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How I Became A Viral Blogger: It’s Not What You Think.

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I started blogging in 2014 with the intention of using social media to inspire the world. It took me only three blog posts to have my first viral article about how I transformed my life.

I’m going to tell you step-by-step how I became a viral blogger and achieved online success.

Step 1: Begin with no end in mind.

Listen to a friend who tells you to share your message and do it even though you have no idea what the end looks like. Write for a blog no one has ever heard of with a catchy, yet weird title. Become addicted to your craft and see where it leads you.

Act as if you are eight years old again and dream big. Even when it makes no sense, still dream big. A lot of people won’t understand why you’re doing it and that’s okay. What matters is you’re exploring your own ideas and feelings.

“What matters is you’re taking every bit of experience you have and sharing that with everyone”

The self-help books are wrong. You can try everything, but you’ll never predict the future. Your future will always be more beautiful than you could ever predict yourself. Embrace it.

Step 2: Fall flat on your face.

Lose all your material possessions and learn again what it’ like to live with a 2009 Mac computer and nothing else but your clothes. Take a job in a call centre for a company you know nothing about because a homeless friend of yours tells you to.

Eat canned vegetable soup every day that you buy on special once a month from the local supermarket. Learn to be humble as hell again while eating your canned soup and also eat sh*t in the form of your career.

Clock in at 11 am and clock out at 9 pm with only a 45-minute lunch break and some quick 15-minute breaks. Use your old Nokia phone with a numerical keypad (when everyone else has a smartphone) to time your breaks, so you don’t get in trouble with the call centre team leader.

To make things worse, tell your boss’s boss in the call centre that you used to be a successful entrepreneur and have him laugh very loud at you. Go back to your desk and eat some more sh*t.

Step 3: Refuse to do anything else.

Each night when you get home from work, refuse to do anything other than blogging. Resist the temptation to watch videos on YouTube and start writing and formatting articles. Spend hours trying to find the right photo for each piece you write because you care about your audience.

Have people you work with think you’ve lost the plot because you attended a Tony Robbins event.

Spend all the savings you have to buy the ticket to the event and crush your fear of flying at the same time on the way there. Walk on fire, meet a guy from a bank and watch your life change.

Know that personal development is crucial to any pursuit in life including blogging.

Step 4: Never give in to the haters.

As you accumulate a library of content online, watch the haters who are upset at the world find their way to your work.

Watch them take a metaphorical dump in the comment section of your articles.

Take the relevant feedback and delete everything else they say from your mind. Resist the temptation to leave a smart-ass comment, block them or dwell on their ideas. Haters come and haters go. Their problem is with themselves, not with you.

Step 4: Keep going…

After two years, watch not much happen. There will be a few milestones and highs but the vast majority of your work will be ignored or be invisible to most. Keep going.

Despite all the negative thoughts in your head about why you suck at blogging, or have nothing valuable to say, or look ridiculous in professionally shot bio photos, keep going.

Step 5: And some more…

After another year, watch the same nothingness transpire and still keep going. Take a promotion from your dead-end call centre job to another call centre where you can work from home.

“Watch people continue to laugh at you because you went from being an entrepreneur to a call centre operator”

Know that your dead-end job is teaching you valuable sales skills that you’ll later share in articles written about the topic. These sales focused blog posts will eventually go viral later on even though you don’t realize it now.

Even when it seems like no one is listening, keep going – people are listening, by the way.

Step 6: Post on LinkedIn despite the fact it could ruin your career.

Have your boss tell you to try something new. Decide to join LinkedIn even though you’re scared that people you hate from your entrepreneurial days will find you and want to upset you.

Know that posting on social media when you work for a brand name company is risky and do it anyway. Be bold and do the following:

  • Use swear words (if that’s how you talk)
  • Share embarrassing moments
  • Post career stories about people at work that piss you off and risk them finding out

Play Russian Roulette with your career because you know that your vision is bigger than you and your intentions are in the right place.

