Success Advice
Why You Need to Increase Your Mental Bandwidth Immediately
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The bus driver told me in broken english to sit back down because the police were coming for me. This had to be a misunderstanding. I was on a night bus in Portugal when I noticed my ipad missing from my seat. Maybe it fell down the side and slid to the back of the bus? While the bus was moving, I got up and looked chair to chair hoping to locate it before everyone got off at the final stop.
Long story short, I never got it back, someone had clearly stolen it, and the police decided not to charge me for disobeying the drivers orders and standing up while the bus was moving. I was frantic. I just lost my ipad with all my vacation plans on it, pictures of my late father and many business documents. It was my fault. I’d lost concentration momentarily on the bus and someone took advantage of that. I didn’t know how to react. I hadn’t and don’t make careless mistakes (or so I thought). So my reaction was pretty bad.
My father passed away unexpectedly mere weeks before, it was midnight in a town I’d never been in, and this inconvenience was not scheduled within my 6 month trip around the world. So I broke down crying, as a grown man at a bus stop. Not for the ipad, but for the slap in the face life had given me.
What this lesson taught me is that we have it too good. I had it too good for too long, and as such, my mental bandwidth had shrunk.
The Grind
Our day to day is filled with activities and emotions that are quite confined. That’s why we call it the grind, monotony, or the rat race. Up to 95% of what we do is habit based, meaning we tend to repeat the same stuff over and over, even if (like me) it’s in a different place.
What does your day look like? You get up, make breakfast, go to work, come home, make dinner, and go to sleep. Your day might have its own challenges with a bus running late, or your boss busting your balls, but you get to go to sleep safe at home at the end of it.
Everything that occurs from waking up to sleeping is pretty much standard, bland almost. How much variability can there truly be? Your life exists within a certain bandwidth of emotions and mental states.
That’s why the theft caught me so off guard. It had been too long since I had been shaken up and exposed to the realities of the world. There are people out there more desperate than me who will steal to get ahead. This is why expanding your mental bandwidth is so important.
“If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I’m about to do today?” – Steve Jobs
The Range
Your every day will include many instances of contact with people. Within that exist certain societal structures that allow you to get things done. There are policies and protocols at work, which ensure that most people are polite and professional in the workplace. No-one wants to get sued or fired. We stay within that range.
We are mostly on autopilot in developed countries, where taxis run by a legitimate meter, and public transport is mostly safe and relatively on time. It’s not a hassle to get around logistically, and it’s rare that you’ll be robbed or ripped off. Supermarkets have everything we could possibly ever need and are sometimes open 24 hours. Many even deliver to your door.
In the first world, our challenges are more benign. In terms of Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs, we’re at the top. Pushing for the stuff that gives us fulfillment. When travelling through less developed countries, you see the opposite.
People do things just to survive. Kids leave school at 14 to drive covered rickshaws around angkor wat, so that you can get from temple to temple without getting too sunburnt. As such, it’s easy for us to become complacent, float through life, and not have to think too hard about fending for ourselves.
Our emotional responses to things only fit between a certain range, and it takes something pretty drastic to shake that up. Do you remember in school when a bully decided you were his victim that day, week, month, or year? When’s the last time you were harshly rejected for a job you really wanted or for a love interest you really liked? It’s these types of emotions we need to get back, but in a positive way.
The Change
Losing my ipad wasn’t so much about being stolen from, but more so around my mental state being radically altered. It was the realisation that more of life existed outside my normal bandwidth. It had been challenged and changed, with a clear before and after.
It all comes down to personal resilience. How do we deal with things outside our normal range? We need to seek out challenges that put us in similar situations. You’re familiar with your job and competent at your hobbies. Try and think of the last time you tried something new, that really put you out of your comfort zone, when you started from the bottom.
I joined a kickboxing gym, and despite working up to it over weeks, sparring with an experienced fighter scared me to death. But you know what, I’m still here.
No-one can predict losing a loved one, being stolen from, losing your job, getting in a fight, crashing your car or any one of the many events that can shake up our life. So, in the meantime, we need to look at what and how we are truly challenged, and only then can we expand our bandwidth. This will help us grow and prepare us for when the unfortunate does come our way.
