Success Advice
6 Steps To Publishing And Marketing Your Own Book
I kept the documentation that identified me as a Special Education Reading and Writing Student. I stopped going to special education between my junior and senior years of high school. After high school I graduated from my dream college (Penn State), and three months later I wrote a book.
My book, How to Find Your Passion, was downloaded on Amazon more than 3,000 times in the first couple months. This is how I became a #1 bestselling author by the age of 22.
Only a small part of this success was due to my writing skills. Most of it came from the methods I used focused on the following three areas:
- Increasing my productivity and performance during intense work sessions (especially the writing sessions).
- Going into my work sessions with a positive mindset.
- How to market a book.
I’ve systemized this process, and today I’m going to share the marketing methods with you. My education came from the mentorship I received from top-level executives in corporate America and start-up founders from around the world. I’ll be forever grateful for these teachings.
Book Marketing 101
A book is the best way to turn your passion into income. Once you write a book you’ll gain what we call the book echo. In essence it’s the difference between searching for customers and attracting customers. Roger James Hamilton illustrates this wonderfully: “Searching for customer is chasing after butterflies with a net. Attracting customers is building a garden, the butterflies come to you.”
The authority position, leadership status, partnership deals, speaking gigs, blogging, and podcast opportunities you’ll receive after writing a book can be overwhelming.
WARNING: I’m not going to write a lot of “fluff” here. And there’s ONE precursor to all of this. It’s all about community. With the support of a community, your book will reach more people than you ever thought possible. After all, if I can go from being a Special Education Reading and Writing student to being a #1 Bestselling Author by age 22 with my books being bought by readers across the global on a daily basis, you can do it too.
Now, let’s imagine you joined my new Self Publishing System and have a book ready for a go-to market strategy. Here’s how you turn your passion into PROFIT. Please note that skipping any of the steps will unnecessarily complicate things, so stick with the plan. What follows, are proven techniques for publishing a bestseller, with all examples coming from the largest bookstore in the world – Amazon.com:
DISCLAIMER: This an only a blueprint – you must take action in order for this to work!
“If there is a book you want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet; then you must write it.” – Toni Morrison
Book Marketing 101: Bestseller Blueprint:
PART I: Social Media
1. Build A Story
Over the past 2,000 years a lot has changed. However, what has stayed the same is the way we pass on knowledge, which is through storytelling. Storytelling is how we tell our friends about a new product, a favorite athlete, a great meal, or a favorite vacation spot.
Therefore, the fastest way to have your book spread is to tell its story. What does this story look like?
It can be scary to tell this story, in part because it requires you to become vulnerable and be authentic. It requires you to share information you weren’t necessarily asked to share.
It’s about what you say and when you say it. You need three different forms of this story to get great results. The story itself is about WHY you wrote your book.
Here are the three different versions of this story you must create:
A – The One-Pager on why you wrote your book
Some points to cover in this single page of writing include the following: Start this story with the arch (plop your readers in the most intense part). It can be pulled from the beginning, middle or end of the story.
This will grab the reader’s attention.
Then move into a vulnerable sharing in order to bring depth to the relationship you’re establishing with the reader.
From there you move into motivation, expressing the 3-5 benefits that readers will gain from reading your book.
Finally, inspire readers by showing your vision and allowing them to feel like they are a part of this mission.
B – Condense your one-pager into a one-paragraph description.
C – Condense your one-paragraph piece into a 30-second pitch (it may be your subtitle).
When people ask what you’re up to lately, answer with C, then B, and then A, in that order.
2. Announcements
There are only a few announcements needed before you launch your book, or for any project for that matter. Tell people about what was created, when they can buy it, and why they should buy it.
The what is a snapshot of what your book is about – version C of your story from above. The when is the release date for launching your book. The why is version A of your story from above.
Here’s a tip to use for your release date: Create an email opt-in page.
This allows you to directly contact people via email. Do this by creating a single webpage that contains a space for visitors to enter their email address. This is called a landing page. Use Weebly or any free website service to create the webpage. Then connect an email service with the landing page such as MailChimp to collect the emails.
The next announcement is a Facebook Event created for the release date. Invite all of your friends and add the link to your opt-in page.
