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12 Interesting Facts About The Power of Your Dreams

Joel Brown (Founder of Addicted2Success.com)

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Dreams And What They Mean

Dreams are fascinating and curious and everyone has them; if you can remember each and every one of them though is another question. It is interesting to look at what happens when you dream, why some people seem to remember their dreams more than others, and if dreams really have any true significance.

Below are 12 facts about the power of your dreams, ranging from the complex to the absurd; so if you are fascinated by dreams, read on:

Why & How You Dream

 

What Happens When You Dream?

dreaming while asleepDreaming can be divided into stages, the first being when the central nervous system begins to fire up. Dreaming occurs in the deepest part of your sleep when your brain is only experiencing delta waves. After around ninety minutes of rapid eye movement sleep, your heart rate and breathing quicken as the nervous systems fires up and your brain starts to receive signals to the thalamus. This information that comes from the base of the brain is a dream.

Once dreaming commences, Cortisol is produced in large quantities, Cortisol being the chemical responsible for memory consolidation. Both men and women will become sexually aroused throughout dreaming, but you will never normally leave your bed. Whilst dreaming the brain also releases glycine which paralyses your muscles and stops you from taking a walk anywhere and stops you from harming yourself or running into danger.

 

The Human mind is able to control dreams

Dreaming mind controlThere are certain phases within normal dreaming and during “lucid dreaming” it is actually possible to control what will happen in your dream, the outcome, and even change the course of the dream if you are unhappy with the pending outcome.

Manipulating dreams can be fun, and most especially on the occasions where you are fortunate enough to remember a dream, you can wake feeling elated in the knowledge that you controlled your own destiny. What you dream about is often something that you have witnessed in the past, and under these circumstances the human mind is able to “change the course of history” whilst asleep.

 

You can wake to act out what you were dreaming about

dream like a catDreams can cause incorporation. What this means in simple terms is that you may often wake to indulge in an activity that you were dreaming about. If you are constantly thirsty in your dream you can wake to go and drink water, and if you were hungry in your dream chances are you will head to the fridge when you wake up.

A need to use the bathroom can also occur during dreams and once again chances are you will wake with the urge to urinate.

 

 

The language used in dreams is indirect

dreamOne reason that it is often difficult to interpret or even understand a dream lies with the fact that dreams do not use the same language as when one is awake. The language used in dreams is very indirect and symbols are often used that can be interpreted, but only by the subconscious mind. For this reason many books have been written on the interpretation of dreams, people becoming deeply fascinating by their dreams and needing to comprehend them.

If you remember a dream it will often be made of scenes or pieces of information that are familiar to you, but jumbled into an order that makes little or no sense; the more you try to understand what you have dreamed, the more intriguing it all becomes.

 

In general dreams are not remembered

dreams and forgetting themYou may believe that some people remember dreams more than others and this in part may be true. However, it is normally hard to remember a whole dream and quite hard to remember one or more sequences that make up a dream. It is believed that you will only remember what you were dreaming about if you are woken up during REM sleep. This can explain why people will say that they regret their alarm sounding as it interrupted a great dream, but the truth is that if they had been left to wake up naturally they would not have remembered it.

 

You often dream of forbidden pleasures

dream of chocolateIf you are on a diet and watching your weight, you may dream about gorging on chocolate. If you have your eye secretly on a work colleague, but you are married, you may well dream of a time you were together. After this kind of dream the person often experiences guilt or embarrassment, especially if they dreamed they slept with their boss! In fact, psychological disorders can even have an effect on the way one dreams.

So, if you dreamed of a forbidden pleasure, don’t feel guilty about it, rest assured that you were not the only one!

 

Not all people are able to dream in colour

dream in black and whiteNot all people will dream in colour. Only being able to dream in black and white is common with around a third of people reporting this finding. The reason behind this is still being researched, as it the reason that only some people will have repetitive dreams.

Repetitive dreams are most frequently bad dreams and these may range from dreaming you have failed your driving test, to dreaming that someone dear to you is dead when they are alive. The relevance of colour in dreaming as well as repetitive dreams is still being researched, one dream that many people experience frequently being running away from something or someone.