“Most everything that you want is just outside your comfort zone.” – Jack Canfield
Conclusion:
Do an honest audit of your life. Write down 3 activities that scare you. Then go do them. This video shows how much benefit Jesse Itzer got from motivational figure David Goggins when they spent a month together.
What Jesse gained was being pushed outside of his comfort zone. While we can’t all get a navy seal to live with us and coach us for a month, we can be our own coach.
For your 5 activities, utilise SMART planning to ensure that you can achieve your goals. Think of it like a project and break it down into manageable chunks you can work towards on a daily or weekly basis. If it’s to go skydiving solo, get in contact with sky diving schools, commit and buy your first 3 lessons. That way, the money commitment will keep you incentivised to attend your sessions.
Book them in your diary and inform some friends or family, so that there’s a level of accountability. Repeat for your other activities. Eventually life will test your mental bandwidth or you can choose to tackle it head on. Don’t be the adult crying at a bus stop over an ipad. Grow your bandwidth on your own terms.
What’s the last thing you did that took you out of your comfort zone? Share your experience below!
Health & Fitness
The Health Planning Habits That Support Long-Term Success
Most people think about health planning only when something forces them to.
A medical bill arrives unexpectedly. An insurance issue appears during treatment. A diagnosis changes how future care needs are viewed. Suddenly health planning becomes urgent instead of preventative.
The problem is that long-term health stability is usually shaped by smaller habits built quietly over time, not just by major decisions during emergencies.
That includes physical health habits, of course, but it also includes how people approach insurance coverage, preventative care, financial preparation, and long-term healthcare planning before problems become immediate.
The families who navigate healthcare stress most effectively are often not the ones avoiding every issue entirely. More often, they’re the ones who built systems early enough to make difficult situations feel more manageable later.
Consistency Matters More Than Perfection
A lot of health advice still revolves around extreme change.
Perfect diets. Aggressive routines. Complete lifestyle overhauls.
In reality, most long-term health success comes from consistency people can realistically maintain for years instead of months. Small preventative habits tend to matter more than dramatic short-term efforts that collapse under pressure.
That principle applies financially too.
People often spend more time researching investment strategies than understanding their healthcare coverage or preparing for future medical costs. But healthcare instability can disrupt long-term financial plans surprisingly quickly when households are unprepared for how expensive even routine care can become over time.
The practical side of health planning is becoming harder to separate from overall financial planning now than it used to be.
Preventative Planning Reduces More Stress Than People Realize
One overlooked benefit of health planning is emotional stability.
People who understand their coverage, maintain preventative care routines, and think ahead about healthcare decisions often describe feeling less overwhelmed when unexpected situations happen. The goal is not eliminating uncertainty entirely. That’s unrealistic.
The goal is reducing how chaotic healthcare decisions feel under pressure.
That’s one reason broader conversations tied to healthcare and health insurance have expanded significantly over the last several years. Rising costs, changing coverage structures, and increasing healthcare complexity have made long-term planning more important for average households than many people expected.
Healthcare is no longer something most families can comfortably approach reactively forever.
People Underestimate How Quickly Healthcare Costs Compound
One reason health planning habits matter so much is that healthcare costs rarely arrive in one dramatic moment alone.
More often, they build gradually:
- recurring prescriptions
- specialist visits
- ongoing treatment plans
- insurance deductible increases
- long-term care considerations
- unexpected procedures layered on top of existing expenses
Families often absorb these costs incrementally until they realize how much financial pressure accumulated over time.
That gradual buildup is part of what makes proactive planning valuable. People who think ahead about coverage structures, emergency savings, provider networks, and preventative care tend to adapt more smoothly when healthcare needs eventually increase later in life.
The difficult part is that many households delay these conversations because they feel healthy right now.
Healthcare Decisions Have Become More Complicated
Another challenge is that healthcare systems themselves continue evolving quickly.
