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6 Steps to Take When Your Willpower Is Gone

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6 Steps to Take When Your Willpower Is Gone

Having a healthy willpower allows you to become capable of accomplishing a lot of things in life. Setting a goal and having the motivation to achieve this goal would be a type of willpower.

For example, you want to lose fat and gain a little muscle. Having a high willpower gives you the mindset to encourage yourself to complete this goal no matter how long it takes.

However, a low willpower means you will not have the mindset to achieve your goals, and you will most likely fail unless something is done.

Let’s take a look at seven steps that will take your willpower from the ground back up into the air:

1. Stress decreases willpower

Stress will drain your mental energy along with your physical energy as well. Modern science is starting to piece together the clues that stress is causing medical conditions such as high blood pressure and depression. Your heart is not only healthy when you train and eat right. Understandably, you need to eliminate stress in order to have the willpower for goal accomplishment. Take a look at your work, family, and love life to see if something needs to change in order for your stress to reduce.

“We all have those things that even in the midst of stress and disarray, they energize us and give us renewed strength and purpose. These are our passions.” – Adam Braun

2. Bad habits lead to bad results

A bad habit could be something like eating high carb foods routinely, but the issue is you are on a diet. This could also be something like never waking up on time in the morning, which destroys your willpower to even want to work. A bad habit needs to be targeted and fixed if you wish to increase your willpower. Sometimes you may need help from a friend or family member to help keep you from going back down the path of bad habit making.

 

3. Balance your life out to sustain willpower

Your willpower cannot exist if you are overwhelmed with a hefty daily schedule. Trying to squeeze in work, family time, and training is difficult without having any willpower. You could try making your schedule work better around your work. For example, go to the gym before work so you have the rest of the day afterwards to have family time. Work obviously cannot be eliminated, but you can try to request hour changes to better fit your daily needs. This doesn’t hurt to ask if the opportunity to ask comes around.

 

4. Your goals need to be accomplishable

Long term goals are great to set, but sometimes they are a bit unrealistic unless it was set for 10 years from that date. Short term goals help you stay motivated because you are accomplishing tasks one after another until that possible long term goal has been reached. A goal of losing 40lbs. in one month to look slim and strong is pretty hard on your willpower because it is virtually impossible to achieve. This could lead to a possible crash in your willpower, which basically is the reason why most people fail with their goals.

 

5. Think highly of yourself

Sadly people who start something new in their life often talk bad or negatively about themselves, which leads to their motivation and willpower decreasing. This carries over to a new diet or fitness program. You feel the progress is just not there and often state you suck at this type of thing during conversations. Don’t do this to yourself! Look in the mirror and say out loud you can do it, and while in conversations state that you are doing your best to succeed. This will create a major boost in your willpower.

 

6. Your willpower derives from actions

Lastly, you have to take action in order to boost your willpower and complete your goals. Motivation and confidence begin to rise as a result of action, and you start to feel that everything is possible if you continue down this path of achievement. However, action only happens because you choose to make it so. Push yourself past your drops in willpower because most people are going to experience the same thing.

“Willpower is essential to the accomplishment of anything worthwhile.” – Brian Tracy

Conclusion

Your drop in willpower should not be considered permanent. Even top professional athletes wind up down this road at some point in their career. As mentioned, the actions you take make the difference of success or failure. Focus on short term goals and keep your expectations to a lower level. Sounds odd to set low expectations, but your willpower benefits from this because you can maintain low expectations and begin to go above and beyond them.

Which step do you need to take in order to regain your willpower? Please leave your thoughts in the comment section below!

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How Your Friends Determine Whether You Succeed or Not

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Can anyone do without having friends? We all have our friends, we share ideas with them, talk together, have fun, and fight. Yes, that’s the baseline of friendship. But, do you know that aside from you, your friends can determine whether you achieve success or not?

There are two things in friendship which are the ability to ”love” and the ability to “influence”. This means you are loved and you are influenced. How do your friends affect your success in life? How are they one of the biggest deciding factors of your success? Let’s find out.

What type of friends do you keep? 

First, what type of friends do you keep? Who do you call your best friend? There are two different kinds of friends, good friends, and bad ones. A lot of people have lost their pathway to success and some have also found their road to success all because of the friends they keep, the people they mingle with. 

Who is your best friend? Answer carefully. Having a best friend means you find each other compatible and understanding. Analyze who your best friend is. If your best friend has not motivated you to do something positive, if who you call your bestie has never given you positive advice, lastly if your best friend has never informed and advised you on your shortcomings, then you don’t have a best friend.

This quote tells us “birds of the same feather flock together”. Countless people have changed from their good nature into a bad one all because of friends. One thing to note is, “negative people move with negative aura”. If your best friend is filled with negativity inside-out then you will surely be affected by his/her negative aura.

