Success Advice
5 Ideas to Start Building Your Influence Online in Only 30 Minutes Per Week
In the age of online influencers, coins and dollars can easily be traded for attention and trust. So can spa hotel packages, event tickets, extravagant outfits, and vacations. It’s hard to name an item that you wouldn’t be able to purchase with influence currency. Of course, if you have enough of it.
So what’s your account balance? How many people would pay attention to what you have to say? If you are starting as an entrepreneur, there’ll come a day you’d wish you started working for your influence currency sooner.
If you are already on an entrepreneurial path, here are a few low-investment high-payout ideas you can start practicing today:
1. Keep your accounts aligned
You likely have a few pieces of “online real estate” – a profile in one of the social networks, or maybe a few, maybe a website, definitely an email address. Note that for your business, you likely don’t need to be a part of every social media network. Each industry has 1 or 2 key channels where your target audience spends time.
While each social network carries its own style (#DollyPartonChallenge proved it once again), those accounts you keep to maintain must be aligned. Visitors need to see it’s the same person. If possible, avoid nicknames. If you use your first and second name, make sure usage is consistent across all platforms. Try to use recent pictures and stick to photos of you -not your pet.
The time it takes: 15 minutes. You just need to do it once.
2. Interact with people in your industry you don’t yet know
It’s about starting a conversation and about giving attention before you ask for attention. Follow a few hashtags related to your industry, subscribe to a few YouTube channels if you haven’t already. But when you are there, don’t just silently consume. Start interacting with those in your industry even if you don’t know them in person. Let them know when they’ve done a good job, ask questions. If you know something they haven’t mentioned, it’s a great place to share in a friendly manner.
It’s pretty much like making friends, but online. You say something nice and funny, they say something nice back and before you know it, you are already hanging out. No service selling likes, comments or engagement boosts would sell you that – real connection. Every brand starts with early adopters, and the best way to earn them is through personal interaction.
The time it takes: 5-10 min a day.
“You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people.” – Dale Carnegie
3. Start sharing about your entrepreneurial journey
It may seem that everybody under the sun is on social media and now it’s too late to start building a brand. In fact, research by Nielsen Norman group shows that dynamic between different social platforms is quite similar: there are 90 passive consumers to 10 contributors, only one of which is a heavy contributor.
I personally find this statistic quite inspiring. Most of the people you see on your social media feed daily represent just 1% of the network’s humongous database. Surely, there is a place for you too.
Another common objection has to do with the level of production complexity. Maybe you are not too comfortable in front of the camera? Maybe you don’t have pictures of yourself that look “good enough?” What objection are you placing in front of yourself?
Gary Vee who teaches “how to create 64 content pieces in a day” urges creators to avoid complicating the process. In a nutshell, it means that if you are thinking “I’ll start when so and so happens” you are overcomplicating it. Think of the easiest format for you. You may record a quick story at the end of a workday, use time in public transport to put your business learnings in writing every once in a while, write a medium post or go live on one of the platforms.
Find your format and stick with it. Later, you may add beautiful visuals, well-edited storylines or even a video production team. Right now, you are doing it to let those early adopters (see above) stay up-to-date with you and your business. They don’t need those updates to be perfect. They just need the information to be available.
The time it takes: from 30 seconds to 10 minutes
4. Practice giving when you don’t expect to get anything in return
What are the brands, events and people in your life that you absolutely love? I love sharing about a local charity in Bali that I got introduced to on my last visit. I love hearing and sharing about the projects my friends are doing, and yes, I’ve also tagged a certain ice-cream shop way more than once on my social media.
Sure, influencers are paid to review things and places and you might not be there yet. It does not mean you should avoid doing that until someone starts offering money for your opinion. Love something? Talk about it and tag them. It might be that place where you buy doughnuts in the morning or a great podcast you enjoy listening to. They may reciprocate, and if it’s a big brand you may get a boost.
One of my clients has an Instagram account which is about 100 times the size of mine. Every time my company delivers a great result for them, I share it on my Insta-story (see point 3). She never fails to share it back and apart from those extra views that come from her repost, I just get that warm fuzzy feeling inside.
However, don’t get discouraged if you don’t get a mention in return. Sharing what you love helps your followers see you as a well-rounded, real person. Remember, people connect with real people, not polished images.
The time it takes: from 30 seconds to 10 minutes.
“We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.” – Winston S. Churchill
5. Make partnerships or join engagement groups
Most social networks seem to be going through similar growth curves. At first, there is a lot of organic engagement, new people are jumping in every day, those who “get it” quickly reach a large number of followers (currently Tik Tok is going through this stage). As the network matures, it introduces changes which make the organic reach more difficult, and eventually inviting users to pay for a chance to be seen by more followers. Instagram’s 2016 algorithm update is an example of such change when the chronological feed was replaced by the feed that favors posts with the highest engagement.
If you are on one of the older platforms, like Facebook, Youtube or Instagram, you might want to look into engagement pods. Usually, those look like group chats, where every participant informs others about a new post she made. Rules of those chats suggest that you will engage with posts made by others, and they will support your posts.