 

Dreaming keeps you healthy

dream to be healthyBeing woken up regularly during REM sleep is said to have a profound negative effect on mental and physical health.

Studies have shown that people who never manage to experience real dreaming as they are constantly being woken up are far more likely to suffer from psychotic episodes and even hallucinations.

When you are deep in a dream, your body is releasing stress and helping you come to terms with some of the built up emotional troubles during your past week, this is a great way for your body to relieve itself of stress for clear thinking and better judgement.

 

Blind people dream too

dreaming by blind peopleResearch has come up with some very interesting findings that concern dreaming and those who are visually impaired. All visually impaired people were noted to dream, but those who were born with no vision only dreamed in senses of touch, noise, and smell.

People who had lost their eyesight after birth were however reported to still be able to dream visually.

 

Your pets dream too

dream pet sleepingSleep patterns in animals, most especially mammals has been monitored and the finding are very interesting indeed. Animals experience the same different stages of sleep as humans, and although it is not possible to ask a pet about their dream, it is possible to watch a pet while he is dreaming.

In fact, if your dog wakes up after hearing a noise such as the phone or door bell and appears startled or behaves strangely, chances are that you have disturbed their dream.

 

Some great inventions were first thought of whilst dreaming

Dream inventionsThe human being does not start dreaming until around the age of three years old, but after this age the mind can become very inventive when asleep.

Alexander Graham Bell dreamed of the phone before he went on to invent it, and many people frequently jot down interesting thoughts when they wake from dreaming.

Paul McCartney from “The Beatles” also states that he discovered the tune for “Yesterday” while he was dreaming. The King of horror, Stephen King admits to a number of successful story ideas coming to him while he dreamed.

Have you come with any amazing ideas through a dream that proved to be successful? Or even know of someone else who has? If so, please share it with us in our comment section.

 

Dreams provide us with a look into our subconscious

Dream with your SubconciousDreams allow us to see into the subconscious mind and reveal our darkest fantasies.

Sigmund Freud said that dreams allow you to fulfil your wishes, whilst Carl Jung said they are put in place to correct an imbalance in the psyche. When you are feeling down about yourself, you will often experience dreams where you achieve something and become elated; however, when you are happy in your conscious mind, you will often dream of falling down.

 

 

The Power Of Your Dreams

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I hope these facts have helped you to understand your dreams a little better so that you can use it to your advantage. Thanks for dropping by!

I am the the Founder of Addicted2Success.com and I am so grateful you're here to be part of this awesome community. I love connecting with people who have a passion for Entrepreneurship, Self Development & Achieving Success. I started this website with the intention of educating and inspiring likeminded people to always strive for success no matter what their circumstances.I'm proud to say through my podcast and through this website we have impacted over 200 million lives in the last 10 years.

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  1. Lei Lani

    Apr 20, 2014 at 4:41 pm

    It was a dream that led me to hop on a plane, and find the love of my life in the hospital when I was 2,000 miles away, and no one knew he was there.

  2. Steve N.

    Dec 28, 2013 at 1:22 am

    Thank you!

  3. authormelaniejmolloy

    Dec 27, 2013 at 5:53 pm

    Thank you for sharing this wonderful informative article. I had a dream about moving to Italy which I turned into my first novella. It was very interesting to find that some of the greats dreamed of their inventions. How inspiring! I often get lots of wonderful ideas from my sleeping moments. I also love dreaming whilst I’m awake too as I find it enriches the dreams whilst I’m asleep and guarantees me a peaceful sleep!

  4. Fighter TJ

    Dec 23, 2013 at 3:50 pm

    Great Piece!!

  5. Kellen Young

    Oct 19, 2013 at 7:36 am

    Great article. I’ve had several ideas, inventions and such in my dreams…maybe now is the time to do something about them.

