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The Top 10 Entrepreneur Teenagers Who Made Millions

Joel Brown (Founder of Addicted2Success.com)

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Teenage Millionaires

It seems a lot more people are joining the growing list of teenage millionaires nowadays. In fact, these young millionaires made their first million dollars before reaching the age of 20. This goes to show that age really is just a number and that anything is possible.

Below is a list of those who made their first million during their teenage years, how they made it and a figure of their current net worth.

 

10 Teenage Entrepreneur Millionaires

 

Adam Hildreth

Teenage Millionaire - Adam HildrethIn 1999, at only fourteen years old, Adam Hildreth together with his six friends launched the famous English social networking site Dubit. Dubit became one of the most popular websites in 2004. By 2005, Dubit had a net worth of more than 3.7 million dollars. Adam later founded Crisp thinking, which developed software that protected people from online predators, online harassment and spamming. He is ranked 23 in the top 100 richest young people in the UK according to the 2011 Sunday times rich list.

Adam Hildreth is estimated to have a net worth of 38 million dollars.

 

Sean Belnick

Teenage Millionaire - Sean BelnickWhen he was only 14 years old, Sean Belnick created bizchair.com, an internet retailer for all types of furniture. Sean Belnick began with an initial investment of 500 dollars and ran his business operaions from his bedroom. In 2004, he moved into his first warehouse and by 2009, he had more than 702,000 square feet of warehouse space from the initial 40,00 square feet. In 2010, bizchair had sales of more than 58 million dollars.

Sean Belnick’s net worth is reported to be 42 million dollars

 

 

Fraser Doherty

Teenage Millionaire - Fraser DohertyFraser Doherty is the CEO of Super Jam. This Scottish young star was taught jam making by his grandmother when he was 14 years old. He started producing jam and selling it in the neighbourhood. He left school at the age of 16 to fully concentrate on super jam. In 2007, he began supplying super jam to 184 Waitrose stores. Nowadays Fraser Doherty currently supplies to all major UK stores and had sales of over 1.2 million dollars in 2011.

Fraser Doherty is worth 2 million dollars.

 

Cameron Johnson

Teenage Millionaire - Cameron JohnsonIn 1994, at only nine years of age, Cameron Johnson began making money by selling invitation cards. By eleven years old he had saved up enough money to form his company, Cheers and Tears. Cameron then participated in several ventures including creating EZ mail, an email forwarding software, surfingprice.com, an online advertising company. By fifteen years old, he was receiving monthly cheques of up to 400,000 dollars.

Cameron Johnson’s net worth is currently 3.2 million.

 

Ashley Qualls

Teenage-Millionaire---Ashley-Qualls-whateverlifeAshley Qualls is an America entrepreneur who made her first million at the age of seventeen. She did this by taking an 8 dollar loan from her mother and creating a website,whateverlife.com in 2004.The website focused on providing HTML tutorials for young people and providing free My space layouts.

Ashley Qualls is valued to have a net worth of 8 million dollars.

 

 

Chris Phillips

Chris PhillipsChris Phillips made his first million when he was only 17 years old through dot5hosting. This website was used to register domain names, supply hosting space and hosting several e-commerce sites. By the time he was 19 years old, this British teenager was making over 10 million dollars annually.

Dot5hosting currently has a net worth of 2 million dollars.

 

 

Juliette Brindak

Teenage Millionaire - Juliette BrindakJuliette made her millions after launching the website Miss O and Friends when she was still only 10 years old. The site, which targets mostly teenage girls, is filled with celebrity gossip, games, quizzes and lots of feature articles. She has also launched a line of Miss O and friends books.

 

Juliette Brindak is currently the CEO and editor of her site and book line and has a networth of 15 Millions Dollars.

 

 

Catherine and David Cook

Teenage Millionaire - Catherine and David CookAt only fifteen and seventeen years respectively, Catherine and David Cook came up with the social networking site, My Yearbook in 2005. The site has over 5 million users and has survived the Facebook domination.

My Yearbook has a net worth of over 20 million dollars whereas this brother and sister duo have a combined net worth of 10 million dollars.

