Life
100’s Of Life Lessons Shared From YOU! & People Around The World

This page was empty when I first posted this. The reason being is that I would like all of my readers to have the chance to feature on my website that 10s of thousands of viewers read every day.
The purpose of this article is for everyone to share one life lesson they have learnt and wish they knew sooner. Some will be positive and some will be negative, either way it is a lesson and acknowledging it as something you have learned from will only help you grow. So why not share the good fortune of a lesson learned with the rest of the world.
Please leave a comment of your life lesson at the bottom of this post and I will copy and paste it into the article along with your first and last name and your age or your @twitter name, ie. @Addictd2Success, which is my twitter account. We need to limit the words down to 40 words or less per person for a simple and effective read for all. Also, No copying of quotes that are already out there, we want original life lessons.
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Life Lessons Shared From You & Others Around The World
Leave a comment with your life lesson, name & age and or your twitter account at the bottom of this page and we’ll post your lesson here……….
“Work extremely hard everyday in order to accomplish your goals. The satisfaction you are going to feel when you accomplish them is going to be so immense, that you will immediately create another new goal, just to be able to feel that same feeling of satisfaction again. Sooner or later, you will fall in this repetitive pattern of being addicted to success.” – George Quevedo
“It is amazing what hell we can go through and still come out BETTER on the other side. Moral, when you are going through hell, keep going.” – @pattibokowski
“Don’t listen to the demons in your head-they are there to slow you down from pursuing happiness and success.” – Rich Johnson
“Each day our life carries purpose and we must do our best to fulfill it.” – Chakwukere Ekeh
Burn the bridges. Cut off all paths of retreat. Leave no other choice open than winning. Make sure you have no other option but to run forward. Now tell me how can you lose? Life is beautiful – Balagei Nagarajan
“Life only demands from you the strength you possess.” – Akhil
“Don’t believe in Destiny, simply because you have the power to change it!” – Ayesha
“Success means different things for different people. First, define what success means to you, then make little steps everyday to achieve that. Overnight success only happens in movies.” – @AlbertSagwe
“Life is not so easy, some things are difficult to attain but if you take the first step of faith you’ll always succeed..” – Uzair
“Be Yourself, it Pays better !” – @GotKickz24
“The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago, the second best time is today. Decide and live your dreams.” – Gary Smyth
“Isolate yourself from most peoples’ conception of what is possible and should be done. If there is anyone whose opinion and wisdom you’re going to take seriously, choose them carefully and ask yourself how far their thoughts have got them.” – Alex J Holland
“You can achieve whatever u want no matter how hard it is by being patient and working hard.” – Amjed Negash
“WE are all Stars in the Uni-Verse…WE just shine in different areas of space.” – Nahshon Telyfe
“Live simply, embrace experience, make a difference.” – @shaun1b , 25
“Scars tell where you’ve been, not where you’re going.” – @cody_spence
“A healthy mind is your most valuable asset.” – Christian Pestan
“Sometimes the Goliath in front of me looks too big & impossible to defeat. Then, God puts his hands on my shoulder, hands me 3 pebbles & a sling shot and I know it’ll be okay.” – Mark Oliver
It’s never too late. You can look back and say ” I could of/should of done that by now” or you can look back and say ” wow, i’m almost there, time flies!” – Nicole
“Have passion and confidence in everything you do.” – Kanwai Sarai
It begins with a vision, grows with hope, sustains with perseverance, and is achieved with determination. Just because one door closed does not mean another one won’t open.” – @milgos
“It does not matter how many times you fail, the most important thing is to keep on moving forward, take advantage of your mistakes and focus on improving yourself.” – Louis Angeles
“Smile at every single person you meet or pass. It might be the only smile they get all day.” – Ellen Pluta
“Which side Are you on? Work hard>Lazy = Success>Failure” – Billy Bell
“So you failed. It’s what you do about it that matters. Hold your head up high and keep moving forward.Grow, make mistakes and learn from it!” – Zahra Sapolu
“Sometimes life goes so ridiculously fast that we lose track of the important things in life. That’s when you need to stop for a split second and look around you. It will remind you of how wonderful life actually is” – Sheng-Shun Lin, 24
“Don’t let your nerves get the better of you, confidently accept any challenge, don’t show your insecurities and you’ll be amazed at the outcome.” – Jashan Patel
“Always bring your “A” game and god will take care of the rest.” – Jason Black
“Trust your gut. If you are following your passion, putting the work in and having complete faith that you will be successful you will be.” – Andrew Lipsett
“It takes a long time to realise that the only person who can make things happen is you.” – Ash Punj