  6. KML

    Aug 8, 2013 at 9:05 am

    I access my subconsciousness, via dream, meditation or those relaxed dreamy but wakeful states to figure out solutions to problems I encounter in life. I think of dream, mediation and “dreamy wakeful states” as the same as all three lead to the subconscious mind. I have found that the subconscious mind is more inventive and notice different things than the conscious mind does. For example, I use it to solve hidden challenges in my life, riddles and problems. A good example was at business school when we were given a case study where, unbeknown to me and the other students, the solution to the case was actually found hidden in the case text. This came to me in a dreamy wakeful state in the shower after I woke up. I was the only student to figure this out, yet many, if not most of the class would have scored higher than I would on an IQ test.
    To access my subconsciousness I need to activate it by studying something in great detail and at length with a bit of passion, trigger my curiosity and then ask my mind questions like, like what have I missed, what more can you tell me, what is a solution to this right before and while I fall asleep. Do not try to consciously find the solution while you do it, just ask your mind the questions. Then I just have to wait for a dream, a time to meditate or a moment of eureka (which I personally often get during my morning shower). It generally happens in the next 48 hours.

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How to Harness the Power of Your Personal Narrative

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Are you “living up” or “living down” to your personal narrative? When you set out to achieve an important goal, you’ll come face-to-face with many obstacles, such as starting a new business and not having your prospects reply to your prospecting emails. Perhaps you’ve had an interview for a new job and learned you didn’t make the final round of applicants. 

In those difficult moments, you have to have an internal conversation with yourself, known as self-talk. What do you say? How do you feel? You may find yourself succumbing to negativity or failing to believe in your own self-worth. If so, it’s nothing to be ashamed of. We’re all easily overwhelmed by our doubts and fears, because it’s what makes us human.

However, these feelings can not only shape a sense of identity, but also allow our doubt and fear to determine the outcome. When this happens, it’s vital to understand how to have the courage and conviction to move forward despite the obstacles. This includes moving forward in the midst of struggling, even when success seems lightyears away. This may seem daunting, but the answer is right in front of us. It lies in our personal narrative.

“We keep moving forward, opening new doors, and doing new things because we’re curious and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths.” – Walt Disney

What is a personal narrative?

A personal narrative is a life-script that is often followed without question or protest. The conversations you have internally, known as self-talk, make up the core component to our personal narrative. Your self talk represents a powerful belief system that’s baked into our day-to-day existence.

Each of us possess a personal narrative that encompasses a belief system that shapes us and what we see as possible in our lives. As a result, we either ​live up or ​live down to that personal narrative.

While a personal narrative is the starting place, it’s a powerful one. On one hand, when a negative narrative becomes suffocating, it can be hard to escape. This will lead you to foster the belief that you’re incapable of accomplishing something, ensuring that you’ll be less likely to continue to take the necessary steps in the direction of a dream

Your narrative may be so powerful that you may just assume the worst, ending any possibility for you to put in the necessary time, effort and perseverance required to achieve a different outcome.

“The inner speech, your thoughts, can cause you to be rich or poor, loved or unloved, happy or unhappy, attractive or unattractive, powerful or weak.” – Ralph Charell

Cultivating positive narratives

On the other hand, what if we possessed personal narratives that were more positive? This  is not just positive thinking, because it is the practice of consciously cultivating a narrative that you could live up to instead​. Imagine how a more positive narrative could support more preferable outcomes.

In life, this may sound like, “I plan to do well in this interview, so I am going to take every action to support that expectation – like working with a career coach.” Or it may sound like, “Because I am someone who tries hard even when I am overwhelmed or uncomfortable, I am going to ask for help if I feel stuck.” That way, when a challenge arises – as they always do, you will grow to trust in your ability to navigate it.

The more you practice this, the more you will come to realize that your personal narrative really represents the essence of who you are. Your self-talk will evolve into someone who plans to do well during an interview, a business meeting, or a workout class because you become someone who invests in their personal well-being as an extension of your self-concept.

Cultivating positive narratives is not a what-if situation. It is an intentional practice that everyone can benefit from. It provides the framework for who you can become. Most importantly, it’s the key to help us transform into the best version of ourselves, while defending our dreams against a spiral of fear or self-doubt.

So, what does your personal narrative sound like? And how can you live up to it? Share with us below!

