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How To Stop The Time Thief’s And Get More Time In Your Day

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Time is becoming the most valuable currency we have. We are happily giving up our hard earned dollars to have more of it in the search for convenience and minutes back into our day. You can never pursue your dream without having time to spend on it.

Just like with money, you need to keep track of where it goes and let the spillage stop. There are time thief’s everywhere, and they will rob you blind if they know that you’re not on the look out.

On the other hand, don’t be stingy with your time either. Helping someone for fifteen minutes or sending a note of inspiration to someone on Facebook can be hugely rewarding, and a lucrative investment.

I have built many relationships over the years by just spending a little time each day sending a few nice words to someone that inspires me.

Definition of a Time Thief: Someone who isn’t focused on their goals or vision and is looking for time to waste by engaging in tasks or conversations that take their mind of their own world.

Here are eleven ways to get more time back in your day for the things you love:

1. Run from unnecessary meetings like the plague

In the corporate world especially, people are inclined to book meetings to talk about meetings. Many of them are unproductive, and a lot of people in the room are not required to resolve the issue. Meetings can often become venting sessions for issues between people rather than a business issue itself.

At all costs, if a meeting has no relevance or value to you, you should decline it. This will upset some people, but soon they will get used to how much you value your time and in turn, they will value it too. If it’s a meeting that you have to attend, try sending someone in your place.

Bottom line, unless a meeting has a clear benefit or somehow helps your life mission, decline it. If you’re in a moment of indecision, ask yourself the famous question, “did the invite make me go F$#@ yeah!” If not, then the safest option is to decline it.

2. Stop Interruptions

We’ve all had that moment where we’re sitting at our desk in a sate of flow and then some annoying interruption comes from nowhere and we forget what we were doing. For many of us, this is a daily frustration.

If you’re working in a space that is open plan then there are a few things that will help you:

– Minimise eye contact with time thief’s that approach your direction
– Let casual visitors know that you are only available through your calendar
– Make a rule that it is not okay to interrupt you
– Wear your headphones with no sound playing, so people think you are busy
– Have a look of focus and determination on your face that no brave soul would dare interrupt

3. Limit essential meetings to twenty minutes

There are some meetings that are fundamental to running your life or business that you may not want to attend but have to. I recommend allowing a maximum of twenty minutes for these meetings.

What this does is give people a sense of urgency and it allows you to skip the intro and outro because of the limited time. Make sure you signal that at the end of the meeting, your chair is going to blow up and wipe out an entire block if the meetings goes over twenty minutes (only joking).

Instead, tell the person you’re meeting with that you have back to backs as you get towards the end of the twenty minutes. This is not a word of a lie because you do; you have time block meetings in your calendar with yourself to make your vision come true.

4. Fight the disease (your phone)

Your mobile phone is the number one device in your life that sucks your time away. The majority of what happens on the device is not urgent and can wait till later. The worst disease that comes with a phone is the compulsion to answer it and lose your precious time.

When the call is private, there is even more nervousness about not answering the call. What if it’s the President Of The United States Of America?

The question you need to ask yourself is “are my goals and my dream more important than this call?” If the answer is no, then we need to have a serious pep talk. No phone call is urgent, and there isn’t a decent person in the world that will care if you call them back on the same day.

To gain more time back in my day, I have found it’s easier to call my work colleagues on their phone and talk to them a few meters away out of sight than it is to have a face to face conversation where they are constantly looking at their phone.

From next week, I am going to try and have an empty ice cream tub that all phones must be placed into when there is an important planning session. This could get me in trouble, but anything is worth a try, right?

5. Conquer procrastination

Telling yourself you will do something later is a classic sign of procrastination. Delaying tasks in your life only makes them harder to complete. Spending time watching TV and being comfortable will not help you achieve your goals.

You have to not let important tasks be delayed. I’m very guilty when it comes to this truth around time. I’ve adopted a new habit that has helped me achieve more goals: do the most crucial tasks first thing in the morning. The harder the task is, the more you should do it in the first hour you wake up.

Assuming your diet is on point, right after you wake up is when we have the most energy and the best chance of focusing on a task. I’ve recently implemented a new time of waking up at 4 am which has increased my results significantly.

The less time you spend delaying tasks, and the more time you spend getting them done, the more time in your day you will have to relax – you’ll also feel much better about your day.