Use swear words, embarrassing moments and career stories to inspire rather than impress people. Keep posting on LinkedIn daily even though your self-help advice seems out of place on a business networking platform.

Step 7: Overcome mental health issues and talk about it.

At the same time as blogging, overcome mental health issues. Take the plunge and get professional help and make a decision to be the best version of yourself. Try everything from self-talk, books, weird card reading fortune teller imposters, medication and even alcohol to make things better.

Come to the realization that mental illness can only be overcome by getting up close and personal with yourself.

Go through a process of self-discovery. Stop giving a fuck about what people think along the way. You’re sick and you need help. End of story.

Once you end the burden of mental illness, blog about it. Tell people and share your stories. It’s the right thing to do and it will make you authentic to your audience.

Step 8: Follow someone you want to be.

Through blogging, find online mentors who you want to be like. Follow them on their social media channels and consume their content.

Surround yourself with people online who can inspire your own work and creativity. Become obsessed with what your online mentors do.

Step 9: Succeed with something that took 30-minutes to produce.

Come home from work one night, tired, grumpy and with a headache, and write an article about your successful friends. Keep it raw, forget grammar and post it straight away. Assume it’s going to flop and move on.

Wake up the next day and watch the one time you didn’t give a f*ck be your blogging career highlight so far.

“Understand in that moment that imperfection, authenticity and vulnerability are all that matters in blogging”

Step 10: Have a high volume of failed romantic relationships.

Meet a girl, date her for three years and realize she’s not the one. Meet another girl at work and become indoctrinated by religion. Realize who you really are and leave that girl too.

Go on more than fifty Tinder dates in a matter of months even though you’ve never done online dating and might be spotted by your friends and co-workers. Find a short, little cutie that lets you blog and doesn’t bust your chops. Fall in love. Keep blogging.

Step 11: Release anger that’s built up.

Realize you’re pissed off at your dad for a bunch of stuff he didn’t do on purpose and forgive him. See that he’s only trying to set you up for success using the models of the world that you view as out of date.

See his intentions for what they are. Release the anger towards him and keep blogging.

Step 12: Forgive.

When Christmas rolls around, make the decision to forgive your brother for the BS problems he caused you when you were in business together. Have a family dinner with him and your parents and watch them be proud. Go home after dinner and keep blogging.

Step 13: Continue working a career that no longer makes sense.

Realize this fact and then apply the same dating process mentioned earlier to your career. Decide that your next business or job is going to be something closely aligned with your passion.

Open up LinkedIn one day and have the owner of the business you’ve always wanted to work for message you asking for a phone call. Spend 15-minutes on the phone with him and have goosebumps all over your body.

Have a second phone call with him and experience the same thing again. Have him tell you he’s flying over to come and see you and allow you access to the very people that inspired you to blog in the first place.

Step 14: Narrow down your platforms.

Delete low performing social media channels and force yourself to focus on two from now on.

“Despite the career highlights, don’t get all cocky and keep blogging through the high’s, just like you did the lows”

Step 15: Never give up.

After four and a bit years and doing everything you can to make yourself a better person, make one final decision: never give up.

Moral of the story: Being a viral blogger is about more than just blogging.

Through all of the struggles, your blogging career will eventually happen once you find out who you are and the value that you bring to the world.

Life experience only makes your blogging better and there’s a story in almost everything that happens to you.

Remember the following from now on:

  • Be proud of the struggles
  • Never fall for the delusion of overnight success
  • Focus, succeed and focus again
  • Keep blogging and make it a habit
  • Don’t ignore everything else that surrounds your blogging like your health and family

If you want to be a viral blogger, then understand it’s about more than just blogging, feature photos, secret blogging hacks, morning habits, influencers and social media.

Being a viral blogger starts with you.