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5 Reasons It’s Important to Understand What You Want to Do With Your Life

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No matter your age or your place in life, it is perfectly normal to not know exactly what your next steps should be. There are many factors that can contribute to this situation but it is always important to remember that everything happens for a reason and that this will help you build a much happier you.

There are many ways for you to understand what you should be doing with your life and there are just as many reasons why you should work towards getting a better understanding of those reasons.

If you wish to turn any situation around and start working towards finding your purpose, here are some of the most important reasons why:

1. You will be able to set long term goals for the future

Setting long term goals is one of the things that will help you feel more secure and certain about your future. Instead of relying on living day by day and trying to figure out what your next steps will be without having a future ultimate goal, you will now be able to plan accordingly so that your every step will bring you a step closer to making that dream come true.

One of the things many people forget though is that every plan, no matter how well-organized and planned out it is, will need to be adapted to every situation the person is experiencing. Knowing what your ultimate goal is will help you handle every change of plans with more confidence and will allow you to manoeuvre every situation and turn your problems into positive outcomes.

2. You will get rid of a lot of anxiety

One of the best things about finally getting a better understanding of what you wish to do with your life is that you will finally start feeling less anxious and unsure about the future. Having a certain plan you can follow and looking forward to making a big goal come true will help rid yourself of negative thoughts and allow you to be able to focus on achieving your dreams.

Anxiety is a very common problem in the time we live in and it can make a lot of people feel less productive and scared to take risks, especially in a professional manner. As a result, they tend to hold themselves back and do fewer things than they are capable of, simply because they are too scared to dare.

Realizing what you wish to do in your life and working towards achieving your goals will help you feel less stressed and even if you do, this type of anxiety could actually help you be much more productive and eager to do your best in order to make your dreams manifest into reality.

3. You will be much happier

Understanding what you wish to do in your life will truly help you finally figure out what you are meant to do in your life. For some people, it can help them find their purpose and give them a new perspective on everything they do in their everyday life.

This will help you feel a lot happier and will put your mind at ease, as you won’t have to continue wondering if the path you have chosen to follow is the right one for you or not. Feeling more certain of your decisions will help you feel a lot more confident and happier since you will feel strong enough to overcome anything that might come your way from now and on.

4. You won’t lose time or energy on smaller goals

Setting shorter goals without knowing what you are meant to do in the long run will cost you a lot of energy and time. This will happen as you will spend a lot of time planning out your every move and it will cause you to feel stressed and worried about every little thing going wrong.

Smaller goals will still be important but you won’t spend much time planning them as you would if you didn’t know what your end goal would be. Saving energy and preparing both mentally and physically for reaching your goal will help you achieve a much healthier outlook on dealing with everyday situations and it will make you more excited to complete your ambitions.

5. You will become an expert in one field

Last but not least, another important reason why you should try and understand exactly what you are meant to do in your life is that you will be able to focus all of your time and energy on learning as much as possible and growing only in one certain field.

The uncertainty of having a set goal for your future can make you feel like you need to know many different things in different fields in order to be able to succeed in life and make a living. While having knowledge in various fields is something that will prove to be useful, you will never fully be able to become an expert in one field and make a name for yourself in that sector.

A long term goal will allow you to either study or work full time on one subject you truly enjoy and are good at. This will help you build your reputation, make connections and allow yourself to enjoy and love the path you have chosen even more. As a result, you will be much happier and content with the end goal you have chosen and you will be able to work even harder to achieve all of your dreams.

Working towards a happier you

You might be at a point in your life where you feel like not a lot of things are truly worth your time but the truth is that every little thing you do will help you find what you are meant to do. This will help you feel happy and content and allow you to tackle every issue you come across with much less anxiety and fear.

You will find a lot of stability and comfort in setting a big and important goal for your future and this will allow you to start being more productive and happy to tackle every problem that might come your way. Your life will always be full of surprises and unplanned events but hard work and dedication on your goals will allow you to become the best version of you and enjoy every step of the way.

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3 Ways to Stay Strong and Push Through When Hardships Arise

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We all have trials and tribulations, and most times they are out of our control. I believe that’s why it can be so frustrating when trouble arises, because we feel powerless. But this isn’t true! How we perceive these times gives us power, and will ultimately dictate the quality of our lives.

