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To be able to do all the things that allow someone to be successful you must have high energy levels. With this thought in mind, I interviewed Tyler Tolman to find out his top tips. He is an expert in the field and has more than 80k of Facebook followers and sells out events all over the world!

Everything Tyler teaches is logical and anyone can pick it up pretty quickly. I get entrepreneurs that contact me all the time and say, “Tim how do I have more energy so I can take my business to the next level.” After interviewing Tyler, I can now safely answer that question with confidence.

Tyler has taught me two key concepts:

“ If you want to have more money then you need to have more energy – simple”

“ You first need to heal yourself before you can serve other people”

These two quotes have now changed the way I look at entrepreneurship and since interviewing Tyler, I have taken up the challenge to do a thirty-eight day fast! Why would I continue to not feel the best and not perform at my highest level doing what I love? Have you asked yourself the same question?

The fast Tyler has recommended to me after my recent health issues is a four-day colon cleanse, followed by a salt flush, then a three-day veggie juice fast, then a thirty-day fruit fast and then finishing with a one-day liver cleanse. Drop me a message if you want to know how it’s going.

Below are Tyler’s six tips to change your life and transform your energy.

 

1. Hydrate yourself with these steps

The first thing you need to do to transform your health is starting to hydrate yourself. We have been told this for ages but Tyler suggests you take it up a notch. So many people think they are hydrated but they are not.

They’re usually chronically dehydrated which leads to chronic fatigue symptoms and pain in the body. Have you had back pain, knee pain or any other type of pain in your body? Well, this pain is your body telling you that you’re dehydrated and need to drink more water.

If you properly hydrate yourself, you will get less pain, more mental clarity and an increase in energy – not bad.

The number one sign that you are thirsty is actually hunger. When you wake up and you’re hungry, it’s just your body wanting water. If this happens to you, then try drinking some water and the hunger pains should go away. If they don’t, then you really are hungry and you should eat.

 

2. Do a colon cleanse

One of the most suggested health tips that Tyler gives wherever he goes is to do a colon cleanse. The reasons he suggests this is that the colon is at the centre of your health. If you look back to the ancient Egyptians, on the new moon of every month, they do three days of digestive cleaning. They would consume very specific seeds, fibres and clays that would help extract different toxins and poisons.

Tyler has a colon cleanse that is available on his website that takes four days to do. It involves eating nothing but the colon cleanse mix and drinking lots of water. The first time you do a colon cleanse you are going to feel backed up and you may not have a bowel movement for 3-4 days because of all the plaque that is trying to exit your body.

For those that are really backed up, Tyler suggests doing your first colon cleanse, and then another one a month later, and then one more a month after that. If you do this, you will be shocked what comes out of your body and after three months you will know what it’s like to have normal bowel movements.

Every time you eat a meal, within 30-45 minutes you will have a good bowel movement – that’s the way it should be. Some men are only having one bowel movement a day and some women only have one or two a week – if that’s you, it’s time to get healthy.

 

3. Try one of the four types of fasting

Tyler spoke to me in depth in our interview about fasting and how it can transform your energy levels. There are a few different types of fasts and it depends on your goals as to which one you do. The water fast is the most extreme and the fruit or juice fast is easier to manage. Below is an explanation of each and some common questions that Tyler get’s asked about fasting.

Juice Fast

So option one is a juice fast and it’s a good way to reset your entire immune system as well as get rid of a lot of old cells in your body. Scientific studies have shown that if you do high-intensity training after a juice fast the level of human growth hormone in your body increases by 2000%.

The best way Tyler told me to do a juice fast is by doing a 4-day colon cleanse first and then try drinking nothing but freshly made juices for seven days (not supermarket juice).

Water Fast

Doing a water fast is the most intense type of fasting and is better to be done with supervision. The idea here is simple; drink nothing but water for 30 days. The first week will be difficult but then after that you should be fine. Water fasting is common with more severe health problems like cancer but can go a long way to healing lots of different illnesses.

Fruit Fast

A fruit fast is also pretty simple and it involves eating nothing but fruit for every meal combined with drinking plenty of water. The best fruits to eat are the ones that are in season and that you are craving.

In the first 3-4 days, you can expect to have a bit of diarrhoea and other things occur but then at the end of this period you probably won’t have any of that and will feel good. The key with the fruit fast is to eat the right amount of calories for your body weight.

Some of you may think that eating nothing but fruit for all meals for a specific period of time is a bit crazy, but Tyler told me that he has taken plenty of people on a forty day water fast. During these water fasts, the attendees felt even stronger than before so Tyler can’t see why someone would be deficient only eating fruit for a few weeks.

The reality is that one in two people will get cancer in their lifetime, diabetes is the fastest growing chronic disease and heart disease is the leading cause of death. If you go to the American Cancer society’s website, their recommendation is to eat fruit with every meal and for snacks throughout the day.

Organisations like this don’t make this stuff up and it’s based on sixty years of research and hundreds of millions of dollars of research every year. It’s no secret Tyler says, that fruit is one of the main factors in preventing cancer and even reversing it.

