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5 Ways to Open Up Your Unfulfilled Creativity

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Creativity can be as elusive as trying to capture lightning in one of those old-timey, miniscule apothecary bottles. As an author who literally makes stuff up for a living, it has most certainly eluded me a time or two million.

The problem is, most of us feel a drive to create…to leave small traces of ourselves in the world—a bit of proof that we do, in fact, exist. Often you’ll hear that creation is one of life’s sacred needs. Even if this doesn’t ring true for you, it’s not likely you’ll be able to avoid creating altogether. In this world driven by content—even if you’re not in an industry that is typically considered creative—being original and coming up with out of the box ideas is imperative. You’ll find a greater sense of ownership in your projects, and gain the added benefit of impressing your boss or clients.

There are a lot of ways to rattle up those creative juices, and you might find you’ll add a little adventure to your life while you’re at it.  

1. Try Different Things

We live in a fast-paced world—one where it’s way too easy to fall into that trap of just getting stuff done. We have our routines and schedules and don’t often stop to think a whole lot about trying different or new things. Take a moment to think about it… when was the last time you did something truly different? This doesn’t have to be scary or difficult, and you’ll find that if you start small, it just might become an adventurous habit.

What if you:

  • Sampled a new food
  • Tested out a new sport or activity like paddle boarding, rock climbing, or an aerial yoga class
  • Joined a team volleyball, floor hockey, or even lawn bowling (bonus points for meeting new people too!) 
  • Mixed things up everyday—try on a new genre of music, or travel a new route to work, or even simply watch a video on a topic you’ve always wanted to know more about

2. Go Where Other Interesting and Creative People Are

Combining ideas in new ways is one of the cornerstones of creativity. Existing art and concepts are perfect places for incubating and sparking something new. You could come up with a new angle or twist or maybe your area of expertise fused with something you’ve never seen could birth something incredible. I’m certainly not talking about copying anyone else, but inspiration breeds innovation.

Try the following:

  • Attend the theatre (live or on screen)
  • Frequent museums and galleries
  • Support a local artist at an opening or book signing
  • Drop in at an open mic night to see how others are experimenting

“Creativity is just connecting things. When you ask creative people how they did something, they feel a little guilty because they didn’t really do it, they just saw something. It seemed obvious to them after a while.” — Steve Jobs

3. Save Your Ideas

I’d bet that you’re more creative than you think. It’s just that interesting ideas sometimes take a stroll through our minds then decide to take an extended leave of absence. But not to worry. Most of us already have a “notebook” with us at all times in the notes app in our smartphones—I have so many notes in mine, I have to create folders to keep them all sorted.

Other tricks to try:

  • Keep track of your dreams – start writing the moment you wake up or they’ll float away like a whispery fog
  • If you’re anything like me, ideas will often appear like magic while you’re in the shower. Keep your phone—and a towel!—nearby
  • Record ideas that pop by when you’re watching TV, movies or reading books—these are potential jumping off points for something new
  • Journal! I find that when I make a point to just get started…ideas will start to appear. Or maybe they were there all along and I just didn’t recognize them

4. Give Yourself Room

When our minds are busy with the day to day grind, it tends to be a lot more difficult to come up with creative thoughts and new ideas. If you struggle with a flow of creativity, maybe it’s because stress can often get in the way.

A few things you could try:

  • If you have one of those minds that whirrs as you try to fall asleep, try to calm it by jotting down all those things you forgot about today or are afraid to miss tomorrow. Once the task is saved, it should be a lot easier to let it rest. Again, simply add a reminder or task on your phone
  • I’m sure you’ve heard it before (hello konmari method), but clearing your work areas and living space can definitely help optimize your time and energy. Organized spaces = organized mind (for most of us). If nothing else, a beautiful space can help form beautiful ideas 
  • Ponder (or perhaps meditate), but don’t ruminate. What’s the difference? Positivity vs. negativity. When I “ponder”, it’s a lot more like daydreaming than it is letting negative thoughts whirl around in there. Think about the amazing things this world has to offer – all the beautiful art, nature, food, people, places, and amazing ideas. Keep lists of things that you find exciting, fun, interesting, hopeful, peaceful, and reassuring.

5. Let Go of Fear

My biggest crusher of creativity is the comparison game. We are all on our own journeys—let yourself have the unique, quirky, frustrating, and gorgeous one only you can create. Experiment. Try. Fail. What if it all just didn’t matter so much? When I’m feeling overwhelmed and fearful, I try to take a step back and ask myself just that—what if it didn’t matter so much? And you know what I usually find? It actually doesn’t matter as much as I’m making it out to in my head.

Make failure a priority – without mistakes, there is no learning or progress. Start giving failure the credit it deserves. Challenge yourself—especially when things get hard

Some think creativity is meant for artists and inventors, but it’s surprising how much creativity day-to-day work and living require. Scheduling, problem solving, and even cooking are all creative endeavors. If we’re not creating, we’re stagnant. Creativity is essential for all of us.

