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How to Become Limitless in Everything You Do

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Kobe Bryant. Warren Buffett. LeBron James. Tom Brady. Cristiano Ronaldo. Lionel Messi. Serena Williams. Beyonce. You could probably think of even more names of people who fit amongst the category of the people I just mentioned. The greats. There are people who are the best at what they do and then, there are these guys who are just a level above everyone else and not only those that are in their field.

A lot of us dream of being as great, if not better than some of those names I just mentioned. As a kid, you dream of hitting game-winning shots like Kobe did and winning 5 championships. You dream of performing in front of huge crowds whilst they sing along to your greatest hits as Beyonce does. You dream of never having to work again a day in your life because you’ve found a way to make loads of money in your sleep, like Warren Buffett. 

As a kid, you dream without boundaries. Without limits. Without fear. Then, we start to grow up. We start to learn about some of the realities of life and we start to realise the dreams we had as kids are going to be much harder to manifest than we thought. With that, at times comes a self-imposed mental barrier that prevents us from even going after the dreams we once had because we become scared

What if I fail? What if everything goes wrong? What if I lose my friends along the way? What if I become lonely? All of these thoughts prevent us from achieving the level of greatness that God placed inside us when He created us. In Genesis 1:27 it states, “So God created man in his own image, in the image and likeness of God He created him; male and female He created them.”

We were made in his image and his likeness, including his greatness. So the greatness that we hold, comes from the man above. Those negative thoughts that you have limit you in ways you can’t imagine. Not because they’re big, but quite the opposite. You’re scared of how the grind is going to feel. How you’re going to mentally cope. So you don’t wake up early to get started on your work. You’ve limited yourself. 

You’re worried about how it’s going to look if you fail, so instead of getting out of your comfort zone, you stay put. You’ve limited yourself. 

“You’re only here for a short visit. Don’t hurry, don’t worry. And be sure to smell the flowers along the way.” – Walter Hagen

You have one life. One chance. You don’t know how many years you’re going to have left. You don’t even know if tomorrow will come. So how much longer are you going to limit yourself? How many more days are you going to throw away? How many more times are you going to come back to pieces like this for a repeated boost of motivation when these types of pieces are here to propel you to the next level, not keep you at the same one?

I’m not a person who has reached the ultimate level of success, nor am I one of those ‘gurus’ or ‘self-made millionaires’ with that romantic struggle story. I’m just a 23-year-old highly-ambitious individual with big dreams, who is probably on a similar journey to you. The only difference is now, I’ve come to the realisation that life isn’t something that I can take for granted.

I’ve started to become limitless. I’ve started trying my hand in different things, never fearing the result. I’ve started pursuing my passions with much greater intensity and thankfully, it has presented me with opportunities to do what I love to do at a higher level in places that I couldn’t even have imagined as a kid. All because I started to be limitless. So what’s stopping you? 

“All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Every day you get given is a blessing, a gift and an opportunity from God to take another step in the right direction. Once that day is gone, it’s gone. There’s no getting it back. It’s time for you to be limitless. That means the following things: 

  1. No More Barriers. 
  2. No More Comfort Zones.
  3. No More ‘I Can’t.’ 

Any frame of thinking that stops you from reaching your goal has to be eliminated, for your own good. Look at barriers and being uncomfortable, as opportunities. Turn ‘I can’t’ into ‘I can’. 

Kobe gave it his all. Not 50%. Not 75%. Not even 99%. He gave it 120%. He understood that every day, every hour, every minute, every second counted and we all saw the results. We all saw the Mamba. In everything he did. From the basketball court to the Oscars. Kobe gave everything his all. That’s why he was limitless. 

So now’s your chance. Your opportunity. Right now whilst you’re reading this post. That’s why you’re here. It’s not by chance or some great fortune. You needed to read this. You’re here because you’re capable of greatness. Greatness requires you to be limitless. Make your commitment to it now, today and get ready to experience the next level of your life. 

How are you making sure you’re living the best life possible? Share your ideas with us below!

Although relatively new to the writing industry, Lore Adekeye is a young, vibrant and ambitious individual who in his short time as a writer has been ranked amongst the Top 100 Personal Development Bloggers on the internet by FeedSpot with multiple short to medium pieces published on his blog and Medium. As well as being a writer, Lore is also an aspiring basketball player and entrepreneur. So if he’s not writing he’ll definitely be either working on his basketball skills or building his brand.

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How Learning the Skill of Hope Can Change Everything

Hope isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a state of being and a skill that has profound evidence of helping people achieve success in life

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Hope isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a state of being and a skill that has profound evidence of helping people achieve success in life.

Wishful thinking, on the other hand, is like having dreams in the sky without a ladder to climb, having a destination without a map, or trying to operate a jet-engine airplane without instructions. It sounds nice but is impossible to realize. You don’t have what you need to make it happen!