One of the challenges of eating fruit is that a lot of us will feel full from even a small amount. The reason for this is that fruit has fewer calories, most of us are dehydrated, and because fruit is 70% water, it instantly hydrates us and takes away our hunger pains.

Then, ten minutes later, we feel full again (the key is to train ourselves to overeat fruit ). It’s for this reason that society doesn’t think they can live on fruit, but if we are properly hydrated, then the fruit will keep us full for longer.

Intermittent fasting

The other method that Tyler spoke about was intermittent fasting that according to the ancient people suggests that from 4 am until noon our body is in the process of wanting to detoxify itself. When you wake up and have bacon and eggs in the morning, all the energy that is supposed to be used for detoxification, is being used for digestion, so people are never letting their body detox.

To implement this type of fasting it involves going until noon with no food and just water. Then from noon onwards you could start eating with some fresh fruit. After lunch at noon you can then have another meal later in the day of something healthy like steamed vegetables.

The first week 3-5 days of this routine will be uncomfortable so you should have some time to yourself and go to the gym, have a massage, get out into the sun, go for walks, etc. These activities will take your mind off the fact your detoxing and make sure you get plenty of rest at the same time.

By week two you will feel like a champion and want to do a marathon. This is because your body is no longer deficient in healthy food and hydration, so you will no longer require adrenaline and stimulants like coffee to function properly.

What are the benefits of fasting?

People have an accumulation of plaque in their digestive systems from eating processed foods, excess foreign proteins that have accumulated in different parts of the body, and excess fat that prevents the circuitry system from doing its job.

By doing a fast, your body starts to get rid of the excess protein and this can be seen by people having moles and skin tags that disappear while doing a fast. Fasting gives the body time to emulsify the excess fat and clear it from the body so things can become a lot cleaner and leaner.

Am I going to get too skinny by doing this?

A lot of the weight people lose when fasting is actually just waste from the colon, which you want to get rid of. You may also lose a kilo or two of fat on your first fast. Tyler has had people come to his programmes who are underweight and after doing a 21 day fast, they return to normal life and begin putting on weight and doing physique competitions.

While doing a fast, if you just lie around and do nothing then you will lose weight, but if you exercise while fasting, you won’t lose as much weight. If this is the first time you are fasting you will experience more weight loss and you will probably lose a couple of kilo’s of actual fat.

Once you complete a fast your human growth hormones will be reset and so your body is then ready to build. If you start to eat higher nutritional foods and do some exercise, you will find that you put on weight much quicker than before.

How often should I fast?

Ideally, it’s good to do a fast at the change of every season for 3-7 days. When attempting your very first fast, it’s good to aim for 7-10 days. If all of this seems too much, then just one ten day fast per year will help you to achieve a whole new level of health.

 

4. Eat more fruit (there are lots of myths around this one)

The number one source of nutrition for our muscles, our organs and brain is carbohydrates. When babies are born into the world, the major component of breast milk is carbohydrates. Without a doubt, fruit is the most detoxifying food on the planet and you should consume lots of it.

If you need to pre-prepare your fruit so you can increase your intake, then make sure you don’t cut it up more than 24 hours in advance and try to eat it as soon as possible. When transporting your fruit always use BPA free Tupperware.

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5. Remove the bags under your eyes by cleaning your kidneys

If you have darkness, or bags, or deep cut lines in the skin around the eyes, it’s directly related to the kidneys. Tyler believes the main thing causing kidney problems is excess protein that causes an acidic reaction within the body. The other causes are things like hydration issues, too much stress, a bad diet, or the body constantly running on adrenaline – but it’s usually excess protein.

So if you have dark bags under your eyes, then Tyler recommends you do a colon cleanse and then some type of fast to give the kidneys time to regenerate themselves. Anywhere from 5-10 days on a water fast, done about every 3-4 months would be optimal to fix the kidneys as well as reducing the amount of protein in the diet from animal based foods.

It’s also advised to eliminate processed drinks and replace them with water and teas. Doing a water fast when you have deep bags under your eyes will cause your kidneys to hurt within three days and they will be in pain. This pain will be perceived as lower back pain and that’s your kidneys softening up and starting to detox and heal themselves.

Some foods that you can consume to help rebuild the kidneys include dandelion roots, uva ursi, cranberries and kidney beans.

 

6. Clean the liver out

Many of us develop stones in our liver and are not breaking down fats that we are consuming or are eating too much fat. The direct effect of this can be seen when you look into the whites of your eyes and see yellow or globular types of growths – if you have none, then your liver is probably healthy.

The easiest way Tyler says to fix liver issues is to do a seven-day juice fast and then on the day after, do a liver cleanse. Doing a liver cleanse involves fasting from the morning until the afternoon, doing a salt flush (1 tablespoon of Himalayan salt in 1 litre of water) and then following these three steps:

– Makeup 500ml–1 litre of freshly juiced grapefruit

– Then add ½ a cup to a full cup of extra virgin olive oil to the juice

– Finally, put all of this into a blender to emulsify the liquid and then drink it

The next morning when you have a bowel movement you will see anywhere from 50-100 of these green looking peas. If you find there are lots of stones coming out then, you should repeat the liver cleanse process every weekend for 2-3 weeks. At the end of this you will feel amazing and have a clean liver.

