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4 Ways You Can Create Everlasting Devotion to Your Goals

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We can sit here and try to come up with a million ideas for the future or talk about our dreams for hours, but what does it matter when we aren’t insanely committed to those ideas, and all we do is waste time on pep-talks?

Over the years I have learned that mental devotion to my vision is something I must do before anything else. Those exciting goals must be converted into reality. They have to become a part of my identity and who I am. Only if you can become totally loyal and responsible to what you want, can you overcome challenges and any setbacks along the way.

Since we all are just starting fresh in 2017 with high expectations, pumped up, ready to make it happen, I have for you 4 ways how you can stay on track and create everlasting devotion to every single goal:

1. Respect your goal

This is a fundamental and one of the most important steps towards your future. If you don’t make your dreams the most important thing in your life, who will? It is your responsibility to know what your vision means to you and learn how to prioritize between what you want now and what you want forever.

If you are willing to accept a sadistic boss at the job you hate and feel miserable about, then I believe it is your obligation to be absolutely loyal to your dreams and future. 

“The first step to achieving your goal, is to take a moment to respect your goal. Know what it means to you to achieve it.” – Dwayne Johnson

2. Create commitment which breaks every wall

One of the best mental tricks I’ve applied to myself is creating a deep relationship with my goals. There are only two ways this relationship is going to end. I either reach it, or I die. Sounds tough, I know, but it isn’t.

The “dying” part refers to a situation where you won’t stop until you get to the final destination. And this is the way you should look at your primary, long-lasting goals which you know, in your heart, are going to give you fulfillment and satisfaction.

There is nothing stronger than absolute commitment. This state of mind will pull you through the hardest times and doesn’t make you stop, no matter how tired, exhausted or discouraged you feel.

3. How many lives can you impact?

Have you ever thought about how many lives you can change or impact with your goals? How many jobs can you create. How many families can you feed or how much impact you can have on your children?

I bet that if you are reading this, humility is a part of your character, which is a reason good enough to keep going. It is common for the people who are on top to help others along the way and that is why they aimed so high on a ladder of success.

“We only have what we give.” – Isabel Allende

4. Listen to your heart

If your heart is involved in your decision and plans, it creates power because heart makes you feel. You can be exhausted and fed up with all the failures and discouragement, have 100 reasons to give up, but if your heart tells you to keep going, you will keep going. In general, feelings are far stronger than thoughts, and they have a bigger impact on your actions.

When it comes to deciding about your future and dreams, forget the logic. No one ever succeeded or kept going because they were logical. Follow your heart and in a time of crisis, ask yourself one question: “If I give up now, if I let those goals disappear, am I going to be okay with that?” This should give you an exact answer to what you are destined for.

How do you stay devoted to your goals? Please leave your thoughts below!

Silvia committed her life to many things but one of them is helping people in turning their pain into power and teach them how to find benefits in the most difficult events of their lives. She is a motivational speaker and founder of CourageWithinYou platform.  She has written well over 200 articles oriented on personal development, success, and healthy mental growth. You can connect with her on Facebook or on her personal website www.silviaturon.com.

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    Manos

    Feb 1, 2017 at 3:39 pm

    Nice read. One question about the following: “If you are willing to accept a sadistic boss at the job you hate and feel miserable about, then I believe it is your obligation to be absolutely loyal to your dreams and future”. That sounds to me that in order to achieve your dream, one must do whatever it takes, including putting up with a sadistic boss at a job that you hate. This is contrary to doing what you love and I was wondering whether you would be so kind to elaborate on exactly what you mean here please.

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      Silvia Turonova

      Mar 2, 2017 at 12:22 pm

      Hello Manos, sorry for the late response, I just saw your comment. I meant that if you are willing to take so much shit from your boss, give him your time, your effort and your potential, isn’t your responsibility to give yourself what you deserve? Let’s say you work under someone you don’t like because they don’t treat you right. If this is your situation, you are already in pain. Why are we willing to take a pain from the job we don’t like but we aren’t willing to take a pain from change and feeling uncomfortable? I hope I explained it better this time. Let me know what you think. Thanks.

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    rohit raghuwanshi

    Jan 17, 2017 at 5:36 am

    “If I give up now, if I let those goals disappear, am I going to be okay with that?” This should give you an exact answer to what you are destined for.

    The best line I have ever heard.

    -Rohit

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      Silvia Turonova

      Mar 2, 2017 at 12:23 pm

      Hello Rohit. Thanks a lot for such kind words. Happy you liked it. Hope everything is well.

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    Ewen Munro

    Jan 15, 2017 at 8:48 pm

    Haha, so true, Silvia! We still have the rest of the year to work towards our goals. 😉 #keepgrowing #keepcreating.

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      Silvia Turonova

      Mar 2, 2017 at 12:24 pm

      Ewen, that’s right. Tons of time ahead of us. Thank you for stopping by.

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