Each event can have many interpretations. You can ask two people about a situation they both went through, and sometimes you’ll get two completely different answers! Most times this isn’t because one was being truthful and the other wasn’t, but because of how they perceived the events that took place.

That’s how powerful perceptions are, so why not use this power to our benefit? Instead of thinking on what was lost, think of what there is to gain. When you think positively, it helps you from not feeling stuck, and helps you look towards the future. 

Below are three things to consider whenever a hardship comes your way:

1. This is an opportunity for me to grow

Viewing troubling times as an opportunity to improve and grow will give you a sense of freedom and happiness because you’ve decided to lead your life, as opposed to just accepting your life. Some people just accept the things that happen to them/around them. When you have this mindset, you are telling yourself there is nothing you can do in that situation, and you are giving away your power.

This will affect not only your mood, but also the people around you, especially if you’re a leader. They feed off your energy and body language. When you focus on growth, you can think more clearly on solutions, which is what you want. It’s ok to feel sad, frustrated, or confused. If you want to be successful, you will feel all of these, and quite often. When you do, recognize what your feeling, but don’t feed it. If you do, it will grow.

“If you don’t design your own life plan, chances are you’ll fall into someone else’s plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much.” – Jim Rohn

2. Don’t focus on the problem, find the solution

This sounds pretty simple but how many of us focus more energy on the problem and why it happened or who did it, instead of trying to focus immediately on the solution? I learned this in the military. If something goes wrong, my superiors were less concerned with who did it and more concerned with finding a solution to the problem, and as quickly as possible.

But I was once guilty of this thinking, and sometimes I slip back into that mode of thinking when my emotions are strong. Changing your mindset to focus on solutions will give you a sense of power, which will calm you, because you feel in control. This in turn, will help you think clearly and rationally, as opposed to emotionally. Furthermore, being in a more relaxed state of mind will allow you to absorb information more clearly so you can learn from the incident and become a better you.

3. Determine how the hardship improves your character

What was being tested during your hardship? Patience? Empathy? Communication? Understanding? Endurance? I remember working for a boss I did not like. He seemed to pick on me, and I couldn’t understand it. I went above and beyond what was asked of me, but people were still being promoted quicker than I was.

To give a little depth on my perception at the time, I was born and raised in Brooklyn NY. Not poor, but close to it. So respect is something that is valued greatly in neighborhoods I come from, because we don’t have much else. Respect was your money, and could get you things money couldn’t buy.

Now everyone wants respect, but me, I need it that much more. So when I felt he wasn’t giving me respect, I almost convinced myself to handle these matters. Imagine the people you train, passing you by and you know their work ethic doesn’t match yours. It sucked.

I talked to my dad, who always gives great council, and he told me it wouldn’t be wise. He told me to look for ways to grow, and I did. And let me tell you, during that time I learned things that cannot be taught in classrooms because you can only be learned through experience. My endurance was really challenged, but made me wiser and stronger, which made me better equipped to deal with future troubles I’d have. Because of those lessons, I was able to teach others about my experience and give wise counsel.

“Lead a life of your own design, on your own terms. Not one that others or the environment have scripted for you.” – Tony Robbins

When those times come, ask yourself where you’re weak and what you can you do to improve on that weakness. Finding something you’re not good at should make you happy, because it gives you a chance to improve! If you suck at something, do something about it! Don’t wallow in self-pity. It’s not a fruitful exercise.

When hardships come your way, your perception is a powerful weapon that you must manipulate, don’t let it manipulate you. Ask yourself how can this help you grow, what positive opportunity is hidden in the hardship and focus on the solution, not the problem. Doing these things will put the power back in your court. Give it a shot, it changed my life!

How do you keep your head up high when hardships arise? Share your thoughts and advice down below!

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7 Essential Mindset Shifts From Gary Vaynerchuk That’ll Help You Have an Amazing Life

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Gary Vaynerchuk is full of little gems to success if you listen with an open mind. His unfiltered way of sharing old school values mixed with modern day approaches is remarkably simple and highly contagious. In this world of instant gratification, everyone is focused on doing things faster in order to produce exponential results.

