Success Advice
8 Ways to L.E.V.E.R.A.G.E Your Story and Make Your Book Your New Business Card
“I should write a book,” is something that every single person says to themselves at one point or another. Then, on the occasion that a family member, friend or mentee echo’s the statement, we decide to commit and dive into the process of translating our powerful story into the pages of a book. But here’s the thing, although “Just write” is a widely shared piece of advice for those bold enough to take action to go from idea to finished book, that advice will leave your book collecting dust on virtual shelves and not generating the revenue you envision for your message.
I’ve worked with a number of authors with different messages, and in addition to helping them each understand that a book is a conversation, I helped them each navigate the process that positioned their book for leverage resulting in global impact and profits.
Here are the 8 keys to writing a book that does ALL things from increased visibility and global impact to generating 6 figure profits:
1. Launch your book to an audience that’s already engaged and awaiting its arrival
Writing your book in secret then springing it on your audience is a recipe for disaster because it doesn’t include them in the creation process. Take the time to develop a release strategy that builds your list, includes launch partners, keeps the release timeline in the forefront of the readers mind, and correlates with the offering of a product or service that you provide. Planning a true launch strategy, though different from the “if you build it they will come” approach, can generate book sales, income from speaking, course sales, coaching clients, revenue from consulting and more.
2. Engage your dream reader in the conversation as early as possible
If you’re waiting until your book is done to start promoting, you’re late! There are 3 phases of promotions that you need to tap into to get and maintain momentum with your audience. Each phase is important because it allows your tribe to get “invested” mentally and emotionally BEFORE they make the shift to financial investment. Business and sales experts teach that it takes “7 touches” before a person decides to invest in a product or service financially, this is why funnels are so effective, and the same rules apply to the promotion of your book.
3. Validate the conversation
We already know that a book is a conversation, but before you dive right into sharing all of your brilliant awesomeness, you want to make sure that it is a conversation that your audience or desired audience wants to have with you. In the business world this is called good old market research, and social media has totally changed market research allowing you to get real-time feedback in the form of likes and engagement.
This is a great thing for business owners and authors alike. By doing this foundational research, there is the added benefit of having the start of a great reader profile which is a major indicator of what your book should focus on as well as a way to clarify what programs or offerings your audience needs resulting in more effective prospect/lead generation, increased sales conversions, sold out program offerings, and increased income.
4. Educate your reader
Don’t just tell your life story and drop the mic (or the pen in this instance), make your book a “teach all” and really help readers to identify and apply the nuggets you’ve learned on your journey. This holds true no matter the conversation topic of your book because when you really focus on what the reader needs from you versus what you want to say, you become a trusted, credible authority to the reader. All of which is necessary to convert readers and fans into paying clients, referral partners, and your walking marketing and PR team.
5. Research the language that your dream readers use around the conversation topic
It’s important to know what words your tribe and potential readers are using to describe their pain points. One example I love to use to explain this is a doctor’s visit. When you go to the doctor with an issue, you describe the symptom you are experiencing, and then the doctor gives you the clinical diagnosis. This is exactly how keywords work.
So whatever your conversation topic is, you want to make sure you are using the language that your audience uses so they know and understand that you are providing the solution they are looking for. If you do not determine the language of your audience, the audience will not connect to your message and book. Once you are clear on the language, you can strengthen your copy and the messaging in your book again increasing the “know, like and trust” factor as well as sales and income possibility.
6. Accelerate the reader’s engagement and participation in the conversation
You can do this by providing them with practical application steps, homework, and CTA’s in the form of dynamic QR Codes that prompt them to take action throughout your book. Never take for granted that the readers were able to identify the nuggets, perspective or lessons as you share your story. Always, always, always tell them what you’re going to teach them, tell them what you taught them, AND tell them what to do with what you taught them. Providing next steps or homework, makes your book a go-to resource to facilitate the change your readers have been dreaming of, and that converts them to clients.
7. Guide the conversation
Guide the reader from their current point of awareness to some level of transformation. Avoid filling your book with fluff and teasers because this will only damage the reader’s trust of you as a credible authority. Rest assured, you can never share too much because YOU are still the secret sauce that gets people results.
8. Extend the invitation to further tap into your expertise
When readers come to your book, they are aware that there is an issue, when you position your book and message to get them results your authority, and proof of work grows real time. While you have the reader engaged, invite them to connect with you in a more in-depth way. This can be providing your email address, inviting them to a call, or giving them special access to digital products and other offerings. This takes your ability to share your message, serve others, and generate income further than just book sales.
