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6 Reasons Why You Haven’t Reached Your Full Potential Yet

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Do you think there’s more to you than what people get to see every day? Do you think that you have more to offer to the world than you actually get to?

If this is something that crosses your mind often, then you have not reached your full potential just yet.

We know that your development period is still in progress and that you will get there one day, but there are a few things that you might be doing that can actively keep you from evolving into your best self. The main reasons why people are not all they could be are not complex or complicated. In fact, they are the simplest things and people tend to overlook them precisely because they seem so small.

Here are 6 reasons you might’ve not reached your full potential yet:

1. You are not being honest enough with yourself

The first step towards achieving your full potential is knowing yourself well enough to know which aspects you need to improve and which you need to develop further. To do this properly, you will need to be entirely honest in your analysis and balanced enough to not be overly critical.

Take a step back from all the social constraints you face on a daily basis and really look at yourself. Analyze everything about you as objectively as possible and identify your strengths and weaknesses. Only then will you be able to maximize your strong suits and minimize your weak ones.

“Being entirely honest with oneself is a good exercise.” – Sigmund Freud

2. You are not aiming for the right goals

What are your main goals for the following 10 years? Are they mainly related to your personal life or are you aiming for a stellar career? It is essential that you know exactly where you want to go if you ever want to get there one day.

You need to establish clear objectives for your future so that you will feel fulfilled one day. Remember that these goals are meant to make you happy above anybody else, so stay honest and find out what you want to fight for.

 

3. You are not organized enough

Proper development takes time, but most of all it requires a well-crafted plan that can take you to the success you are aiming for. How much thought have you put into your upcoming endeavors? How many moves ahead have you planned by now?

Once you have established your goals, you need to find the simplest way to get there. Then you need to come up with a plan B, a plan C, and maybe even a plan D, just so you know the detours you can take.

 

4. You are not curious enough

Your plan for the future may not be enough to drive you to success if you do not bring it up to date it from time to time. While keeping your main goals in mind, you need to explore your professional opportunities to enhance your experience.

You also need to find the best ways to enrich your personal life because this will help you feel truly satisfied at the end of the day. You never know where your next long-term plan is going to spring from, so keep your eyes open for new exciting things.

 

5. You are not focused enough

Keeping up with your long-term plan is definitely not going to be easy. Modern society comes with a virtually endless amount of seductive distractions that can lead you off-track and delay you from achieving your goals.
It is important to stay focused at all times and analyze the opportunities you are presented with as fairly as possible.

 

6. You are not bold enough

If you want to achieve to your full potential, you need to know that you deserve all the good things that are heading your way. When an attractive opportunity presents itself, you need to be bold enough to take it.

“Be bold, be brave enough to be your true self.” – Queen Latifah

Let go of all the insecurities that are holding you back and have enough faith in yourself to take on new challenges and develop along with them. Only this way will you be able to reach your full potential.

Which step will you take to reach your full potential? Please leave your thoughts in the comment section below

Amanda Wilks is a Boston University graduate and a Contributing Editor at Quality Education and Jobs. She loves helping people find meaningful careers and reach their full potential.

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How Your Friends Determine Whether You Succeed or Not

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Can anyone do without having friends? We all have our friends, we share ideas with them, talk together, have fun, and fight. Yes, that’s the baseline of friendship. But, do you know that aside from you, your friends can determine whether you achieve success or not?

There are two things in friendship which are the ability to ”love” and the ability to “influence”. This means you are loved and you are influenced. How do your friends affect your success in life? How are they one of the biggest deciding factors of your success? Let’s find out.

What type of friends do you keep? 

First, what type of friends do you keep? Who do you call your best friend? There are two different kinds of friends, good friends, and bad ones. A lot of people have lost their pathway to success and some have also found their road to success all because of the friends they keep, the people they mingle with. 

Who is your best friend? Answer carefully. Having a best friend means you find each other compatible and understanding. Analyze who your best friend is. If your best friend has not motivated you to do something positive, if who you call your bestie has never given you positive advice, lastly if your best friend has never informed and advised you on your shortcomings, then you don’t have a best friend.

This quote tells us “birds of the same feather flock together”. Countless people have changed from their good nature into a bad one all because of friends. One thing to note is, “negative people move with negative aura”. If your best friend is filled with negativity inside-out then you will surely be affected by his/her negative aura.

They influence your success with positivity or negativity 

The friends you keep can either influence you with positivity or negativity because your friends have the power to change your kind of person completely. 

