Success Advice
Why Leaders Need to Embrace Value Based Leadership
Value-based leadership is the key to survival and success in the 21st century
Although the righteous man falls ten times, he rises again repeatedly whereas the wicked man never falls twice. God extends his hand several times to the righteous man who has values and morals in his life to rise again.
However, God never extends another opportunity to the wicked man because he doesn’t deserve it.
With the fall of several business empires globally, people began doubting the credibility of business leaders. People go to the extent of blaming the business schools that create leaders.
Where does the problem lie? Is it the individuals or institutions to be made accountable for the failure of business empires? If it is the institutions to be pinned with the responsibility then the engineering institutions that produce incompetent engineers and the medical institutions that produce unethical doctors are to be blamed.
It is not the institutions to be blamed but the individuals for the current business mess. The dearth of leadership values and morals among business leaders is responsible for the current business scandals.
In this context, we shall look at value-based leadership which is the need of the hour in this 21st century.
What is Value-Based Leadership?
Value-based leadership highlights what is right and wrong not who is right and wrong. It emphasizes on means not ends. For instance, Mahatma Gandhi led India’s freedom struggle through non-violence.
He went by the road less traveled by emphasizing means not end. Martin Luther King fought for the equality of blacks with whites. He led the civil rights movement through non-violence. He is still revered globally.
Nelson Mandela fought against apartheid in South Africa and is a living legend. Leaders who divide countries based on religion, language, ethnicity, and geography are never appreciated in history.
However, the people who fought for equality and human dignity are always revered and respected globally.
‘Truth alone triumphs at the end’ is the hallmark of value-based leadership. It is the values that count. It is the journey that matters not the destination. How long one lives is not important how well one lives with values is more important. It is not the material but the principles, values, and morals that count for these leaders.
People flout norms and rules and deviate from basic ethics and morals because of various reasons such as to ensure their survival, their desire to excel at any cost, and the pressure to perform out of the way.
It is a complicated situation for several leaders who occupy higher positions. If we empathize we may at times justify their deviation from basic values. However, wrong is always wrong.
Charisma is the key to value-based leadership. It emphasizes integrity and ethics. It emphasizes ideas, ideals, values, and morality. It is about being transparent and fair in dealings while leading.
It is all about adding value to the organizational goals and objectives and the people contributing to the goals. It is about standing by values through thick and thin and sharing the same with the people in and around with enthusiasm.
Finally, value-based leadership is all about adding value to the institutions rather than individuals who champion value-based leadership.
Although leadership needs values and morals value-based leadership emphasizes more of morality, values, ethics, principles, and integrity to get across the message to people for realizing organizational goals successfully.
It emphasizes more on means rather than mere ends. It emphasizes integrity, ethics, honesty, fairness, and transparency all the time. All this makes the difference between normal leadership and value-based leadership.
Value-based leadership calls for corporate social responsibility. It looks for the all-round development of the organization and society as a whole. It pays taxes promptly and looks for longevity but no shortcuts.
The path to value-based leadership is full of thorns but treading the path makes the journey exciting and interesting.
All humans have a conscience that reminds us what is right and what is wrong. There are cultural issues involved in ethics and morals. For some societies what is right may be wrong for other societies.
Therefore, value-based leadership is contextual and cultural but at the core, it is based on convictions and everlasting values and morals.
“The single biggest way to impact an organization is to focus on leadership development. There is almost no limit to the potential of an organization that recruits good people, raises them up as leaders and continually develops them.” – John Maxwell
Characteristics of Value-Based Leaders
Value-based leaders avoid litigation and ill will. They don’t hesitate to lose money and material to uphold their credibility and goodwill. Money can be earned but not the lost reputation.
They look for longevity but not short-term temptations. They rarely take into account short-term setbacks. They keep long-term vision and values in view and take a strategic call.
These leaders go by the law of the land and follow the rules of the game meticulously. There is total synchronization between their words and deeds. They are aware that they are constantly under the scanner.
They firmly stick to their commitment and lead by trust and confidence. Trust is the foundation of value-based leadership.
Value-based leaders leave a great legacy behind where there will not be any leadership vacuum as they line up the leadership pipeline. They start the fire that fuels the virtuous cycle of success. They do the right things rather than doing things right.
These leaders infuse their people and organizations with their ideological values and morals that last longer than themselves. Their preaching, practices, policies, and procedures are much stronger more pervasive, and more endurable with long-term effects.
They sacrifice their privileges for the betterment of their people. They create a strong and compelling vision statement replete with values and morals and are ready to face challenges head-on.
They are undeterred about the pinpricks on the way. They set a personal example and focus on the collective interests of all individuals. For them, people’s interests are superior to their interests.
They are constantly under the scanner of their people. They are watched closely and keenly. When people are convinced about their credentials and values, people follow these leaders. These segments of leaders have to undergo several series of severe tests to prove themselves in the eyes of their people. No degree of hypocrisy is tolerated by people.
They don’t like to catch people making mistakes and correct them. They rather catch people succeeding and turn that into greater success. As we all know success is contagious.
They walk the talk. They set an example. They die for values. They rarely bother for survival. Their core is based purely on principles, values, and ethics. Humility is their hallmark.
Succinctly the common qualities that connect all value-based leaders are: being passionate with values and principles and ideas and ideals, leading by example, sticking to commitment, and looking at similarities but not differences.
We find people being fired after being hired. The general perception is that the lack of hard skills is ascribed to the firing of an employee. The hidden truth is not that but the contradiction in the value system of the employer with the values and ethics of the employee.
Few people make several mistakes for their survival. But the survival is only temporary with long-term implications and complications. It is always the means that count but not the end. Value-based leadership justifies means rather than ends.