If you want to increase your productivity and learn some more valuable life hacks, then join my private mailing list on timdenning.net

Tim is best known as a long-time contributor on Addicted2Success. Tim's content has been shared millions of times and he has written multiple viral posts all around personal development and entrepreneurship.You can connect with Tim through his website www.timdenning.net

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3 Comments

  1. Ronda

    Apr 8, 2018 at 4:17 am

    Very good article. You don’t need to be a blogger to learn from it. Thank you for sharing.

  2. Rahul Nair

    Apr 6, 2018 at 4:13 pm

    This is arguably the best article that I read this year. Tim, you are just pushing the envelope man. Great.

  3. wechuli isaac

    Apr 6, 2018 at 3:08 am

    wonderful and inspiring article tim. this is the best article i have ever read. all the points make sense, but on the point about dating, i cant just leave girls because i hate hurting people. Anyway, cool advice for a blogger

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3 Reasons Why Getting Clear Is Important for Your Business

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Everyone goes through times in their lives where blue skies and sunshine are a rarity. Too many clouds and storms, whether they involve business or personal issues, become the everyday occurrence and keep people from achieving whatever they want to do.

There have been many times on this business journey of my own where fogginess and haze have sent me to the mat. Trying to kick out at a 2-count when being pinned with all of this stuff seems unbearable.

In taking a holistic view (meaning looking at the entire picture) of where I am, what has changed? Clarity. Getting very clear on what I want to do and where I want to focus my creative direction. Yes, I’m a writer, content writer, copywriter, ghostwriter and creative. That’s one element of my own life. Another one involves being a voice for the voiceless in the craniofacial community around the world.

But this is not to simply focus on what I am doing now. This is about clarity, about getting laser-focused on what you want to do. If you have a coach or mentor in your life, then I’ll bet you have heard them say on one or multiple occasions that you have to “get clear” on what you want to offer.

Here are three core reasons clarity is an important factor for your business:

1. You Stand Out From The Crowd

You cannot go anywhere on social media and not see people putting out content. Some may be good; others are meh. It does not matter, though, if it is good or not. What matters is about conversion. Does the content turn into sales? Does it attract and speak to people’s problems?

Not everyone can be a jack-of-all-trades. You become a master-of-none pretty quick. Theories abound about niching down and finding that sweet spot where you can deliver your mastery to those in need. Think of the millions of niches out there: cannabis, fitness, spirituality, relationships, finances, food, and on it goes.

Every one of these niches need people who can come in and put clarity around their products and services. If these businesses are not clear on what they do and solve to those seeking solutions, then they are not going to have clients and eventually will have to shut the doors.

Learning to stand out from the crowd is going to make you a powerful voice in whatever niche or field you are looking to dominate in all the time.

“It’s a lack of clarity that creates chaos and frustration. Those emotions are poison to any living goal.” – Steve Maraboli

2. You Attract A Lot of Clients

If you wanted to apply one of those ancient universal laws to your business – for instance, like the very popular Law of Attraction – then you would understand what attracts people to you. Nikola Tesla, one of the world’s greatest inventors, once said that if people understood energy and vibration alone and how that works then they’d understand a lot of how things actually work in the world.

Clarity brings out a new energy from your words and actions. You come from a place of total and unbelievable awareness where you look around one day and go, “Dang, look at all of the people who want my services.”

Trust me. This is one of those lessons that I have to come back to over and over again. People might know who I am and what I do from this or that space. Yet is it really crystal clear enough to a targeted section of people? Um, it’s still a work in progress.

In order, though, to actually move forward in business and have the level of success that I desire, then clarity must come into play. Clarity attracts clients. They solidly know what you do and what you offer. There’s no wishy-washy stuff taking place. Understand this core reason to achieve clarity and watch what happens to your very own business and brand.

3. You Begin To Believe In Yourself

There’s this ongoing idea around “imposter syndrome” that folks on the interweb love to discuss. Showing up online like you are a real go-getter and hotshot, but offline that’s not the same person…that’s a problem.

