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7 Tips To Overcome Your Negative Emotions

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7 Tips To Overcome Your Negative Emotions

Emotions are what express the present status of any human being. It is the positive thinking that can drive you to success.

On contrary, negativity can make you the loser of your life. In today’s life it’s very easy to fall prey to negative thinking. Negative emotions are just like a movie which can only give you pain and loneliness many times throughout your life.

Negative emotions consume your inner energy and peace and steal your present from your life. The most menacing problem of these emotions are that once you start thinking about them, they start to accumulate more and more and become stronger which will make it harder to change. If you know a few tricks, you can easily overpower your adverse emotions and achieve whatever you want from your life.

So, let’s check out 7 great tips to overcome your negative emotions:

 

1. Face the mirror

It is a common phenomenon that humans can see the reality about himself/herself only by standing in front of the mirror. This case stands true in case of negative thinking too. Whenever you feel yourself to be the slave of your emotions that hurts you, stand in front of the mirror and dare to look into your eyes in the mirror.

You will see your dull face due to that negativity within your mind. And as you come to know that you are becoming dull, start energizing your mirror image. Boost him to expel that thinking. It has been seen that a person can perform a task only when he has the inner desire to do that task. Similar to that, when you see yourself within the mirror, your mind will stop bringing negative thoughts and in reverse to that, it will start boosting your soul to energize.

“Negative emotions like hatred, destroy our peace of mind.” – Matthieu Ricard

2. Recall your happy moments

Whether it is a happy occasion or a sad one, memories are made to delight you. There are many situations, when your negative emotions start hurting your inner peace. In that case, old and happy memories are the best remedy. Whenever you feel unhappy, start recalling your happiest moments. Within minutes, you will see a smile on your face. A new charm will replace the dullness.

 

3. Get surrounded by cheerful people

Loneliness is the home for cynical feelings. The best alternative for it is to change your environment. Whenever you feel like negative sentiments and you are alone, go out to some pragmatic area. You can call your friends and run a get together. Actually, in terms of science, whenever a task is allotted to the mind, it stops working on the existing one and starts thinking about the new task you put in your focus. Your mind will get busy on planning the meeting with your friends and all your destructive emotions will come to an end.

 

4. Start your hobby

When you find yourself uncomfortable because of negative emotions, start doing your hobby. Many people love to read books, many love to sing, others love to listen to music. All these hobbies are the best medicine to curb adverse emotions present within your body.

As soon as you notice negativity, start your hobby, like for example start reading a book you love to read. Your mind will automatically get diverted from recalling negative thoughts. Also, by reading your favorite book, your mind as well as your body will feel relaxed and positive emotions start to spark within you.

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5. Pursue meditation/yoga

It has been scientifically proven that meditation is the best medicine to each and every mind related problems. Whether you are suffering from low concentration or you are having a bunch of adverse sentiments within yourself, meditation has the best outcome. Start meditating by closing your eyes. Within darkness, try to concentrate on an imaginary source of light. Meditation is suggested to the people of every age group.

The main use of meditating is to bring freshness into your mind. With regular practice, you will be able to control your thoughts and as you will become the master of your mind, there will not be any negativity within your mind. So, from now on, add meditation or yoga within your daily routine. The best time to perform them is in early in the morning.

 

6. Read positive quotes

Your mind thinks pessimistic only because of defeat, but with every defeat, you got an experience of how you cannot win your battle. What if you command your mind to only have positive emotions? It will act accordingly. If you need motivation, you need positive feelings. To get positive feelings, you need some positive source to read. Reading motivational quotes is a good option. The internet is filled with populous motivational, inspirational quotations. Start reading those quotes that enforce your mind to developing efficacious feelings daily.

“The sign of intelligent people is their ability to control their emotions by the application of reason.” – Marya Mannes

7. Start laughing

We all know that laughter is the best medicine. Whenever pessimistic emotions overpower your mind, leave everything aside and start laughing loudly. It may sound silly, but this is also known as laughing therapy to bring life back to hopeless people. To convert your negative emotions into positive ones, come to a place of peace and start laughing loudly. Laugh artificially once, twice, or three times. Later you will automatically start laughing naturally. To implement this, you must not bother about what others will say after seeing me laugh like this.

 

With these above mentioned golden tips, you can overpower your negative emotions and mold them into positive emotions.

So, Are you ready to be successful with positive emotions?

I am Ravinder Singh Tanwar, a fauji by heart. Since childhood I have been in the army environment, which supplement my life with discipline and ready to take challenges like character. I have done B.Tech from IT branch and currently perusing job in Private sector. I love to write blogs and articles. You can checkout my FB page with username "cadetrst".

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5 Comments

5 Comments

  1. Gloria

    Aug 1, 2018 at 12:30 pm

    Very well written and explained! Good work. Thanks for the post Ravinder!

  2. Imad LB

    Oct 14, 2015 at 5:54 pm

    Thank you for this beautiful post. Emotions do have the power to elevate or destroy us, we have to treat them wisely.

  3. mahesh patil

    Sep 9, 2015 at 7:57 am

    Hi brother your suggestion is excellent I learn most of things

  4. Esther

    Jul 6, 2015 at 1:02 pm

    Hi Ravinder,

    Thank you for these wonderful tips.

    Laughter is indeed a fantastic antidote to negative feelings. It releases the charge created by negative feelings almost instantaneously.

    The motivational videos on this site https://addicted2success.com/category/videos/ do also a fantastic job to transform low feelings. To watch them would qualify as tip 8 for your list. 🙂

    Circumstances and people around us only trigger the low feelings if they were already present in us. The most powerful way to deal with negative emotions is to surrender them. Eventually they run out and we can not be triggered any more. There is a phenomenal book by Dr Hawkins M.D. Ph.D. called Letting Go, The Pathway to Surrender which describes this process and underpins with scientific research.

    Tip 7 really inspired me, I will try the laughter therapy!

    Cheers,

    Esther

  5. Lori English

    Jun 23, 2015 at 3:00 pm

    Ranvinder,
    This is a great article about overcoming negative emotions. In the part where you say being around cheerful people is so important. If You surround yourself with others that are negative you will begin to think the way they do.
    Definitely agree with Meditation and the benefits because you are able to sit quietly and reflect daily which can your focus and creativity, thus decrease anxiety and depression. I enjoyed the article!
    Lori English, MSW

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