Insurance structures change. Telehealth expands. Employer-sponsored benefits shift. Prescription pricing fluctuates. Patients now carry more responsibility for understanding deductibles, provider networks, and out-of-pocket exposure than previous generations often did.
That complexity creates decision fatigue.
Even relatively organized households sometimes feel uncertain about whether they’re making good healthcare choices because the systems themselves are difficult to navigate confidently. A lot of current health insurance trends discussions reflect this larger issue, healthcare planning is becoming less about isolated medical events and more about long-term sustainability across entire households.
People want predictability, but healthcare systems increasingly feel harder to predict.
The Most Effective Health Habits Usually Feel Boring
One thing people rarely admit is that good long-term planning habits are often not particularly exciting.
Scheduling preventative appointments. Reviewing insurance annually. Building emergency savings slowly. Staying physically active consistently. Maintaining realistic routines instead of dramatic cycles of burnout and reset.
None of those habits feel dramatic at the moment.
But over long periods, they create stability that becomes incredibly valuable once life gets complicated. The people who navigate healthcare stress most effectively are often the ones who built ordinary systems early instead of waiting for perfect motivation later.
That applies financially and physically at the same time.
Why Long-Term Success Depends on Adaptability
Health planning is ultimately difficult because people’s lives keep changing.
Careers shift. Families grow. Aging parents require support. Medical needs evolve. Financial priorities change over decades in ways nobody predicts perfectly in advance.
That’s why the strongest long-term health planning habits are usually flexible rather than rigid.
The goal is not building a flawless plan that never changes. It’s creating enough structure, awareness, and preparation that future adjustments become manageable instead of overwhelming.
Most people cannot control every future health outcome. They can, however, build habits that make uncertainty easier to navigate when it eventually arrives.
Entrepreneurs
The Silent Killer of Entrepreneurial Dreams (And How to Make Sure It Never Takes Yours Down)
You started with fire in your belly. The vision was crystal clear. But somewhere along the way the doubts crept in. The “what if I’m wrong” thoughts. The comparison to everyone else’s highlight reel. The quiet voice that says maybe you should just play it safe and get a real job.
That voice is the silent killer. Not cash flow problems. Not bad hires. Not even market shifts. It’s self-doubt that quietly talks most entrepreneurs out of their biggest breakthroughs.
I’ve been in rooms with founders who’ve raised millions and still battle it daily. The difference between those who push through and those who fold isn’t talent or luck. It’s how they handle the internal noise.
The game-changer is learning to treat doubt as a signal, not a stop sign.
Every time that voice gets loud, it usually means you’re on the edge of something important. Growth lives right outside your comfort zone. The entrepreneurs who scale don’t silence the doubt—they thank it for showing up and then take the next step anyway.
Here’s how to make that practical.
Keep a “proof file.”
Every win, every positive customer note, every metric that moved in the right direction. When doubt hits, open it. Evidence beats emotion every single time. Most founders are terrible at remembering their own wins. They move the goalpost so fast that yesterday’s victory feels ordinary by today. A simple document or folder where you collect proof changes the internal conversation. It becomes harder to believe the doubt when you have a running list of times you were wrong about your own limits.
Surround yourself with people who are playing a bigger game.
Isolation breeds doubt. A strong peer group normalizes the struggle and reminds you you’re not crazy. The entrepreneurial path is full of invisible landmines. Having people who’ve stepped on a few of them—and lived to tell the tale… makes the journey feel less lonely and more possible. Find masterminds, find mentors, find founders a few steps ahead of you who are willing to be honest about the hard parts.
Reframe failure as data.
Every setback is just information about what to do differently next time. The fastest learners treat mistakes like tuition, not tragedy. This doesn’t mean you celebrate failure or become reckless. It means you extract the lesson quickly and move forward without carrying the emotional weight longer than necessary. The founders who win long-term are the ones who fail fast, learn faster, and keep their identity separate from any single outcome.
Get brutally clear on your “why.”
Not the surface-level money or freedom story. The deep one that still lights you up even when the work sucks. Reconnect with it daily. When doubt shows up, it’s often because you’ve lost sight of the deeper reason you started. Spend time with that reason. Write it down. Say it out loud. Let it remind you that the discomfort is temporary and the mission is bigger than the fear.