“Imposter syndrome,” to me, starts happening when a person stretches out of his or her comfort zone and it feels miserable. Instead of getting up at 11 a.m. after working a night shift job, you get up at 8 a.m. to get a head-start on tasks and obligations around what you do. Thoughts like “this will never work out” or “I’m never going to succeed and get out of debt” start swirling around your mind like a bunch of chattering monkeys.

Clarity, though, allows you the benefit of starting to truly believe in yourself. In his famous book “The Power of Positive Thinking,” Norman Vincent Peale writes in the first chapter’s first line “Believe in yourself.” That’s it. Then the book goes on to describe different ways of building up your positive mindset through prayer, faith, action, and other real-life examples. Peale’s work may not appeal to you directly, but the mere thought of believing in yourself and your dreams is appealing.

“Clarity comes from action not thought.” – Marie Forleo

Find yourself getting clear on what you want and where you want to go and begin to truly believe in yourself and your abilities. There are lots of people who definitely need your services and work around the world. There might even be people right in your own town who do, too.

When tackling the issue of clarity for your business, take these three factors into account. Think about them seriously. Take stock around where this can be an effective place for you to succeed every single day.

Look for the sunshine and blue skies in your business. They are there. All you have to do is some sightseeing and all of it will pop out very clearly.

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How YOU Can Create a Powerful 10 Year Life Vision

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Where do you desire to be 10 years from now? Joel Brown, founder of the well-known website and podcast Addicted2Success, breaks down exactly how to gain clarity in your life and create a powerful 10-year life vision. The vision process that Joel teaches has transformed the lives of hundreds and thousands of people who use it.

You can listen to the full podcast interview here with Joel Brown or head over to my website AshleyHann.com for more inspirational podcast episodes.

Joel Brown is the real deal. He travels the world coaching thousands and thousands of people to stand in their vision so they can turn their dreams into a reality. He has been featured in the Think and Grow Rich movie, Entrepreneur, Forbes, Inc., The Huffington Post, Success Magazine and more. He has sat down with well-known thought leaders such as Tony Robbins, Deepak Chopra, Jay Shetty, Gary Vaynerchuk, Grant Cardone, John Assaraf and the list goes on.

This is a MUST LISTEN episode all about gaining clarity, creating harmony in your life and creating a powerful 10-year vision so that you can live the life you’ve always wanted.

Joel Brown (Founder of Addicted2Success.com)

Joel breaks it down for you step by step. In this episode, we go over:

  • The 3 key questions you must ask yourself in order to live a fulfilled life and master your 10-year vision
  • How to define success for yourself and discover what you really want
  • The 8 areas of life to include in your 10-year vision
  • The top, prevalent patterns successful people share and why you should adopt them too
  • The 3 main limiting beliefs and bullsh*t stories that hold people back from achieving their dreams and goals
  • Why dropping perfectionism is so important and what to do instead
  • …and so much more!

If you’re more of a visual person then you can watch my video interview with Joel Brown here:

This is an episode you won’t want to miss. Joel Brown is the 10-year vision expert and teaches his vision process all over the globe to thousands and thousands of people. You’ll want to make sure to grab a pen and paper so you can take notes and action on the strategies he shares with you.

You can connect with Joel Brown @iamjoelbrown on Instagram and Twitter.  Make sure you also check out his popular motivation account @addicted2success on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook and YouTube.

You can listen to the full episode on SoundCloud,Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

OR you can watch it on my YouTube Channel:

RESOURCES:

His event: www.elevatetribe.net

The #1 motivation website he built from scratch: www.addicted2success.com

His Circle of Influence online mastermind: www.iamjoelbrown.com/applynow

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5 Ways You Can Utilize Information Properly and Think More Efficiently

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The mind is a complex system of facets, of which some have yet to be discovered. Still, in spite of all this, there has been enough information to help us gain a rudimentary understanding of it. Thinking is what we all do, although what differs is the efficiency and levels at which we do it.