When our visions don’t become an instant reality, we play the comparison game and judge ourselves. This ultimately leads to a decline in our health and crushes our visions. Many of us want to be an overnight success but need a better psychological framework to endure the ride.

Here are 7 perspectives that Gary Vaynerchuk is currently popularising that can help your mindset game be stronger:

1. Aim for happiness 

Gary Vaynerchuk’s definition of happiness is “being able to do what you want at all times.” This does not mean quit because your work doesn’t make you happy right now, especially if it is the stepping stone for your ideal lifestyle. 

For a period of time you will need to grind and do tasks that are unenjoyable. If happiness is not within your metrics of success, you will eventually suffer from an irregularity in your mental or physical health, which in turn has a downward ripple effect on your valued relationships. 

2. Enjoy paying your dues

Every industry has its own set of rules to work up the chain of command. You need to learn to love each role and responsibility that comes with that. Going in with a curious and enthusiastic energy is bound to shine through and show those around you how serious you are. 

Be present and learn from every experience you encounter. This is a journey for bigger and better things but you need to put in the time, work and sacrifice to be rewarded. Life is all about what you put into it. You don’t know how these earlier stages will serve you in years to come, so take pride in the journey and appreciation for the lessons and people you meet along the way.

3. Obsessively love what you do

You should always be doing what you want, especially if you have a clearly defined purpose. Purpose is such an energizing force, regardless of whether you are earning $40,000 or $4,000,000. If you really love what you’re doing and it’s where you want to be then you’re already winning. 

Always start with what you love because the only way you’re going to hustle hard enough is if you love it. It’s hard to get going around something you’re not passionate about. When you learn to love the game more than the trophy, the game gives you, and you’re on your way up.

“You have to understand your own personal DNA. Don’t do things because I do them or Steve Jobs or Mark Cuban tried it. You need to know your personal brand and stay true to it.”- Gary Vaynerchuk

4. Don’t be driven by the money

To do extremely well in the game of business without disrupting other pillars in your life, you must wake up each morning pondering what solutions need to be found today. You need to be wildly curious and driven by the game of business on a micro level while seeing the macro outcomes. 

When you’re excited to play the game, you become absorbed in mastery over playing with your phone, gossiping with friends and watching mindless content. You relentlessly invest in yourself and your growth, which in turn is remunerated with wealth.

5. Have gratitude

Have you ever thought about the fact that the odds of being a human being are 400 trillion to one? You must create an unbelievably clear perspective of how lucky we are to be human. This in turn makes it a struggle to dwell on things that don’t matter. 

Focus your attention on the things that you value and appreciate. Appreciate your good health and family, because you’ll value it more. Appreciate your gifts, friends, work and life. By doing this, your perception begins to shift. You see the blessings of your life, versus the broken parts.

6. Adversity is your superpower

Adversity and humble beginnings is an incredible framework to happiness, especially when you layer positivity and optimism around your difficulty. We all have hardships and various scenarios that throw us off balance along the way. 

Our super power is when we use that as fuel to drive us to be less audacious and experience more, instead of being held back. What you think and focus on grows. Shift the perspective in your mind so your adversity doesn’t define you, but instead drives you.

“It’s insane to me to ask anybody to be what they’re not. Know what you know the best, love the most. That’s always going to be the answer to the thing that you have the best shot at winning at.” – Gary Vaynerchuk

7. Be excited everyday because you get to play

Learn how to start your morning well and continue that energy throughout the day. That vigour builds momentum that will allow you to actually make your mark. Be fired up that you have given yourself a clear vision and your making moves to play a strong game. This type of mindset gives you an intrinsic pull to do and be better daily rather than external motivation, which over time dies out.

Mindset is everything and it all falls down to your perspective of things. Don’t judge yourself by what you accomplish daily, instead, judge it yearly. It takes years of great creative work to be recognized. Be patient. In the meantime, look at your daily habits and ask yourself if they are causing you to evolve or revolve. Are you moving forward, or just moving in circles? Take constant action to move forward and be grateful you have the opportunity to play in the game of life. 

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