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10 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Quitting Your Job

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Admit it? You’ve wondered if you should take the plunge.

You detest working for an unappreciative company every day, you’re un-challenged, and you have no chance of getting promoted, no matter how much you bust your butt.

Maybe it’s time to face the music?

And accept the fact that you’re seriously unhappy in your job, and nothing will change that.

So you can’t help wondering?

Why not do what many others have done before you? Pursue your dream, follow your passion, become an entrepreneur, and be happy?

If the above describes you, then, yes, you should seriously consider that option.

The following 10 questions will help you to get started

 

1. Do I really want to work for myself?

Is this business or entrepreneurship in general really something you dream about?

Or are you just trying to escape something you don’t like, such as your current boss, your daily commute, or your industry?

If you’re serious about entrepreneurship and following your passion, that’s great. But if you’re just upset with your boss, that is not a good enough reason to quit your job and seek entrepreneurship.

 

2. Am I willing to lose my significant other and alienate my friends and family?

If your partner, friends, and family are not fully behind your pursuit of entrepreneurship, it will strain these relationships, maybe even end them all together.

If you aren’t willing to go through these changes in your relationships, quitting your job to pursue your dreams might not be for you. If you are, you may find that the new relationships you develop are what you had been yearning for all along.

 

3. Will I be able to support myself for a year as a Start Up?

The least risky way into entrepreneurship is what Derek Sivers (Founder of CD Baby) calls The Tarzan Technique.

Stay gainfully employed, start your own business as a side hustle, and quit your current job when you can monetize your business.

Like Tarzan swings through the jungle, don’t let go of the old support until you have a firm grip on the new one, and then keep swinging.

 

4. Am I willing to work 80 hours a week?

Like Lori Greiner said,

“Entrepreneurs are willing to work 80 hours a week to avoid working 40 hours a week.”

Starting your own business means you have to do whatever it takes, and that is not always fun.

You will face long working hours and sleepless nights, but all that you sacrifice now is only to have more of it in the future.

If this is too much of a detriment for you, getting into entrepreneurship might not be for you, so keep your job.

 

5. Can I live with failure?

Failure is part of the journey to success; just ask any wildly successful person. They have all failed more than once? Nothing to be afraid of.

You might fail, but it’s a chance to learn and just another stepping-stone to your success.

The only real failure is doing nothing simply because you’re too afraid to make a mistake.

After all, what is the worst that can happen? That you may end up exactly where you are right now.
If you cannot live with failure, entrepreneurship is not for you. If you think you can, great.

 

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6. Can job security totally ruin my life?

Many people see staying gainfully employed as a safer choice.

But it’s probably fair to say that if you spend most of your waking hours living in misery in exchange for job security, doing so would ruin your life.

If questionable job security means more to you than pursuing your dream, starting your own business is most likely not a good idea.

 

7. How disciplined am I?

If you want to be your own boss, you must be able to motivate yourself.

This can be difficult, especially at the beginning when customer demands aren’t yet forcing you to be productive.

If you know you lack discipline, quitting your job to pursue your dreams might not be right for you.

 

8. Does my passion fulfill a market need?

Breaking free, chasing your dreams, and following your passion can be a fantastic thing to do, but if your passion has to pay your bills, you need to look at it as a business too? Or you will be broke.

Remember, clients spend money on services that fulfill their own desires. You can only be happy and financially successful by following your passion, one that fulfills a need the market has.

If there is no market for what you’re passionate about, you should not quit your job as it will lead to financial disaster.

 

George Carlin Quote Get Fired from Your Job
 

9. What do I suck at?

There must be some stuff you?re not so good at. So what is it?
Before you jump into entrepreneurship, you must have the skills to make your business a success.

Close your skill gap, and brush up on social media marketing and the latest trends.

Staying current is critical to your success. If you are completely unaware of what you suck at, you are not ready to start a business.

In a twisted way, knowing what is holding you back is your best recipe for success, in almost everything.

 

10. Are you willing to put your ego aside for your business?

As a young entrepreneur, you must be able to understand and listen to your customers, process feedback, and improve what’s needed, even if it’s very personal.