6. Don’t be a loser and multi-task

To complete a task in a short amount of time you need 100% focus. The act of multitasking has been proven to fail. Chances are, the secondary task you are bundling with your primary task is not urgent, not important, and could wait until later.

By devoting time to each task separately, you will get things done quicker and the outcome of each task will be far greater.

“Trying to juggle multiple tasks at the same time is like trying to bungee jump off a cliff while attempting to give a speech to a group of people” – Tim Denning

7. Shut your door

If you find that being in an open plan environment is still too difficult with the above interruption policy, then try and go to a quiet space where you can shut the door. Try placing a sign on the door that says “RECORDING IN PROGRESS”

When people think that some type of recording is going on, they will keep a very safe distance away from you and the room. I have used this trick many times, and it’s amazing how people’s actions and behaviour change out of the fear that they could walk onto a Hollywood movie set.

An open door policy when you are trying to focus will set you up for failure and rob you of your time.

8. Time block

It’s easy to have your time thrown around like balloons at the Oscars. The best tip I can give you is to know what you want to achieve in a day; then time block out various tasks. By time blocking, what I mean is to go to your calendar on your phone or computer, and mark out blocks of time as if these blocks were meetings with real human beings.

You’ll find you become more productive, and your tasks will have clear deadlines. At the end of a time block, don’t forget to put in some “you time” so you can reward yourself. As your time begins to free up, try adding five minutes of meditation before a time block, to regain your focus.

9. Delete social media apps from certain devices

Taking the time out of your day to read a book or type an article just like this is important. One hack that I use is that my iPad, (where I read all of my Kindle books on) has no apps other than the Kindle app. This means that I can’t get lost in notifications and distractions.

On the computer that I write with there is limited access to distractions and my phone is switched to aeroplane mode while writing. For those of you who can’t avoid the temptation, there is a great tool called “Chrome Nanny” that can help you manage your digital addictions.

10. Take conversations away from messenger apps

Another thing to avoid is messenger apps. They often create endless conversations that never have a conclusion. If you find a conversation is starting to take place on Facebook Messenger, WeChat or What’sApp, then take it offline and give the person a call. This will give you loads of time back.

11. Value other people’s time

As an entrepreneur or go-getter, it’s not all about you. Your success depends on other people too, not just you. One of the best ways to get your time back is by respecting other people’s. The more you respect someone else’s time, the more they will give you the same gift in return. What you put out comes back tenfold.

How do you get more time back in your day? Let me know in the comments section below or on my website timdenning.net or my Facebook.

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How Your Friends Determine Whether You Succeed or Not

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Can anyone do without having friends? We all have our friends, we share ideas with them, talk together, have fun, and fight. Yes, that’s the baseline of friendship. But, do you know that aside from you, your friends can determine whether you achieve success or not?

There are two things in friendship which are the ability to ”love” and the ability to “influence”. This means you are loved and you are influenced. How do your friends affect your success in life? How are they one of the biggest deciding factors of your success? Let’s find out.

What type of friends do you keep? 

First, what type of friends do you keep? Who do you call your best friend? There are two different kinds of friends, good friends, and bad ones. A lot of people have lost their pathway to success and some have also found their road to success all because of the friends they keep, the people they mingle with. 

Who is your best friend? Answer carefully. Having a best friend means you find each other compatible and understanding. Analyze who your best friend is. If your best friend has not motivated you to do something positive, if who you call your bestie has never given you positive advice, lastly if your best friend has never informed and advised you on your shortcomings, then you don’t have a best friend.

This quote tells us “birds of the same feather flock together”. Countless people have changed from their good nature into a bad one all because of friends. One thing to note is, “negative people move with negative aura”. If your best friend is filled with negativity inside-out then you will surely be affected by his/her negative aura.

They influence your success with positivity or negativity 

The friends you keep can either influence you with positivity or negativity because your friends have the power to change your kind of person completely. 

This is how your friends influence you:

  1. They influence you indirectly with what they do
  2. They influence you directly by teaching and giving you advice 

Yes, that is how they influence you. For instance, you watch a movie and you like the way the actor walks. The question is if you truly like the way the actor walks, won’t you try to imitate the actor? Of course, you will.

