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How to Break Through Glass Ceilings and Manifest Success

It’s when you change the blueprint and bust through the glass ceiling that things start to change.



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Let’s talk about breaking through your ceiling regarding manifestation.

What can sometimes happen is that we will find ourselves hitting this constant ceiling when we are trying to manifest something or when we’re trying to up-level our life. We are continuously hitting the same road bumps or having the same self-sabotage play out all the time.  

This can happen because we have a blueprint for everything. Most of the time, this blueprint is created by our parents and upbringing, and while we have the power to change our blueprint, many of us don’t know how to. Whatever way our parents perceived money, success, wealth, opportunities, relationships, love, etc., created our blueprint and we keep to it unless we decide (and take action) to change it.  

These blueprints form our ‘glass ceiling’ or this upper limit that blocks us from having more. Basically, there is a ‘ceiling’ that you can’t move through, so that’s why you will constantly feel like you’re hitting these roadblocks. The glass ceiling becomes the barrier to up-leveling and quantum leaping.

It’s when you change the blueprint and bust through the glass ceiling that things start to change.

How to break through your glass ceiling

One of the easiest ways to do this is to put yourself in a very different environment. You will literally allow your body and mind to make something else available to you and become more of a possibility for your future.  

Additionally, making a massive leap or doing something that’s going to 100% force you through a ceiling (so you don’t have to do it yourself) will do the trick.

For example, paying 3x more than you ever have for a night at a hotel is an action that’s going to hold you accountable and force you to step into the version of your future self that pays that much without flinching.  

Sometimes we almost have to put ourselves in situations where the fire is lit under our ass, and we have no other choice but to grow, expand, and leap, starting NOW.

If you’ve ever invested more into yourself than you ever thought you could, that would be another example.

You’re stretched in a way where you have to show up, and as a result, you break the ceiling, change the blueprint, and quantum leap.

“Aim for the sky and you’ll reach the ceiling. Aim for the ceiling and you’ll stay on the floor.” ― Bill Shankly

Once you’ve made that stretch, you can feel how it’s pushing your boundaries and edges of what is normal and comfortable. Once that step is done (and let’s use the example of investing in your own self-growth), you are in a different energy. Your energy starts to shift because of the new space you’re in. You’re in a different environment, and your body starts to feel and see how life could begin to be for you.  

Lastly, when you make this scary decision to bust through the ceiling in whatever way you want to, it forces you to show up for yourself because you have skin in the game. You’ve given your resources of time, energy, and money, and thus, you’re going to be 10x more likely to take the action steps than if you just kept doing what feels comfortable. 

Healthy pressure and a bit of a fire under your ass are never a bad thing if you want results quickly. Is it easy? No. But it’s ALWAYS worth it. 

Monica Yates is a trauma healer, feminine/masculine embodiment coach, and period whisperer. She’s also the podcast host of the Feminine As F*ck Podcast (more than 1.6 million downloads) and runs a business helping people from all walks of life get into their magnetic feminine energy, feel safe letting men lead, heal their cycle and be free of the trauma and energetic blocks that hold them back from living their dream life. She has been featured in Vogue, Glamour, Men’s Health and more. Learn more at  

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15 Essential Habits to a Stronger, Healthier, and Happier You

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How to Choose the Best Affiliate Programs for Your Blog

If you follow these steps, you can create an affiliate marketing plan that makes money, fits well with your content, and connects with your readers



how to choose the best affiliate programs for your blog

Picking the right affiliate programs for your blog is really important. It can make a big difference in how much money you can make and how much your readers get out of your blog. With so many choices out there, deciding which ones to go with can be tricky. 

This guide is here to make it easier for you. It will give you clear steps and helpful tips to choose affiliate programs that fit well with what your blog is about, what your readers like, and what you stand for. 

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Understanding Affiliate Marketing

Before you start picking affiliate programs, it’s important to really understand what affiliate marketing is and how it works. 

Basically, affiliate marketing is when you promote a product or service on your blog, and then you get paid a little bit every time someone buys something or does something because you recommended it. 

It’s great for both the person selling the product and the blogger, because the seller gets more sales with low risk, and the blogger can make money from their blog.

How to Choose the Right Affiliate Programs for Your Blog

1. Assess Your Niche and Audience

The key to doing well in affiliate marketing starts with really knowing what your blog is about and who reads it. Consider the following:

  • Your blog’s content: What topics do you cover? Ensure the products or services you promote are relevant.
  • Your audience’s interests and needs: What solutions are they seeking? Choose affiliate programs that offer products or services that solve their problems or enhance their lives.

2. Research Potential Affiliate Programs

Once you know what your blog is about and what your readers want, start looking for affiliate programs. Choose ones that are well-known for good products, great customer service, and helpful support for affiliates. Resources to find these programs include:

  • Affiliate networks like ShareASale, Commission Junction, and ClickBank.
  • Direct searches for “[Your Niche] affiliate programs” in search engines.
  • Recommendations from other bloggers in your niche.

3. Evaluate the Commission Structure

The commission structure is a critical factor to consider. Look for programs that offer competitive rates that make your efforts worthwhile. Consider:

  • The percentage of commission per sale.
  • Whether the program offers a flat rate per action (e.g., per sign-up).
  • The cookie duration, which affects how long after a click you can earn commissions on sales.

4. Consider the Program’s Reputation and Sureness

Join affiliate programs with a solid reputation for quality and sureness. This not only ensures that you’re promoting good products but also that you’ll be paid on time. You can:

  • Read reviews from other affiliates.
  • Check the program’s history and background.
  • Look for any complaints or issues reported online.

5. Analyze the Support and Resources Offered

A good affiliate program gives you things like ads to use, training on their products, and helpful managers. Having access to these resources can really help you do a better job at promoting their products.

6. Understand the Terms and Conditions

Before signing up, thoroughly review the program’s terms and conditions. Pay close attention to:

  • Payment thresholds and methods.
  • Any restrictions on how you can promote their products.
  • The program’s policy on affiliate marketing on social media platforms.

7. Test the Product or Service

If possible, test the product or service before promoting it. This firsthand experience allows you to offer genuine charge and build trust with your audience.

8. Look for Recurring Commission Opportunities

Some affiliate programs pay you again and again for subscriptions or services that charge fees regularly. These can provide a more stable income compared to one-time sales commissions.

Implementing Your Choice

After choosing the best affiliate programs, the next step is to smoothly include your affiliate marketing in your content plan. This includes:

  • Creating valuable content that naturally incorporates affiliate links.
  • Disclosing your affiliate affairs transparently to maintain trust with your audience.
  • Tracking your results to understand what works best for your audience and adjusting your strategy accordingly.

Picking the best affiliate programs for your blog involves careful planning, research, and making sure they match what your audience likes and needs. 

If you follow these steps, you can create an affiliate marketing plan that makes money, fits well with your content, and connects with your readers. 

The real key to doing well with affiliate marketing isn’t just about the products you talk about, but also how much your audience trusts and values your advice. 

With enough time, patience, and hard work, your blog can grow into a successful space that earns a good amount of affiliate money and helps your readers choose the right products.

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