Connect with us

Success Advice

This One Bad Habit Could De-Rail Your Chances Of Success

Joel Brown (Founder of Addicted2Success.com)

Published

on

indecisiveness

Becoming successful in life is more about decision making than it is about effort or hard work. We’ve all been there. That moment when we have to decide between one thing and another. It could be anything. Something as small as whether to pay the electricity bill or buy gas with the rent money. Or something as big as whether to change careers in turbulent times or stay the course and face misery on a daily basis. Making a decision can be frustrating and liberating at the same time, because you know it will change your life and alter it forever.

While everyone tells you about hard work and its rewards, rarely do people come up and tell you that they are where they are in life because of a gamble worthy decision or two that they made a while ago. Even rarer are people who tell you about how speedy decision making helped them find firm footing when they were surrounded by chaos and uncertainty. This is because the most closely guarded secret to becoming successful is, you guessed it, QUICK DECISION MAKING.

Unsuccessful people aren’t wrong all the time, but they share one common trait that is obvious to those who look closely. They are very poor decision makers.

Poor decision making skills reflect badly on your life, your work, your business, your personality and multiple other things that are your essentials for growth. Becoming successful is not so much about decisions as the time you take deciding them. One can make a really good decision, like say, a decision to change careers after realizing that the current career is going nowhere. Now this person can wait for really long, grow old and make no difference with the decision. On the other hand, they can make the decision really fast in spite of the risks and turn his or her life around with remarkable results.

Either way, this habit is the No.1 cause of failure. If you hope to even have a long shot at becoming successful, you have to get rid of one thing and one thing only:

INDECISIVENESS!

It affects many more things than you realize. People drag their feet on decisions for too long before they realize that their dreams have grown stale and they are growing older by the day. Too much time has passed by and any success they could have hoped to achieve would be irrelevant anyway.

The worlds leading Peak Performance coach Tony Robbins once said:

“Studies have shown that the most successful people make decisions rapidly because they are clear on their values and what they really want for their lives. The same studies show that they are slow to change their decisions, if at all. People who fail usually make decisions slowly and change their minds quickly, always bouncing back and forth. Just decide!” – Anthony Robbins

 

There is magic in good decision making. Speed is one thing, and good decision making is entirely another. Becoming successful requires a delicate mix of both these traits. You can make a bad decision fast and drive yourself into the ground or you can make a good decision late and suffer the consequences mentioned above. Sometimes, there is no such thing as a good or a bad decision. There are only decisions and more decisions. Successful people are those who make a large number of good decisions, fast. No one can be perfect and you will be wrong some of the time. But if you make a decision immediately, you will tide over bad results if any, sooner than you think you will.

What prompt decision making gives you a fighting chance at survival in the big bad world of competing ideas and businesses. Anyone will agree that a fighting chance is any day better than assured failure. A decision made fast might go wrong, but a decision that’s never made will definitely go wrong. The accuracy of this logic is evident in the fact that the most successful people on earth attribute their success to fast decision making.

Life is full of decisions. That’s how we all go from one place to another while also growing in the process. If you’re not making any decisions you’re stuck in the same place while the world surges ahead. Wherever you are and whatever you do, making a decision is not only important in becoming successful, but it’s the only way you can ever hope to grow and turn your life around for the better. All that you need is already with you. So free up your mind, take a deep breath and make those decisions fast. Your success almost wholly depends on prompt and good decision making.

(Video) Tony Robbins – Decision Making Is Your POWER

 

I am the the Founder of Addicted2Success.com and I am so grateful you're here to be part of this awesome community. I love connecting with people who have a passion for Entrepreneurship, Self Development & Achieving Success. I started this website with the intention of educating and inspiring likeminded people to always strive for success no matter what their circumstances.I'm proud to say through my podcast and through this website we have impacted over 200 million lives in the last 10 years.

Advertisement
5 Comments

5 Comments

  1. Komal Mathur

    Apr 11, 2013 at 9:07 pm

    Good article, I took one right hasty decision last year, should’ve stuck to it, but due to circumstances backed out and regretted, thought no one can go wrong in being positive & open minded, actually felt guilty for things done by others. It was a lie, my so called positive approach backfired, cos those ppl were not worth it, something that was the basis for taking that hasty decision, lost a lot, should have called a spade a spade. But there is one thing in life “Its never too late and all experiences teach a thing or two”.

  2. Rob

    Jan 7, 2013 at 4:53 am

    Good article, decision making makes all of the difference.

  3. Angus

    Jan 4, 2013 at 4:14 am

    What about procrastination?? 😉

  4. kiki

    Jan 1, 2013 at 9:03 pm

    Absolutely true. I have big decisions to make right now. This just gave me the kick I need

  5. Parin

    Dec 30, 2012 at 11:34 am

    Great post and reminder. I’ve learned this from others and personal experience. And I find indecision often comes down to an underlying fear we have and not wanting to take full responsibility of our decision and actions that follow. Ultimately though, like you mention, not all decisions will be “perfect’, but you need to make a decision and accept responsibility for it.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Success Advice

5 Ways to Magnetize Your Audience

Published

on

how to magnetize your audience
Image Credit: Unsplash

You’re putting yourself out there, which is brave. However, like many business owners, executives, and speakers, you may be struggling with this one question running on repeat — “How do I get them to…” (fill in the blank). That could be anything from, “buy my course”, to “pay attention to me”, to “listen to what I have to say”, and so many more. Regardless of what makes you nervous speaking to your audience, you’re not alone. (more…)

Continue Reading

Success Advice

8 Ways to L.E.V.E.R.A.G.E Your Story and Make Your Book Your New Business Card

Published

on

how to write a book
Image Credit: Pixabay

“I should write a book,” is something that every single person says to themselves at one point or another. Then, on the occasion that a family member, friend or mentee echo’s the statement, we decide to commit and dive into the process of translating our powerful story into the pages of a book. But here’s the thing, although “Just write” is a widely shared piece of advice for those bold enough to take action to go from idea to finished book, that advice will leave your book collecting dust on virtual shelves and not generating the revenue you envision for your message. (more…)

Continue Reading

Success Advice

How to Turn Your Hobby Into a Legitimate Business

Published

on

turning your hobby into a business
Image Credit: Pixabay

Hobbies generally aren’t about making money and becoming successful, like businesses are. Hobbies make you happy at the end of a long week or day of working at a job you might not love in a place that might be just a little bit too far away from home for your liking. Your hobbies are what show off your interests and love, and your passion above all else. (more…)

Continue Reading

Success Advice

3 Ways to Know if You’re Working Hard to Fail or Succeed

Published

on

are you working to fail or succeed
Image Credit: Unsplash

We know how important hard work is to achieve success, but we also know the road to success is filled with obstacles and failures. Many people have great ideas and don’t put the work in to make them succeed and go to the next level. We also see many people work hard on a terrible idea and succeed due to sheer hard work and determination. Then there is that third group, no matter how hard you work, you just may have a bad idea, bad product or missed your window and all the hard work in the world won’t get you to where you need to be. So how do you know when you’re working hard to fail or succeed? (more…)

Continue Reading

Trending