And finally, give yourself permission to be in process.
Most entrepreneurs compare their chapter one to someone else’s chapter ten. They see the polished results and forget the messy middle that every successful founder had to walk through. Your story isn’t over. It’s not even close. The doubt you feel today might be the exact thing that forces you to get clearer, stronger, and more intentional than you’ve ever been.
The path of entrepreneurship was never meant to feel safe. That’s the whole point. It forces you to become the kind of person who can handle bigger problems and bigger wins. Doubt will show up. It always does. But it doesn’t get to drive.
You do.
Success Advice
Long-Term Success Includes Preparing for Financial Freedom
A lot of people associate long term success with visible milestones.
Career growth. Promotions. Business expansion. Higher income. Buying a home. Reaching professional goals that once felt far away.
Those things absolutely matter, but many professionals eventually realize something uncomfortable along the way: external success does not automatically create financial freedom.
It’s possible to earn more than ever while still feeling financially stretched. It’s possible to build an impressive career while postponing long-term planning year after year because life keeps getting busier. And it’s surprisingly common for financially successful people to feel uncertain about whether they’re actually building stability for the future or simply keeping up with the present.
That disconnect tends to become more obvious with time.
Professional Success and Financial Stability Are Not Always the Same Thing
One of the biggest misconceptions around wealth-building is the assumption that higher income naturally solves long-term financial concerns.
In reality, increased income often creates more complexity instead of simplicity.
Expenses usually rise alongside earnings. Career demands increase. Families grow. Tax situations become more layered. Many professionals reach a point where they are managing strong incomes but still feel unclear about how everything connects long term.
That’s where financial freedom starts meaning something different.
For some people, it means retiring early. For others, it means having enough flexibility to step away from high-pressure work if needed. Sometimes it simply means reducing financial anxiety enough that major life decisions no longer feel controlled entirely by income requirements.
The definition varies, but the underlying goal tends to stay the same: creating more control over the future instead of remaining financially reactive forever.
Most People Delay Long-Term Planning Longer Than They Expect
Interestingly, many highly capable professionals postpone long-term financial preparation not because they are irresponsible, but because life keeps demanding attention elsewhere.
There’s always another immediate priority:
- career transitions
- raising children
- paying down debt
- helping family
- buying property
- managing rising costs
Future planning becomes something people intend to “focus on later” once things calm down.
For many households, things never fully calm down.
That’s why preparation often works better when it becomes part of ongoing decision-making rather than a future project people keep postponing. Small consistent decisions usually matter more over time than dramatic financial overhauls done once every few years.
Preparing for the Future Requires Asking Better Questions
At some point, many professionals stop focusing only on how much they are earning and start asking broader questions instead.
Questions like:
- What kind of lifestyle do I actually want later in life?
- How much flexibility matters to me?
- What happens if my priorities change?
- How prepared am I for uncertainty?
- Am I building long-term stability or simply maintaining momentum?
That shift in perspective is important because financial preparation becomes more effective once it connects to real-life priorities instead of abstract milestones alone.
Resources tied to questions to ask about retirement planning often become useful during this stage because they help people think more holistically about what long-term security actually looks like beyond account balances alone.
Financial Freedom Depends on More Than Investments
A lot of conversations around long-term wealth focus heavily on market performance, savings rates, or portfolio growth.
Those things matter, but financial freedom is rarely built through investments alone.
Behavior matters just as much.
Consistency matters. Lifestyle inflation matters. Emotional decision-making during uncertain periods matters. The ability to stay flexible without abandoning long-term goals matters too.
Some people with relatively moderate incomes build strong long-term security because they maintain sustainable habits over decades. Others earn significantly more but struggle to create lasting stability because short-term pressure constantly reshapes their financial decisions.
The emotional side of money usually affects long-term outcomes more than people initially realize.
The Goal Is Usually More Freedom, Not Just More Money
One thing many professionals eventually realize is that financial goals are rarely just about accumulating wealth endlessly.
More often, they’re tied to freedom.