 

***Bonus Advice From Tyler***

Tea

Tea is fantastic as long as you don’t just drink it without any water. The reason for this is that tea can have a laxative effect causing it to be more dehydrating if you’re just drinking tea and not water. You should drink 1 litre of water per 22kg of body weight.

Routine and Travelling

Each day Tyler gets up between 5:30am-6am and drinks one litre of water with half a teaspoon of HimalayanTyler Tolman Meditating On The Beach - Tim Denning Interview salt which helps his body hydrate, adds electrolytes, and stimulates the digestive system to move a bit.

Then, Tyler goes for a long walk or a gym training session for 1-2 hours. He then comes home and does a skin cleaning process called Guasha and continues to drink water until noon when he has his first meal for the day.

When flying, Tyler likes to use essential oils on the plane until he lands where he will rehydrate himself by buying a fresh juice at the airport. He then goes straight from the airport to a local market or grocery store and buys fresh food like avocado, fresh fruit, tomatoes and lettuce. These ingredients are often used to make wraps with a bread called “essene”.

He will often add other ingredients to the wraps like peanut butter, honey, banana, salt and sprouts. Any leftover food is then put in his suitcase and he travels around with it until he needs to buy more. Which means he doesn’t need to buy food at every place he visits.

Organic juices

Do your best to make your home a safe haven and make things organic but when you travel loosen up a little bit. Don’t be too strict and religious about everything and be happy. When you go to places like Boost Juice they do wash the produce, and just in this process alone, you eliminate a lot of the nasties.

Even if you get a few nasties in the non-organic produce here and there, by the fact that you are getting so much fibre and so many nutrients, your body is going to deal with it so much quicker anyway.

Sleep

Tyler says most people should have 6-8 hours sleep every night unless you are living a peak lifestyle of health and then you may only need a minimum of four hours sleep. On weekends, it’s actually good to sleep for longer periods up to twelve hours.

Tyler’s Favourite Quote – “Be the change that you want to see in the world” – Gandhi

So if Tyler has inspired you to change your eating habits and transform your energy, then start today by doing Tyler’s Free 7 Day Juice Fast.

Tim is best known as a long-time contributor on Addicted2Success. Tim's content has been shared hundreds of thousands of times and he has written multiple viral posts all around success, personal development, motivation, and entrepreneurship. During the day Tim works with the most iconic tech companies in the world, as an adviser, to assist them in expanding into Australia. By night, Tim coaches his students on the principles of personal development and the fundamentals of entrepreneurship. You can connect with Tim through his website www.timdenning.net or through his Facebook.

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4 Scientifically Proven Habits That Will Give You the Edge You Need

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For me, outstanding success and prosperity that remains stable in a fast-evolving world is the only kind of success I care about. Not enough success gurus and motivational coaches are good at sharing principles and practices that can actually help anyone anywhere achieve long-term success.

Due to the fact that most people are only interested in “quick fixes,” the marketplace, especially in personal and professional growth, has focused on selling the idea of magic bullets and instant productivity spells aimed at luring you into whatever product they want you to buy.

However, there are those who seem to be focused on the long game, the grand vision. I spent a significant amount of time and money several years ago learning from one of the world’s leading high-performance coach, Brendon Burchard.

At a time when the highway to online success seemed grim and too advanced for me to tackle on my own, Brendon Burchard’s weekly mentoring, encouragement and training on how to speak my voice regardless of my past played a major role in the birth of my business. 

In fact, to a great extent, his ideas still continue to positively impact my life which is why the scientifically based research he revealed on habits helping shape world-class individuals resonates with me tremendously. 

If you haven’t taken the time to figure out the kind of habits you need in order to achieve significant success in any area of life – now is the best time to do so. 

As this year ripens into full maturity you need to make sure you end it bigger and better than it started. More importantly, you need to make sure the coming year is already primed for even greater growth and success.

How do you do this without driving yourself insane? How do you become extraordinary at whatever it is you desire to accomplish? What are the specific habits you can deploy today to become a high performer?

After three years of extensive data and research from dozens of countries, here are a few of the success producing habits now being backed by science:

1. Seek more clarity

This is a habit few ever consciously develop. No wonder overwhelm and confusion are considered normal. Start asking yourself high-quality questions on a daily basis enabling you to discern truth in your life. Approach your daily activities with greater intention and razor-sharp focus.

There are few things more powerful than a life lived with passionate clarity.” – Erwin McManus

2. Learn to generate energy

If you want to enjoy sustainable success and ever increasing prosperity, you can’t afford to be bogged down by fatigue, loss of enthusiasm and lethargy. When was the last time you went seven straight days feeling energized, enthusiastic and ready to crush it in your personal and professional life?

Mental, emotional, and physical energy is something you must deliberately and consciously learn to create and imbue into the world if you don’t want to burn out. This is how you’ll learn to cultivate and generate more positive emotions and interactions with other people as well as your daily activities.

3. Raise your standards and expectations

Setting the right expectations for your life and business is a must. Most people have big dreams but very low standards and even lower expectations for themselves. There’s a mindset shift that’s required here because your results will never outperform the standards you’ve set for yourself.

