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If Your Business Isn’t Growing, Your Romantic Relationship Might Be the Issue

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Love. It’s beautiful when you’re experiencing it with someone special. It makes you feel like you could climb Mount Everest without an oxygen tank. When your romantic relationship is going through hard times, something else happens. When you’re arguing, ignoring each other, or worse, you feel like everything else in your life is off.

Instead of working on your personal goals and business tasks, all you want to do is get a big tub of something sweet and binge-watch your favorite Netflix series. You better believe it’s going to have a profound effect on your business. Feelings, fights, emotions, and interesting moments of life come and go. However, the choice of your romantic partner is an absolute indicator of how successful you’ll become.

If your business isn’t growing, it may be time to examine the romantic relationship in your life. You have to get very honest with yourself. Is your relationship helping or hurting you? Here are a few things to think about.

Two Types of Relationships 

There are many types of relationships for entrepreneurs. Business partnerships, friendships, connections, followers, mentors, and the list could go on. Your romantic relationship is the one relationship that has the most access to you. This access influences your daily choices. A healthy relationship supports you and compliments what you’re working to accomplish.

It pushes you to a higher level of success as you build your business. It is a partner that understands the “why” behind what you’re building. With that understanding, they call you out and keep you accountable. They are committed to their growth, supporting your growth, and commits to your growth as a couple.

They do personal development work consistently to develop a stronger mindset because business is about more than tactics. A healthy relationship is two complete people coming together and agreeing to support each other as you put in the work to become the best versions of yourselves in every area of your life. You come together to build an empire in life and business.

Even if your partner is not an entrepreneur, they can still see what you’re building and understand what your business means to you. They look for ways to support you. They get involved — even if it’s just letting you vent. They ask questions and offer honest advice.

“We can improve our relationships with others by leaps and bounds if we become encouragers instead of critics.” – Joyce Meyer

Unhealthy relationships are two people coming together for completion in each other. They look for something in someone else that they should be looking for in themselves. It’s co-dependent in every way. 

This type of partner can be indifferent, envious, or exhibit sabotaging behaviors. As you spend time taking the steps to accomplish your goals, those unhealthy feelings and emotions fuel their self-beliefs. They react outwardly and vocally. They tend to dislike or outright hate your business because they don’t feel like the centerpiece of your life. Their need for attention outweighs their desire to see you succeed.

Building a business takes up a lot of time and energy. It’s hard enough without trying to do it with what feels like your hand tied behind your back. Unhealthy relationships tie up both of your hands.

Choose YOU

Only you know what type of relationship you have. The way you’ll succeed in accomplishing your major life and business goals is with honesty and making the best decision for you. It is you choosing yourself first.

Maybe you’re just going through a rough patch. In a healthy relationship, you will be able to talk it through. A lot of times, communication solves what feels like a “major” issue. We’re human and tend to make things bigger in our minds. Use your words. Try putting yourself in your partner’s shoes.

If they need help seeing the vision behind why you’re working so much in your business, help them see it. They just might surprise you. If you have to make another choice — a harder decision — you can’t be afraid to choose either. 

An unhealthy romantic relationship will drain you in every way. It may be time to let go. Only you know that. You make a hard decision now that frees you up to live the life you know you should be living. 

The best way to make these types of important decisions is knowing yourself better (self-awareness) and having clarity on your values. The most important relationship in your life is your relationship with yourself. Great relationships are rooted in a foundation of self-love.

When you love yourself, you refuse to accept anything that doesn’t help you reach your goals. One of the best strategies you can employ in your business is getting clarity on the romantic relationship in your life. You don’t have to date or marry a fellow entrepreneur but you should be with someone that has your back no matter what. 

“Keep away from those who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you believe that you too can become great.” – Mark Twain

If your business growth has stalled, examine this area of your life. Choose to love and honor yourself. You only get one life to live. One way to make it count is by doing the things that help you grow.

You can build a business that gives you freedom and financial security. Build it alongside someone who gets it and truly wants you.

Beau Henderson is a financial advisor, syndicated radio host, and the CEO of The RichLife Group. He is the USA Today and Wall Street Journal bestselling author of the New Money Mission. He writes and speaks internationally helping people create success with both money and life. Check out his website

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The Secret Daily Routines Behind History’s Most Brilliant Thinkers

Uncover the daily rituals and hidden habits that powered history’s most brilliant minds to success.

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Why Daily Rituals Matter

Every great achiever has one thing in common: discipline. Behind the novels, inventions, discoveries, and masterpieces are small, consistent habits repeated daily. (more…)

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How to Turn a Simple Link-in-Bio Into a Powerful Brand Hub

Transform your forgotten bio link into a high-impact gateway that fuels engagement, clicks, and conversions across every social platform.

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These 11 Habits Will Make You More Productive, Successful, and Confident

Boost your focus, confidence, and results with 11 powerful habits successful people use every day.

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Successful people love to help beginners. They have an incredible work ethic and rarely complain. As a result, others naturally look up to them and want to follow in their footsteps.

