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6 Stress Management Pillars to Bust Your Stress and Boost Your Performance

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One of the biggest threats to productivity is stress. It saps your creativity, tires you out, and just generally sours your mood. Along with the personal problems that are involved with stress, there is a bevy of professional ones as well.

Excessive stress can lead to absences in the workplace, poor performance on the job, and even a dismissal. In fact, a survey of some of the largest employers concluded that stress is the number one reason that people quit their jobs.

Main Source of Stress in Today’s Modern World

There is no denying that it’s become increasingly common for employers to require their staff to stay later while not being compensated for their time. For instance, in Australia, there has been reported that three in five workers work more hours than they are actually paid for. This is what you might think of as a compounded stress, too, when you consider the fact that the person is not being paid for their time and will miss out on precious time with their family.

With all of this being said, there are ways of dealing with stress that you can employ in your daily life.

Here are 6 things you can do to bust your stress and boost your performance:

1. Focus on your attitude

When you’re looking at how to deal with stress and boost your performance, it’s quite common that you might look to things like changing your environment. While this is definitely important for figuring out how to deal with stress, it’s perhaps even more important that you maintain the proper attitude.

We can’t always affect what happens in our lives, but we most certainly have a say in how we choose to think about it. Reacting in a negative way to stress tends to make it worse and can lead to a domino effect where the stress only gets worse and worse.

“The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one.” – Elbert Hubbard

2. Become aware of the physical signs of stress

One of the ways that you can start to get a handle on your stress levels is to figure out what triggers your stress. You can make a list of these things and then assess how they physically make you feel.

Our body’s fight or flight response tends to activate in times of great stress, and that can result in symptoms like shortness of breath, a pounding heartbeat, panic symptoms, and even being irritable or angry.

Unfortunately, it’s common that employees will attribute some of these symptoms to illnesses in their body. While there are illnesses that manifest some of these symptoms, it’s just as common for anxiety and fear to bring them on.

3. Know what works for you

Try to think about what it is in your life that makes you happy and quickly decreases your stress level. Of course, this is going to be different for everyone, but it could include things like going for a good run, reading a good book, or maybe even meditating. Whatever it is, it’s a good idea to prioritize this thing and make it a daily part of your life.

4. Open up

The more stressed we are, the harder it tends to be for us to open up to others. Being able to reach out and get the help you need from someone you trust is crucial, though. Think of your stress as a boiler with a valve. It’s crucial to open that valve every now and then so the whole thing doesn’t blow.

5. Take responsibility

While blame is toxic and just tends to get you spinning your tires in place, taking responsibility for your actions and then moving on is the best and only way to ensure that you achieve positive results in the future.

There’s a very good chance that someone else contributed to whatever situation you find yourself in, but it’s important to acknowledge your role in whatever it is that happened. This is an important method of stress reduction because it allows you to put aside past results and work towards more positive future ones.

6. Exercise is important

It’s been well-documented just how important exercise is for our physical health, but it’s just as necessary towards our mental health as well. It’s best to make a regular routine of exercise as opposed to doing it every once in awhile. Habits and routines are important when it comes to decreasing your stress.

“Much of the stress that people feel doesn’t come from having too much to do. It comes from not finishing what they’ve started.”
– David Allen

While this list isn’t exhaustive, it should definitely get you well on your way toward finding what works best for you. Considering just how insidious and dangerous stress can be when it comes to the workplace, it’s that much more important that employees protect themselves against its negative effects.

Keeping busy is very important in this ever-changing, interconnected world, but it’s also just as important for people to get themselves as healthy as they can possibly be.

What has helped you manage your stress? Please leave your thoughts below!

Yazi Jepson is an inspired writer who researches and writes content for several companies, including Carter Capner Law, a progressive law firm specialized in work-related stress compensation. She loves to read, write, and learn over a cup of coffee. Yazi believes ‘learning and sharing’ has no end to it and this is what inspires her to continue learning something new and contributing good content.

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Here’s Why Productivity Hacks Don’t Work

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How many times have you eagerly tried out a new productivity hack or tool and not gotten the result you expected? There is wealth of information available to us giving us everything we need to know to increase our productivity, but most people live their life in chaos.  Why do still see so many people struggling to manage their time and simply not able to get the results they desire?  What is missing? (more…)

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4 Lies You Keep Telling Yourself When You’re Afraid to Do Something

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When’s the last time you let fear get the better of you? Whether we want to admit it or not, fear keeps us from doing a lot of the things we know we really should do to achieve our goals. Fear is especially detrimental to entrepreneurs (read ‘wantrepreneurs’) that want to launch their first big project. (more…)

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Tips, Tools, and Techniques to Create Your Curiosity

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Curiosity is a great characteristic that people rarely sustain in their lifetimes. Some people struggle to sustain curiosity because of their internal and external challenges. They cannot encourage curiosity to come to the fore as they condition their mindsets with their learning, experience, and environment. However, there are very few individuals who sustain their curiosity levels throughout their lives to excel as extraordinary achievers.  (more…)

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5 Life Tips You Didn’t Know You Needed to Hear

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Life is a battleground, we need to keep fighting until our appointed time on earth comes. So, in this post, you will see the best of the best life tips you have never heard before. These tips are life-changing and can change you immediately. Let’s go!