To be a high performing individual in your chosen field, you will have to make excellence your new norm. Brendon Burchard frames it differently, he teaches it as increasing your performance necessity levels. Why is this important?

Unless your brain and entire being perceive it as your normal standard, unleashing the leader within you and becoming your best self will feel more like forced labor which will not be sustainable.

Raise your standards to exceed your expectations.” – Cecily Morgan

4. Increase your productivity

Productivity is a hot topic with almost every motivational speaker. But do you really know what you need to do to increase your productivity? Or are you just running through the motions of listening to outside opinions trying to imitate what works for others, in the hopes that it’ll work for you too?

Every ambitious success seeker understands the importance of being productive. Few are actually able to do it effectively, consistently and toward meaningful work. As you learn to integrate the first three habits into your life, it will feel more natural and effortless to increase output and do work that matters.

If you want to crush it day in day out, week after week in your primary field of interest then it is time to learn effective strategies and tactics that align with your goals, your values and simultaneously make you more productive. Thanks to technology, this is not only possible, it’s doable.

While this isn’t the comprehensive list of habits that can make you “get the edge” in life and finally out-perform others in your space, you now have a solid starting ground for simple things you can start doing today to become a high performer.

Now I would love to hear from you, did any of these habits resonate with you? Do you have any suggestion of your own that has proven effective? Comment below!

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3 Steps to Increasing Your Confidence for Good

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As an ambitious person on the road to success, you know first hand how challenging it is to achieve your lofty goals. Let’s be honest, the road to success is littered with potholes and unexpected curves.

You need a consistent feeling of confidence if you want to make it to the finish line and rise victoriously. That’s why in this article, you’re going to learn the most simple and effective 3-step sequence to help you increase your confidence for good.

1. Learn One Thing

As an informed reader here, we’re skipping past the part where we harp on the importance of taking action for building confidence. You already took action by reading this article with the desire to get better. Perhaps, you made the sales call, pressed publish on your new post, did the interview, or pitched your idea.

But now it’s time to immediately learn one thing from the action you just took. The second after you take action, ask yourself, “What’s the one thing I can learn from this, to ensure I get a better result next time?”

If you’ve read Gary Keller’s powerful book, The One Thing, you know success isn’t about trying to do a million things. It’s about doing one thing — exceptionally. Similarly, instead of trying to derive 86 lessons from that sales call you just finished, start learning simply the number one best thing you can.

Here in step one, you do so by asking yourself the aforementioned question. It works like magic. When you ask yourself a question, your brain outputs an answer. This only happens if you start this sequence immediately after you take action — regardless of the result.

Extraordinary results happen only when you give the best you have to become the best you can be at your most important work.” – Gary Keller

2. Validate Yourself

In step two, take the time to validate yourself with positive self talk. Tell yourself, “Nice job. That took courage. Let’s keep going, baby. I’m going to do this. I’ve got this.” The key here is to speak to yourself positively and authentically. Speak to yourself the way a great mentor, coach, or friend would. Remember too, in this step, you are not pumping yourself up with empty affirmations or false hope.

You are validating yourself because you took action and you learned from that action. This deserves credit. By practicing the act of self validation here in step two, you train yourself to remain confident regardless of whether or not you achieved or came up short.

Validate yourself whether you land the client or fail to do so. Most don’t do this, it’s why they lack confidence. But you? You act, learn, then validate yourself, regardless of the external result. This trains you to feel good about yourself no matter what people say about you.

While most people crumble when they don’t get the results they desired, you feel confident even when you lose this battle. You know that the campaign is long, and, if you keep learning, you’ll get accomplish the goals you desire in the end.

3. Repeat the Action

Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, don’t sit home and think about it.” Carnegie said it best and it’s why step three is a simple call to action — to repeat the action you just took. By repeating the action as soon as possible, you don’t give yourself time to ruminate or overthink.

In step one, you learned one important, personalized nugget of wisdom that’ll help you perform better from now on. Then in step two, you validated yourself with positive self talk — reminding yourself that by continuing to take persistent action, success is inevitable.

Now? There’s nothing left to say. Without delay, it’s time to get back on the horse and take another crack at it! Your confidence continues to grow as you take more actions, learn more from those actions, and remind yourself that you’re a champ for taking all these actions!

“Don’t let small thinking cut your life down to size. Think big, aim high, act bold. And see just how big you can blow up your life.” – Gary Keller

Why This 3-Step Sequence Increases Your Confidence for Good

By repeating this sequence, you gain important knowledge, continuously remind yourself of your positive traits, and most importantly — you desensitize yourself to any fears you once had.

You’re going to fall in love with this process of taking action. Whether that action for you is making sales calls, pitching your startup to investors, interviewing for competitive positions, or publishing new content online, the more you act using these 3-steps, the more confident you’ll become.

A key side benefit of using this sequence is you quickly enter a massive, perpetual state of action. This all but guarantees you increased real world results. These improved results become the cherry on top to your core confidence.

When you lack confidence, how do you find the confidence you need again? Let us know by commenting below!