This is how your friends influence you:

  1. They influence you indirectly with what they do
  2. They influence you directly by teaching and giving you advice 

Yes, that is how they influence you. For instance, you watch a movie and you like the way the actor walks. The question is if you truly like the way the actor walks, won’t you try to imitate the actor? Of course, you will.

Just the way you imitate the actor is the same way your friends can influence you with their character. However, the funny part is, they don’t have to teach you to do things like them. You just find yourself imitating and copying them gradually.

An important question to ask is, are you imitating a good friend or a bad one? If you imitate a good friend then you will be good, but if you imitate a bad person, you will surely become a bad person.

Everyone wants to succeed, a good friend will always teach, enlighten, and motivate you for success. A bad friend will only motivate you to do evil things (smoking, drinking, fight, envy,).

And you should know that things like that are a great enemy of success and even of God. So, if you have these bad elements in your life, how will you achieve success? There is no way!

And also, they can teach and advise you directly. But, what do your friends teach you? When you ask them for advice do they inspire you positively or teach you the bad stuff.? A lot of people have regretted lifelong decisions just by listening to the advice of friends. 

The company you keep has the power to influence and change you. Never forget that a positive influence will teach, motivate, and brush you up for success. While a negative influence will inspire you to become a bad person, change your good nature, and leave you with regrets in the end.

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The 3 Step Process to Building a Profitable Pitch

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As a communication coach, one of the top questions entrepreneurs ask me is how to deliver a winning pitch to potential investors. They want to know if there’s a magic formula to get an investor to say yes and buy into their dream and their business. (more…)

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The 4 Pillars of Wealth and Abundance

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Have you ever wondered what the formula for a wealthy and abundant life is? Many people have. Lots has been written about the subject of wealth creation and living an abundant life. It was a breaking point in my journey and pursuit of success when I found out that there is a clear path to achieve success in life. Thanks to those who have shared their journey, we can clearly see and follow the principles of prosperity. (more…)

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Here Are 4 Reasons Why You Should Have a Podcast, Youtube Channel or Online Show

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Confidence comes from a place of strong understanding of self. After close to three years on radio, I’ve grown from a shy introvert to a shy introvert with an extrovert persona. When the mic is turned on, I can channel a version of myself that some say is attractive, strong, and of course, confident but it wasn’t always this way.

What I want to share with you is what I discovered on this journey into broadcast that you can apply to your life, your ventures, and your personal development. This doesn’t require any fancy gear. It does require a leap of faith on your part because once you go down the road of media; it can change your life.

1. Perceived Expertise

When you go to a doctor, you expect their knowledge will guide them to a solution to your problems. When you have a show, you become your listeners’ doctor. For all the multiple thousands, maybe millions, of YouTube channels, podcasts, and user-created content in the world, each person that gets behind a mic takes a position on their passion, their opinions, and their themes.

They challenge the status quo for the benefit of their listeners in hopes to entertain and educate. With consistency on your side, those fans place you on a platform and give you permission to influence them.

2. Global Acknowledgement

One of the benefits to increasing confidence is when you receive thank you notes from people you may never meet. The feeling of enriching someone’s life from halfway around the globe, provides validation you’re enhancing someone else’s life with your wisdom and your wit.

The very first time I was told I was making a difference in someone’s life in a country other than my own, I felt like I caused massive impact that transcends my circle of influence. When you experience just how much you can cause impact and it comes back to you, it’ll change your worldview.

“Be grateful for what you have and stop complaining – it bores everybody else, does you no good, and doesn’t solve any problems.” – Zig Ziglar

3. Backed By Numbers

One of the most exciting ways to measure success is to quantify your growth. It’s not enough to just broadcast. Having subscribers and downloads helps to know, numerically, how well you’re doing. Word of caution. This can be a way to set yourself up for distress because of number envy but if you understand what the numbers mean; you can control the narrative of the numbers.

The major number that makes most people smile is 10,000. I’d advise it to be 1. Here’s why. As you grow in your industry, so does your reach. If you learned that the one person that subscribed totally changed for the better because of you, wouldn’t that be worth the effort?

4. Effective Communication

While it’s not talked about much, having a show is documentation. You create a dynamic account of your life, your industry, and the pulse on what’s important simply by having a show. When you find a channel to improve your communication skills, you demand attention and people will listen to you. You become more trusted as a leader and people will follow you once they believe you can lead them to their wants and needs.

“To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.” – Tony Robbins

These insights have helped many people become leaders and, ultimately, move others to their best selves. It’s worked for me and I hope it works for you. At the end of the day, it’s all about showing up and showing out.

Have you ever thought about having a radio show? If so, what would you talk about? Let us below!

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