A lot of things influence the way you think, and most of these factors vary from person to person. However, there are some foundations and basic laws that can help you move from just filtering information and utilizing it to think efficiently.

Below are a few ways you can utilize information properly and think more efficiently:

1. Be quiet and listen

We’re constantly bombarded with information, and the nature of this information determines how we respond. Are you the type of person who doesn’t handle bad or even good news well? If so, learn to take a step back, evaluate things, and look for the way forward. It’s something that stock market traders do all the time, and it works like a charm with practice.

2. Never neglect what your emotions tell you

While a lot of people might not know this, it is true that the conscious thoughts we have only represent a small fraction of the events going on in our heads. At any given point in time, you have the unconscious aspect taking in massive amounts of information, most of which we don’t even know are being processed.

Your brain makes conclusions, good or bad, and starts to generate feelings that rule our emotions in the long-run. So, whenever you have a subtle feeling that points you to a certain course of action or thought, don’t ignore it. At the end of the day, that feeling gets its way somehow, and it’s better you come face-to-face with it and understand its nudges better.

“When you react, you let others control you. When you respond, you are in control.” – Bohdi Sanders

3. Never think while under pressure

Pressure can be good, but a lot of the time, it tends to yield counter-productive results. Regardless of what you’re doing, there are times when you feel pressure. What this pressure does is force you to rely less on the part of your unconsciousness that functions like a trained autopilot system (from all of the training and experiences that you’ve had in the past). Essentially, it forces you to overthink things.

You begin to analyze every aspect of what you’re doing, and you end up using parts of your brain that have no business with the specific activity. So, whenever you take the time out to develop a certain skill, make sure you learn to have faith in your instincts as well.

4. Never focus on one viewpoint

Bluffing is something that professional poker players do almost every time. It’s become an art. However, instead of just bluffing on a whim (which also works at times, by the way), most of them employ a simple trick while playing; they think about how the opposing players would act if they weren’t actually bluffing.

In most cases, the brain tends to search the world for filters in order to confirm the beliefs that it holds. However, the problem with this is that it tends to limit you. At the end of the day, you could be dealing with facts that are just not wrong.

“What’s true of the poker game is true of life. Most people are suckers and don’t realise it.” – Michael Faust

5. What do you love doing?

According to studies, a lot of people tend to have moments of insight and solutions to problems when they’re not even aware of the fact that the problem is being analyzed by the brain. These are usually moments when you take a stroll, listen to your favorite track, brew your favorite coffee, take showers, and read blogs; when you feel relaxed and comfortable.

This is because insightful thoughts are usually generated by an influx of neural activities that occur in the right hemisphere of the brain. The best time to plug into the mind is when you’re stress-free, so make sure that you engage in activities that relax you more often.

How do you go about maneuvering around and making decisions in a world constantly bombarding you with information? Let us know your thoughts and advice below!

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10 Simple Yet Effective Ways to Bring Out the Successful YouTuber in You

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YouTube is a social media platform that has turned many a normal person into a celebrity. With over 1.9 billion logged-in users visiting YouTube every month, it is a hugely popular platform that is being actively used by people who are leveraging its reach and popularity for reputation building, increasing visibility, creating and driving brand reach and last but not the least, earning money.

We keep hearing success stories of YouTube influencers who were nobodies when they started out and today run some of the most popular channels on YouTube and are considered reputed influencers in their niche.

There is absolutely no doubt that if done right, a presence on YouTube can be a massive boost for your brand (if you are a business) and ensure visibility of stratospheric proportions (if you are an individual).

But, at the end of it all, most people want to get onboard YouTube for the money. If your channel is popular enough, it can be a regular source of income for you. So, how do you become a successful YouTuber and establish a popular YouTube channel?