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3 Ingredients to Create the Life of Your Dreams

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Let’s bake a cake! This recipe calls for three simple ingredients: one cup of Courage, two tablespoons of Initiative, and three teaspoons of Will. You can put the money, education, and physical attractiveness back in the refrigerator. They can help improve the taste or quality, but they are not required to bake this cake. The cake is a metaphor for the life of your dreams. If you want to create massive achievement in your life, you will need to obtain courage, initiative, and will.

The main ingredients of courage, initiative, and will are fundamental to long term-achievement. You need the courage to start. The initiative is necessary to think outside the box. Will is required to continue when it gets tough.

Whether we are talking about achieving long-term happiness via a personal relationship or individual experiences, the ingredients mentioned above can significantly increase your chances of obtaining the life of your dreams. You aren’t born with courage, initiative, or will. In fact, you are born with fear, reluctance, and other mechanisms designed to keep you safe. However, with an intentional mindset guided by positive optimism, these characteristics can be grown and cultivated in a garden of possibilities for your life!  

How can you acquire courage, initiative, and will? Check out my 3 tips below:

1. Travel or better yet move out of the country

Yes, I will give you a moment to reread the line above. My first recommendation is for you to travel or ideally move out of the country! Travel and undeniably relocating outside of the country you were born in, requires courage. You must be brave to face the unknown, and there is no better way to do this other than to get out of your comfortable home environment and see the world. The experiences with traveling or moving will automatically build the courage within you to reach toward the achievements that you desire in life.  

“Dare to live the life you’ve always wanted.”

2. Learn a new language

Ideally, with the recommendation from number one, you will choose a location where a language other than your native tongue is spoken. With language acquisition, the learner must develop a spirit of initiative to do something that is not required. You can live your entire life and only communicate in one language, or you can expand your horizon and do something different. To become fluent in a new language will not be easy; the life of your dreams is worth the fight. The process of learning a language will attract the necessary skill set that accompanies initiative and ties in within my final recommendation.

3. Fail as often as possible

In traveling and undeniably with learning a new language, you will make mistakes. If you are not failing in the process of adjusting to a different culture, which will occur in traveling and language acquisition, you are doing something wrong! You must fail to adapt and ideally this will happen as frequent as possible. This does not mean that you look to fail. It does mean that you understand failure as an opportunity to learn. Failure builds your ability to develop the power of will. Possessing will can enable you to learn from your mistakes, improve, and keep pushing toward the achievements that can create the life of your dreams.  

“One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it’s worth watching.” – Gerard Way

If you put courage, initiative, and will into the oven responsible for making your dreams become a reality, you will be successful. It will not be easy. Occasionally you will become frustrated and want to open the door and see what’s taking so long for the cake or the life you desire. However, just stay the course and allow courage, initiative, and will to blend and bring into fruition the life of your dreams.

What other ingredients would you add?  Comment below!

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5 Skills You and Your Partner Need to Master to Become an Unstoppable Power Couple

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Power Couples: Those two words have to be the sexiest two words in the business world when placed together. What’s even sexier is when OTHERS label you and your significant other as a power couple.

I pride myself on being able to call my girlfriend and I a power couple. We are always on the same wavelength when it comes to goals, ambitions, and our vision. While we weren’t always such a strong couple, what it took to get to that point was a long journey of daily commitment and consistency.

In this article, I am going to share with you what has worked for our relationship over the past 6 years. While most of us feel we can run our business on our own, there are many that wish their significant other were just as involved and passionate about entrepreneurship as we are.

Stay focused on these five power couple truths and watch your relationship and businesses thrive:

1. Shared Vision & Goals

A couple should share a similar vision. Two people with a shared vision is so powerful because both people can always hold each other accountable for their goals in order to achieve that shared vision. If one person cannot buy into the other person’s vision, there won’t be the full support of the actions steps and the process it takes to achieve those goals. I personally love the fact that my girlfriend and I share a similar vision.

“The more people you help become successful the more successful you become.” – Steve Harvey

2. Effective Communication

Business or not, people need to be able to communicate effectively, which was extremely difficult to me when I first got into business. I mean, come on; up until I was 28 years old, I never even knew what “networking” was. However, over time within the business community I learned that communication in relationships is just as paramount as in business. Through solid and effective communication we have been able to understand each other’s struggles more, which has led us to daily masterminding sessions and a growth in our shared vision, mindset, and businesses.

3. Personal Development

Personal development is crucial in business and as a power couple. Being able to grow together professionally and intellectually is such an awarding feeling in my relationship. If you are both learning and growing together, imagine how strong your two minds are together. It’s a proven fact amongst entrepreneurs that focusing on personal growth builds confidence and a strong mindset. Multiply that strong mindset by two and you have one hell of a  power couple, ready to take over the world.

4. Quality Time

If you’re in an entrepreneurial relationship, chances are you have had challenges at times when it comes to quality time with your significant other. Hey, I understand. We all have a “Love for the Hustle,” and so does my significant other. She comes from an entrepreneur household and can hustle with the best of us. So the key to making sure we have our quality time is all based on time management. Remember folks, priorities first.

