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How A 19 Year Old Kid Got The Chance To Work For Gary Vaynerchuk

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“Crazy things happen when you know who you are. Certainty breeds influence”

This is the story of a new buddy of mine named Swish. I met him over Skype when my friend Joel Brown told me that we should chat. Within minutes of having a phone call with young Swish, I saw something quite incredible.

I couldn’t quite put my finger on it, but I knew that this chance encounter was going to change the way I think. As I got to know Swish through the few Skype calls I had with him, I learned something about him that blew my mind:

Swish had been headhunted to join Gary Vaynerchuk’s team in New York.

This is no small achievement. Gary is one hell of a successful man, and there are not too many people that haven’t read one of his books or listen to The Ask Gary Vee Show. His book “Jab Jab Jab Right Hook” changed the way I thought about asking my followers to do stuff.

So how did a 19-year-old kid get the chance of a lifetime? Read below.

1. Age means jack sh*t

Use your weaknesses to your advantage. Being nineteen could be perceived as a weakness. You have little life experience and are still finding your place in the world. Swish didn’t care about his age. He let his passion and enthusiasm light up the world.

The kid has infectious charisma and his certainty breed’s influence. He may not have all the answers at age nineteen, but he certainly doesn’t let you think that. Swish has started more businesses at nineteen than most people start in a lifetime.

He has a wearable tech company that is looking to change the game within the sports industry. Most people thought he was crazy and despite that Swish didn’t listen to them.

2. Surround yourself with winners

Swish didn’t have the contacts to get his wearable tech company into the NBA initially. What did he do? Hired Trevor Booker from the Brooklyn Nets NBA team to join his advisory board. You don’t need all the contacts; you just need to bring the right people with you on the journey.

3. Hustle harder than anyone else

Swish spends lots of time on social media. In the early days, Swish built connections with a few key people on Gary Vaynerchuk’s team via social media. He regularly tagged them in relevant posts. He shared his content with them.

What Swish did that very few do is hustle harder than anyone else. He’s a nice guy at his core so when he asks you to do something you feel compelled to hear him out. Swish is too cool and too nice to ignore. People are drawn to the guy because of who he has become.

He’s the kind of guy that everyone wants as their brother. I’ve often wondered what makes the difference between success and failure. People like Swish have shown me time and time again that it’s a strong work ethic, combined with an infectious human character.

Beautiful people on the inside are not the type of people to be lost in a crowd. Their spirit shines through and that’s what makes them get the results we all want. Swish getting the chance of a lifetime is no accident. It’s not chance. It’s not good fortune. It’s hustle.

4. Back yourself when no one else will

If you go back two years, most people hadn’t heard of Swish. He was unknown and finding his way in a sea of social media influencers. This didn’t stop Swish from following his dream. Fundamentally, like me, Swish is an entrepreneur.

He wants to make the world a better place through his various business pursuits, speeches and content. He’s cast a pretty wide vision and he achieves goals every single day that gets him towards his ideal life. People are drawn to that vision.

A vision for change and a vision for the future is what we all want. The trouble is there aren’t too many people that are bold enough to dream up a vision like this and then execute on it. I believe Swish is one of those people who will achieve the impossible.

There’s no way someone with that much guts can’t influence the right people to bring on the journey. Swish can’t achieve his goals alone and he knows that.

He’s taken the first step though which is backing himself above all else. He believes in himself and so it’s only natural that we will all start to believe too.

5. You have no freaking idea how powerful social media is

I think sometimes we forget the age we are living in. With enough patience, we can literally get in contact and build a relationship with anyone we want. A friend of mine said to me that this idea is limited. He said to me, for example, that if I want to get in touch with Tony Robbins via social media, I couldn’t.

That’s BS though. It would be challenging, but very achievable to get in touch with Tony via social media. High achievers won’t ignore you forever. If I sent messages to Tony and his team every single day and helped spread Tony’s message, then there is no way he would ignore me forever.

I’d probably have to follow this strategy for at least a year and that would require a high level of determination. My point is that I’ve seen it work before. It’s possible.

Swish followed a similar strategy to build a few key contacts that have transformed his life and career. Some of those contacts were part of Gary Vaynerchuk’s team. Next time you think that social media is some tool that everyone uses now and you can’t make a difference, think again.

Yes, it’s harder to cut through now on social media although I still think it’s way more powerful than many of us believe it is.

6. Mega successful people can see your greatness

Successful people have had to fight hard to get where they are. When they see other people, who are doing similar things to what they did on their way to the top they, sit up and take notice. Successful people can spot the same traits that they once relied on to build their careers.

In Swish’s case, Gary Vee saw the same hustle and storytelling ability that he had on his rise to fame.

“We all love an underdog who is just like us: the secrets sauce is that this underdog is happy to work his face off when others would have given up”

Persuade, inspire and influence people with your message. Tell your story even when you think no one is listening. There’s always someone listening and your brilliance will be discovered when the time is right. You must see your own brilliance first though.

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11 Mark Manson Lessons That’ll Redefine Success in the Digital Age

Success in the digital age isn’t about hacks, it’s about the raw, real lessons Mark Manson actually lives by.

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Uncover the daily rituals and hidden habits that powered history’s most brilliant minds to success.

