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5 Things Working While Going to School Will Teach You

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As college tuition fees increase, so does the number of working students. Most of us worked our way through college for financial reasons, and a lot of people would agree when I say working while studying entails numerous sacrifices and tons of stress. And when you’re unable to cope, anxiety and depression set in.

However, beyond these sufferings are valuable life lessons for personal growth essential for a better and brighter future. It’s sad that some people miss this aspect that instead of fixing their eyes on the finish line, they keep on staring at their miserable current state.

If you’re a working student, or a parent of one, a high school graduate, or perhaps a proud graduate kissing his working student days goodbye, I hope the following lessons could boost your morale, ignite the flickering flame of enthusiasm and develop admirable qualities that will catapult you to success.

1. It Promotes Maturity

Being employed is not at all doing household chores where you can just slack off when you don’t feel like it. Having someone pay you in exchange for your service urges you to develop a sense of responsibility and initiative.

Getting along with your co-workers is vital for a productive working day. Strife is inevitable in any workplace, so dealing with it in a civil manner is key to maintain harmony. Exposing yourself to various workplace environments and people gives you more opportunities for emotional and psychological growth. When you start establishing your career, you’ll be better at handling and dealing with people in any setting.

2. It Urges Professionalism

It’s an unwritten rule that once you’re employed, you already have a sense of professionalism. Punctuality is imperative – a matter of self-discipline that should be firmly embedded in your system.  Burn outs are to watch out for. With all the subjects to pass, papers to submit and obligations to comply with, it’s not impossible to get one.

However, being professional means sticking to your commitment despite the threats of laziness and extinguished enthusiasm. Eventually, you’ll get the hang of things with proper guidance and sheer will-power.

In addition, working at an early age teaches us to be level-headed when corrected or reprimanded. You won’t always be favored in the workplace, and a few times, you’ll commit grave mistakes. A professional takes such criticism constructively, seeing them as a part of his imperfections that can be worked on.

“Being a professional is doing the things you love to do, on the days you don’t feel like doing them.” – David Halberstam

3. It Aids in Setting Clearer Priorities

Once you get a lot of things on your plate, you have to take them on through wise time management and by setting clear priorities. Budgeting money is just as integral a part of this important aspect because you work for your needs in the first place. You need allowance and you have a costly tuition fee to think about. Once you’ve established clear goals and priorities, it’s easier to keep your focus.

I know it’s never easy as we get distracted and swayed. Again, it takes self-discipline to overcome. Every resource (esp. time, money and energy) is precious, so don’t ever waste them on your whims and vanities. Just hold on to this truth: there’s always time for everything and a season for every activity under the heavens.

4. It Instills A Greater Sense of Self-Love

Working and studying at the same time should force us to maintain the balance between our dreams and our health. Health is indispensable if you want to keep up with your tight daily schedule. Stress drains and urges you to eat unhealthy food.

Experts always say we replenish and get rid of toxins that could possibly make us sick or acquire serious health conditions. A strong immune system is our only armor. We can only function with functional bodies. What’s the use of sweet success when your body is crippled with health problems?

“I believe that the greatest gift you can give your family and the world is a healthy you.” – Joyce Meyer

5. It Endows A Greater Sense of Fulfillment

My college graduation day was the sweetest day of my life. I savored every moment. I treasured and cherished everything about it: my diploma, my regalia, the pictures, etc. Recalling my tumultuous journey only empowered me as a woman and as a person, ready to face whatever challenges that await me.

The fruits of my labor made all the hardships worth it. I’ve never felt more fulfilled in my entire life. The moment we were declared graduates of our respective courses, I could feel massive waves of renewed passion to chase my dreams.

While it is true that working while studying is a growing trend, it’s not something every college student should dread. Just think about it as on the job training, but you’re just hitting two birds with one stone. Think of the gains you’ll make with the experience and of course, the cash. Let it mold you into the great person you ought to become.

Did you work while going to school? How did it help you succeed? Leave your thoughts below!

Abigail A. Sabijon is a full-time blogger and editor or scoopfed.com. She's a Bachelor of Arts and Literature graduate and has taught at a prestigious local university. She also enjoys healthy discussions and the company of her beloved cat and husband. Connect with her on Facebook.