And despite all the tippy-toe dances, you still have to be the boss.

Make sure your EGO doesn’t get in the way.

It will probably tell you that you know it all (remember #9), kill your objectivity, and give you tunnel vision.

If you can’t control your EGO, you’re not ready for entrepreneurship yet.

 

What’s the Point?

Do you think you’re ready to quit your job to pursue your dreams, follow your passion, and become a successful entrepreneur?

I’d love to tell you that taking the plunge into entrepreneurship is a breeze.

I’d love to tell you that it’s going to be easy.

I’d love to tell you that you can do it between lunch and dinner.

But you already know that I won’t do that, right?

You have heard dishonest, “How To” advice many times before, but we won’t lie to each other, will we?

Getting out there and creating a future is a big thing, and it’s hard work. But if you answered “yes” to the questions above, it’ll all be worth it in the end.

If you’re ready to take the plunge, don’t procrastinate any longer.

Start now; a life you love awaits you. So hurry up; what are you waiting for?

Wilfried Lehmkuhler is passionate about helping people achieve their dreams; create financial Freedom and a Life they love by applying proven success strategies. Wilfried is a blogger, speaker, consultant, and accomplished author who has worked with professional athletes and businesses in Europe and North America. You can find him at FinancialFreedomAndALifeYouLove.com or @WLehmkuhler

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  1. Andra

    Nov 22, 2016 at 6:09 am

    I quit my job this time last year to start my own business as Mindset Coach & Kinesiologist and as much as I’ve loved every moment, it’s also been tough to know that everything is on my shoulders and there is really no such thing as security! But with all the ups and downs I would never have it any other way. Being an entrepreneur is the best job ever 🙂

  2. Stephen Reed

    Jan 28, 2015 at 2:48 pm

    Hi

    A good article, that covers a lot of ground. It’s an area close to my heart, as I am a person who has worked for others, worked for myself, and now write, coach, and a wealth of other interesting side hustles.

    In reality, I think the answer to so much of this stuff is genuinely simple. Not easy to do, change, come to terms with….but it IS simple.

    Are you happy, fulfilled, excited, passionate about your life, your work, your relationships, your finances etc?

    People often pour scorn on the ‘follow your passion’ concept, but in reality, what else is there? A life of ‘quiet desperation’ as Henry David Thoreau so aptly put it? This is the life that msot of the world lead, but does that make it right? I think not. Screw it, if someone thinks my only purpose on this planet is to procreate and become a part of the econmy, then I want out. The procreating part can be fun of course, but we are surely on this earth to make a difference to our own lives, and the lives of others, without just being a way of buoying up the GDP figures…surely?

    I know that most people won’t take action, human nature seems to reject the idea of perceived risk and take the middle of the road route, the ‘route to mediocrity’. A road WELL travelled!!

    I agree that if one is unhappy, not enjoying work, not enjoying the passion, freedom and choice you deserve, then it is your DUTY to get the hell out. Do whatever it takes. Work late into the night, get up earlier, stash money away to provide a safety net, get a new relationship, one in which your aspirations and hopes for the future are appreciated and supported. It’s some scary stuff, but the idea of being on my death bed with a tear of regret running down my face is so terrifying it just does not bear thinking about.

    Enjoy this article, get a plan, start small, write books, put them on Amazon Kindle, start to build a business, set a date to ditch the day job, Just do sometthing!

    -S

    • Wilfried Lehmkuhler

      Jan 28, 2015 at 7:38 pm

      Hi Stephen,
      Thank you so much for your comment and I totally agree with you.
      Like you said “most of this stuff is genuinely simple”. Take a look at your life…do you like what you see…i.e. happiness, passionate about your life, work, relationships, finances, etc? If not, change it; at least try. I have a very cool post coming up on this subject very soon…don’t miss it. Your statement about “making a difference in our own lives and the lives of others” is very close to my own heart, and nothing could be more fulfilling. Let’s all agree…”Just do something!”
      Wilfried