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Every great achiever has one thing in common: discipline. Behind the novels, inventions, discoveries, and masterpieces are small, consistent habits repeated daily. (more…)

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How to Turn a Simple Link-in-Bio Into a Powerful Brand Hub

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These 11 Habits Will Make You More Productive, Successful, and Confident

Boost your focus, confidence, and results with 11 powerful habits successful people use every day.

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Successful people love to help beginners. They have an incredible work ethic and rarely complain. As a result, others naturally look up to them and want to follow in their footsteps.

But here’s the truth: there’s no success without sacrifice. You’ll need to give up comfort, excuses, and sometimes even social approval to accomplish your goals.

Value comes from solving problems, and these 11 powerful tips will help you become more productive, successful, and confident, starting today.

1. Take Short Breaks After Finishing a Task

Psychology shows it’s important to reward positive behaviour.

After completing a big task or finishing a book, take five minutes to walk, stretch, or simply breathe. This quick reset helps your brain recharge and strengthens focus.

Many great writers swear by morning walks, solitude, and reflection can unlock creativity.

But if you refuse to take breaks, don’t be surprised when burnout hits. Your brain needs recovery time just as much as your body does.

2. Schedule Your Most Important Tasks First

Multitasking kills productivity. If you want to get more done, try time blocking, a method where you dedicate set periods for specific tasks.

Productivity expert Caitlin Hughes explains, “Time blocking involves scheduling blocks of time for your tasks throughout the day.”

For example, if you’re a writer:

  • Research your topic at night.

  • Write your first draft in the morning (don’t worry if it’s rough).

  • Edit in the afternoon, great writing comes from rewriting.

You can’t buy more time. Use it intentionally and without regret.

3. Eliminate Distractions from Your Workspace

Focus is the foundation of success.

According to Inc. Magazine, it takes an average of 23 minutes to recover from a distraction. That’s nearly half an hour of lost productivity every time you check your phone.

Put your phone away. Close unnecessary tabs. And yes, limit your Netflix binges.

Meeting deadlines consistently is one of the fastest ways to stand out and earn respect.

4. Take Full Responsibility for Your Life

Entrepreneur Derek Sivers once said, “Everything is my fault.”

This mindset doesn’t mean self-blame; it means self-ownership. Stop pointing fingers, making excuses, or waiting for others to change.

If your habits (like smoking or drinking too much) hold you back, it’s time to make better choices. Your friends can’t live your dreams for you; only you can.

5. Invest an Hour a Day in Learning New Skills

Knowledge compounds over time.

Whether you read books, take online courses, or practise a craft, consistent learning gives you a competitive edge.

I used to struggle with academic writing, but I improved by studying the work of great authors and applying what I learned.

Your past doesn’t define you; your actions do. Every new skill adds another tool to your arsenal and makes you more unstoppable.

6. Develop a Growth Mindset

Psychologist Dr. Carol Dweck introduced the concept of fixed vs. growth mindset.

  • A fixed mindset believes success is based on natural talent.

  • A growth mindset believes success comes from effort and learning.

Choose the growth mindset. Embrace challenges. See failures as feedback. In today’s fast-moving digital world, adaptability is your biggest advantage.

7. Learn Marketing to Reach People Who Need You

I once believed marketing was manipulative, until I realised it’s about helping people solve problems.

If your work provides genuine value, marketing is how you let others know it exists. Even Apple spends billions on it.

Don’t be ashamed to promote your skills or business. Without visibility, your ideas will never reach the people who need them most.

Creative professionals who understand marketing and sales have an unfair advantage.

8. Ask Your Mentor the Right Questions

Good mentors can fast-track your growth.

While mentorship often costs money, it’s one of the best investments you can make. Great mentors don’t care about titles; they care about your progress.

If you don’t have access to a mentor yet, books are your silent mentors. Read the best in your field, take notes, and apply what resonates.

9. Build Confidence Through Action, Not Affirmations

Author Ryan Holiday once said, “I don’t believe in myself. I have evidence.”

Confidence doesn’t come from shouting affirmations into the mirror; it comes from proof. Doing hard things, keeping promises to yourself, and following through.

When you consistently take action, your brain gathers evidence that you can handle whatever comes next. That’s real confidence, grounded, earned, and unshakable.

10. Focus on Your Strengths

Your strengths reveal where your greatest impact lies.

If people compliment you on something often, it’s a clue. Lean into it.

A former professor once told me I was creative, and that simple comment gave me the confidence to go all in. I studied creativity, applied it daily, and turned it into my career advantage.

Double down on your strengths. That’s how you build momentum and mastery.

11. Identify and Challenge Your Limiting Beliefs

Your beliefs shape your reality.

For years, I believed I couldn’t be a great writer because of my chronic tinnitus and astigmatism, sensory challenges that made concentration difficult. But over time, I realised those struggles made me more disciplined, observant, and empathetic.

Your limitations can become your greatest motivators if you let them.

Avoid shortcuts. Growth takes time, but it’s always worth it.

Final Thoughts

Becoming productive, successful, and confident isn’t about working harder than everyone else. It’s about working smarter, consistently, and intentionally.

You don’t need to overhaul your life overnight. Start small: take a break after your next task, schedule your priorities, or spend one hour learning something new.

Every habit you change compounds into long-term success. Remember, true change comes from practising new behaviours.

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