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5 Ways to Open Up Your Unfulfilled Creativity

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Creativity can be as elusive as trying to capture lightning in one of those old-timey, miniscule apothecary bottles. As an author who literally makes stuff up for a living, it has most certainly eluded me a time or two million.

The problem is, most of us feel a drive to create…to leave small traces of ourselves in the world—a bit of proof that we do, in fact, exist. Often you’ll hear that creation is one of life’s sacred needs. Even if this doesn’t ring true for you, it’s not likely you’ll be able to avoid creating altogether. In this world driven by content—even if you’re not in an industry that is typically considered creative—being original and coming up with out of the box ideas is imperative. You’ll find a greater sense of ownership in your projects, and gain the added benefit of impressing your boss or clients.

There are a lot of ways to rattle up those creative juices, and you might find you’ll add a little adventure to your life while you’re at it.  

1. Try Different Things

We live in a fast-paced world—one where it’s way too easy to fall into that trap of just getting stuff done. We have our routines and schedules and don’t often stop to think a whole lot about trying different or new things. Take a moment to think about it… when was the last time you did something truly different? This doesn’t have to be scary or difficult, and you’ll find that if you start small, it just might become an adventurous habit.

What if you:

  • Sampled a new food
  • Tested out a new sport or activity like paddle boarding, rock climbing, or an aerial yoga class
  • Joined a team volleyball, floor hockey, or even lawn bowling (bonus points for meeting new people too!) 
  • Mixed things up everyday—try on a new genre of music, or travel a new route to work, or even simply watch a video on a topic you’ve always wanted to know more about

2. Go Where Other Interesting and Creative People Are

Combining ideas in new ways is one of the cornerstones of creativity. Existing art and concepts are perfect places for incubating and sparking something new. You could come up with a new angle or twist or maybe your area of expertise fused with something you’ve never seen could birth something incredible. I’m certainly not talking about copying anyone else, but inspiration breeds innovation.

Try the following:

  • Attend the theatre (live or on screen)
  • Frequent museums and galleries
  • Support a local artist at an opening or book signing
  • Drop in at an open mic night to see how others are experimenting

“Creativity is just connecting things. When you ask creative people how they did something, they feel a little guilty because they didn’t really do it, they just saw something. It seemed obvious to them after a while.” — Steve Jobs

3. Save Your Ideas

I’d bet that you’re more creative than you think. It’s just that interesting ideas sometimes take a stroll through our minds then decide to take an extended leave of absence. But not to worry. Most of us already have a “notebook” with us at all times in the notes app in our smartphones—I have so many notes in mine, I have to create folders to keep them all sorted.

Other tricks to try:

  • Keep track of your dreams – start writing the moment you wake up or they’ll float away like a whispery fog
  • If you’re anything like me, ideas will often appear like magic while you’re in the shower. Keep your phone—and a towel!—nearby
  • Record ideas that pop by when you’re watching TV, movies or reading books—these are potential jumping off points for something new
  • Journal! I find that when I make a point to just get started…ideas will start to appear. Or maybe they were there all along and I just didn’t recognize them

4. Give Yourself Room

When our minds are busy with the day to day grind, it tends to be a lot more difficult to come up with creative thoughts and new ideas. If you struggle with a flow of creativity, maybe it’s because stress can often get in the way.

A few things you could try:

  • If you have one of those minds that whirrs as you try to fall asleep, try to calm it by jotting down all those things you forgot about today or are afraid to miss tomorrow. Once the task is saved, it should be a lot easier to let it rest. Again, simply add a reminder or task on your phone
  • I’m sure you’ve heard it before (hello konmari method), but clearing your work areas and living space can definitely help optimize your time and energy. Organized spaces = organized mind (for most of us). If nothing else, a beautiful space can help form beautiful ideas 
  • Ponder (or perhaps meditate), but don’t ruminate. What’s the difference? Positivity vs. negativity. When I “ponder”, it’s a lot more like daydreaming than it is letting negative thoughts whirl around in there. Think about the amazing things this world has to offer – all the beautiful art, nature, food, people, places, and amazing ideas. Keep lists of things that you find exciting, fun, interesting, hopeful, peaceful, and reassuring.

5. Let Go of Fear

My biggest crusher of creativity is the comparison game. We are all on our own journeys—let yourself have the unique, quirky, frustrating, and gorgeous one only you can create. Experiment. Try. Fail. What if it all just didn’t matter so much? When I’m feeling overwhelmed and fearful, I try to take a step back and ask myself just that—what if it didn’t matter so much? And you know what I usually find? It actually doesn’t matter as much as I’m making it out to in my head.

Make failure a priority – without mistakes, there is no learning or progress. Start giving failure the credit it deserves. Challenge yourself—especially when things get hard

Some think creativity is meant for artists and inventors, but it’s surprising how much creativity day-to-day work and living require. Scheduling, problem solving, and even cooking are all creative endeavors. If we’re not creating, we’re stagnant. Creativity is essential for all of us.