You can google “engagement groups” or “engagement pods” or just partner up with a few friends and agree to support each other. This little trick signals an algorithm to show your post to more people. I would advise choosing smaller groups (15-20 people maximum), otherwise, it might take a while to give proper attention to every participant.
The time it takes: about 5 minutes, depending on the number of participants in the group.
How are you currently building your personal brand online? Share your tips and suggestions for other readers below!
Life
9 Harsh Truths Every Young Man Must Face to Succeed in the Modern World
Before chasing success, every young man needs to face these 9 brutal realities shaping masculinity in the modern world.
Many young men today quietly battle depression, loneliness, and a sense of confusion about who they’re meant to be.
Some blame the lack of deep friendships or romantic relationships. Others feel lost in a digital world that often labels traditional masculinity as “toxic.”
But the truth is this: becoming a man in the modern age takes more than just surviving. It takes resilience, direction, and a willingness to grow even when no one’s watching.
Success doesn’t arrive by accident or luck. It’s built on discipline, sacrifice, and consistency.
Here are 9 harsh truths every young man should know if he wants to thrive, not just survive, in the digital age.
1. Never Use Your Illness as an Excuse
As Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often says, successful people don’t complain; they act.
Your illness, hardship, or struggle shouldn’t define your limits; it should define your motivation. Rest when you must, but always get back up and keep building your dreams. Motivation doesn’t appear magically. It comes after you take action.
Here are five key lessons I’ve learned from Dr. Peterson:
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Learn to write clearly; clarity of thought makes you dangerous.
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Read quality literature in your free time.
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Nurture a strong relationship with your family.
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Share your ideas publicly; your voice matters.
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Become a “monster”, powerful, but disciplined enough to control it.
The best leaders and thinkers are grounded. They welcome criticism, adapt quickly, and keep moving forward no matter what.
2. You Can’t Please Everyone And That’s Okay
You don’t need a crowd of people to feel fulfilled. You need a few friends who genuinely accept you for who you are.
If your circle doesn’t bring out your best, it’s okay to walk away. Solitude can be a powerful teacher. It gives you space to understand what you truly want from life. Remember, successful men aren’t people-pleasers; they’re purpose-driven.
3. You Can Control the Process, Not the Outcome
Especially in creative work, writing, business, or content creation, you control effort, not results.
You might publish two articles a day, but you can’t dictate which one will go viral. Focus on mastery, not metrics. Many great writers toiled for years in obscurity before anyone noticed them. Rejection, criticism, and indifference are all part of the path.
The best creators focus on storytelling, not applause.
4. Rejection Is Never Personal
Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It simply means your offer, idea, or timing didn’t align.
Every successful person has faced rejection repeatedly. What separates them is persistence and perspective. They see rejection as feedback, not failure. The faster you learn that truth, the faster you’ll grow.
5. Women Value Comfort and Security
Understanding women requires maturity and empathy.
Through books, lectures, and personal growth, I’ve learned that most women desire a man who is grounded, intelligent, confident, emotionally stable, and consistent. Some want humor, others intellect, but nearly all want to feel safe and supported.
Instead of chasing attention, work on self-improvement. Build competence and confidence, and the rest will follow naturally.
6. There’s No Such Thing as Failure, Only Lessons
A powerful lesson from Neuro-Linguistic Programming: failure only exists when you stop trying.
Every mistake brings data. Every setback builds wisdom. The most successful men aren’t fearless. They’ve simply learned to act despite fear.
Be proud of your scars. They’re proof you were brave enough to try.
7. Public Speaking Is an Art Form
Public speaking is one of the most valuable and underrated skills a man can master.
It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection. The best speakers tell stories, inspire confidence, and make people feel seen. They research deeply, speak honestly, and practice relentlessly.
If you can speak well, you can lead, sell, teach, and inspire. Start small, practice at work, in class, or even in front of a mirror, and watch your confidence skyrocket.
8. Teaching Is Leadership in Disguise
Great teachers are not just knowledgeable. They’re brave, compassionate, and disciplined.
Teaching forces you to articulate what you know, and in doing so, you master it at a deeper level. Whether you’re mentoring a peer, leading a team, or sharing insights online, teaching refines your purpose.
Lifelong learners become lifelong leaders.
9. Study Human Nature to Achieve Your Dreams
One of the toughest lessons to accept: most people are self-interested.
That’s not cynicism, it’s human nature. Understanding this helps you navigate relationships, business, and communication more effectively.
Everyone has a darker side, but successful people learn to channel theirs productively into discipline, creativity, and drive.
Psychology isn’t just theory; it’s a toolkit. Learn how people think, act, and decide, and you’ll know how to lead them, influence them, and even understand yourself better.
Final Thoughts
The digital age offers endless opportunities, but only to those who are willing to take responsibility, confront discomfort, and keep improving.
Becoming a man today means embracing the hard truths most avoid.
Because at the end of the day, success isn’t about luck. It’s about who you become when life tests you the most.
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