1. Be independent 

Hundreds of millions of people make this mistake. We depend on people like us. “he will get it done for me, she will get it done for me”. You rely heavily on people and guess what, you are making a big mistake. 

There are a lot of people that have helped others and perhaps time changes for them, they become poor and rely on the people they have helped, guess what comes out at the end of this reliance? Disappointment, promises backed by failures, etc. 

Who are you depending on? Who is that person you can’t do without when getting things in your life done? If there is anyone, you are making a big mistake. And starting today, all you have to do is add a prefix – what if!

What if my friend stops helping me, what if I get disappointed by people I trust with my life, what if they neglect me and turn me down”.

A man or woman that depends on people like him is equal to a feeble pillar holding the four corners of a house. What happens when the feeble pillar falls? The man’s house falls down super-flat. Your trust should only be in Jesus. Man can fail us at any time but God is always faithful till his Kingdom comes. 

2. Love your neighbor as yourself 

The gravity of this word is enough to shatter the whole earth into pieces. 

Only if the whole world just kept this simple commandment Christ Jesus gave then, there will be no murders, poverty, greediness, anger, envy, betrayal, disappointment, etc. 

Why are there such things in the world? Because we hate ourselves. As long as you are fine all is well. You care about yourself only, selfish, you have and yet you cannot give. 

Those are the characteristics of over 90% of the 7.6 billion humans on earth. Why can’t you do to others what you would have them do to you? Why can’t you help that suffering neighbor who needs food? Then, a lot of people will say 

“Go away from here beggar, what did you do with your youth, I can’t give you a dime, beggar”. Why are we so cruel? This is the best tip you must dear to your heart. 

No matter what you have, no matter how little or in whatever way you can help. Help people, show them love, love them as you love yourself. Don’t forget this, today’s beggar, uneducated, debtor, poor person, etc can later become the greatest person in the world tomorrow. 

“Don’t settle for what life gives you; make life better and build something.” — Ashton Kutcher

3. Have a growth mindset

A growth mindset is what makes one successful and go far in life. However, a fixed and stagnated mindset throws one into jeopardy of life.

A lot of people have a fixed mindset, what they believe is what they believe, nothing you say on earth can change their mindset, they are the most educated in the world so they don’t need to learn any further. Did you have a fixed or growth mindset?

A growth mindset leads to success, achievements, happiness, learning more, and becoming better. On the other hand, a fixed mindset leads to complacency, pride, lack of achievement, ignorance, the stagnancy of the mind, etc. 

Let’s see an example of someone with a fixed mindset:

Cait tells Alice: Alice stop being so proud it’s annoying. 

And Alice responds:

“How dare you say I am proud, I am not. I am the most humble woman on earth”. In the example, Alice with a fixed mindset has a fixed mindset. However, what she does not know is that she is in the darkness of her ignorance. She is ignorant of the fact that she is a proud person thus, she can’t see it. 

People with a fixed mindset are ignorant. You must never have a fixed mindset. Always be willing to learn and to grow with humility. Pride can take you nowhere. 

4. Forgive everyone and give as many second chances as you can  

A lot of people have done all they could to be happy and have peace. But, they find out that happiness is not just there and that peace of mind is absent. 

Why is that? It is because you have a lot of grudge against people that have offended you. Yes, we know, it pained you to your heart, and what next? Keep malice? But, do you know what that unforgiveness does to you?

I call it the seed of unforgiveness because it plants a seed in your heart and this seed further grows to become hatred, depression, lack of freedom, zero peace, etc. 

If in only one person’s heart are all these things, then a person like that can never know peace and happiness. For example, if you were to go to a party with your friends and you hear that perhaps the other friend that you keep malice with is coming to the same party. 

Naturally, the only thing you would think of is not going to the party anymore because you want to avoid the person at all costs. And what does that add to you? It doesn’t add instead, it subtracts from your life because you could have gone to the party, had fun, and even have new friends or even new opportunities.

If not for anything will you forgive people, forgive them for the sake of God, for the sake of Christ Jesus. Because if you cannot forget the trespass of people, don’t expect God to forgive you. Forgive everyone, give them as many second chances as possible. 

Mind you, they can still mess up and make terrible mistakes all you have to do is keep forgiving them. This may not be so easy to the flesh. However, it is only The Spirit of God that can make you forgive the trespass of people. Without The Holy Spirit, it is impossible to do so. 

5. Love God

Do you love God? Are you a child of God? Do you believe in Christ Jesus? Even if the rest of the tips on these lists do not resonate with you, I want you to hold this very important to your heart which is to Love God with all your heart, soul, and strength.

And you can do that only by being a child of God. This life is too short. It is like a vapor, it is nothing. Life is more like an empty barrel that makes noise. You will grow old, your strength will leave you and you will die but, what happens after that? Where are you going to spend the rest of your eternity? 

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