Success Advice
6 Valuable Lessons a 19-Year Old Learned from Reaching Out To Millionaires
This valuable advice is shared by a young aspiring entrepreneur by the name of “Vincent Nguyen“.
Through his successful experience Vincent will teach you how to contact millionaires and highly influential people to take your ventures and ideas to the next level.
How To Successfully Network With Entrepreneurs & Millionaires
Just a month ago, I saw the greatest opportunity in my life present itself.
It was linked in a tweet, strangely enough. Sean Ogle changed my life with a simple tweet.

When I read through the entire page I only had one reaction.
Holy crap!
There was a company based in the Philippines that was offering an apprenticeship that would make my life. The work itself sounded fun and I felt qualified enough to go after it, but what caught my attention were the extra side-benefits.
The person who was chosen would be able to move to the Philippines for the first 6-months. Cool, everyone likes to travel. No big deal right?
There’s more. These guys were going to pay for pretty much all of my expenses while I’m there. Housing, bills, food, and maids. Everything. They didn’t cheap out either because it’s a huge house.
On top of all that, I’d be getting paid for my time there along with the chance to earn even more and work with them full-time if all goes well.
As a 19-year old who has been working in their niche for less than a year, I felt like I’d be buried by the competition. There has to be thousands of people who saw this and wanted it. I was sure they’re more qualified than me.
I almost ignored it. I almost listened to my own excuses, but I couldn’t let this slip past me without a fight.
I studied what they were looking for in a candidate and started wondering if there was something I could do to blow them away.

“You’re going to be reaching out to a ton of people.”
There it is. My opening. That’s what I’m going to leverage for my application.
I felt like I was getting hotter and hotter. Maybe it’s because I was getting excited or someone lit a light bulb above my head like in the cartoons. I don’t know. All I knew was that I had an idea that would grab their attention right from the start.
They wanted a connector. What better way to prove I am one than to take advantage of the mandatory video they wanted alongside the written application?
I made a long list of 40-50 successful entrepreneurs, authors, and internet marketers I could reach out to for help.

