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5 Ways To Be Happier Than A Bird With A French Fry



5 Ways To Be Happier Than A Bird With A French Fry

Imagine that you’re an ordinary pigeon scouring the earth for food. You’ve searched high and low for anything that can bring you satisfaction, because well, your very existence depends on it.

Now imagine that you, still an ordinary pigeon, have stumbled upon a stash of french fries, tossed by the wayside. How would you feel? Instantly you’d feel like an eagle soaring through the sky, untouchable… and also very full!

We all want to live a happier, more fulfilling life. Although genuine happiness is a universal desire, it means many different things for different people. Happiness and fulfillment may come in the form of family, monetary success, or even a dream career or job. Nevertheless, it is the pursuit of happiness that we all yearn for, just as a pigeon yearns for the day he catches that french fry.

Here are 5 ways on how to find happiness in your life:


1. Spend money on experiences

We live in a materialistic culture that emphasizes having a lot of “stuff” and also spending a lot of money on keeping up said “stuff.” Whether it’s a stash of gadgets, handbags, or even a fancy sports car – all that stuff and its subsequent is stressful!

One way you can bring more happiness into your life is to spend your money on experiences, instead of things. Instead of buying a new laptop for Christmas, perhaps try spending your money on opera tickets, or save up for a tropical vacation! Just the anticipation itself of doing something different will give you a boost in happiness.

“It is not how much we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happiness.” – Charles Spurgeon

2. Give more

In addition to spending money on experiences, studies show that we are also happier when we spend money on other people. Even just spending time on other people by volunteering can make you feel less stressed and isolated, and more connected to the world.

Kindness really goes a long way. Simply reflecting on the nice things you’ve done for others over time, can lift your mood. So, practice some compassion today and give without question!


3. Take care of your body

Your health is a key factor in your pursuit of happiness. There are two key ways you can take care of your body that will make you feel happier almost instantly: sleeping and exercising more. Exercising in particular plays a big part in happiness, because when you exercise, your body releases chemicals in the brain called endorphins.

Endorphins are the chemicals that trigger a feeling of positivity throughout your body! So get up and get moving! Twenty minutes a day should do the trick. We also know that sleep at night helps our bodies to recover and repair from the day, but studies show that the more you sleep, the less sensitive you’ll be to negative emotions! You’ll be less reactive to those daily nuisances and in a better mood all around.


4. Go outside

Get out of your house, get out of your office, get out of whatever building it is that you spend the majority of your time in, and GO OUTSIDE! Taking a little time out of your day to be with nature, enjoying the scenery around you will no doubt put you in a positive mood.

Take your lunch break outside, or go for an afternoon walk around the block. There’s no reason to be cooped up all day long!


5. Do more of what you love

This is by the far the quickest, easiest way to get more happiness in your life. Make a list of what you love; then, make a list of what you do everyday. Compare the lists, and then adjust accordingly! If painting, writing, or working on cars is what brings you the most happiness, then why aren’t you doing more of it?

It’s that simple! You don’t have to make a career out of it, but if it’s what your heart yearns for, then doing more of it as often as you can will bring you joy.


Thank you for reading my article! I would love to hear what helps with your happiness in the comment section below!


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Life is a battleground, we need to keep fighting until our appointed time on earth comes. So, in this post, you will see the best of the best life tips you have never heard before. These tips are life-changing and can change you immediately. Let’s go!

1. Be independent 

Hundreds of millions of people make this mistake. We depend on people like us. “he will get it done for me, she will get it done for me”. You rely heavily on people and guess what, you are making a big mistake. 

There are a lot of people that have helped others and perhaps time changes for them, they become poor and rely on the people they have helped, guess what comes out at the end of this reliance? Disappointment, promises backed by failures, etc. 

Who are you depending on? Who is that person you can’t do without when getting things in your life done? If there is anyone, you are making a big mistake. And starting today, all you have to do is add a prefix – what if!

What if my friend stops helping me, what if I get disappointed by people I trust with my life, what if they neglect me and turn me down”.

