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Why Smiling Will Quadruple Your Success And Help You Leave The Negative Nancys Behind

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Have you ever thought to yourself how powerful a smile is? It’s one of the simplest life hacks to increase your level of success. It’s something that a lot of us take for granted, yet it takes no effort at all to practice.

Everything you do and every habit you have created comes as the result of a decision. When you refuse to practice negative habits and adopt new empowering habits, your results begin to change, and your success starts to quadruple.

Don’t wait to be reminded to smile. Start smiling as much as you can and make it the one thing you do each day that is non-negotiable. Best of all, it takes almost no time to practice.

The seven ways smiling can quadruple your success are:

 

1. You feel awesome

A lot of your success is determined by how you feel in the moment. If you feel lousy, then chances are you are going to execute on actions that are in line with this state. One of the fastest ways to change your state is to smile.

Try putting a big greasy grin on your face three times a day and notice how different you feel.

 

2. It’s great for building rapport

Meeting someone for the first time can be daunting and often this first meet up can determine all your future interactions with them. I’ve started recently, making sure that I smile more when I meet a new person, and I’ve noticed that I am in rapport with strangers a lot more than before.

A smile is a great way to diffuse tension and show someone that you are genuine, kind, and loving towards people. By smiling you are scientifically proven to be more confident, appear more competent, and be more approachable.

 

3. It will help you with pitches

As an entrepreneur, you are required to pitch ideas, products, concepts, and people’s thoughts on a regular basis. When you complete these pitches with a smile, you come across as caring about what you’re doing. It’s also proven that smiling makes you come across as more trustworthy, which is 90% of a pitch.

A pitch is basically a disguise for the question “Are you trustworthy?” This doesn’t mean you should use smiling to tell lies, what it means is you should present yourself in a way that makes you happy, and in turn, makes you smile.

 

4. It will increase your confidence

Any situation you are put in on a daily basis can benefit from increased levels of confidence. Confident people are infectious and smiling is a fast way to become more confident. If you analyse the actions of a confident person, you will see that their body language and their facial expressions are all creating positives perceptions of them.

Like everyone, I have situations where I think I’m confident and then when it comes time to perform, so to speak, the confidence disappears. Before any important event, I have found that going into a situation with a smile gets me into the state I need to be in to be confident.

“When you have no strategy at all to succeed, just put a smile on your face and see what happens”

 

5. Smiling is a beautifully contagious disease

Go to a party, get around a group of people, and try smiling. What you will notice if you do this is that other people around you will begin to smile without realising what they’re doing. I need to get scientific again to demonstrate this point.

All of us have mirror neurons inside of us that respond to another person’s smile, and in turn, make us smile. This is why when you smile it’s like a contagious disease that everyone else picks up. Talk about being a catalyst for positive change.

Who knew all it took was a smile which is free and requires very little effort. Even when you smile and you don’t mean it, it still has the same positive reaction to your thoughts and feelings.

 

6. Endorphins are released

Smiling helps release endorphins into the blood stream that make you feel phenomenal. Endorphins are also created by intensive exercise and sex. Throw away the traditional pharmaceutical drugs because they are killing you and your success.

If there was ever a chemical drug for happiness, then it’s definitely endorphins. Smiling also helps lower cortisol levels which relieve stress, and makes you feel more relaxed. Do you think being relaxed, happy, and less stressed could help you be successful?

 

7. Smiling releases negative emotions and thoughts

It’s not hard to have a long day grinding away at your business and then come home with a bank of negative emotions and thoughts. When you’re mind is stacked high with these two things it can be very challenging to open the floodgates and release them all.

Smiling is one productive way to quickly release negative emotions and thoughts. As negative thoughts are released, more space becomes available to add new positive thoughts. Add meditation into the mix and you have a powerful cocktail to squash almost any unwelcome feelings that come your way.

Hacks for smiling

1. Go out with friends that make you smile
2. Watch a comedy act that makes you smile
3. Listen to a podcast that puts a grin on your face

How are you going to smile more? Do you think smiling works? Let me know in the comments section below or on my website timdenning.net and my Facebook.
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20 Ways You Can Become a Powerful Communicator

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Emile Steenveld Speaker and Coach

Some people seem to naturally know how to effectively communicate in a group setting. They can express themselves clearly and listen attentively without dominating the conversation.

Being a powerful communicator is important for several reasons, including building and maintaining relationships, achieving goals, resolving conflicts, improving productivity, leading and influencing others, advancing in your career, expressing yourself more confidently and authentically, and improving your mental and emotional well-being. Effective communication is an essential life skill that can benefit you in all aspects of your life.

But, don’t worry if you don’t naturally possess this skill, as effective communication is something that can be developed with practice, planning and preparation.
 

1.  Listen actively: Practice active listening by giving your full attention to the speaker and responding to what they are saying.

 

2. Use “I” statements: Speak from your own perspective and avoid placing blame or making accusations.

 

3. Avoid assumptions: Don’t make assumptions about what the other person is thinking or feeling.

 

4. Be clear: Express your thoughts and feelings clearly and concisely by getting to the point and avoid using jargon or overly complex language.

 

5. Show empathy: Show that you understand and care about the other person’s feelings.

 

6. Offer valuable insights: When speaking in a group, provide a valuable takeaway or actionable item that people can walk away with.

 

7. Be an active listener: Listen attentively and respond accordingly, incorporating your points into the conversation.

 

8. Choose the right time: Pick the most opportune time to speak to ensure that you have the group’s attention and can deliver your message without interruption.

 

9. Be the unifying voice: Step in and unify the group’s thoughts to calm down the discussion and insert your point effectively.

 

10. Keep responses concise: Keep responses short and to the point to show respect for others’ time.

 

11. Avoid unnecessary comments: Avoid commenting on everything and only speak when you have something important to say.

 

12. Cut the fluff: Avoid being long-winded and get straight to the point.

 

13. Prepare ahead of time: Sort out your points and practice them before speaking in a group.

 

14. Smile and be positive: Smile and nod along as others speak, to build a positive relationship and be respected when it’s your turn to speak.

 

15. Take responsibility: Take responsibility for your own actions and feelings.

 

16. Ask questions: Ask questions to clarify any confusion or misunderstandings.

 

17. Avoid interrupting: Allow the other person to finish speaking without interruption.

 

18. Practice active listening: Repeat what the other person said to ensure you have understood correctly.

 

19. Use your body language too: Use nonverbal cues such as eye contact, facial expressions, and body language to convey your message and build rapport.

 

20. Be aware of the tone of your voice: it should be calm and assertive, not aggressive or passive.

 

By keeping these tips in mind, you can improve your communication skills and become a more powerful communicator, which can help you build better relationships, achieve your goals, and lead a more fulfilling life.

I you want to learn how to become more confident in life then you can join my weekly mentorship calls and 40+ online workshops at AweBliss.com so you can master your life with more success.

 
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