Although you may be supportive and you are okay with less quality time or cancelled dates, always stick to your values to each other and what’s most important to you both and your shared vision and goals. A power couple is only a power couple because of how strong and committed the two are to their relationship just as much as their business.

They know when to turn off the phone and make time for each other genuinely. Remember, with that also includes effective communication to get schedules aligned.

“The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships.” – Tony Robbins

5. Endless Support & Encouragement

A true power couple cannot stress how much support and understanding there has to be in their relationship. When you’re on the grind and you hit those roadblocks, not too many people are in your corner. As for me though, when I hit those rough chapters in business, other than my mastermind group, I know there is always one person I can count on to always have my back and bring me back into high spirits and push me further than the day before.

Bottom line, a power couple is a couple that are truly confident in their relationship and in business. Two people in a relationship with a shared goal, vision, and mindset are more powerful than business partners. You both know more about each other than you would even care to know about your business partner and accept each other through all the flaws and mistakes.

There is an unspoken commitment that goes beyond business or friendships. In my experience, being with someone who has just as much hustle as me has been a blessing. There aren’t questions about what time I will be home or who I am meeting. We know we are committed to one another and also hustling for a shared vision or our future.

What are some relationship goals every power couple should have?  Comment below!

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Admit it, you admire the mansion, you covet the sports car, you dream of that private jet or owning that marvelous yacht. To make matters worse you see your boss owning all of these and living the “good” life.  Deep down you envy your wealthy boss because you wish you could have his possessions. (more…)

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For me, outstanding success and prosperity that remains stable in a fast-evolving world is the only kind of success I care about. Not enough success gurus and motivational coaches are good at sharing principles and practices that can actually help anyone anywhere achieve long-term success.

Due to the fact that most people are only interested in “quick fixes,” the marketplace, especially in personal and professional growth, has focused on selling the idea of magic bullets and instant productivity spells aimed at luring you into whatever product they want you to buy.

However, there are those who seem to be focused on the long game, the grand vision. I spent a significant amount of time and money several years ago learning from one of the world’s leading high-performance coach, Brendon Burchard.

At a time when the highway to online success seemed grim and too advanced for me to tackle on my own, Brendon Burchard’s weekly mentoring, encouragement and training on how to speak my voice regardless of my past played a major role in the birth of my business. 

In fact, to a great extent, his ideas still continue to positively impact my life which is why the scientifically based research he revealed on habits helping shape world-class individuals resonates with me tremendously. 

If you haven’t taken the time to figure out the kind of habits you need in order to achieve significant success in any area of life – now is the best time to do so. 

As this year ripens into full maturity you need to make sure you end it bigger and better than it started. More importantly, you need to make sure the coming year is already primed for even greater growth and success.

How do you do this without driving yourself insane? How do you become extraordinary at whatever it is you desire to accomplish? What are the specific habits you can deploy today to become a high performer?

After three years of extensive data and research from dozens of countries, here are a few of the success producing habits now being backed by science:

1. Seek more clarity

This is a habit few ever consciously develop. No wonder overwhelm and confusion are considered normal. Start asking yourself high-quality questions on a daily basis enabling you to discern truth in your life. Approach your daily activities with greater intention and razor-sharp focus.

There are few things more powerful than a life lived with passionate clarity.” – Erwin McManus

2. Learn to generate energy

If you want to enjoy sustainable success and ever increasing prosperity, you can’t afford to be bogged down by fatigue, loss of enthusiasm and lethargy. When was the last time you went seven straight days feeling energized, enthusiastic and ready to crush it in your personal and professional life?

Mental, emotional, and physical energy is something you must deliberately and consciously learn to create and imbue into the world if you don’t want to burn out. This is how you’ll learn to cultivate and generate more positive emotions and interactions with other people as well as your daily activities.

3. Raise your standards and expectations

Setting the right expectations for your life and business is a must. Most people have big dreams but very low standards and even lower expectations for themselves. There’s a mindset shift that’s required here because your results will never outperform the standards you’ve set for yourself.

To be a high performing individual in your chosen field, you will have to make excellence your new norm. Brendon Burchard frames it differently, he teaches it as increasing your performance necessity levels. Why is this important?

Unless your brain and entire being perceive it as your normal standard, unleashing the leader within you and becoming your best self will feel more like forced labor which will not be sustainable.

Raise your standards to exceed your expectations.” – Cecily Morgan

4. Increase your productivity

Productivity is a hot topic with almost every motivational speaker. But do you really know what you need to do to increase your productivity? Or are you just running through the motions of listening to outside opinions trying to imitate what works for others, in the hopes that it’ll work for you too?

Every ambitious success seeker understands the importance of being productive. Few are actually able to do it effectively, consistently and toward meaningful work. As you learn to integrate the first three habits into your life, it will feel more natural and effortless to increase output and do work that matters.

If you want to crush it day in day out, week after week in your primary field of interest then it is time to learn effective strategies and tactics that align with your goals, your values and simultaneously make you more productive. Thanks to technology, this is not only possible, it’s doable.

While this isn’t the comprehensive list of habits that can make you “get the edge” in life and finally out-perform others in your space, you now have a solid starting ground for simple things you can start doing today to become a high performer.