Just the way you imitate the actor is the same way your friends can influence you with their character. However, the funny part is, they don’t have to teach you to do things like them. You just find yourself imitating and copying them gradually.

An important question to ask is, are you imitating a good friend or a bad one? If you imitate a good friend then you will be good, but if you imitate a bad person, you will surely become a bad person.

Everyone wants to succeed, a good friend will always teach, enlighten, and motivate you for success. A bad friend will only motivate you to do evil things (smoking, drinking, fight, envy,).

And you should know that things like that are a great enemy of success and even of God. So, if you have these bad elements in your life, how will you achieve success? There is no way!

And also, they can teach and advise you directly. But, what do your friends teach you? When you ask them for advice do they inspire you positively or teach you the bad stuff.? A lot of people have regretted lifelong decisions just by listening to the advice of friends. 

The company you keep has the power to influence and change you. Never forget that a positive influence will teach, motivate, and brush you up for success. While a negative influence will inspire you to become a bad person, change your good nature, and leave you with regrets in the end.

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The 3 Step Process to Building a Profitable Pitch

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As a communication coach, one of the top questions entrepreneurs ask me is how to deliver a winning pitch to potential investors. They want to know if there’s a magic formula to get an investor to say yes and buy into their dream and their business. (more…)

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The 4 Pillars of Wealth and Abundance

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Have you ever wondered what the formula for a wealthy and abundant life is? Many people have. Lots has been written about the subject of wealth creation and living an abundant life. It was a breaking point in my journey and pursuit of success when I found out that there is a clear path to achieve success in life. Thanks to those who have shared their journey, we can clearly see and follow the principles of prosperity. (more…)

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Here Are 4 Reasons Why You Should Have a Podcast, Youtube Channel or Online Show

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Confidence comes from a place of strong understanding of self. After close to three years on radio, I’ve grown from a shy introvert to a shy introvert with an extrovert persona. When the mic is turned on, I can channel a version of myself that some say is attractive, strong, and of course, confident but it wasn’t always this way.

What I want to share with you is what I discovered on this journey into broadcast that you can apply to your life, your ventures, and your personal development. This doesn’t require any fancy gear. It does require a leap of faith on your part because once you go down the road of media; it can change your life.

1. Perceived Expertise

When you go to a doctor, you expect their knowledge will guide them to a solution to your problems. When you have a show, you become your listeners’ doctor. For all the multiple thousands, maybe millions, of YouTube channels, podcasts, and user-created content in the world, each person that gets behind a mic takes a position on their passion, their opinions, and their themes.

They challenge the status quo for the benefit of their listeners in hopes to entertain and educate. With consistency on your side, those fans place you on a platform and give you permission to influence them.

2. Global Acknowledgement

One of the benefits to increasing confidence is when you receive thank you notes from people you may never meet. The feeling of enriching someone’s life from halfway around the globe, provides validation you’re enhancing someone else’s life with your wisdom and your wit.

The very first time I was told I was making a difference in someone’s life in a country other than my own, I felt like I caused massive impact that transcends my circle of influence. When you experience just how much you can cause impact and it comes back to you, it’ll change your worldview.

“Be grateful for what you have and stop complaining – it bores everybody else, does you no good, and doesn’t solve any problems.” – Zig Ziglar

3. Backed By Numbers

One of the most exciting ways to measure success is to quantify your growth. It’s not enough to just broadcast. Having subscribers and downloads helps to know, numerically, how well you’re doing. Word of caution. This can be a way to set yourself up for distress because of number envy but if you understand what the numbers mean; you can control the narrative of the numbers.

The major number that makes most people smile is 10,000. I’d advise it to be 1. Here’s why. As you grow in your industry, so does your reach. If you learned that the one person that subscribed totally changed for the better because of you, wouldn’t that be worth the effort?

4. Effective Communication

While it’s not talked about much, having a show is documentation. You create a dynamic account of your life, your industry, and the pulse on what’s important simply by having a show. When you find a channel to improve your communication skills, you demand attention and people will listen to you. You become more trusted as a leader and people will follow you once they believe you can lead them to their wants and needs.

“To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.” – Tony Robbins

These insights have helped many people become leaders and, ultimately, move others to their best selves. It’s worked for me and I hope it works for you. At the end of the day, it’s all about showing up and showing out.

Have you ever thought about having a radio show? If so, what would you talk about? Let us below!

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