A man or woman that depends on people like him is equal to a feeble pillar holding the four corners of a house. What happens when the feeble pillar falls? The man’s house falls down super-flat. Your trust should only be in Jesus. Man can fail us at any time but God is always faithful till his Kingdom comes. 

2. Love your neighbor as yourself 

The gravity of this word is enough to shatter the whole earth into pieces. 

Only if the whole world just kept this simple commandment Christ Jesus gave then, there will be no murders, poverty, greediness, anger, envy, betrayal, disappointment, etc. 

Why are there such things in the world? Because we hate ourselves. As long as you are fine all is well. You care about yourself only, selfish, you have and yet you cannot give. 

Those are the characteristics of over 90% of the 7.6 billion humans on earth. Why can’t you do to others what you would have them do to you? Why can’t you help that suffering neighbor who needs food? Then, a lot of people will say 

“Go away from here beggar, what did you do with your youth, I can’t give you a dime, beggar”. Why are we so cruel? This is the best tip you must dear to your heart. 

No matter what you have, no matter how little or in whatever way you can help. Help people, show them love, love them as you love yourself. Don’t forget this, today’s beggar, uneducated, debtor, poor person, etc can later become the greatest person in the world tomorrow. 

“Don’t settle for what life gives you; make life better and build something.” — Ashton Kutcher

3. Have a growth mindset

A growth mindset is what makes one successful and go far in life. However, a fixed and stagnated mindset throws one into jeopardy of life.

A lot of people have a fixed mindset, what they believe is what they believe, nothing you say on earth can change their mindset, they are the most educated in the world so they don’t need to learn any further. Did you have a fixed or growth mindset?

A growth mindset leads to success, achievements, happiness, learning more, and becoming better. On the other hand, a fixed mindset leads to complacency, pride, lack of achievement, ignorance, the stagnancy of the mind, etc. 

Let’s see an example of someone with a fixed mindset:

Cait tells Alice: Alice stop being so proud it’s annoying. 

And Alice responds:

“How dare you say I am proud, I am not. I am the most humble woman on earth”. In the example, Alice with a fixed mindset has a fixed mindset. However, what she does not know is that she is in the darkness of her ignorance. She is ignorant of the fact that she is a proud person thus, she can’t see it. 

People with a fixed mindset are ignorant. You must never have a fixed mindset. Always be willing to learn and to grow with humility. Pride can take you nowhere. 

4. Forgive everyone and give as many second chances as you can  

A lot of people have done all they could to be happy and have peace. But, they find out that happiness is not just there and that peace of mind is absent. 

Why is that? It is because you have a lot of grudge against people that have offended you. Yes, we know, it pained you to your heart, and what next? Keep malice? But, do you know what that unforgiveness does to you?

I call it the seed of unforgiveness because it plants a seed in your heart and this seed further grows to become hatred, depression, lack of freedom, zero peace, etc. 

If in only one person’s heart are all these things, then a person like that can never know peace and happiness. For example, if you were to go to a party with your friends and you hear that perhaps the other friend that you keep malice with is coming to the same party. 

Naturally, the only thing you would think of is not going to the party anymore because you want to avoid the person at all costs. And what does that add to you? It doesn’t add instead, it subtracts from your life because you could have gone to the party, had fun, and even have new friends or even new opportunities.

If not for anything will you forgive people, forgive them for the sake of God, for the sake of Christ Jesus. Because if you cannot forget the trespass of people, don’t expect God to forgive you. Forgive everyone, give them as many second chances as possible. 

Mind you, they can still mess up and make terrible mistakes all you have to do is keep forgiving them. This may not be so easy to the flesh. However, it is only The Spirit of God that can make you forgive the trespass of people. Without The Holy Spirit, it is impossible to do so. 

5. Love God

Do you love God? Are you a child of God? Do you believe in Christ Jesus? Even if the rest of the tips on these lists do not resonate with you, I want you to hold this very important to your heart which is to Love God with all your heart, soul, and strength.

And you can do that only by being a child of God. This life is too short. It is like a vapor, it is nothing. Life is more like an empty barrel that makes noise. You will grow old, your strength will leave you and you will die but, what happens after that? Where are you going to spend the rest of your eternity? 

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