“The true alchemists do not change lead into gold; they change the world into words.” – William Gass
PART II: AMAZON
3. Upload Your Book To Amazon.com KDP (Kindle Direct Publishing)
If you have uploaded your book more than five days before your release date, press Save as Draft. Once you get within the five-day range, you will want to click Save & Publish. This is because you only have 30 days to be on the Hot New Release List. Once you publish, the clock starts ticking. However, leaving a 5-day window will allow sufficient time for the next task.
After your book is published, you will be sending a PDF copy of your book to 15 close family and friends.
If you need to convert your book from jpg to pdf format for easier sharing, you can use a jpg to pdf converter tool available online.
Ask them to read your book, and in return for the sneak peek, ask them to write you a short review. If everyone complies, great! But life does happen, so expect at least several of them to not follow through as you hoped they would.
Aim for 15 reviews.
Overview:
- Upload your book
- If it’s 6+ days before launch day – Save as Draft.
- If you’re within 5 days of your launch day – Save & Publish.
- Once published, get 15 reviews before your official launch day!
4. Promotion Types
Free Promotion:
This is a 2-5 day promotion that can be ended at any time. The promotion is best used at the launch of your book, and is the quickest pathway to the bestseller list. I encourage taking this route for any first-time authors.
One unique scenario where you wouldn’t want do this is when you have a strong enough following to provide you with the juice needed to rise through the ranks and sell thousands of book in the first week, in which case I recommend the pre-order promotion for that.
Pre-Order:
You can launch your book through a pre-order route. A benefit of this will be promoting your book for over 90 days.
This would include not needing to have your final version complete until 10 days before the release date.
During your entire promotion period you will be racking up sales. This strategy is fairly new to Amazon, and is best used if you’re confident that your reach is already in the thousands.

5. Free Promotion Strategy
It’s not only what you do and how you do it, but you must consider when you do it. If you choose to do a free promotion strategy, you will have two options to optimize sales. Again, I have tested each method and have found the following to be the best options:
- 2-3 Day Promotion Launch
In this strategy, you launch your book on a Tuesday. Two factors in your favor are urgency to download by giving a shorter timeline, and also that Tuesday, statistically speaking, is the best day for a launch.
Avoid the Saturday slump – it’s essentially a dead day for book sales.
- 3-5 Day Promotion Launch
This is a solid strategy for first-time authors. Mistakes do happen, and with the 2-3 day launch strategy, there’s very little wiggle room for mistakes!
In the 3-5 day launch strategy, you launch your book on a Monday. This allows you to still maximize sales from Tuesday and avoid the Saturday slump.
This strategy works very well towards the end of the day on a Monday. If afternoon sales are dismal on a Monday launch, don’t panic.
Do heavy marketing and promotion on Tuesday for both strategies.
Overview:
- Pick your launch timeline strategy.
- Inform your audience of your release date and DON’T CHANGE IT!
- Promote heavily on Tuesday.
6. Pricing Progression
I recommend the following formula, but of course you are entitled to choose any pricing plan you want.
If you decide to do the free promotion, start with a price of $9.99. This will give your book a higher perceived value. 6-8 hours prior to ending your free promo, change your price to $0.99.
Keep this price for a week. Then change to $1.99 and hold that price for a week, then $2.99, and from there you can experiment with prices as you see fit.
Rule of thumb: Any price between $2.99 and $9.99 will get you 70% of that price in royalties. Any price below or above will get you 35% in royalties.
Amazon is running a beta program called KDP Pricing Support. This will show you the relationship between the optimal price, past sales, and author earnings for KDP books similar to yours.
Now you have the secret to publishing and marketing your book to make money for you!
If you would like to write a book and publish it with the full support of a whole community, check out selfpublishingsystem.com.
I am happy to answer questions about the process in the comment area below.
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Before chasing success, every young man needs to face these 9 brutal realities shaping masculinity in the modern world.
Many young men today quietly battle depression, loneliness, and a sense of confusion about who they’re meant to be.
Some blame the lack of deep friendships or romantic relationships. Others feel lost in a digital world that often labels traditional masculinity as “toxic.”
