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The Power Of Giving – How To Live A Life Of Meaning

Joel Brown (Founder of Addicted2Success.com)

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Even after obtaining what may be considered as ‘enough’ for personal fulfillment, many still feel a void inside them that yearns to be filled.

This is where the power of giving is then realized.

 

Anyone Can Give

Some people would be inclined to think that only those who are sufficiently endowed financially should give to charity. But one must always remember that giving starts form personal will or from the heart, a thing that every human being has no matter their financial or material standing. So long as whatever is given, whether a service or material gift, makes a positive impact and difference on the life of the recipient, then it qualifies to be a charitable gift. But it must be given unconditionally without any expectation of a reciprocal action from the receiver.

At the same time, you do not have to move far from where they are in order to find a worthy cause in which to exercise charity. Numerous statistics are produced each year that show various problems people face all over the world. These people are all around us. They are hardly a few meters away. For example, statistics show that one out of four people in the world are facing starvation. This means that starving people are just within our reach. What then prevents us from engaging in acts of charity?

 

Why Don’t Some People Give?

While a good number of people will give out selflessly despite their meagre capabilities, others who may even be more endowed do not give to charity. They claim that they first have to achieve substantially at a personal level before they can give to others. They seem to follow the idea developed in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. In this, one rises through several levels of needs. After one need is fulfilled, then they move to the next level until they reach the peak in this pyramid of needs.

This kind of outlook would be too narrow to allow someone to give. This is because the complex nature of the human being forces us to seek for more, no matter what we may already have. As such, the urge to get more may never end. This is why some people never give to others. They do not realise that the path of self-fulfilment starts right at the bottom of the pyramid and that is where giving should start, not after you have fulfilled all of your possible personal needs.

The reason why some people do not give is because they act out of a consciousness of scarcity, they believe that they do not have it in them to give, that they have nothing of value to share with the rest of the world and that they have to be a certain type of person to give or that there is not enough to go around. All of this is far from the truth, anyone and everyone has something they can offer one another.

 

Giving Has Immense Personal Benefits

As stated earlier, giving does not necessarily mean giving out money or material items. People give not because they have but because they have that inherent urge to give. In fact, many well-known philanthropists did not start their charity work when they got rich. They probably didn’t know that they would become rich even when they started charitable work.

Even without any material gift to offer, sharing your ideas can have immense personal benefits. Ideas can transform others greatly. Many great things that have been achieved in the world emanated from simple ideas. The benefit of sharing your ideas is that the effect will somehow boomerang back to you. By listening to your own ideas repeatedly as you share with others, you may eventually be inclined to put them in practice yourself with wonderful results. You will be unlocking your own potential of self fulfilment. It may eventually seem like a miracle but that is how selfless giving works.

By giving out what you have without expecting anything in return, you start living a meaningful life. You get to realise your true calling in a life and world full of challenges. If you find meaning in the lives of those in need and do something about it, you will also find meaning in your own life. You find yourself in better health and peace and you achieve more happiness. That is the magic of selfless giving.

 

“You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.” – Kahlil Gibran

 

Article By Joel Brown | Addicted2Success

I am the the Founder of Addicted2Success.com and I am so grateful you're here to be part of this awesome community. I love connecting with people who have a passion for Entrepreneurship, Self Development & Achieving Success. I started this website with the intention of educating and inspiring likeminded people to always strive for success no matter what their circumstances.I'm proud to say through my podcast and through this website we have impacted over 100 million lives in the last 6 and a half years.

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5 Comments

  1. 2gnoME

    Jul 19, 2012 at 9:41 pm

    We love this! The more you give the more you receive! It all starts with having a high self-awareness 🙂

  2. rakesh saha

    Jul 1, 2012 at 5:51 pm

    What you give always comes back to you as a law of nature be it love , respect , benevolence, charity or humanity.
    So go on giving means you are on the way to receive it eventually.
    Be self less in giving and it would bounce back to you in bounty.
    Trust His majesty- He can never be wrong in His judgement !!!

  3. Lela Ashkarian

    Jun 17, 2012 at 4:50 pm

    It’s in Giving we receive… I had spent an hour a day to share my thoughts, advice on a subject I am passionate about which is how to sell a clients home or purchase a home for them in this new world. By understanding their needs and core goal WHY they need my services, accordingly I plant the seed in their MIND.. and when they are in alignment and ready to receive my help and that which is given. .. then they will see the benefit.. but my job is to plant the seed and detach myself from the outcome.

    Thank you for sharing.. and have the best day of your life

  4. Koes da Silva

    Jun 16, 2012 at 1:29 pm

    Any distress or hardship of life that I experienced, do not make me give in to fate / circumstances. I keep fighting even if the results are not comparable to what I do. Sad …. ? No! Maybe it’s enough to me and my son today. And one thing that makes me proud of this day is that in this lack I can split the money that I can today to bring my friend went to the hospital with high fever, but today my son is also in need of money. I am very happy because my friend got a doctor’s care. Because I think my friend is more need, and I believe that there is another provision for my son. God help …..

    • edonicom

      Jun 22, 2012 at 9:17 am

      incredible, salute to you. in Islam’s name is shodaqoh.

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