Writing a book you can leverage is a part of the writing and publishing process that means the difference in using your book to elevate your business, brand and message or giving away your book to friends and family for every birthday or holiday. It is absolutely possible to write a book that proves more powerful in generating leads than webinars, and positions you as an expert, more than business cards can. These steps ensure that your book is not only done and delivered to the people who need it the most, but it positions you for exposure and multiple streams of income.
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Before chasing success, every young man needs to face these 9 brutal realities shaping masculinity in the modern world.
Many young men today quietly battle depression, loneliness, and a sense of confusion about who they’re meant to be.
Some blame the lack of deep friendships or romantic relationships. Others feel lost in a digital world that often labels traditional masculinity as “toxic.”
But the truth is this: becoming a man in the modern age takes more than just surviving. It takes resilience, direction, and a willingness to grow even when no one’s watching.
Success doesn’t arrive by accident or luck. It’s built on discipline, sacrifice, and consistency.
Here are 9 harsh truths every young man should know if he wants to thrive, not just survive, in the digital age.
1. Never Use Your Illness as an Excuse
As Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often says, successful people don’t complain; they act.
Your illness, hardship, or struggle shouldn’t define your limits; it should define your motivation. Rest when you must, but always get back up and keep building your dreams. Motivation doesn’t appear magically. It comes after you take action.
Here are five key lessons I’ve learned from Dr. Peterson:
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Learn to write clearly; clarity of thought makes you dangerous.
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Read quality literature in your free time.
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Nurture a strong relationship with your family.
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Share your ideas publicly; your voice matters.
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Become a “monster”, powerful, but disciplined enough to control it.
The best leaders and thinkers are grounded. They welcome criticism, adapt quickly, and keep moving forward no matter what.
2. You Can’t Please Everyone And That’s Okay
You don’t need a crowd of people to feel fulfilled. You need a few friends who genuinely accept you for who you are.
If your circle doesn’t bring out your best, it’s okay to walk away. Solitude can be a powerful teacher. It gives you space to understand what you truly want from life. Remember, successful men aren’t people-pleasers; they’re purpose-driven.
3. You Can Control the Process, Not the Outcome
Especially in creative work, writing, business, or content creation, you control effort, not results.
You might publish two articles a day, but you can’t dictate which one will go viral. Focus on mastery, not metrics. Many great writers toiled for years in obscurity before anyone noticed them. Rejection, criticism, and indifference are all part of the path.
The best creators focus on storytelling, not applause.
4. Rejection Is Never Personal
Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It simply means your offer, idea, or timing didn’t align.
Every successful person has faced rejection repeatedly. What separates them is persistence and perspective. They see rejection as feedback, not failure. The faster you learn that truth, the faster you’ll grow.
5. Women Value Comfort and Security
Understanding women requires maturity and empathy.
Through books, lectures, and personal growth, I’ve learned that most women desire a man who is grounded, intelligent, confident, emotionally stable, and consistent. Some want humor, others intellect, but nearly all want to feel safe and supported.
Instead of chasing attention, work on self-improvement. Build competence and confidence, and the rest will follow naturally.
6. There’s No Such Thing as Failure, Only Lessons
A powerful lesson from Neuro-Linguistic Programming: failure only exists when you stop trying.
Every mistake brings data. Every setback builds wisdom. The most successful men aren’t fearless. They’ve simply learned to act despite fear.
Be proud of your scars. They’re proof you were brave enough to try.
7. Public Speaking Is an Art Form
Public speaking is one of the most valuable and underrated skills a man can master.
It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection. The best speakers tell stories, inspire confidence, and make people feel seen. They research deeply, speak honestly, and practice relentlessly.
If you can speak well, you can lead, sell, teach, and inspire. Start small, practice at work, in class, or even in front of a mirror, and watch your confidence skyrocket.
8. Teaching Is Leadership in Disguise
Great teachers are not just knowledgeable. They’re brave, compassionate, and disciplined.
Teaching forces you to articulate what you know, and in doing so, you master it at a deeper level. Whether you’re mentoring a peer, leading a team, or sharing insights online, teaching refines your purpose.
Lifelong learners become lifelong leaders.
9. Study Human Nature to Achieve Your Dreams
One of the toughest lessons to accept: most people are self-interested.
That’s not cynicism, it’s human nature. Understanding this helps you navigate relationships, business, and communication more effectively.
Everyone has a darker side, but successful people learn to channel theirs productively into discipline, creativity, and drive.
Psychology isn’t just theory; it’s a toolkit. Learn how people think, act, and decide, and you’ll know how to lead them, influence them, and even understand yourself better.
Final Thoughts
The digital age offers endless opportunities, but only to those who are willing to take responsibility, confront discomfort, and keep improving.
Becoming a man today means embracing the hard truths most avoid.
Because at the end of the day, success isn’t about luck. It’s about who you become when life tests you the most.
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