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3 of Mary Morrissey’s Teachings to Help You Overcome Any Obstacles in Life and Business



Mary Morrissey

For more than four decades, Mary Morrissey has been considered the leading expert on dream building and the spiritual side of success. After having the privilege of being mentored and trained by this brilliant individual, I have progressed on to touch even more lives thanks in part to the greater expansion her support and encouragement offered. She’s authored best selling books, speaks and trains on the invisible laws that govern our success and hosts some pretty amazing events for those who dare to pursue their dream lifestyles.

Anyone who’s had the joy of knowing Mary Morrissey always confesses of the magnificence, radiance and poise she exudes. Personally, there are very few female mentors who’ve captivated my heart and I feel that in our modern society we are indeed privileged to have the feminine presence being embodied by such women as Mary.

Every time I speak with someone who desires a better understanding on what Mary does or why this work that we do is so important, there’s always a lingering feeling of overwhelm within the individual once they step into the world of dream building because they often feel like there’s just so much to learn and do.

Which is why I want to simplify it for you today because in essence, whether you are keen on spiritual knowledge or you just want to start producing better results in your life and business, real transformation is crucial.  

Here are simple key principle teachings from Mary that can enable you to do just that:

1. That which is in you is greater than whatever’s going on outside of you

There is greatness in you. A silent creative power dwells within you that can liberate you from whatever bondage, conditions or limitations you feel stuck in. We’ve been taught since birth to look outside of us for power, solutions, love, happiness and sense of value.

In so doing, we’ve impeded our individual access to this power and so our work, should we desire to produce better relationships, more prosperity and freedom in life is about reconnecting to that indwelling power within each of us which is greater than anything on the outside.

You are in truth more powerful than you may think at this point and regardless of what others have told you in the past or how huge the mountain before you seems, you’ve got everything it takes to reach that summit.

This is a powerful idea that takes a while to grow roots in our distorted minds, but once you get it, nothing you face in life or business will ever deter you from your dream.

“The purpose of human life is to serve, and to show compassion and the will to help others.” – Albert Schweitzer

2. You can have your circumstances without your circumstances having you

This second key principle taught by Mary became an anchoring point for me when I was dealing with some really heavy stuff! After spending most of my years in the bosom of poverty in an African slum, it was kinda hard getting in touch with the fact that I could completely eradicate poverty from my life.

Whenever I’ve shared this principle with someone going through “hell”, transformation began. What this principle aims to empower us into, is a knowledge and knowing that – because we have awakened to who we really are, any circumstances no matter how awful can be reversed into something more pleasurable.

Since we are the creators of our conditions, the circumstances cannot possibly gain more power than us unless we give them authority.  This sounds easy on paper, but of course in daily life when we have debt, health crisis, poverty and other limitations knocking on our front door, it requires certain practices to implement.

That’s why I teach others how to develop their mental faculties because only through a highly tamed mind can you stand fearlessly and courageously when faced with threatening conditions. But having learnt of the first principle, unleashing the greatness within you and overcoming circumstances becomes natural.

3. The quality of our lives is determined by the quality of our questions

If you go into Google and type in a generic question, you’ll get a generic answer. The quality of results that Google gives you will be based on the quality of the questions you asked. Well do you know there is only one mind in the universe and we are all individual expressions of that one mind?

The individual arrangement of this one mind produces the varying manifestations. So when you desire increased prosperity (when you need to overcome something), going to that one mind with the right question makes all the difference in the world.

All the answers and solutions are here waiting for you regardless of what you face, but without high quality questions and empowering thoughts, you’ll never gain access to that which you seek.

Practice investing in empowering thoughts and asking empowering questions that will support you in generating the kind of results you desire.

“Inspiration, without action, is merely entertainment. ACT on your inspiration today!” – Mary Morrissey

At first this is going to be hard because no one ever taught you how to think or question things from a place of empowerment. But that’s ok, put in the effort needed to create this new habit because as Einstein said, “we cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.”

Now we would love to know, do you truly believe that within you lies more power and greatness than anything you’re currently facing? Please share your comments below.

Janette Getui is a mumpreneur and prosperity guide devoted to showing others how to produce more freedom and opulence in life. She is the co-founder of Bold Beautiful Blissful U and hosts transformational prosperity retreats and masterminds. Known to many as a powerful modern day mystic who has been able to prove through her own journey from the heart of poverty in an African slum to the abundant beach lifestyle that she gets to enjoy in Europe, that overcoming poverty consciousness, limiting beliefs and low self-worth is the fastest way to produce new beginnings and unfold a rich, blissful destiny. Her PH.D in overcoming harsh conditions and mind mastery make connecting with her worthwhile especially if spiritual and financial freedom matters to you. Get her free gift e-book that will enable you to unlock your version of heaven on earth.

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5 Indicators of Unresolved Attachment Trauma



Emotional Attachment Trauma

Trauma caused during specific stages of a child’s development, known as attachment trauma, can have lasting effects on a person’s sense of safety, security, predictability, and trust. This type of trauma is often the result of abuse, neglect, or inconsistent care from a primary caregiver.

Individuals who have not fully processed attachment trauma may display similar patterns of behavior and physical or psychological symptoms that negatively impact their adult lives, including the choices they make in relationships and business.