Now I would love to hear from you, did any of these habits resonate with you? Do you have any suggestion of your own that has proven effective? Comment below!

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3 Steps to Increasing Your Confidence for Good

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As an ambitious person on the road to success, you know first hand how challenging it is to achieve your lofty goals. Let’s be honest, the road to success is littered with potholes and unexpected curves.

You need a consistent feeling of confidence if you want to make it to the finish line and rise victoriously. That’s why in this article, you’re going to learn the most simple and effective 3-step sequence to help you increase your confidence for good.

1. Learn One Thing

As an informed reader here, we’re skipping past the part where we harp on the importance of taking action for building confidence. You already took action by reading this article with the desire to get better. Perhaps, you made the sales call, pressed publish on your new post, did the interview, or pitched your idea.

But now it’s time to immediately learn one thing from the action you just took. The second after you take action, ask yourself, “What’s the one thing I can learn from this, to ensure I get a better result next time?”

If you’ve read Gary Keller’s powerful book, The One Thing, you know success isn’t about trying to do a million things. It’s about doing one thing — exceptionally. Similarly, instead of trying to derive 86 lessons from that sales call you just finished, start learning simply the number one best thing you can.

Here in step one, you do so by asking yourself the aforementioned question. It works like magic. When you ask yourself a question, your brain outputs an answer. This only happens if you start this sequence immediately after you take action — regardless of the result.

Extraordinary results happen only when you give the best you have to become the best you can be at your most important work.” – Gary Keller

2. Validate Yourself

In step two, take the time to validate yourself with positive self talk. Tell yourself, “Nice job. That took courage. Let’s keep going, baby. I’m going to do this. I’ve got this.” The key here is to speak to yourself positively and authentically. Speak to yourself the way a great mentor, coach, or friend would. Remember too, in this step, you are not pumping yourself up with empty affirmations or false hope.

You are validating yourself because you took action and you learned from that action. This deserves credit. By practicing the act of self validation here in step two, you train yourself to remain confident regardless of whether or not you achieved or came up short.

Validate yourself whether you land the client or fail to do so. Most don’t do this, it’s why they lack confidence. But you? You act, learn, then validate yourself, regardless of the external result. This trains you to feel good about yourself no matter what people say about you.

While most people crumble when they don’t get the results they desired, you feel confident even when you lose this battle. You know that the campaign is long, and, if you keep learning, you’ll get accomplish the goals you desire in the end.

3. Repeat the Action

Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, don’t sit home and think about it.” Carnegie said it best and it’s why step three is a simple call to action — to repeat the action you just took. By repeating the action as soon as possible, you don’t give yourself time to ruminate or overthink.

In step one, you learned one important, personalized nugget of wisdom that’ll help you perform better from now on. Then in step two, you validated yourself with positive self talk — reminding yourself that by continuing to take persistent action, success is inevitable.

Now? There’s nothing left to say. Without delay, it’s time to get back on the horse and take another crack at it! Your confidence continues to grow as you take more actions, learn more from those actions, and remind yourself that you’re a champ for taking all these actions!

“Don’t let small thinking cut your life down to size. Think big, aim high, act bold. And see just how big you can blow up your life.” – Gary Keller

Why This 3-Step Sequence Increases Your Confidence for Good

By repeating this sequence, you gain important knowledge, continuously remind yourself of your positive traits, and most importantly — you desensitize yourself to any fears you once had.

You’re going to fall in love with this process of taking action. Whether that action for you is making sales calls, pitching your startup to investors, interviewing for competitive positions, or publishing new content online, the more you act using these 3-steps, the more confident you’ll become.

A key side benefit of using this sequence is you quickly enter a massive, perpetual state of action. This all but guarantees you increased real world results. These improved results become the cherry on top to your core confidence.

When you lack confidence, how do you find the confidence you need again? Let us know by commenting below!

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3 Ingredients to Create the Life of Your Dreams

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Let’s bake a cake! This recipe calls for three simple ingredients: one cup of Courage, two tablespoons of Initiative, and three teaspoons of Will. You can put the money, education, and physical attractiveness back in the refrigerator. They can help improve the taste or quality, but they are not required to bake this cake. The cake is a metaphor for the life of your dreams. If you want to create massive achievement in your life, you will need to obtain courage, initiative, and will.

The main ingredients of courage, initiative, and will are fundamental to long term-achievement. You need the courage to start. The initiative is necessary to think outside the box. Will is required to continue when it gets tough.

Whether we are talking about achieving long-term happiness via a personal relationship or individual experiences, the ingredients mentioned above can significantly increase your chances of obtaining the life of your dreams. You aren’t born with courage, initiative, or will. In fact, you are born with fear, reluctance, and other mechanisms designed to keep you safe. However, with an intentional mindset guided by positive optimism, these characteristics can be grown and cultivated in a garden of possibilities for your life!  