Freedom to make career decisions without panic.
Freedom to support family without constant financial strain.
Freedom to slow down if priorities change later in life.
Freedom to navigate uncertainty without feeling trapped financially.
That’s part of why conversations around retirement planning have become more personal and lifestyle-focused over time. People are not simply trying to reach a number anymore. They’re trying to build flexibility into their future.
And flexibility usually requires preparation long before people feel fully ready to prioritize it.
What Long-Term Success Actually Starts to Mean
Over time, long-term success becomes less about outward achievement alone and more about sustainability.
Can your financial life support the life you actually want later?
Can you adapt if priorities shift?
Can you handle uncertainty without constantly feeling financially fragile?
Those questions matter because success eventually becomes harder to enjoy when financial pressure continues following every major decision.
Preparing for financial freedom does not require perfection or immediate certainty. It usually starts with creating enough structure, consistency, and long-term awareness that future decisions feel driven by choice rather than pressure alone.
That’s often the version of success people value most once they’ve spent enough time chasing the visible kind.
Entrepreneurs
The One Brutal Mistake That Keeps Most Entrepreneurs Stuck at Six Figures (And the Fix That Unlocks Seven)
You built something real. Customers are coming in. Revenue is growing. But no matter how hard you grind, it feels like you’re hitting an invisible ceiling. The business owns you more than you own it, and scaling feels like a distant dream instead of the next logical step.
I’ve seen it destroy too many sharp founders. They’re doing everything “right”—working longer hours, chasing every opportunity, saying yes to every client. And yet the growth stalls while their stress skyrockets.
The mistake isn’t effort. It’s identity.
Most entrepreneurs still see themselves as the indispensable hero who has to touch every single part of the business. They built it with their own hands, so they believe only they can run it at the highest level. That belief is exactly what caps them at six figures.
The shift that changes everything is deciding you are now the leader of a system, not the worker inside it.
You stop being the best operator and start becoming the best owner. That means ruthlessly auditing where your time is spent and handing off everything that doesn’t move the needle on growth. Yes, it feels scary. Yes, it feels like you’re losing control. But the entrepreneurs who break through are the ones who trust the process more than their ego.
Here’s what that actually looks like in practice.
First, identify your $10,000-an-hour activities
The ones only you can do that truly grow the company. Everything else gets documented, delegated, or deleted. Most founders I know are shocked when they finally track their time for two weeks straight. They discover they’re spending 60-70% of their week on things that could be handled by someone else at a fraction of the cost. The ego loves to whisper that “no one can do it as well as me.” That voice is expensive. It costs you leverage, it costs you time with your family, and it costs you the mental bandwidth to actually think strategically about the future of the business.
Second, build repeatable systems for the rest.
Not fancy software. Simple checklists, processes, and people who own outcomes. Your team stops waiting for your approval on every little thing. This is where most entrepreneurs get stuck—they hire help but never actually transfer ownership. They create bottlenecks because every decision still funnels back to them. The fix is to document the process once, train someone thoroughly, then step back and let them own it. Yes, there will be mistakes in the beginning. That’s the cost of building something that can eventually run without you. Every mistake becomes a better system.
Third, measure what matters.
Revenue per employee. Customer acquisition cost. Lifetime value. Stop celebrating busywork and start obsessing over leverage. I’ve watched founders go from celebrating “we’re so busy” to celebrating “we added three new team members and revenue per person went up 40%.” That’s the shift. When you start measuring the right things, your decisions change. You stop hiring to offload tasks and start hiring to multiply output.
The hard truth is that most entrepreneurs never make this transition.
They stay the bottleneck in their own business. They become the ceiling. And the business grows to the exact size that one person can manage with heroic effort… then it plateaus. The ones who break through are willing to feel uncomfortable for a season so they can build something that actually scales.
You didn’t start this journey to trade one boss for another… especially when that boss is you. Let go of the need to be the smartest person in every room. Your job now is to build something bigger than yourself. The ceiling isn’t real. It’s just the point where your old identity stops serving you. The question is whether you’re willing to let that old version of you die so a new one can lead.
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