Unfortunately, many people may not even be aware that they are struggling with trauma. Research estimates that 6% of the population will experience PTSD in their lifetime, with a majority of males and females having experienced significant trauma.

Unresolved attachment trauma can significantly impair the overall quality of a person’s life, including their ability to form healthy relationships and make positive choices for themselves. One well-known effect of unhealed attachment trauma is the compulsion to repeat past wounds by unconsciously selecting romantic partners who trigger their developmental trauma.

However, there are other less recognized but equally detrimental signs of unprocessed developmental trauma.


Five possible indications of unresolved attachment trauma are:


1.  Unconscious Sabotage

Self-sabotage is a common pattern among individuals with unprocessed attachment trauma. This cycle often begins with hurting others, which is then followed by hurting oneself. It is also common for those with attachment trauma to have heightened emotional sensitivity, which can trigger this cycle.

This pattern can manifest in lashing out, shutting down, or impulsive behavior that leads to feelings of guilt, shame, and self-loathing.

Many people with attachment trauma are not aware of their wounds and operate on survival mode, unconsciously testing or challenging the emotional investment of those around them, and pushing them away out of self-preservation and fear of abandonment.

This can lead to a pattern of making poor choices for themselves based on impulsivity.


2. Persistent Pain

Chronic pain is a common symptom that can stem from early trauma. Studies have shown a connection between physical conditions such as fibromyalgia, headaches, gastrointestinal issues, insomnia, muscle aches, back pain, chest pain, and chronic fatigue with the aftermath of chronic developmental trauma, particularly physical abuse.
Research has found that individuals with insecure attachment styles, such as anxious, avoidant, or disorganized, have a higher incidence of somatic symptoms and a history of physical and emotional abuse in childhood compared to those with a secure attachment style.

3. Behaviors That Block Out Trauma

Trauma blocking practises are used to avoid the pain and memories connected with traumatic events.
Emotional numbing, avoidance, and escape via briefly pleasurable activities that distract from terrible memories or suffering are common examples. Unfortunately, this escape habit stops people from successfully processing and recovering from their trauma.
Furthermore, when the pain resurfaces, more and more diversions are necessary to continue ignoring it. This can be seen in compulsive behaviours such as drug or alcohol addiction, emotional eating, numbing oneself through relationships, workaholism, excessive or dangerous exercise routines, compulsive internet or technology use, or any other compulsive behaviour used to distract yoursef from intrusive thoughts and emotions.
These actions have the potential to prolong a cycle of avoidance and repression, preventing persons from healing and progressing.

4. A strong need for control

It’s understandable that some people may struggle with control issues in their adult lives, especially if they felt helpless or vulnerable during their childhood.
This can happen if someone had an overbearing caregiver who didn’t let them make their own choices, expected too much from them, or didn’t take care of them properly. As adults, they might try to control everything in their life to feel more in control and less anxious or scared. This might be because they didn’t feel like they had control over their life when they were a child.
It’s important to remember that everyone’s experiences are different and it’s okay to seek help if you’re struggling with control issues.

5. Psychological Symptoms That Are Not Explained

Individuals with a history of developmental trauma may experience a range of psychological symptoms, including obsessive-compulsive behavior, intense mood swings, irritability, anger, depression, emotional numbing, or severe anxiety.
These symptoms can vary in intensity and may occur intermittently throughout the day. People with this type of trauma may attempt to “distract” themselves from these symptoms by denying or rationalizing them, or may resort to substance abuse or behavioral addictions as coping mechanisms. This can be a maladaptive way of trying to numb their symptoms.

What to do next if you’re suffering from emotional attachment trauma?

Everyone’s experience of healing from trauma is unique. It’s important to be aware of whether you have experienced childhood developmental trauma and how it may be affecting your relationships as an adult. Sometimes, the effects of trauma can be overwhelming and we may try to push them away or avoid them.
If you notice that you’re engaging in these behaviors, it’s important to seek help from a trauma therapist who can support you on your healing journey. Remember, you’re not alone and it’s never too late to start healing.

There are several ways that people can work to overcome emotional attachment trauma:

  1. Therapy: One of the most effective ways to overcome emotional attachment trauma is through therapy. A therapist can help you process your experiences, understand the impact of your trauma on your life, and develop coping strategies to manage symptoms.
  2. Support groups: Joining a support group of people who have had similar experiences can be a great way to find validation, empathy, and a sense of community.
  3. Mindfulness practices: Mindfulness practices such as meditation, pilates, prayer time with God or journaling can help you become more aware of your thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations, and develop a sense of spiritual connection and self-regulation.
  4. Trauma-focused cognitive-behavioral therapy (TF-CBT): This is a type of therapy that is specifically designed to help individuals process and recover from traumatic events.
  5. Building a safety net: Building a support system of people you trust, who are there for you when you need them, can help you feel more secure and safe in your life.

It’s important to remember that healing from emotional attachment trauma is a process and it may take time. It’s also important to find a therapist who is experienced in treating trauma, who you feel comfortable talking with, and who can help you develop a personalized treatment plan.

If you desire to work with me on healing your wounds and unlocking the aspects of you that were never realized so you can achieve more success in your life then head over to and join my weekly LIVE online mentorship calls.
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3 Simple Steps to Cultivate Courage and Create a Life of Meaning

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