Those who compromise their values find it difficult to convince their conscience and suffer in the end. At times, the time may support a wrong man but the result is disastrous for the man. Therefore, it is essential to emphasize values.
What counts at the end of the life are your values and morals. Several leaders are revered globally even after their death. It is basically because of their values, convictions, and principles that move generation after generation.
Emphasize Value-Based Leadership
“Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value.” —Albert Einstein
Leaders like Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr, and Mother Theresa are revered and remembered even after their death because of their values and morals and their contribution towards the right and just causes.
Abraham Lincoln also represented value-based leadership. Despite facing several hardships and failures in his life, he never compromised his values and morals. He fought against slavery and for the unity of North and South America and ultimately he was assassinated.
Corporate leaders like Warren Buffett and Bill Gates represent value-based leadership where they make money through ethical means and share their wealth for the benefit of humankind through their foundation.
Value-based leadership is the key to survival and success in the 21st century. Leading a life that is purposeful and meaningful makes life interesting and exciting. Money and material comes and goes.
What stands at the end of your life are the values and morals and the legacy you leave to your future generations. Leave a mark behind.
Become a legend. Become a value-based leader. You may not be a good inheritor but can be a good ancestor.
Life
9 Harsh Truths Every Young Man Must Face to Succeed in the Modern World
Before chasing success, every young man needs to face these 9 brutal realities shaping masculinity in the modern world.
Many young men today quietly battle depression, loneliness, and a sense of confusion about who they’re meant to be.
Some blame the lack of deep friendships or romantic relationships. Others feel lost in a digital world that often labels traditional masculinity as “toxic.”
But the truth is this: becoming a man in the modern age takes more than just surviving. It takes resilience, direction, and a willingness to grow even when no one’s watching.
Success doesn’t arrive by accident or luck. It’s built on discipline, sacrifice, and consistency.
Here are 9 harsh truths every young man should know if he wants to thrive, not just survive, in the digital age.
1. Never Use Your Illness as an Excuse
As Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often says, successful people don’t complain; they act.
Your illness, hardship, or struggle shouldn’t define your limits; it should define your motivation. Rest when you must, but always get back up and keep building your dreams. Motivation doesn’t appear magically. It comes after you take action.
Here are five key lessons I’ve learned from Dr. Peterson:
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Learn to write clearly; clarity of thought makes you dangerous.
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Read quality literature in your free time.
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Nurture a strong relationship with your family.
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Share your ideas publicly; your voice matters.
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Become a “monster”, powerful, but disciplined enough to control it.
The best leaders and thinkers are grounded. They welcome criticism, adapt quickly, and keep moving forward no matter what.
2. You Can’t Please Everyone And That’s Okay
You don’t need a crowd of people to feel fulfilled. You need a few friends who genuinely accept you for who you are.
If your circle doesn’t bring out your best, it’s okay to walk away. Solitude can be a powerful teacher. It gives you space to understand what you truly want from life. Remember, successful men aren’t people-pleasers; they’re purpose-driven.
3. You Can Control the Process, Not the Outcome
Especially in creative work, writing, business, or content creation, you control effort, not results.
You might publish two articles a day, but you can’t dictate which one will go viral. Focus on mastery, not metrics. Many great writers toiled for years in obscurity before anyone noticed them. Rejection, criticism, and indifference are all part of the path.
The best creators focus on storytelling, not applause.
4. Rejection Is Never Personal
Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It simply means your offer, idea, or timing didn’t align.
Every successful person has faced rejection repeatedly. What separates them is persistence and perspective. They see rejection as feedback, not failure. The faster you learn that truth, the faster you’ll grow.
5. Women Value Comfort and Security
Understanding women requires maturity and empathy.
Through books, lectures, and personal growth, I’ve learned that most women desire a man who is grounded, intelligent, confident, emotionally stable, and consistent. Some want humor, others intellect, but nearly all want to feel safe and supported.
Instead of chasing attention, work on self-improvement. Build competence and confidence, and the rest will follow naturally.
6. There’s No Such Thing as Failure, Only Lessons
A powerful lesson from Neuro-Linguistic Programming: failure only exists when you stop trying.
Every mistake brings data. Every setback builds wisdom. The most successful men aren’t fearless. They’ve simply learned to act despite fear.
Be proud of your scars. They’re proof you were brave enough to try.
7. Public Speaking Is an Art Form
Public speaking is one of the most valuable and underrated skills a man can master.
It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection. The best speakers tell stories, inspire confidence, and make people feel seen. They research deeply, speak honestly, and practice relentlessly.
If you can speak well, you can lead, sell, teach, and inspire. Start small, practice at work, in class, or even in front of a mirror, and watch your confidence skyrocket.
8. Teaching Is Leadership in Disguise
Great teachers are not just knowledgeable. They’re brave, compassionate, and disciplined.
Teaching forces you to articulate what you know, and in doing so, you master it at a deeper level. Whether you’re mentoring a peer, leading a team, or sharing insights online, teaching refines your purpose.
Lifelong learners become lifelong leaders.
9. Study Human Nature to Achieve Your Dreams
One of the toughest lessons to accept: most people are self-interested.
That’s not cynicism, it’s human nature. Understanding this helps you navigate relationships, business, and communication more effectively.
Everyone has a darker side, but successful people learn to channel theirs productively into discipline, creativity, and drive.
Psychology isn’t just theory; it’s a toolkit. Learn how people think, act, and decide, and you’ll know how to lead them, influence them, and even understand yourself better.
Final Thoughts
The digital age offers endless opportunities, but only to those who are willing to take responsibility, confront discomfort, and keep improving.
Becoming a man today means embracing the hard truths most avoid.
Because at the end of the day, success isn’t about luck. It’s about who you become when life tests you the most.
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