Even if you’re not specifically looking to “be more creative”, I can guarantee at the very least, trying out some of these tactics will make you a much more interesting person. And you might be surprised once you start looking, just how much creativity actually flows through you.

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How Learning the Skill of Hope Can Change Everything

Hope isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a state of being and a skill that has profound evidence of helping people achieve success in life

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Hope isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a state of being and a skill that has profound evidence of helping people achieve success in life.

Wishful thinking, on the other hand, is like having dreams in the sky without a ladder to climb, having a destination without a map, or trying to operate a jet-engine airplane without instructions. It sounds nice but is impossible to realize. You don’t have what you need to make it happen!

What Real Hope Is

Real hope is actionable, practical, and realistic. Better yet, it’s feasible and can be learned.

One popular approach is Hope Theory. This concept is used by colleges to study how hope impacts students’ academic performance. Researchers found that students with high levels of hope achieve better grades and are more likely to graduate compared to those with less hope.

Hope can be broken down into two components:

  1. Pathways – The “how to” of hope. This is where people think of and establish plans for achieving their goals.
  2. Agency – The “I can” of hope. This is the belief that the person can accomplish their goals.

Does Hope Really Work?

According to Webster’s Dictionary, hope as a noun is defined as: “desire accompanied by expectation of or belief in fulfillment.”

As humans, we are wired to crave fulfillment. We have the ability to envision it and, through hope, make it a reality.

My Experience with Hope

For 13 years, I was a hopeless human. During my time working at a luxury hotel as a front desk agent earning $11.42 per hour, I felt the sting of hopelessness the most.

The regret of feeling my time was being stolen from me lingered every time I clocked in. Eventually, I decided to do something about it.

I gave myself permission to hope for something better. I began establishing pathways to success and regained agency by learning from self-help books and seeking mentorship.

Because I took action toward something I desired, I now feel more hope and joy than I ever felt hopelessness. Hope changed me.

Hope Actually Improves Your Life

Wishful thinking doesn’t work, and false hope is equally ineffective. Real hope, however, is directly tied to success in all areas of life.

Studies show that hopeful people tend to:

  • Demonstrate better problem-solving skills
  • Cultivate healthier relationships
  • Maintain stronger motivation to achieve goals
  • Exhibit better work ethic
  • Have a positive outlook on life

These benefits can impact work life, family life, habit-building, mental health, physical health, and spiritual practice. Imagine how much better your life could be by applying real hope to all these areas.

How to Develop the Skill to Hope

As acclaimed French writer Jean Giono wrote in The Man Who Planted Trees:
“There are also times in life when a person has to rush off in pursuit of hopefulness.”

If you are at one of those times, here are ways to develop the skill to hope:

1. Dream Again

To cultivate hope, you need to believe in its possibility. Start by:

  • Reflecting on what you’re passionate about, your values, and what you want to achieve.
  • Writing your dreams down, sharing them with someone encouraging, or saying them out loud.
  • Creating a vision board to make your dreams feel more tangible.

Dreams are the foundation of hope—they give you something meaningful to aspire toward.

2. Create an Environment of Hope

  • Set Goals: Write down your goals and create a plan to achieve them.
  • Visualize Success: Use inspirational quotes, photos, or tools like dumbbells or canvases to remind yourself of your goals.
  • Build a Resource Library: Collect books, eBooks, or audiobooks about hope and success to inspire you.

An environment that fosters hope will keep you motivated, resilient, and focused.

3. Face the Challenges

Don’t avoid challenges—overcoming them builds confidence. Participating in challenging activities, like strategic games, can enhance your problem-solving skills and reinforce hope.

4. Commit to Wisdom

Seek wisdom from those who have achieved what you aspire to. Whether through books, blogs, or social media platforms, learn from their journeys. Wisdom provides the foundation for real, actionable hope.

5. Take Note of Small Wins

Reflecting on past victories can fuel your hope for the future. Ask yourself:

  • What challenges have I already overcome?
  • How did I feel when I succeeded?

By remembering those feelings of happiness, relief, or satisfaction, your brain will naturally adopt a more hopeful mindset.

Conclusion

Hope is more than wishful thinking—it’s a powerful skill that can transform your life. By dreaming again, creating a hopeful environment, facing challenges, seeking wisdom, and celebrating small wins, you can develop the real hope necessary for success in all aspects of life.

Let hope guide you toward a brighter, more fulfilling future.

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The quarter-life crisis is a well-defined set of stages—Trapped, Checking Out, Separation, Exploration, Rebuilding—one goes through in breaking free from feelings of meaninglessness, lack of fulfillment, and misalignment with purpose. I detail the stages and interweave my story below. (more…)

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Here’s The Thing About Learning, Unlearning, and Relearning

Stop hoarding and start sharing your knowledge and wealth for the benefit of humankind

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Few people have the habit of hoarding their wealth without spending.  However, it limits their motivation as they tend to get into their comfort zones.  When people start spending money, then there will be depletion in their coffers. (more…)

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3 Steps That’ll Help You Take Back Control of Your Life Immediately

The key to finding “enough” is recognizing that the root of the problem is a question of self-esteem and deservedness

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