But here’s the truth: there’s no success without sacrifice. You’ll need to give up comfort, excuses, and sometimes even social approval to accomplish your goals.

Value comes from solving problems, and these 11 powerful tips will help you become more productive, successful, and confident, starting today.

1. Take Short Breaks After Finishing a Task

Psychology shows it’s important to reward positive behaviour.

After completing a big task or finishing a book, take five minutes to walk, stretch, or simply breathe. This quick reset helps your brain recharge and strengthens focus.

Many great writers swear by morning walks, solitude, and reflection can unlock creativity.

But if you refuse to take breaks, don’t be surprised when burnout hits. Your brain needs recovery time just as much as your body does.

2. Schedule Your Most Important Tasks First

Multitasking kills productivity. If you want to get more done, try time blocking, a method where you dedicate set periods for specific tasks.

Productivity expert Caitlin Hughes explains, “Time blocking involves scheduling blocks of time for your tasks throughout the day.”

For example, if you’re a writer:

  • Research your topic at night.

  • Write your first draft in the morning (don’t worry if it’s rough).

  • Edit in the afternoon, great writing comes from rewriting.

You can’t buy more time. Use it intentionally and without regret.

3. Eliminate Distractions from Your Workspace

Focus is the foundation of success.

According to Inc. Magazine, it takes an average of 23 minutes to recover from a distraction. That’s nearly half an hour of lost productivity every time you check your phone.

Put your phone away. Close unnecessary tabs. And yes, limit your Netflix binges.

Meeting deadlines consistently is one of the fastest ways to stand out and earn respect.

4. Take Full Responsibility for Your Life

Entrepreneur Derek Sivers once said, “Everything is my fault.”

This mindset doesn’t mean self-blame; it means self-ownership. Stop pointing fingers, making excuses, or waiting for others to change.

If your habits (like smoking or drinking too much) hold you back, it’s time to make better choices. Your friends can’t live your dreams for you; only you can.

5. Invest an Hour a Day in Learning New Skills

Knowledge compounds over time.

Whether you read books, take online courses, or practise a craft, consistent learning gives you a competitive edge.

I used to struggle with academic writing, but I improved by studying the work of great authors and applying what I learned.

Your past doesn’t define you; your actions do. Every new skill adds another tool to your arsenal and makes you more unstoppable.

6. Develop a Growth Mindset

Psychologist Dr. Carol Dweck introduced the concept of fixed vs. growth mindset.

  • A fixed mindset believes success is based on natural talent.

  • A growth mindset believes success comes from effort and learning.

Choose the growth mindset. Embrace challenges. See failures as feedback. In today’s fast-moving digital world, adaptability is your biggest advantage.

7. Learn Marketing to Reach People Who Need You

I once believed marketing was manipulative, until I realised it’s about helping people solve problems.

If your work provides genuine value, marketing is how you let others know it exists. Even Apple spends billions on it.

Don’t be ashamed to promote your skills or business. Without visibility, your ideas will never reach the people who need them most.

Creative professionals who understand marketing and sales have an unfair advantage.

8. Ask Your Mentor the Right Questions

Good mentors can fast-track your growth.

While mentorship often costs money, it’s one of the best investments you can make. Great mentors don’t care about titles; they care about your progress.

If you don’t have access to a mentor yet, books are your silent mentors. Read the best in your field, take notes, and apply what resonates.

9. Build Confidence Through Action, Not Affirmations

Author Ryan Holiday once said, “I don’t believe in myself. I have evidence.”

Confidence doesn’t come from shouting affirmations into the mirror; it comes from proof. Doing hard things, keeping promises to yourself, and following through.

When you consistently take action, your brain gathers evidence that you can handle whatever comes next. That’s real confidence, grounded, earned, and unshakable.

10. Focus on Your Strengths

Your strengths reveal where your greatest impact lies.

If people compliment you on something often, it’s a clue. Lean into it.

A former professor once told me I was creative, and that simple comment gave me the confidence to go all in. I studied creativity, applied it daily, and turned it into my career advantage.

Double down on your strengths. That’s how you build momentum and mastery.

11. Identify and Challenge Your Limiting Beliefs

Your beliefs shape your reality.

For years, I believed I couldn’t be a great writer because of my chronic tinnitus and astigmatism, sensory challenges that made concentration difficult. But over time, I realised those struggles made me more disciplined, observant, and empathetic.

Your limitations can become your greatest motivators if you let them.

Avoid shortcuts. Growth takes time, but it’s always worth it.

Final Thoughts

Becoming productive, successful, and confident isn’t about working harder than everyone else. It’s about working smarter, consistently, and intentionally.

You don’t need to overhaul your life overnight. Start small: take a break after your next task, schedule your priorities, or spend one hour learning something new.

Every habit you change compounds into long-term success. Remember, true change comes from practising new behaviours.

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Why One-Size-Fits-All Leadership Will Always Fail (and What Works Instead)

The surprising truth about leadership styles that can make or break your team’s success.

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