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How Learning the Skill of Hope Can Change Everything

Hope isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a state of being and a skill that has profound evidence of helping people achieve success in life

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Hope isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a state of being and a skill that has profound evidence of helping people achieve success in life.

Wishful thinking, on the other hand, is like having dreams in the sky without a ladder to climb, having a destination without a map, or trying to operate a jet-engine airplane without instructions. It sounds nice but is impossible to realize. You don’t have what you need to make it happen!

What Real Hope Is

Real hope is actionable, practical, and realistic. Better yet, it’s feasible and can be learned.

One popular approach is Hope Theory. This concept is used by colleges to study how hope impacts students’ academic performance. Researchers found that students with high levels of hope achieve better grades and are more likely to graduate compared to those with less hope.

Hope can be broken down into two components:

  1. Pathways – The “how to” of hope. This is where people think of and establish plans for achieving their goals.
  2. Agency – The “I can” of hope. This is the belief that the person can accomplish their goals.

Does Hope Really Work?

According to Webster’s Dictionary, hope as a noun is defined as: “desire accompanied by expectation of or belief in fulfillment.”

As humans, we are wired to crave fulfillment. We have the ability to envision it and, through hope, make it a reality.

My Experience with Hope

For 13 years, I was a hopeless human. During my time working at a luxury hotel as a front desk agent earning $11.42 per hour, I felt the sting of hopelessness the most.

The regret of feeling my time was being stolen from me lingered every time I clocked in. Eventually, I decided to do something about it.

I gave myself permission to hope for something better. I began establishing pathways to success and regained agency by learning from self-help books and seeking mentorship.

Because I took action toward something I desired, I now feel more hope and joy than I ever felt hopelessness. Hope changed me.

Hope Actually Improves Your Life

Wishful thinking doesn’t work, and false hope is equally ineffective. Real hope, however, is directly tied to success in all areas of life.

Studies show that hopeful people tend to:

  • Demonstrate better problem-solving skills
  • Cultivate healthier relationships
  • Maintain stronger motivation to achieve goals
  • Exhibit better work ethic
  • Have a positive outlook on life

These benefits can impact work life, family life, habit-building, mental health, physical health, and spiritual practice. Imagine how much better your life could be by applying real hope to all these areas.

How to Develop the Skill to Hope

As acclaimed French writer Jean Giono wrote in The Man Who Planted Trees:
“There are also times in life when a person has to rush off in pursuit of hopefulness.”

If you are at one of those times, here are ways to develop the skill to hope:

1. Dream Again

To cultivate hope, you need to believe in its possibility. Start by:

  • Reflecting on what you’re passionate about, your values, and what you want to achieve.
  • Writing your dreams down, sharing them with someone encouraging, or saying them out loud.
  • Creating a vision board to make your dreams feel more tangible.

Dreams are the foundation of hope—they give you something meaningful to aspire toward.

2. Create an Environment of Hope

  • Set Goals: Write down your goals and create a plan to achieve them.
  • Visualize Success: Use inspirational quotes, photos, or tools like dumbbells or canvases to remind yourself of your goals.
  • Build a Resource Library: Collect books, eBooks, or audiobooks about hope and success to inspire you.

An environment that fosters hope will keep you motivated, resilient, and focused.

3. Face the Challenges

Don’t avoid challenges—overcoming them builds confidence. Participating in challenging activities, like strategic games, can enhance your problem-solving skills and reinforce hope.

4. Commit to Wisdom

Seek wisdom from those who have achieved what you aspire to. Whether through books, blogs, or social media platforms, learn from their journeys. Wisdom provides the foundation for real, actionable hope.

5. Take Note of Small Wins

Reflecting on past victories can fuel your hope for the future. Ask yourself:

  • What challenges have I already overcome?
  • How did I feel when I succeeded?

By remembering those feelings of happiness, relief, or satisfaction, your brain will naturally adopt a more hopeful mindset.

Conclusion

Hope is more than wishful thinking—it’s a powerful skill that can transform your life. By dreaming again, creating a hopeful environment, facing challenges, seeking wisdom, and celebrating small wins, you can develop the real hope necessary for success in all aspects of life.

Let hope guide you toward a brighter, more fulfilling future.

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Stop hoarding and start sharing your knowledge and wealth for the benefit of humankind

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The key to finding “enough” is recognizing that the root of the problem is a question of self-esteem and deservedness

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