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From Foster Care to Billionaire: 6 Lessons On Building Success from John Paul DeJoria



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Challenging life experiences have helped to form some of the most influential and successful people the world has ever seen. John Paul DeJoria is no exception to this – the self-made, billionaire entrepreneur is best known as the co-founder of world-renowned hair care business John Paul Mitchell Systems and, later, the Patrón Spirits Company. 

Who is John Paul DeJoria?

Born in 1944, DeJoria’s parents divorced when he was barely two years old. From the age of nine, DeJoria sold door-to-door Christmas cards and newspapers in an attempt to keep the family afloat. Once his mother’s financial realities were too much to bear, DeJoria and his brother were sent into foster care.

This was his first lesson in tackling challenges head-on; this only way is up attitude served him incredibly well when he first started John Paul Mitchell while living out of his car with only $700 to get the company up and running. 

Rather than let these adversities deter him, DeJoria saw these economic obstacles as an opportunity to work hard. When there was no food on the table, he sold the Christmas cards. When there were no funds available for college, he sold encyclopedias. 

He couldn’t rely on anyone else, saying, “if you expect free lunch to come your way, you’re not going to get very far, and you’ll be very bored. Go out there and do something. Get involved.”

Those were all crucial lessons learned even before starting his business with hairdresser Paul Mitchell. DeJoria, through employment at Redken and Fermodyl Hair Care, had learned the hair care business and was eventually fired from both positions, further strengthening his determination to succeed. 

Lessons in Success

Success for John Paul Mitchell Systems came from word-of-mouth selling, which attracted the attention of their first distributor, which eventually paid off the company debt. 

From there, the hair care products were shipped to numerous salons and became a million-dollar company after just two years of operation. The sheer tenacity to succeed after initial set back helped turned seed money of just $700 into a billion-dollar business.

How often do we hear stories of homeless people living out of their car, changing their circumstances, and ending up as a billionaire? But John Paul DeJoria has done just that, and the 76-year-old now has a net worth of $3.1 billion, according to Forbes.

Lesson #1: Familiarize Yourself with Rejection

One of the biggest inspirations for DeJoria during his early career was his capability to overcome rejection. He’d later say, “You’ve got to be prepared in life for a lot of rejections,” pointing to his time as a door-to-door encyclopedia salesman, as a prime example of the many doors that will be closed in your face in life.

As a consequence, he began to expect negative responses, which came to benefit him throughout his career: “You must be just as enthusiastic on door 51 as you were on door 50, even if all 50 of those doors are closed in your face for a lot of rejection, you shouldn’t let it get you down,”

Lesson #2: Don’t Let the Past Hold You Back

Letting your mistakes, background, and adversities bog you down, will only ever limit your future capabilities. As for DeJoria, he prefers to look on the brighter side, “When you’re down, most people think about the past and what got them there. That’s not going to get you anywhere. Think about what your next step is. Don’t dwell in the past—go forward,” he said.

Lesson #3: There Will Never Be a “Right Time”

DeJoria started John Paul Mitchell Systems in 1980 in one of the worst possible economic environments to start a business. Inflation was at its highest, and motorists were waiting in lines for blocks just to get to the gas station before the supply ran out. DeJoria was living in his car, completely homeless when his first backer pulled out. 

However, DeJoria and his business partner decided to press on regardless and started their business with only a borrowed $700 and an answering machine. JPMS even decided on their iconic black-and-white logo, because they simply couldn’t afford color printing.

This just goes to show that there is never a perfect time to start a business; it’s simply a case of making the best of what you have.

#4: Make Your Products and Services the Best They Can Be

“Always remember you don’t want to be in the product business. You want to be in the reorder business,” said an adamant DeJoria.

He goes on to explain that once you’ve worked hard at developing a top-class product or service that people want, you have a far better chance of retaining that customer over the long-term by seeing them as a partner to build a relationship with rather than a one-off customer.

#5: Doing Good Benefits You and Your Business

“If a business wants to stay in business, it cannot just think of today’s bottom line,” says DeJoria, “by helping others, you are creating future customers and inspiring employee loyalty,” he explains. 

Customers love to be involved with those that donate their time to inspiring others, helping the planet, and making a difference to their community. Any good company must make a commitment to help others to succeed.  

Since he started his first business in 1980, DeJoria explains that employee turnover has been less than 100, and two of those were retirements.

#6: Hard Work Still Pays Off As It Always Has

DeJoria has noted in past interviews that the millennial generation is facing a number of issues that have created an increasingly resentful attitude amongst the current working generation, such as rising student debt, dwindling economic prospects, and the difficulty in making decisions. 

DeJoria has a message for all millennials: “You can get through the hard times as long as you’re willing to work and put forth an effort and not sit back waiting on everyone else. America works, but to make it work, you’ve got to go out there, and you’ve got to do something.”

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Some people seem to naturally know how to effectively communicate in a group setting. They can express themselves clearly and listen attentively without dominating the conversation.

Being a powerful communicator is important for several reasons, including building and maintaining relationships, achieving goals, resolving conflicts, improving productivity, leading and influencing others, advancing in your career, expressing yourself more confidently and authentically, and improving your mental and emotional well-being. Effective communication is an essential life skill that can benefit you in all aspects of your life.

But, don’t worry if you don’t naturally possess this skill, as effective communication is something that can be developed with practice, planning and preparation.

1.  Listen actively: Practice active listening by giving your full attention to the speaker and responding to what they are saying.


2. Use “I” statements: Speak from your own perspective and avoid placing blame or making accusations.


3. Avoid assumptions: Don’t make assumptions about what the other person is thinking or feeling.


4. Be clear: Express your thoughts and feelings clearly and concisely by getting to the point and avoid using jargon or overly complex language.


5. Show empathy: Show that you understand and care about the other person’s feelings.


6. Offer valuable insights: When speaking in a group, provide a valuable takeaway or actionable item that people can walk away with.


7. Be an active listener: Listen attentively and respond accordingly, incorporating your points into the conversation.


8. Choose the right time: Pick the most opportune time to speak to ensure that you have the group’s attention and can deliver your message without interruption.


9. Be the unifying voice: Step in and unify the group’s thoughts to calm down the discussion and insert your point effectively.


10. Keep responses concise: Keep responses short and to the point to show respect for others’ time.


11. Avoid unnecessary comments: Avoid commenting on everything and only speak when you have something important to say.


12. Cut the fluff: Avoid being long-winded and get straight to the point.


13. Prepare ahead of time: Sort out your points and practice them before speaking in a group.


14. Smile and be positive: Smile and nod along as others speak, to build a positive relationship and be respected when it’s your turn to speak.


15. Take responsibility: Take responsibility for your own actions and feelings.


16. Ask questions: Ask questions to clarify any confusion or misunderstandings.


17. Avoid interrupting: Allow the other person to finish speaking without interruption.


18. Practice active listening: Repeat what the other person said to ensure you have understood correctly.


19. Use your body language too: Use nonverbal cues such as eye contact, facial expressions, and body language to convey your message and build rapport.


20. Be aware of the tone of your voice: it should be calm and assertive, not aggressive or passive.


By keeping these tips in mind, you can improve your communication skills and become a more powerful communicator, which can help you build better relationships, achieve your goals, and lead a more fulfilling life.

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