreover, the profits gained can help you meet your financial obligations and realize other dreams.
Young entrepreneurs must learn the skills of investing money within the right channels as most startups fail because of a shortage of funds. Every entrepreneur has a chance to innovate, create new jobs and have an influence on society. It’s our responsibility to continually grow and push forward, usually beyond our comfort zones.
Here are the seven must-learn tips to grow as an entrepreneur:
1. Read Books and Articles
For many new entrepreneurs, your first mentors are usually found in the pages of books and blogs. Much often learned from the writings of others, and fortunately these days, people are sharing their experiences. A survey found that 88% of the world’s wealthiest people read for a minimum of 30 minutes daily. By comparison, only 2% of the overall population reads this much daily.
Read chapters in books, and articles to get new ideas and skills. Some ideas might not be directly relevant to what you’re doing these days however, it could come helpful a year or so down the road.
My advice is to search out those leaders and writers who resonate with you. You’ll understand when you’ve hit on something when you find yourself returning to a book for answers and inspiration time and time again.
“Books give a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination, and life to everything.” – Plato
2. Perform SWOT Analysis
Business students and old-school marketers should be very aware of mapping out SWOT Analysis charts (Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, Threats). If you’ve never made a SWOT chart, write out the strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats in four quadrants on a piece of paper.
In reality, you’ll jot down a couple of notes on the back of a cocktail napkin, however despite the simplicity, if done right, a SWOT will shed light on crucial areas that require improvement. Most significantly, don’t shy away from the truth. Dissecting your weaknesses isn’t fun however, no good comes from avoiding the fact.
3. Be Willing to Take Risks
It’s impossible to become an entrepreneur if you don’t take risks. Doesn’t matter how many times you’ve fallen. See how many times you stand-up. Being an Entrepreneur isn’t that easy; it’s an up-and-down game like a business. Be willing to come up with new plans even when old strategies are working. It’s through such risks that your business will grow. You’ll learn and meet new partners or investors. Even so, the risks must be calculated. Doing the analysis and making consultations is vital in this case.
4. Open Your Eyes Wide
Many opportunities are arising in the business world every day. For instance, many companies are willing to come up with a mobile solution for a startup without charging immoderate prices. This info can only be discovered if you’re keen.
Before dismissing adverts from websites and mainstream media, conclude if they’re relevant to your business. Also, follow the events happening in the stock market and international business summits. You’ll find the opportunities which will take your business to a new level.
Becoming successful as an entrepreneur is possible if you learn, take risks, evolve, innovate, and stay motivated. You must be realistic regarding your abilities and watch the events that unfold in your world.
5. Lead the Way for Your Team
Young entrepreneurs need to encourage employees and provide help at every juncture. For any young entrepreneur who aspires to be a leader it’s necessary to be:
- Courage and Risk Taking
- A Team-player
- An effective listener
- An effective communicator
- Able to inspire confidence
An entrepreneur who has all the attributes of a leader leads the employees to productivity. It’s essential that the team respects a leader. The hunger and aspirations of the leader to strive for success inspire the employees to put in that extra effort to be successful.
“A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way.” – John C. Maxwell
6. Learn How to Keep Initial Success at Bay
Do not enjoy the shrubs of initial success for too long. Return to the drawing board and draw the future course of action. To move on to the next phase:
- Utilize local and online channels to make hype for the services
- Start expanding by hiring employees to enhance productivity
- Cater to a good segment of the audience by providing various services
- Re-invest the profitable revenue into new business efforts
Never let the initial success get to your head. The online platform is an ever-changing arena. Analyze what’s working and what new tactics can be utilized to strengthen the market base.
7. Find and Keep Business Partners
You will always go far if you have people to carry your hand during hardship in business. They’ll share ideas that have made them successful and provides you funds whenever necessary. Demonstrating that you are organized, capable, and serious is vital when nurturing such relationships. Keeping records, creating financial contributions to society, and attending forums are some of the choices worth trying.
Being an entrepreneur isn’t as easy as it looks. You’ll face many up-and-downs, risks, financial crisis, and many more. Be ready to face these problems if you want to be an entrepreneur. Entrepreneurship isn’t about making money, it’s about innovating new things and represent new concepts and ideas to the world.
Transitioning From Employee to Entrepreneur? Try Intrapreneurship First
Studies show that 15 million Americans are self-employed full-time and that an estimated 27 million Americans will transition from the traditional workforce to full-time entrepreneurship by 2020. Additionally, it is asserted that entrepreneurs are 125% more successful if they have previously been employed in the industry in which they presently do business. This is all great news on many levels.
Chances are, if you are reading this article, you are considering transitioning from employee to entrepreneur, or perhaps you have already made the shift. I get it. I am one of the millions who has made the switch – trading stability and comfort for passion and freedom. However, if you are a potential full-time entrepreneur, there are many things to consider before making the leap.
How will I support myself and my family in the initial stages of development? What do I do if I fail? How do I maintain the drive needed to make a business successful? How will my business harness the creativity and innovation required to thrive in the marketplace? These are all valid questions and should be considered deeply.
If only there were a training ground to test your management capabilities, gain knowledge, think innovatively and be solution-focused. But, wait, there is. Your current employment can offer these opportunities and more – through intrapreneurship.
By definition, an intrapreneur is an employee of a company who has adopted an entrepreneurial mindset. Intrapreneurs are highly motivated self-starters and innovative, solution-driven thought leaders, who work within an organization. Because of this definition, acting in an intrapreneurial capacity in your current place of employment makes a great deal of sense when considering the move to self-employment. You can use your current employment status as a testing ground for where you want to be.
Here are four reasons why intrapreneurship can work for you:
1. See a problem. Solve a problem
All businesses should be designed to fulfill a need. Just as your own business should be able to justify its existence in the marketplace, initiatives within an organization should do the same. Closely examine processes and products in your place of employment. Determine what could be executed more productively. Alternatively, design a new initiative to creatively meet and exceed customer expectations. Acting in this manner will prepare you for building the structure and mission of your own business.
2. Creatively capitalize on skills and talents gained outside your employer
In many instances, we separate business from personal, and there are many good reasons for this approach. However, there are notable skills and talents used in your personal life that are transferable to the workplace. For example, if you engage in team sports, use your team building skills and charisma to involve your colleagues in projects.
If you love to read fiction books, integrate the creativity of the stories to bend the thinking of traditional methods of operation. The possibilities are many. Business owners rely on all life experiences, directly or tangentially related, for the benefit of their enterprises.
3. Intrapreneurship is for all employment levels
If you think intrapreneurship is only for c-suite executives, think again. Intrapreneurship is for the mailroom to the boardroom. As noted in the definition, intrapreneurship is about being a self-starter. You do not need permission from anyone to be highly motivated. Just as all parts of our bodies have a function, so do all positions in an organization. Even if you feel your position has no purpose in your organization, make one. We all have to start somewhere in our entrepreneurial journeys, so start right now, where you are.
4. Experiencing failure is inevitable. Move forward anyway.
All of us will experience failure at some point and multiple times as well. Failure will happen regardless if you remain employed or set out on our own. Be bold enough to move forward with establishing your voice and your place anyway. Business and life are about forward movement. Decide now what next step you will take if you fail. There is always a path forward. Get used to the possibility of your ideas being rejected and your designs being flawed now, so when you are a full-time entrepreneur, you will know how to advance.
Whether you are at the infancy stages of developing your own business, currently self-employed or even wish to remain an employee, establishing yourself as an initiator and innovator can reap many benefits for you and your company. That is the beauty of it.
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