I cold-emailed Michael Hyatt, John Saddington, Neil Patel, Rand Fishkin, and several others, asking them to record a short video testimonial for me. All I asked of them was to record themselves, say their name and something along the lines of “Vincent reached out and connected.”
The challenge was that most of these people have never heard of me.
Why would they care to do me a favor?
The Result?
Out of 47 people, 16 agreed and sent me their video. That’s almost 40%! The rest either wished me best of luck or didn’t reply, but nearly half said yes!
When I turned in the video to the marketing company, they were floored. In fact, they loved it so much that they had shared it among their secret circle of entrepreneurial buddies. My chances were looking really good.
Thanks to this creative journey, I ended up befriending a few of the entrepreneurs I reached out to.
None of this would have happened if I bought into my own excuses. I was telling myself things like they don’t know my name. I’m too young. No one would take me seriously. What if I look like an idiot?
The list went on for miles. I could have just moved on and told myself that nothing could come of it, but I went for it. I got famous influencers to vouch for me and the company is telling me my chances are looking good. The Philippines is becoming something that can be a part of my life for the next year.
Most importantly of all, I learned several valuable lessons from this that provided insight into how other people worked.
1. Rejection doesn’t take anything from you.
In a lot of cases, the worst that could happen is that you don’t get what you wanted. No one comes and collects the things you love then locks them away. You don’t lose anything.
At least when you get outside your comfort zone and make a leap of faith, you give yourself a fighting chance. If you don’t try at all you’ll end up failing anyway and you’re stuck where you were by default.
2. People are more willing to help than you think.
When I first had the idea to reach out, I was scared. I thought for sure I’d get a 0% response rate. After all, who am I to just email someone like Michael Hyatt and ask for help?
I didn’t tell him what I did, where I’m from, or anything that would woo him. I politely told him the situation, how much it’d mean to me, and that’s all. He was more than happy to get in front of a camera to do this and that’s what amazes me. Michael, along with 15 others, took time out of their day to help someone they didn’t know.
3. When you’re genuine, people will want to help you.
You don’t always have to offer something in return to get help. I didn’t swap favors or promise to pay them back in the future. That’s sleazy. People see right through that sort of exchange.
Instead, I was honest and transparent. I didn’t hide anything at all. Everyone I emailed knew that I was the only one to benefit from this and I knew it too. Why hide behind a thin veil?
4. You can connect with anyone.
Sure, a few people ignored my request, but that’s okay. The fact that nearly half got back to me means a lot and should inspire you to get in touch with a person that you look up to.
There are some people who are more difficult to get ahold of, but that doesn’t put them out of the realm of possibility. I didn’t reach out to Obama or anything, but there are ways.
5. Creativity has more definitions than one.
I used to think I wasn’t creative just because I didn’t know how to draw, paint, or do anything artistic. I equated creativity with art and determined that I wasn’t creative.
But creativity is the ability to do things differently that others haven’t thought of before. It doesn’t always come from a whim. Instead, you have to be intentional and brainstorm ideas. It will get you noticed and is worth the effort.
Don’t count yourself out. You’re probably more creative than you give yourself credit for.
6. Taking action is far better than getting stuck wondering what could have been.
So the next time you see an opportunity come by and you start believing your own lies, remember what could happen. Remember that you can put 100% into what you want.
Even though the final decision hasn’t been made yet, I learned a lot through this whole process.
What’s the worst that could happen when you decide to go all in?
Entrepreneurs
The One Brutal Mistake That Keeps Most Entrepreneurs Stuck at Six Figures (And the Fix That Unlocks Seven)
You built something real. Customers are coming in. Revenue is growing. But no matter how hard you grind, it feels like you’re hitting an invisible ceiling. The business owns you more than you own it, and scaling feels like a distant dream instead of the next logical step.
I’ve seen it destroy too many sharp founders. They’re doing everything “right”—working longer hours, chasing every opportunity, saying yes to every client. And yet the growth stalls while their stress skyrockets.
The mistake isn’t effort. It’s identity.
Most entrepreneurs still see themselves as the indispensable hero who has to touch every single part of the business. They built it with their own hands, so they believe only they can run it at the highest level. That belief is exactly what caps them at six figures.
The shift that changes everything is deciding you are now the leader of a system, not the worker inside it.
You stop being the best operator and start becoming the best owner. That means ruthlessly auditing where your time is spent and handing off everything that doesn’t move the needle on growth. Yes, it feels scary. Yes, it feels like you’re losing control. But the entrepreneurs who break through are the ones who trust the process more than their ego.
Here’s what that actually looks like in practice.
First, identify your $10,000-an-hour activities
The ones only you can do that truly grow the company. Everything else gets documented, delegated, or deleted. Most founders I know are shocked when they finally track their time for two weeks straight. They discover they’re spending 60-70% of their week on things that could be handled by someone else at a fraction of the cost. The ego loves to whisper that “no one can do it as well as me.” That voice is expensive. It costs you leverage, it costs you time with your family, and it costs you the mental bandwidth to actually think strategically about the future of the business.
Second, build repeatable systems for the rest.
Not fancy software. Simple checklists, processes, and people who own outcomes. Your team stops waiting for your approval on every little thing. This is where most entrepreneurs get stuck—they hire help but never actually transfer ownership. They create bottlenecks because every decision still funnels back to them. The fix is to document the process once, train someone thoroughly, then step back and let them own it. Yes, there will be mistakes in the beginning. That’s the cost of building something that can eventually run without you. Every mistake becomes a better system.
Third, measure what matters.
Revenue per employee. Customer acquisition cost. Lifetime value. Stop celebrating busywork and start obsessing over leverage. I’ve watched founders go from celebrating “we’re so busy” to celebrating “we added three new team members and revenue per person went up 40%.” That’s the shift. When you start measuring the right things, your decisions change. You stop hiring to offload tasks and start hiring to multiply output.
The hard truth is that most entrepreneurs never make this transition.
They stay the bottleneck in their own business. They become the ceiling. And the business grows to the exact size that one person can manage with heroic effort… then it plateaus. The ones who break through are willing to feel uncomfortable for a season so they can build something that actually scales.
You didn’t start this journey to trade one boss for another… especially when that boss is you. Let go of the need to be the smartest person in every room. Your job now is to build something bigger than yourself. The ceiling isn’t real. It’s just the point where your old identity stops serving you. The question is whether you’re willing to let that old version of you die so a new one can lead.
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