What Real Hope Is

Real hope is actionable, practical, and realistic. Better yet, it’s feasible and can be learned.

One popular approach is Hope Theory. This concept is used by colleges to study how hope impacts students’ academic performance. Researchers found that students with high levels of hope achieve better grades and are more likely to graduate compared to those with less hope.

Hope can be broken down into two components:

  1. Pathways – The “how to” of hope. This is where people think of and establish plans for achieving their goals.
  2. Agency – The “I can” of hope. This is the belief that the person can accomplish their goals.

Does Hope Really Work?

According to Webster’s Dictionary, hope as a noun is defined as: “desire accompanied by expectation of or belief in fulfillment.”

As humans, we are wired to crave fulfillment. We have the ability to envision it and, through hope, make it a reality.

My Experience with Hope

For 13 years, I was a hopeless human. During my time working at a luxury hotel as a front desk agent earning $11.42 per hour, I felt the sting of hopelessness the most.

The regret of feeling my time was being stolen from me lingered every time I clocked in. Eventually, I decided to do something about it.

I gave myself permission to hope for something better. I began establishing pathways to success and regained agency by learning from self-help books and seeking mentorship.

Because I took action toward something I desired, I now feel more hope and joy than I ever felt hopelessness. Hope changed me.

Hope Actually Improves Your Life

Wishful thinking doesn’t work, and false hope is equally ineffective. Real hope, however, is directly tied to success in all areas of life.

Studies show that hopeful people tend to:

  • Demonstrate better problem-solving skills
  • Cultivate healthier relationships
  • Maintain stronger motivation to achieve goals
  • Exhibit better work ethic
  • Have a positive outlook on life

These benefits can impact work life, family life, habit-building, mental health, physical health, and spiritual practice. Imagine how much better your life could be by applying real hope to all these areas.

How to Develop the Skill to Hope

As acclaimed French writer Jean Giono wrote in The Man Who Planted Trees:
“There are also times in life when a person has to rush off in pursuit of hopefulness.”

If you are at one of those times, here are ways to develop the skill to hope:

1. Dream Again

To cultivate hope, you need to believe in its possibility. Start by:

  • Reflecting on what you’re passionate about, your values, and what you want to achieve.
  • Writing your dreams down, sharing them with someone encouraging, or saying them out loud.
  • Creating a vision board to make your dreams feel more tangible.

Dreams are the foundation of hope—they give you something meaningful to aspire toward.

2. Create an Environment of Hope

  • Set Goals: Write down your goals and create a plan to achieve them.
  • Visualize Success: Use inspirational quotes, photos, or tools like dumbbells or canvases to remind yourself of your goals.
  • Build a Resource Library: Collect books, eBooks, or audiobooks about hope and success to inspire you.

An environment that fosters hope will keep you motivated, resilient, and focused.

3. Face the Challenges

Don’t avoid challenges—overcoming them builds confidence. Participating in challenging activities, like strategic games, can enhance your problem-solving skills and reinforce hope.

4. Commit to Wisdom

Seek wisdom from those who have achieved what you aspire to. Whether through books, blogs, or social media platforms, learn from their journeys. Wisdom provides the foundation for real, actionable hope.

5. Take Note of Small Wins

Reflecting on past victories can fuel your hope for the future. Ask yourself:

  • What challenges have I already overcome?
  • How did I feel when I succeeded?

By remembering those feelings of happiness, relief, or satisfaction, your brain will naturally adopt a more hopeful mindset.

Conclusion

Hope is more than wishful thinking—it’s a powerful skill that can transform your life. By dreaming again, creating a hopeful environment, facing challenges, seeking wisdom, and celebrating small wins, you can develop the real hope necessary for success in all aspects of life.

Let hope guide you toward a brighter, more fulfilling future.

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The 5 Stages of a Quarter-Life Crisis & What You Can Do

A quarter-life crisis isn’t a sign you’ve lost your way; it’s a sign you’re fighting for a life that’s truly yours.

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The quarter-life crisis is a well-defined set of stages—Trapped, Checking Out, Separation, Exploration, Rebuilding—one goes through in breaking free from feelings of meaninglessness, lack of fulfillment, and misalignment with purpose. I detail the stages and interweave my story below. (more…)

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Here’s The Thing About Learning, Unlearning, and Relearning

Stop hoarding and start sharing your knowledge and wealth for the benefit of humankind

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Few people have the habit of hoarding their wealth without spending.  However, it limits their motivation as they tend to get into their comfort zones.  When people start spending money, then there will be depletion in their coffers. (more…)

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3 Steps That’ll Help You Take Back Control of Your Life Immediately

The key to finding “enough” is recognizing that the root of the problem is a question of self-esteem and deservedness

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