They influence your success with positivity or negativity 

The friends you keep can either influence you with positivity or negativity because your friends have the power to change your kind of person completely. 

This is how your friends influence you:

  1. They influence you indirectly with what they do
  2. They influence you directly by teaching and giving you advice 

Yes, that is how they influence you. For instance, you watch a movie and you like the way the actor walks. The question is if you truly like the way the actor walks, won’t you try to imitate the actor? Of course, you will.

Just the way you imitate the actor is the same way your friends can influence you with their character. However, the funny part is, they don’t have to teach you to do things like them. You just find yourself imitating and copying them gradually.

An important question to ask is, are you imitating a good friend or a bad one? If you imitate a good friend then you will be good, but if you imitate a bad person, you will surely become a bad person.

Everyone wants to succeed, a good friend will always teach, enlighten, and motivate you for success. A bad friend will only motivate you to do evil things (smoking, drinking, fight, envy,).

And you should know that things like that are a great enemy of success and even of God. So, if you have these bad elements in your life, how will you achieve success? There is no way!

And also, they can teach and advise you directly. But, what do your friends teach you? When you ask them for advice do they inspire you positively or teach you the bad stuff.? A lot of people have regretted lifelong decisions just by listening to the advice of friends. 

The company you keep has the power to influence and change you. Never forget that a positive influence will teach, motivate, and brush you up for success. While a negative influence will inspire you to become a bad person, change your good nature, and leave you with regrets in the end.

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The 3 Step Process to Building a Profitable Pitch

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As a communication coach, one of the top questions entrepreneurs ask me is how to deliver a winning pitch to potential investors. They want to know if there’s a magic formula to get an investor to say yes and buy into their dream and their business. (more…)

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The 4 Pillars of Wealth and Abundance

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Have you ever wondered what the formula for a wealthy and abundant life is? Many people have. Lots has been written about the subject of wealth creation and living an abundant life. It was a breaking point in my journey and pursuit of success when I found out that there is a clear path to achieve success in life. Thanks to those who have shared their journey, we can clearly see and follow the principles of prosperity. (more…)

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Here Are 4 Reasons Why You Should Have a Podcast, Youtube Channel or Online Show

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Confidence comes from a place of strong understanding of self. After close to three years on radio, I’ve grown from a shy introvert to a shy introvert with an extrovert persona. When the mic is turned on, I can channel a version of myself that some say is attractive, strong, and of course, confident but it wasn’t always this way.

What I want to share with you is what I discovered on this journey into broadcast that you can apply to your life, your ventures, and your personal development. This doesn’t require any fancy gear. It does require a leap of faith on your part because once you go down the road of media; it can change your life.

1. Perceived Expertise

When you go to a doctor, you expect their knowledge will guide them to a solution to your problems. When you have a show, you become your listeners’ doctor. For all the multiple thousands, maybe millions, of YouTube channels, podcasts, and user-created content in the world, each person that gets behind a mic takes a position on their passion, their opinions, and their themes.

They challenge the status quo for the benefit of their listeners in hopes to entertain and educate. With consistency on your side, those fans place you on a platform and give you permission to influence them.

2. Global Acknowledgement

One of the benefits to increasing confidence is when you receive thank you notes from people you may never meet. The feeling of enriching someone’s life from halfway around the globe, provides validation you’re enhancing someone else’s life with your wisdom and your wit.

The very first time I was told I was making a difference in someone’s life in a country other than my own, I felt like I caused massive impact that transcends my circle of influence. When you experience just how much you can cause impact and it comes back to you, it’ll change your worldview.

“Be grateful for what you have and stop complaining – it bores everybody else, does you no good, and doesn’t solve any problems.” – Zig Ziglar

3. Backed By Numbers

One of the most exciting ways to measure success is to quantify your growth. It’s not enough to just broadcast. Having subscribers and downloads helps to know, numerically, how well you’re doing. Word of caution. This can be a way to set yourself up for distress because of number envy but if you understand what the numbers mean; you can control the narrative of the numbers.

The major number that makes most people smile is 10,000. I’d advise it to be 1. Here’s why. As you grow in your industry, so does your reach. If you learned that the one person that subscribed totally changed for the better because of you, wouldn’t that be worth the effort?

4. Effective Communication

While it’s not talked about much, having a show is documentation. You create a dynamic account of your life, your industry, and the pulse on what’s important simply by having a show. When you find a channel to improve your communication skills, you demand attention and people will listen to you. You become more trusted as a leader and people will follow you once they believe you can lead them to their wants and needs.

“To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.” – Tony Robbins

These insights have helped many people become leaders and, ultimately, move others to their best selves. It’s worked for me and I hope it works for you. At the end of the day, it’s all about showing up and showing out.

Have you ever thought about having a radio show? If so, what would you talk about? Let us below!

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