Even if you’re not specifically looking to “be more creative”, I can guarantee at the very least, trying out some of these tactics will make you a much more interesting person. And you might be surprised once you start looking, just how much creativity actually flows through you.

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9 Harsh Truths Every Young Man Must Face to Succeed in the Modern World

Before chasing success, every young man needs to face these 9 brutal realities shaping masculinity in the modern world.

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Many young men today quietly battle depression, loneliness, and a sense of confusion about who they’re meant to be.

Some blame the lack of deep friendships or romantic relationships. Others feel lost in a digital world that often labels traditional masculinity as “toxic.”

But the truth is this: becoming a man in the modern age takes more than just surviving. It takes resilience, direction, and a willingness to grow even when no one’s watching.

Success doesn’t arrive by accident or luck. It’s built on discipline, sacrifice, and consistency.

Here are 9 harsh truths every young man should know if he wants to thrive, not just survive, in the digital age.

1. Never Use Your Illness as an Excuse

As Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often says, successful people don’t complain; they act.

Your illness, hardship, or struggle shouldn’t define your limits; it should define your motivation. Rest when you must, but always get back up and keep building your dreams. Motivation doesn’t appear magically. It comes after you take action.

Here are five key lessons I’ve learned from Dr. Peterson:

  • Learn to write clearly; clarity of thought makes you dangerous.

  • Read quality literature in your free time.

  • Nurture a strong relationship with your family.

  • Share your ideas publicly; your voice matters.

  • Become a “monster”, powerful, but disciplined enough to control it.

The best leaders and thinkers are grounded. They welcome criticism, adapt quickly, and keep moving forward no matter what.

2. You Can’t Please Everyone And That’s Okay

You don’t need a crowd of people to feel fulfilled. You need a few friends who genuinely accept you for who you are.

If your circle doesn’t bring out your best, it’s okay to walk away. Solitude can be a powerful teacher. It gives you space to understand what you truly want from life. Remember, successful men aren’t people-pleasers; they’re purpose-driven.

3. You Can Control the Process, Not the Outcome

Especially in creative work, writing, business, or content creation, you control effort, not results.

You might publish two articles a day, but you can’t dictate which one will go viral. Focus on mastery, not metrics. Many great writers toiled for years in obscurity before anyone noticed them. Rejection, criticism, and indifference are all part of the path.

The best creators focus on storytelling, not applause.

4. Rejection Is Never Personal

Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It simply means your offer, idea, or timing didn’t align.

Every successful person has faced rejection repeatedly. What separates them is persistence and perspective. They see rejection as feedback, not failure. The faster you learn that truth, the faster you’ll grow.

5. Women Value Comfort and Security

Understanding women requires maturity and empathy.

Through books, lectures, and personal growth, I’ve learned that most women desire a man who is grounded, intelligent, confident, emotionally stable, and consistent. Some want humor, others intellect, but nearly all want to feel safe and supported.

Instead of chasing attention, work on self-improvement. Build competence and confidence, and the rest will follow naturally.

6. There’s No Such Thing as Failure, Only Lessons

A powerful lesson from Neuro-Linguistic Programming: failure only exists when you stop trying.

Every mistake brings data. Every setback builds wisdom. The most successful men aren’t fearless. They’ve simply learned to act despite fear.

Be proud of your scars. They’re proof you were brave enough to try.

7. Public Speaking Is an Art Form

Public speaking is one of the most valuable and underrated skills a man can master.

It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection. The best speakers tell stories, inspire confidence, and make people feel seen. They research deeply, speak honestly, and practice relentlessly.

If you can speak well, you can lead, sell, teach, and inspire. Start small, practice at work, in class, or even in front of a mirror, and watch your confidence skyrocket.

8. Teaching Is Leadership in Disguise

Great teachers are not just knowledgeable. They’re brave, compassionate, and disciplined.

Teaching forces you to articulate what you know, and in doing so, you master it at a deeper level. Whether you’re mentoring a peer, leading a team, or sharing insights online, teaching refines your purpose.

Lifelong learners become lifelong leaders.

9. Study Human Nature to Achieve Your Dreams

One of the toughest lessons to accept: most people are self-interested.

That’s not cynicism, it’s human nature. Understanding this helps you navigate relationships, business, and communication more effectively.

Everyone has a darker side, but successful people learn to channel theirs productively into discipline, creativity, and drive.

Psychology isn’t just theory; it’s a toolkit. Learn how people think, act, and decide, and you’ll know how to lead them, influence them, and even understand yourself better.

Final Thoughts

The digital age offers endless opportunities, but only to those who are willing to take responsibility, confront discomfort, and keep improving.

Becoming a man today means embracing the hard truths most avoid.

Because at the end of the day, success isn’t about luck. It’s about who you become when life tests you the most.

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