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7 Ways Underachievers Can Be Powerfully Successful

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Being tied to failure, inability, inefficiency, or underachievement can be crippling. While most underachievement’s are situational, it is very easy to take it personal and interpret these labels as a claim to your identity. Don’t do it!

Anyone who has underachieved or has been accused of underachieving has experienced a level of emotional defeat. Your success is not tied to your circumstantial performance. Your success is directly correlated to your ability to persevere, overcome, and spin previous underachievement into your future success.

I’ve learned from coaching hundreds of millennials that underachieving qualities can also be overachieving traits for success. Millennials continually are given, wrongfully or justly, the label of underachiever. As I tell all my millennials, plus everyone else I coach struggling with underachievement, “So what? Your previous underachievement does not dictate your future overachieving success. Use it!”

Powerfully successful people like Steve Jobs, Albert Einstein, Tony Robbins, and more have once been given the underachieving label in school, in a job, in business, in relationships, or in life. However, none of these individuals got stuck on their underachievement, but rather leveraged their underachievement toward their success. Just like these powerfully successful individuals, your struggles can be the reasons for your success.

Here are 7 ways labeled underachievers can be powerfully successful:

1. Forget Other’s Dreams

Your inability to get excited about other people’s dreams, especially your boss’ can be a big career killer. Spin it though. You are waiting for a dream worth joining or starting yourself. This underachievement trait tells me you have the desire to discover a dream worth living for. Go find it and join it or start it.

2. Keep Daydreaming

Daydreaming is an escape into our default network. Your “default network” can increase your creativity, attention, memory, and happiness if you use it correctly. However, avoid daydreaming at the wrong times.

When you need to focus, pay attention. Then when you have the freedom to exercise your mental state, use daydreaming to propel you into powerful success by daydreaming about real people and possible future successes in business, health, and relationships.

“Visualization is daydreaming with a purpose.” – Bo Bennett

3. Stoke the Rebellious Fire

If your rebellion centers around pushing the limitations in your life, rebel. While you might have been labeled as self-centered in your rebellious state, discover why you rebel. If you are rebelling for selfish purposes, then find a purpose outside of your personal gains.

Your rebellion needs to be focused against the limitations holding you back from serving other people or elevating your future success that helps people and this world. Use rebellion to your advantage.

4. Challenge Management

You may not like management, but do not be disrespectful of management. Many overachieving successful people get frustrated at management because it seems to hold back further growth.

Management is key to keeping order in the current situation and this is important, but it doesn’t mean you have to like it. You just need to respect it. Wildly successful people will challenge management and you can too in order to keep progressing forward, just stay respectful in the process.

5. Keep Talking

Of course you can’t stop talking. You have something to say and want to share it with the world. You just need to know what to tell the world. Forget talking about meaningless subjects and promote to talking about matters that will make a difference in the world.

Powerfully successful individuals that talk too much have learned to discipline their jawing mouth to meaningful topics for progress.

6. Always Be Skeptical of Intention

Use your questioning to push others into success. Do not be a devil’s advocate without a reason. Questioning intention can be very powerful to advance your journey into success. Many other successful people are looking for people to help find errors or weaknesses in plans, strategies, or projects.

You might find your success in collaboration with another powerfully successful individual by asking great thought-provoking questions. These type of questions push ideas, concepts, plans, and strategies into success often.

“Asking high quality questions produces a high quality life.” – Tony Robbins 

7. Ignore the Rules

This may be the most common underachieving trait that leads to your outrageously successful future. Your rebelling, questioning, and disobeying compliance to the rules can push you into the fringes where only a few people are daring to go.

Success tends to exist in the margins in life—where few dare to take the risk. Do not only ignore the rules, but the limitations, boundaries, excuses, and impossibilities. Use your ignorance towards rules as your greatest success ingredient to your future progression.

Bust through your underachievement into your powerfully successful life. Stop listening to others who believe you will never succeed and have labeled you an underachiever. Reverse your underachievement by recognizing the powerful success traits sitting behind your inefficiencies. Your success is hiding behind your faults.

How have you used underachievement to your advantage? Please leave your thoughts below!

As The Millennial Skills Coach and creator of 5-Tool Pro, Jared Buckley helps businesses improve employee production, motivation, and retention of millennials through skills coaching and training. As a former sports coach and business owner, he’s coached and employed millennials for the past 10+ years. He knows millennials and what it takes to produce game-changing millennials. His writing can also be found in places as Huffington Post, Lifehack, The Good Men Project, plus others. Or you can find his book Career OnRamp on Amazon.

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How Learning the Skill of Hope Can Change Everything

Hope isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a state of being and a skill that has profound evidence of helping people achieve success in life

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Hope isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a state of being and a skill that has profound evidence of helping people achieve success in life.