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If You Want to Avoid Failure Once and for All, Ask Yourself These 4 Questions

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You just invested in yourself and in your business. You are taking massive action but the results are just not clicking yet. While everyone is making 10X, 20X, and even 100X ROI on their initial investment, you have made $0 return. Failure is starting to overcast your bright shining positive attitude and you are feeling the pain and shame of it. (more…)

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3 Simple Hacks That Can Recharge Your Willpower and Help You Perform Better at Work

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How many times did you wake up feeling like you could conquer the world? You set ambitious goals for the day, you put on your best attire and walked out the door with a big smile on your face but eventually, life took over. Traffic, emails, work, family, and everything else you have around slowly but steadily started to drain your energy and made you feel exhausted.

You run out of battery, and the only solution that seemed viable was to rely on more caffeine. When that stopped working, all the temptations around you started to look much more appealing, and that sense of drive and commitment you had before slowly faded away. This is you running out of willpower.

Willpower: what is it? Why is it limited?

The American Psychology Association describes willpower as “the ability to resist short-term temptations in order to meet long-term goals.” In the book “The Willpower Instinct”, Dr. Kelly McGonigal, explains how every person’s willpower is limited, and slowly depletes throughout the day. The more “willpower challenges” you face, the quicker your reserve drains. Dr. McGonigal divided the different types of willpower challenges you might encounter in three categories:

  • I will: We face this type of challenge whenever we should do something, but we simply don’t feel like getting it done right now.
  • I won’t: We face this challenge when we try to resist temptation, or we try to keep cool in stressful situations.
  • I want: This is a particular type of challenge where we keep track of our long term goals, dreams, and desires. In this instance, we feel like we should take action right now to come one step closer to the goal. 

It’s easy to recognize it when you face a willpower challenge because you literally “feel it in your body.” Imagine being really hungry and walking in front of a bakery. The sight and the smell of pastries quickly triggers an “I won’t” type of challenge, and it takes a severe amount of effort and energy to walk away.

Every time you manage to win one of those challenges, a little bit of your willpower reserve gets used. The more challenges you face daily, the harder it will be to stay true to your goals.

Can you train or recharge your willpower?

A growing body of research suggests that willpower should be considered a muscle. To strengthen it, you should exercise it regularly, but you should not overwork it. Therefore, we shouldn’t try to “be good” at all times. Instead, we should learn how to relax and recharge our willpower.

The general advice on how to improve willpower involves sleep, proper nutrition, and regular exercise. This broad and general recommendation is often not downright applicable by most, because it consists of changing various daily habits. Luckily, three very effective hacks have been discovered, that have an immediate effect on our willpower and take just a few minutes to apply.

Here are the 3 ways to refill your willpower reserves:

1. Focused breathing

Breathing, when done correctly, can stimulate the release of calming hormones while reducing the release of stress hormones like cortisol and catecholamines. To make this effective, you should deeply and slowly inhale through the nose for at least five seconds. Fill your belly with air first, then your chest, and when there’s no more space for air, still try to do tiny inhalations through the nose.

You should feel a pulling sensation around your neck and trapezius muscles. Once your lungs are full, try to hold the breath for five seconds, then slowly exhale through the mouth for at least five seconds. If you repeat this process ten to twenty times, you should feel dramatically more relaxed. Use this method several times a day, especially when you’re experiencing high levels of stress or anxiety.

2. Reward yourself when you accomplish a micro goal

According to a recent study, frequent instant rewards can boost motivation, and therefore, willpower. Creating your own reward system can help you to accomplish your to-do list, and also resist temptations. Since every individual has different tastes, you should come up with creative ideas about the small and frequent rewards you will give yourself upon winning any willpower challenge.

You can see this hack in practice in Apps like the popular Duolinguo, where after completing each lesson you get presented with a chance to open a treasure chest. This rewarding system seems to keep the users much more likely to keep learning new lessons.

3. Taking cold showers

Your body has an autonomic response to cold water. Getting into a cold shower is a difficult (but minor) willpower challenge on its own. As I previously mentioned, winning a willpower challenge strengthens your willpower muscle. Having a morning cold shower, on top of having multiple health benefits, will set you up for a positive winning streak of further challenges.