How can you acquire courage, initiative, and will? Check out my 3 tips below:

1. Travel or better yet move out of the country

Yes, I will give you a moment to reread the line above. My first recommendation is for you to travel or ideally move out of the country! Travel and undeniably relocating outside of the country you were born in, requires courage. You must be brave to face the unknown, and there is no better way to do this other than to get out of your comfortable home environment and see the world. The experiences with traveling or moving will automatically build the courage within you to reach toward the achievements that you desire in life.  

“Dare to live the life you’ve always wanted.”

2. Learn a new language

Ideally, with the recommendation from number one, you will choose a location where a language other than your native tongue is spoken. With language acquisition, the learner must develop a spirit of initiative to do something that is not required. You can live your entire life and only communicate in one language, or you can expand your horizon and do something different. To become fluent in a new language will not be easy; the life of your dreams is worth the fight. The process of learning a language will attract the necessary skill set that accompanies initiative and ties in within my final recommendation.

3. Fail as often as possible

In traveling and undeniably with learning a new language, you will make mistakes. If you are not failing in the process of adjusting to a different culture, which will occur in traveling and language acquisition, you are doing something wrong! You must fail to adapt and ideally this will happen as frequent as possible. This does not mean that you look to fail. It does mean that you understand failure as an opportunity to learn. Failure builds your ability to develop the power of will. Possessing will can enable you to learn from your mistakes, improve, and keep pushing toward the achievements that can create the life of your dreams.  

“One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it’s worth watching.” – Gerard Way

If you put courage, initiative, and will into the oven responsible for making your dreams become a reality, you will be successful. It will not be easy. Occasionally you will become frustrated and want to open the door and see what’s taking so long for the cake or the life you desire. However, just stay the course and allow courage, initiative, and will to blend and bring into fruition the life of your dreams.

What other ingredients would you add?  Comment below!

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5 Skills You and Your Partner Need to Master to Become an Unstoppable Power Couple

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Power Couples: Those two words have to be the sexiest two words in the business world when placed together. What’s even sexier is when OTHERS label you and your significant other as a power couple.

I pride myself on being able to call my girlfriend and I a power couple. We are always on the same wavelength when it comes to goals, ambitions, and our vision. While we weren’t always such a strong couple, what it took to get to that point was a long journey of daily commitment and consistency.

In this article, I am going to share with you what has worked for our relationship over the past 6 years. While most of us feel we can run our business on our own, there are many that wish their significant other were just as involved and passionate about entrepreneurship as we are.

Stay focused on these five power couple truths and watch your relationship and businesses thrive:

1. Shared Vision & Goals

A couple should share a similar vision. Two people with a shared vision is so powerful because both people can always hold each other accountable for their goals in order to achieve that shared vision. If one person cannot buy into the other person’s vision, there won’t be the full support of the actions steps and the process it takes to achieve those goals. I personally love the fact that my girlfriend and I share a similar vision.

“The more people you help become successful the more successful you become.” – Steve Harvey

2. Effective Communication

Business or not, people need to be able to communicate effectively, which was extremely difficult to me when I first got into business. I mean, come on; up until I was 28 years old, I never even knew what “networking” was. However, over time within the business community I learned that communication in relationships is just as paramount as in business. Through solid and effective communication we have been able to understand each other’s struggles more, which has led us to daily masterminding sessions and a growth in our shared vision, mindset, and businesses.

3. Personal Development

Personal development is crucial in business and as a power couple. Being able to grow together professionally and intellectually is such an awarding feeling in my relationship. If you are both learning and growing together, imagine how strong your two minds are together. It’s a proven fact amongst entrepreneurs that focusing on personal growth builds confidence and a strong mindset. Multiply that strong mindset by two and you have one hell of a  power couple, ready to take over the world.

4. Quality Time

If you’re in an entrepreneurial relationship, chances are you have had challenges at times when it comes to quality time with your significant other. Hey, I understand. We all have a “Love for the Hustle,” and so does my significant other. She comes from an entrepreneur household and can hustle with the best of us. So the key to making sure we have our quality time is all based on time management. Remember folks, priorities first.

Although you may be supportive and you are okay with less quality time or cancelled dates, always stick to your values to each other and what’s most important to you both and your shared vision and goals. A power couple is only a power couple because of how strong and committed the two are to their relationship just as much as their business.

They know when to turn off the phone and make time for each other genuinely. Remember, with that also includes effective communication to get schedules aligned.

“The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships.” – Tony Robbins

5. Endless Support & Encouragement

A true power couple cannot stress how much support and understanding there has to be in their relationship. When you’re on the grind and you hit those roadblocks, not too many people are in your corner. As for me though, when I hit those rough chapters in business, other than my mastermind group, I know there is always one person I can count on to always have my back and bring me back into high spirits and push me further than the day before.

Bottom line, a power couple is a couple that are truly confident in their relationship and in business. Two people in a relationship with a shared goal, vision, and mindset are more powerful than business partners. You both know more about each other than you would even care to know about your business partner and accept each other through all the flaws and mistakes.

There is an unspoken commitment that goes beyond business or friendships. In my experience, being with someone who has just as much hustle as me has been a blessing. There aren’t questions about what time I will be home or who I am meeting. We know we are committed to one another and also hustling for a shared vision or our future.

What are some relationship goals every power couple should have?  Comment below!

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