Here are ten great tips to help you on your way:

1. Identify your YouTube Goals

What do you want to achieve out of YouTube? Straight off the block, this is the question you must answer. YouTube can help build your brand, both business and personal, if that’s your goal. It will help improve your reputation and differentiate yourself from the competition. It could also become a revenue generation medium for you.

There are many reasons you might want to start a YouTube channel, and you need to zero in on the right one. Identifying your core goal or set of goals will help you plan your YouTube journey effectively.

2. Identify the Right Niche for Your Channel

Making videos is a resource-intensive activity. It also needs a rare degree of passion to make videos because you are going to put a truckload of effort into it. So, make sure to zero in on the right niche for your channel, meaning the kind of video content you are going to post. If you are an individual, the content must align with your interest, preferences, skill sets and knowledge.

If you are a business, it must align with your business’s services or domain. Think very carefully whether you will be able to keep making videos about a specific topic, subject or domain regularly. This will help you choose the right ‘content type’ for your channel.

3. Trust Yourself

There are some YouTubers who give up because they think they are not cut out to be successful YouTubers. There is absolutely no doubt, you will be wracked by self-doubt when you start, especially if your videos aren’t finding enough traction. The key here is to have confidence in your ability and pursuing your end goal indefatigably.

Don’t give up because of setbacks; some of the top YouTubers started off slowly and built their audience steadily. When it comes to YouTube, it is important to understand that success won’t come easily or quickly.

4. Be Prepared for Criticism

As a YouTuber, you have the ability to showcase your knowledge and skillsets to the world, but this also sets you up for criticism. There are people who are going to like your videos and there are those who won’t and will go a step further and criticize it through the comments section.

And very often, this criticism isn’t constructive and its only aim is to make fun of you and your video. Can you handle this criticism? You must if you want to be a successful YouTuber. Try developing a thick skin and don’t allow even the most virulent criticism to affect you.

5. Respond to Comments

Make it a habit to respond to comments, irrespective of whether these appreciate or criticize your video. Your response tells your viewer that you care and are prepared to listen to their views. This helps you build a relationship with your viewers who can then turn into channel subscribers. Don’t think YouTube videos are one-way traffic wherein you make a video, a viewer sees it and forgets about it. A video is a means of driving interaction and engagement.

6. Follow other YouTubers

You might have some great content ideas for your channel, but you must also keep track of what other YouTubers are doing. There is always a chance that you will get some inspiration from their videos as to how to make a video more interesting, get the lowdown on audience engagement tactics and find technical aspects as well including camera work, audio etc.

7. Attend Meetups

There are plenty of YouTube meetups, conventions and conferences happening all over the world; it is imperative that you attend YouTube events happening in your region. This way you will be able to meet fellow YouTubers in the region, and who knows, you might also meet YouTubers, you follow and want to emulate. If you get the opportunity to discuss notes or get tips, do so. This will help refine your channel content

8. Keep Measuring Your Performance

Start measuring your YouTube performance from the word go. You need to keep track of various performance metrics to know how well you have done. A metric like ‘views’ is super important but so is ‘watch time’. ouTube judges the performance of your channel on various metrics and uses these to rank your videos in search results. There are plenty of tools that can help you track and measure YouTube performance based on various parameters.

9. Don’t Judge Yourself Too Harshly

Don’t set impossible standards for yourself. You are going to make mistakes and learn from them. No video is perfect and don’t think you can start making amazingly successful videos from day one. So, judge yourself, but don’t go overboard. Don’t compare your work with people who have many years of YouTube experience behind them; this would be counterproductive and play havoc with your confidence levels.

10. Keep at It

If you want to bring out the successful YouTuber in you, you must keep at it. Plan a video publishing schedule and stick to it, irrespective of whether your videos are doing well or not. Remember, once you set cadence, you will get better at your videos, and this will drive more engagement.

A successful YouTuber is no different from a successful person. You need to work hard, learn from mistakes, and more importantly learn from others. And you must make use of all this learning to create better and more more engaging videos.

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