High performance is the sum of many small habits. Successful people don’t have an unlimited reserve of willpower, but they do have a set of daily rituals that made them succeed. These three hacks are some of the most effective techniques to develop willpower, but some of them may not fit every individual. You should try to find the perfect mix of daily practices that best fits your lifestyle and likes, so that you can strengthen your willpower muscle and perform better at work.

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3 Inspiring Lessons We Can Learn From Jim Carrey About the Law of Attraction

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You’ve more than likely heard of Jim Carrey before. Over the years, he has starred in many popular films including The Truman Show, The Mask, and Bruce Almighty (just to name a few.)

But his personality goes a lot deeper than just his comedic persona and movie star charisma. In fact, Jim Carrey is probably one of the most philosophical individuals on the planet

Although he isn’t in the spotlight as much anymore, throughout the years, he has credited his success and fortunes by applying the Law of attraction into his life. What’s even more inspiring is that Jim Carrey, like you and I, came from humble beginnings. No silver spoon or easy ticket. In fact, his family was very poor throughout his childhood. So what made him so successful in attracting such an extravagant and self-fulfilling life?

Here are 3 lessons you can learn from Jim Carrey when it comes to manifesting your dreams into a reality:

1. You Have To Take Action

You can’t just visualize then go eat a sandwich”, Jim Carrey says. It goes without saying that the law of attraction does require action. You cannot simply rely on visualizing and expect to see results, especially when it comes to manifesting desires that other people would like to achieve also. E.g. Careers, scholarships, competitions, anything that involves another individual.

Visualization and positive thinking are crucial when it comes to using the law of attraction, but you have to meet the universe halfway with the steps you take as well. We are physical beings that require physical steps to get physical results. The real key is to make daily plans/goals in order to get you closer towards achieving your desires. So after that sandwich, make sure start taking action toward your dreams!

This could be working on your hobbies or passion, applying for that dream job or studying to get better grades. As long as you are moving toward your goals then there’s no reason why it can’t happen. So get out there and kick some butt.

2. Double Down On What You Love

My father could have been a great comedian but he didn’t believe that that was possible for him, and so he made a conservative choice. Instead, he got a safe job as an accountant and when I was 12 years old he was let go from that safe job, and our family had to do whatever we could to survive. I learned many great lessons from my father. Not the least of which was that: You can fail at what you don’t want. So you might as well take a chance on doing what you love.”

If this story of Jim Carrey’s father doesn’t pull on your heartstrings and inspire you at the same time, nothing else will! This is such an undeniable life lesson that everyone needs to learn. A lesson to take risks, push comfort zones and go all-in on what you love doing. So if your dreams, hobbies or goals seem far fetched to the majority, then you are already beating the other 99%.

Be that 1% that’s willing to dream big and rise above the norm. Unfortunately, in today’s society, our ancestral instincts still rule our everyday life. Fear is one of them and controls the majority of our population. It’s scary to push comfort zones and try something new, the thought of failure is often paralyzing to many. But my question to you is, will you look back one day and regret the chances you didn’t take?

3. Keep Your Eye On The Prize

As far as I can tell, it’s just about letting the universe know what you want and working toward it, while letting go of how it comes to pass.” Holding onto every little detail when it comes to manifesting, can conjure up more harm than good. The reason is that the universe will deliver in ways you might not expect.

If you are too busy wondering when your desires will manifest, comparing yourself to others, or ignoring every sign that doesn’t look like your detailed plan you’ve written down, then you may be missing out on opportunities that are right in front of you! Your visualizations don’t have to be perfect, in fact, it’s better to just let go altogether and focus on the result itself rather than dwelling on every little detail. This doesn’t mean to simply forget about what you want but instead having the confidence it will happen in time. 

An example of this is when Jim Carrey wrote himself a check for 30 million dollars. The only detail he knew was that he would earn it through his acting career, and he did indeed achieve this goal! So make sure to tell the universe what you want, but try not to hold onto every little detail!

