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6 Qualities Of People Who Never Quit

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Have you ventured into a new business? Started on a dream? Worked your way up in a career?

If you’ve pursued a new venture and failed, you have two choices: quit or keep on going. To stay resilient in the face of defeat is a difficult task. Not everyone can hang in there when circumstances are challenging.

When I started blogging, I had difficulty getting traction. Not many people read my blog and not many sites accepted my guest posts. I would write content and find that not many people would share it on social media. I would reach out to more prominent bloggers and would never hear back. I wanted to quit every day on this journey of building up a blog that would help people.

While there’s still much more room to grow, my fledging blog is growing. I want to share with you some of the mindsets and attitudes I adopted to keep going on my blogging journey.

Here are 6 common qualities in people who never quit:

1. Never take “no” for an answer

No matter what others say, don’t listen to them. Do not let the gate-keepers stop you. Don’t let your success depend on other people or on an answer from someone else.

If someone says, “no,” use it as fuel to keep going. Use “no” as motivation to say “yes” to yourself by continuing to work on your dreams. A “no” from someone or from life is never permanent. Think of “no” as a test – it’s your chance to transform “no” to “yes.”

“Don’t dwell on what went wrong. Instead, focus on what to do next. Spend your energies on moving forward toward finding the answer.” – Denis Waitley

2. See a setback as a setup

It sure feels like you’re going backward, but going backward helps you gain momentum to go forward. You may see that life is throwing you curveballs, but it’s only helping you become a better hitter. Once you study the pitcher and understand how he pitches, you become better at hitting the ball out of the park.

Think of setbacks as preparation for doing things the right way. Setbacks are lessons on how to improve. Your setback is your real-life education on how to get there. The people who see their setbacks as setups for greater success will never quit. They welcome setbacks on their journey to success.

 

3. See challenges as opportunities

While some see failure as a dead end, others never stop looking for the open window. They seek a new perspective, an opportunity, another way. They never accept a dead end as final and they look for ways to turn the dead end into something that benefits them.

They reframe the problem, ask different questions and try to come up with more creative solutions. What is the way out? Where is the opportunity to move forward? How can this work out in your favor?

 

4. Look to bounce back higher

People who don’t quit know that the further back they fall or the worse off they are, the higher up they’ll go. Again, the farther you fall back, the higher you’ll rise. When you fall behind or fail, you’ll gain intense learning and an understanding of what didn’t work. The more insight you gain from failure, the quicker and faster you’ll move forward.

 

5. Know that success comes after failure

The most successful people in the world are the people who have failed the most. The authors who were rejected became best-selling authors. The inventors who failed, created the most transformational inventions. 

The products that failed led to more creative and necessary products. A basketball player who found himself cut from his high school team became the greatest athlete of our generation. Failure is the breeding ground for success.

“The phoenix must burn to emerge.” – Janet Fitch

6. Learn, improve and try again

People who don’t quit will learn from mistakes and get insights from failure. They move forward in life with the lessons they learned. They make changes and get better at what they do. Every time they try and fail, they learn and improve.

They don’t let temporary obstacles become permanent walls to success. They keep moving forward. They try one more time – wiser and with priceless experience under their belts.

Which quality do you need to improve? Please leave your thoughts in the comment section below!

 

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9 Comments

9 Comments

  1. Mr. Perz

    Dec 11, 2016 at 5:13 pm

    I hit a big bump on the road with a big prospect. This particular setback has better prepared me to counter another prospect that I’m working with. We live and learn and my saying is “Sometimes you strike out before you hit Gold”.

  2. saneesh mohan

    Dec 11, 2016 at 7:58 am

    Great article, faced similar issues encourage to move forward .Thanks

  3. Collins

    May 10, 2016 at 12:20 am

    Never let past experiences deter or stop you from continuing with your life, rather take it as a stepping stone to success and prosperity.

  4. Thea Dunlap

    May 2, 2016 at 2:47 am

    Learn, improve and try again; This so me! I like to learn to improve myself and my skills. I experience failure a lot, some times I tried so give up but when I find the my inspiration and motivation, that is when I don’t quit 😀

    • Vishnu

      May 2, 2016 at 12:43 pm

      Great to hear Thea. Thank you for trying again and never giving up. Wishing you the most success.

  5. RecarroJames

    Apr 26, 2016 at 4:03 pm

    I always believe the a NO is never a NO but maybe just “NOT YET” or “NOT for ME”.
    Once you keep persevering, keep ignoring those No’s and tell yourself YES then naturally it’s like you’re proving to GOD/Universe that you deserve that which you’ve set out to accomplish, after which comes a huge breakthrough for you.

    • Vishnu

      May 2, 2016 at 12:50 pm

      Hi there – great and healthy perspective. You use your own insight and wisdom to determine when a ‘no’ is a ‘not yet’ or “not for me’.

  6. Shawn Lim

    Apr 26, 2016 at 1:08 pm

    Sure love it when you say ‘see challenges as opportunities’.
    However, says is easy, do it hard.
    I guess we all have to start small and make it as a habit and then grow from there.

    • Vishnu

      May 2, 2016 at 1:31 pm

      you got it Shawn. It won’t feel like an opportunity but continually trying to find the lessons and reframing our struggles is the way to go. And sometimes, you have to do this after the experience is over to be able to see how the experiences positively affected your life. Starting small and small shifts in perspective sounds like a plan!

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