“Never go after your enemies, because they will always come to you in the end!” – Marsha Spinowitz
“My father Otho W. Brown Jr. Would often tell me… “Never make a decision when your tired or upset”. He was referencing life and business decisions.” – William Brown
“If we are always comparing ourselves to others, we will never find a way to improve our own life.” – Asiya Nursaitova, 17
“When one truly trusts in God, one is anxious for nothing.” – Giuseppe Cimino
“Say YES to opportunities. Your life may change or you may end up exactly where you are. But if you don’t take the chance, you’ll never know.” – Nik Werre, 22
“Don’t bite the hand that feeds you” I think it is so important to show your gratitude and appreciation to those who love and support you the most; your family and people who love you unconditionally. Don’t take people for granted.” – Charlene Barry
“E.C.O – Everyday Create Opportunity” – @MrStretchself
“When you realise that the obstacles are mostly in your mind – you will start to really excel in whatever you choose to do.” – @TheMikePitt
“No one can justify or defame who you are. You have to love and honor yourself. Believe that anything that you can imagine can come true if you have heart.” – @zanade
“Don’t have a Plan B. Having a fallback plan means accepting beforehand that your plan will fail. Having a Plan B is telling the universe that the failure of your plan is a solid possibility. Don’t do that! Always stick with your plan.” – @Addictd2Success, 24
“The money in your bank account is worthless without your health!” – @LokoVita
“The decisions you make today, WILL effect your future!” – Bryan Farmer
“Be yourself” – @kennboy1
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5 Indicators of Unresolved Attachment Trauma

Trauma caused during specific stages of a child’s development, known as attachment trauma, can have lasting effects on a person’s sense of safety, security, predictability, and trust. This type of trauma is often the result of abuse, neglect, or inconsistent care from a primary caregiver.
Individuals who have not fully processed attachment trauma may display similar patterns of behavior and physical or psychological symptoms that negatively impact their adult lives, including the choices they make in relationships and business.
Unfortunately, many people may not even be aware that they are struggling with trauma. Research estimates that 6% of the population will experience PTSD in their lifetime, with a majority of males and females having experienced significant trauma.
Unresolved attachment trauma can significantly impair the overall quality of a person’s life, including their ability to form healthy relationships and make positive choices for themselves. One well-known effect of unhealed attachment trauma is the compulsion to repeat past wounds by unconsciously selecting romantic partners who trigger their developmental trauma.
However, there are other less recognized but equally detrimental signs of unprocessed developmental trauma.
Five possible indications of unresolved attachment trauma are:
1. Unconscious Sabotage
Self-sabotage is a common pattern among individuals with unprocessed attachment trauma. This cycle often begins with hurting others, which is then followed by hurting oneself. It is also common for those with attachment trauma to have heightened emotional sensitivity, which can trigger this cycle.
This pattern can manifest in lashing out, shutting down, or impulsive behavior that leads to feelings of guilt, shame, and self-loathing.
Many people with attachment trauma are not aware of their wounds and operate on survival mode, unconsciously testing or challenging the emotional investment of those around them, and pushing them away out of self-preservation and fear of abandonment.
This can lead to a pattern of making poor choices for themselves based on impulsivity.
3. Behaviors That Block Out Trauma
4. A strong need for control
5. Psychological Symptoms That Are Not Explained
What to do next if you’re suffering from emotional attachment trauma?
There are several ways that people can work to overcome emotional attachment trauma:
- Therapy: One of the most effective ways to overcome emotional attachment trauma is through therapy. A therapist can help you process your experiences, understand the impact of your trauma on your life, and develop coping strategies to manage symptoms.
- Support groups: Joining a support group of people who have had similar experiences can be a great way to find validation, empathy, and a sense of community.
- Mindfulness practices: Mindfulness practices such as meditation, pilates, prayer time with God or journaling can help you become more aware of your thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations, and develop a sense of spiritual connection and self-regulation.
- Trauma-focused cognitive-behavioral therapy (TF-CBT): This is a type of therapy that is specifically designed to help individuals process and recover from traumatic events.
- Building a safety net: Building a support system of people you trust, who are there for you when you need them, can help you feel more secure and safe in your life.
It’s important to remember that healing from emotional attachment trauma is a process and it may take time. It’s also important to find a therapist who is experienced in treating trauma, who you feel comfortable talking with, and who can help you develop a personalized treatment plan.
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