But the truth is this: becoming a man in the modern age takes more than just surviving. It takes resilience, direction, and a willingness to grow even when no one’s watching.
Success doesn’t arrive by accident or luck. It’s built on discipline, sacrifice, and consistency.
Here are 9 harsh truths every young man should know if he wants to thrive, not just survive, in the digital age.
1. Never Use Your Illness as an Excuse
As Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often says, successful people don’t complain; they act.
Your illness, hardship, or struggle shouldn’t define your limits; it should define your motivation. Rest when you must, but always get back up and keep building your dreams. Motivation doesn’t appear magically. It comes after you take action.
Here are five key lessons I’ve learned from Dr. Peterson:
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Learn to write clearly; clarity of thought makes you dangerous.
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Read quality literature in your free time.
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Nurture a strong relationship with your family.
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Share your ideas publicly; your voice matters.
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Become a “monster”, powerful, but disciplined enough to control it.
The best leaders and thinkers are grounded. They welcome criticism, adapt quickly, and keep moving forward no matter what.
2. You Can’t Please Everyone And That’s Okay
You don’t need a crowd of people to feel fulfilled. You need a few friends who genuinely accept you for who you are.
If your circle doesn’t bring out your best, it’s okay to walk away. Solitude can be a powerful teacher. It gives you space to understand what you truly want from life. Remember, successful men aren’t people-pleasers; they’re purpose-driven.
3. You Can Control the Process, Not the Outcome
Especially in creative work, writing, business, or content creation, you control effort, not results.
You might publish two articles a day, but you can’t dictate which one will go viral. Focus on mastery, not metrics. Many great writers toiled for years in obscurity before anyone noticed them. Rejection, criticism, and indifference are all part of the path.
The best creators focus on storytelling, not applause.
4. Rejection Is Never Personal
Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It simply means your offer, idea, or timing didn’t align.
Every successful person has faced rejection repeatedly. What separates them is persistence and perspective. They see rejection as feedback, not failure. The faster you learn that truth, the faster you’ll grow.
5. Women Value Comfort and Security
Understanding women requires maturity and empathy.
Through books, lectures, and personal growth, I’ve learned that most women desire a man who is grounded, intelligent, confident, emotionally stable, and consistent. Some want humor, others intellect, but nearly all want to feel safe and supported.
Instead of chasing attention, work on self-improvement. Build competence and confidence, and the rest will follow naturally.
6. There’s No Such Thing as Failure, Only Lessons
A powerful lesson from Neuro-Linguistic Programming: failure only exists when you stop trying.
Every mistake brings data. Every setback builds wisdom. The most successful men aren’t fearless. They’ve simply learned to act despite fear.
Be proud of your scars. They’re proof you were brave enough to try.
7. Public Speaking Is an Art Form
Public speaking is one of the most valuable and underrated skills a man can master.
It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection. The best speakers tell stories, inspire confidence, and make people feel seen. They research deeply, speak honestly, and practice relentlessly.
If you can speak well, you can lead, sell, teach, and inspire. Start small, practice at work, in class, or even in front of a mirror, and watch your confidence skyrocket.
8. Teaching Is Leadership in Disguise
Great teachers are not just knowledgeable. They’re brave, compassionate, and disciplined.
Teaching forces you to articulate what you know, and in doing so, you master it at a deeper level. Whether you’re mentoring a peer, leading a team, or sharing insights online, teaching refines your purpose.
Lifelong learners become lifelong leaders.
9. Study Human Nature to Achieve Your Dreams
One of the toughest lessons to accept: most people are self-interested.
That’s not cynicism, it’s human nature. Understanding this helps you navigate relationships, business, and communication more effectively.
Everyone has a darker side, but successful people learn to channel theirs productively into discipline, creativity, and drive.
Psychology isn’t just theory; it’s a toolkit. Learn how people think, act, and decide, and you’ll know how to lead them, influence them, and even understand yourself better.
Final Thoughts
The digital age offers endless opportunities, but only to those who are willing to take responsibility, confront discomfort, and keep improving.
Becoming a man today means embracing the hard truths most avoid.
Because at the end of the day, success isn’t about luck. It’s about who you become when life tests you the most.
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