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7 Reasons Why Feeling Lost Can Lead You To Life Success

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Are you feeling lost? Frazzled? Like you have no idea where your life is going or what you want to do with your life? Don’t despair. Feeling lost might be the best possible thing to experience right now.

When you are lost, you can explore your options, get to know yourself, and learn more about what your next steps should be. It’s a time to take stock of your surroundings and reassess the decisions you have made to get to this point.

Here are 7 reasons why feeling lost can be the best thing to happen to you:

1. Feeling lost makes you stop and assess the situation

If you’re going along in life and things seem to be going okay, you might stay in a job you don’t love. You might stay with a partner you aren’t in love with. You might avoid new experiences and challenges because they’re not worth the risk. When you feel lost, none of those things hold you back anymore.

You can really stop and assess every aspect of your life and rebuild it from the ground up. You can take notice of things that you previously brushed under the metaphorical carpet. You have to take ownership for who you are and how you got there. But the great news is that you can also take ownership of where you go from here forward.

“I put my heart and my soul into my work, and have lost my mind in the process.” – Vincent Van Gogh

2. Failure and loss are important for your growth

You’ve surely heard the expression “without the rain, there would be no rainbow.” In other words, you would never notice the good things if you didn’t also experience the bad things. Well guess what? Failure and feeling lost are in the “bad things” category.

But that doesn’t mean they are inherently bad. These experiences shape who you are. They lead you to discover parts of yourself you would have otherwise never known about. They are important things to go through. So, embrace them!

 

3. You have time to explore options you may have ignored

When you feel lost and alone, it’s a wonderful time to try new things. Have you always wanted to take an aerial yoga class? Have you ever wondered if you could make a living as a chef? Why not give it a shot?
Have you always had an itch to travel? Book a flight! This time when you’re spinning and trying to find your center is the perfect time to have fun and see if you find anything that sparks new joy in your life.

 

4. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain

When you feel like you’re sitting at the bottom of your life pit, it’s time to grab a rope and climb out. This is what feeling lost is like. If you feel that your life is spinning out of control or that you’re not heading in the right direction, you have nothing to lose by changing your path. And you just might find the path to your success!

 

5. You can get to know yourself and what you really want

This is a great time in your life to get to know yourself. You can do this through meditation, prayer, journaling, hiking, counseling, or just spending some time with yourself. Some people like to dine alone or go to the movies solo. This time you spend getting to know yourself might lead you to discover new goals or things you’d like to pursue.

 

6. You can volunteer your time and energy

When you feel lost, you might want to come home at the end of the day and watch TV. But a better alternative is to use your free time to help others. When you volunteer, you don’t just improve the lives of others, but you also make a lasting change in your own life.

You learn the value of your time and your energy. Volunteering is also a great way to network and meet people who could lead you down a new path. If you have a particular interest that you volunteer for, it might lead to a career with that organization.

 

7. You can embrace the freedom

When you don’t know which direction to move, sometimes it’s best to stop worrying about it so much, throw up your hands, and embrace the unknown! This time is really yours to explore, learn, try, travel, and just be. You can blaze your own path. Right now, that path might not lead anywhere special; it might be a path in a circle.x

But the lessons you learn along the way will become a part of you. They’ll guide you to new opportunities. They’ll inspire you to get involved with new people or organizations. They will lead you to success!

“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” – Viktor E. Frankl

Hopefully, you’ve learned that feeling lost is sometimes the first step on the path toward your biggest successes. This notion that you are lost, and therefore you should be sad or helpless, is wrong. Take this time to reassess every area of your life.

Break free of your comfort zone, try new things, meet new people, and welcome the listlessness. These are the moments when you can find your joy and discover the path to success.

So, what will you do next? What great adventure is waiting for you on the other side of the fear? Please leave your thoughts in the comment section below!

Julie Petersen is a content marketing specialist, a private language tutor and an author of essay writing services reviews at AskPetersen blog. Contact Julie through her LinkedIn.

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The 3 Most Important Things I Learned About Personal Growth

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When you look back on your life, what do you want to think about? Do you plan to reminisce on all of the good things that have happened and how they shaped who you are today? Or would you rather remember all of the bad decisions, challenging experiences, and mistakes made that hurt or wasted a portion of your life?

In my opinion, I think it is important to reflect on both. While it’s important to remember the hardships we’ve been through in our lives – without them we wouldn’t be where we are now. There are 3 very specific areas that I feel have helped me grow in a personal sense more than anything else in my life so far. 

These aren’t simple lessons in a book or a lecture that you can just absorb and apply to your life. These are things that I’ve learned through experience and reflection, and I’m still learning and growing today.

1. We determine how much we’re worth by what we think about ourselves, others, and life in general.

This might seem like a pretty obvious lesson in life but it’s actually one of the most important because we can determine our own worth by how we think about ourselves and the world around us. If you’re looking for success in any kind of business or social setting (dating), then I’ll tell you right now that it doesn’t matter if you have 10 billion dollars or not – people are still going to judge you based on your thoughts and beliefs alone.

What determines our value isn’t necessarily what we do with our lives (which is often based on luck) but whether or not we believe that ‘our work’ is worthy or not in some sort of grand scheme or universe. We may not always be able to control what happens in our lives, but we can always control how we value ourselves and others.

“Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.” – Maya Angelou

2. You don’t have to change your habits or personality just because someone else doesn’t like it – their opinions are THEIRS alone.

This is another one of those lessons that people tend to pick up on a little bit late in life, but if anything that makes its importance even worse! Basically, there’s going to come a time when you’re going to meet someone who has certain expectations of you as a person…but these expectations might not be realistic due to their motivations and personal beliefs. For example, sometimes parents might expect you to be a lawyer or doctor because that’s what they believe is best for their child.

However, this isn’t the case for everyone and so maybe your passion lies in music or writing novels. In this example, if you were also pressured into becoming a doctor – then there would obviously be some kind of conflict going on within yourself as a person. You should never have to give up something that you want to do just because someone else doesn’t like it! The reason why we’re put onto this Earth is to make our own choices and go after our OWN dreams instead of letting others determine what we can and cannot do with our lives .

3. You can’t change your life until you accept that you need to make a change.

When I was younger, I thought that this lesson would be pretty obvious – but as I got older, it really made me appreciate the fact that there are always different ways of perceiving our lives. For example, if someone wants to become rich and famous one day – their mind might simply overshadow any other possibility in their head because they feel like this is what they NEED to do right now.

However, this isn’t always true within our own lives because we think about things too literally instead of having an open mind. If you want to achieve success in any kind of business or social setting (dating) then you should be willing to try out different things instead of staying in your comfort zone. If you want something, then it’s up to YOU to actually go after it – nobody else is going to give it to you!

The three lessons above are some of the main things I want to pass on to everyone because they’ve come at an important time in my life where I need to start thinking about others instead of only myself. It’s great if we can learn to love ourselves first before anything else, but that doesn’t mean you should neglect everyone around you even though they might be your friends and family members!

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