Jim Carrey is just another person like you and me, with his own personal ups and downs in his road to success. He is someone to look up to when applying the law of attraction in your life too. It doesn’t matter if your goals or desires are different because the core foundation will always stay the same. You can and will do this if you think, feel and act as if it will happen!

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Meditation for Beginners: How It Works and Where to Start

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Meditation was first developed in India many years ago (around 5000-3500 BCE). It took quite some time to become popular in the western world, but today, it is celebrated as a therapeutic tool to ease stress, anxiety, depression, and addictions. In the past years, it has also become recognized as helping to improve mental performance, and consequently became a multi-billion dollar business. If you’ve never tried it, you may be wondering how something so simple as sitting with your eyes closed could deliver such incredible benefits.

How meditation works

Meditation is about training in awareness and getting a healthy sense of perspective over one’s thoughts. Many think that meditating is about trying to achieve a zen state of mind, but that’s not the point. Observing one’s thoughts, and then letting go of them so that eventually you may start to better understand them, is the real goal of each meditation practice.

There are different techniques to go through this mental process. Some focus on the breath and bodily sensation, others make you visualize an object, and others help you to channel your thoughts towards acts of love and kindness.

A typical meditation session involves you sitting on a chair or cross-legged on the floor with your eyes closed. Once you assume a comfortable position and focus on your breath, you should start noticing your thoughts. At this point, according to what type of technique you’re using, you will try to let those thoughts go away by focusing on something else (this could be your breath or a mental image you created).

With time and practice, you may be able to reach a state of mind where very few thoughts (or none) are present. Despite the simplicity of this process, meditating for more than ten minutes is extremely tough for most. Many people that try meditation get discouraged by the fact that “they can’t stop thinking.” In fact, it has been proven that people spend most of their days being anything but mindful and peaceful.

In a 2010 study, Harvard researchers asked more than 2000 adults about their thoughts and actions at random moments throughout their day via an iPhone app. People’s minds wandered 47% of the time, and mind wandering often triggered unhappiness, the scientists reported.

They also observed that spending time observing our thoughts without getting stuck on them, may help to better understand oneself, and possibly being able to reduce the number of negative thoughts one experiences.

“The mind is definitely something that can be transformed, and meditation is a means to transform it.” – Dalai Lama

What science says about meditation

People have practiced meditation for thousands of years, but scientists have studied its effects for only a dozen. In the past few years, many studies have been published about the neurological benefits of meditation, proving it to improve brain function in many different ways.

Meditation’s benefits range from preserving the aging brain, to improving happiness by reducing the activity of the brain’s “me center” (monkey mind). A more recent study has even proven that meditation is as powerful as antidepressants in treating depression, anxiety, and pain. Many more studies are being conducted every day on meditation, and we can expect to gain a lot more insight in the near future.

Can anyone meditate?

Millions of people are practicing mindfulness meditation every day with great results, but there are also as many people that have tried meditating and didn’t like it or didn’t manage to be consistent with their practice. The most important part of developing a meditation practice is consistency. You don’t have to meditate every single day, but the benefits are tied to regular, consistent practice.

Some studies claim that some benefits of meditation such as improved mood, decreased stress and decreased blood pressure, can be felt after a single session. Some other benefits like increased focus and decreased anxiety may be experienced after a few weeks and others take longer to develop.

Some people claim that as little as five minutes of meditation per day can make miracles, but research shows that a regular practice associated with benefits involves 10-20 minutes of meditation at least three times per week.

“Be happy in the moment, that’s enough. Each moment is all we need, not more.” – Mother Teresa

What’s the best way to begin a meditation practice?

A good place to start for aspiring mediators is Headspace. Andy Puddicombe, a former English student in sport science, dropped his studies to travel to Asia and trained as a Buddhist monk. He created Headspace with the goal of helping millions of people to live a more mindful life. Over 30 million people have downloaded and use headspace. This is due to his simplicity and its beautiful design and animations.

Do you meditate? If so, what’s your favorite aspect of it? Share your thoughts below!

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