Wishful thinking, on the other hand, is like having dreams in the sky without a ladder to climb, having a destination without a map, or trying to operate a jet-engine airplane without instructions. It sounds nice but is impossible to realize. You don’t have what you need to make it happen!

What Real Hope Is

Real hope is actionable, practical, and realistic. Better yet, it’s feasible and can be learned.

One popular approach is Hope Theory. This concept is used by colleges to study how hope impacts students’ academic performance. Researchers found that students with high levels of hope achieve better grades and are more likely to graduate compared to those with less hope.

Hope can be broken down into two components:

  1. Pathways – The “how to” of hope. This is where people think of and establish plans for achieving their goals.
  2. Agency – The “I can” of hope. This is the belief that the person can accomplish their goals.

Does Hope Really Work?

According to Webster’s Dictionary, hope as a noun is defined as: “desire accompanied by expectation of or belief in fulfillment.”

As humans, we are wired to crave fulfillment. We have the ability to envision it and, through hope, make it a reality.

My Experience with Hope

For 13 years, I was a hopeless human. During my time working at a luxury hotel as a front desk agent earning $11.42 per hour, I felt the sting of hopelessness the most.

The regret of feeling my time was being stolen from me lingered every time I clocked in. Eventually, I decided to do something about it.

I gave myself permission to hope for something better. I began establishing pathways to success and regained agency by learning from self-help books and seeking mentorship.

Because I took action toward something I desired, I now feel more hope and joy than I ever felt hopelessness. Hope changed me.

Hope Actually Improves Your Life

Wishful thinking doesn’t work, and false hope is equally ineffective. Real hope, however, is directly tied to success in all areas of life.

Studies show that hopeful people tend to:

  • Demonstrate better problem-solving skills
  • Cultivate healthier relationships
  • Maintain stronger motivation to achieve goals
  • Exhibit better work ethic
  • Have a positive outlook on life

These benefits can impact work life, family life, habit-building, mental health, physical health, and spiritual practice. Imagine how much better your life could be by applying real hope to all these areas.

How to Develop the Skill to Hope

As acclaimed French writer Jean Giono wrote in The Man Who Planted Trees:
“There are also times in life when a person has to rush off in pursuit of hopefulness.”

If you are at one of those times, here are ways to develop the skill to hope:

1. Dream Again

To cultivate hope, you need to believe in its possibility. Start by:

  • Reflecting on what you’re passionate about, your values, and what you want to achieve.
  • Writing your dreams down, sharing them with someone encouraging, or saying them out loud.
  • Creating a vision board to make your dreams feel more tangible.

Dreams are the foundation of hope—they give you something meaningful to aspire toward.

2. Create an Environment of Hope

  • Set Goals: Write down your goals and create a plan to achieve them.
  • Visualize Success: Use inspirational quotes, photos, or tools like dumbbells or canvases to remind yourself of your goals.
  • Build a Resource Library: Collect books, eBooks, or audiobooks about hope and success to inspire you.

An environment that fosters hope will keep you motivated, resilient, and focused.

3. Face the Challenges

Don’t avoid challenges—overcoming them builds confidence. Participating in challenging activities, like strategic games, can enhance your problem-solving skills and reinforce hope.

4. Commit to Wisdom

Seek wisdom from those who have achieved what you aspire to. Whether through books, blogs, or social media platforms, learn from their journeys. Wisdom provides the foundation for real, actionable hope.

5. Take Note of Small Wins

Reflecting on past victories can fuel your hope for the future. Ask yourself:

  • What challenges have I already overcome?
  • How did I feel when I succeeded?

By remembering those feelings of happiness, relief, or satisfaction, your brain will naturally adopt a more hopeful mindset.

Conclusion

Hope is more than wishful thinking—it’s a powerful skill that can transform your life. By dreaming again, creating a hopeful environment, facing challenges, seeking wisdom, and celebrating small wins, you can develop the real hope necessary for success in all aspects of life.

Let hope guide you toward a brighter, more fulfilling future.

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The 5 Stages of a Quarter-Life Crisis & What You Can Do

A quarter-life crisis isn’t a sign you’ve lost your way; it’s a sign you’re fighting for a life that’s truly yours.

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The quarter-life crisis is a well-defined set of stages—Trapped, Checking Out, Separation, Exploration, Rebuilding—one goes through in breaking free from feelings of meaninglessness, lack of fulfillment, and misalignment with purpose. I detail the stages and interweave my story below. (more…)

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Here’s The Thing About Learning, Unlearning, and Relearning

Stop hoarding and start sharing your knowledge and wealth for the benefit of humankind

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Few people have the habit of hoarding their wealth without spending.  However, it limits their motivation as they tend to get into their comfort zones.  When people start spending money, then there will be depletion in their coffers. (more…)

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3 Steps That’ll Help You Take Back Control of Your Life Immediately

The key to finding “enough” is recognizing that the root of the problem is a question of self-esteem and deservedness

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