 

Tyler Dikman

When the internet was still picking up, Tyler Dikman who was only 15 years old founded Cooltronics in the year 2000. Cooltronics’ main purpose was to provide lessons to computer and internet users on how to get rid of computer viruses and how to upgrade your home PC. Subscriptions and advertising brought in the dollars for this lucky little man.

Tyler Dikman is currently valued to be worth 3.7 million dollars.

 

 

Farrah Gray

Teenage Millionaire - Farrah GrayFarrah Gray started selling body lotion at the age of 6. At 13 years old he founded Farr-Out Food which in a period of one year had received food orders of over 1.5 million dollars making him a millionaire at 14.

 

Farrah Gray is the youngest person to have a Wall Street office and is estimated to be worth 20 million dollars.

 

 

Article By Jesse Hopkins | Addicted2Success.com

I am the the Founder of Addicted2Success.com and I am so grateful you're here to be part of this awesome community. I love connecting with people who have a passion for Entrepreneurship, Self Development & Achieving Success. I started this website with the intention of educating and inspiring likeminded people to always strive for success no matter what their circumstances. I'm proud to say through my podcast and through this website we have impacted over 100 million lives in the last 6 and a half years.

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73 Comments

  1. Jennie

    Mar 22, 2018 at 11:28 am

    Wow.. Very inspiring! I really enjoyed this post. When I was younger, I didn’t have anyone to teach me financial stuff. The book that helped me was, Rich Dad Poor Dad.

  2. asad

    Jul 28, 2016 at 5:23 pm

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  5. Self made millionaires

    Feb 19, 2014 at 6:48 pm

    Love the post!

  6. anonymous

    Jun 1, 2013 at 11:50 pm

    I am also interested, i have really good IT skills, i have made my friends blogging websites, and made them websites for them to do their thing. I am also a straight A* student, england maybe you can use me too, privately educated, reply if i can join 🙂

    • bob

      Sep 12, 2013 at 2:07 pm

      wow im jealous of you…

      • BÖUBB

        Jan 7, 2014 at 11:48 am

        hrrr 😀 I WANT FARRAH

    • fabio

      Jan 9, 2014 at 10:31 am

      hi, my name is Fabio and i am a 17 year old, my business is worth 2.5 million and we are currently hiring young i.t technicians, so if your interested please ring this number 07947977129

    • ray

      Apr 10, 2014 at 8:55 am

      Wow cool me too but i did html at 9 im 14 now and can code in 4 programming languages.I made a blog for my friend for $50 using html,css and php. But now i mainly do python and learning to code android!

      • Fasia

        Apr 20, 2014 at 2:16 am

        I’m trying to learn to code but I don’t understand anything I’m trying learn HTML first. Could u help ?

      • Sean

        May 3, 2014 at 11:58 pm

        cool I need help with html also….do you have a email

  7. Christy Nulty

    May 28, 2013 at 3:14 am

    There more to Life than money my neighbour ing millionaire is afraid to travel by any thing other than A helicopter, which makes him A sad example

  8. jbmafuture

    May 8, 2013 at 8:25 pm

    Odds are if you’re wanting to become rich QUICK you’ll most likely not pull it off. the odds are 1/1000000. Those odds are fearful. instead build on your ideas and you can become a Millionaire, if not a billionaire, by the age of 30 tops.”Much sooner if you’re extra bright” Jim Rohn R.I.P.

  9. justo ombasa

    Apr 25, 2013 at 2:07 pm

    haha thank you albert!!…Farrah shud be first.

  10. brian Vandirayi

    Mar 5, 2013 at 8:24 am

    looking for investors to carry out mining in Zimbabwe

  11. Ali

    Feb 27, 2013 at 7:39 pm

    Looking for someone who is interested in travel business..

    • Pratyush

      Feb 28, 2013 at 9:12 am

      what kinda business is it?
      i would like to have details…

    • Louise Louise

      Feb 28, 2013 at 1:38 pm

      Very interested, if you mean tour out bound and inbound etc. I can do all European countries and Asian such as Thailand China Japan HK Korea etc

      • Pratyush

        Feb 28, 2013 at 4:32 pm

        I have some excellent online business opportunities with me,with a negligibly low investment..
        If interested,do contact me at richestmanoftheworld94@gmail.com/rockerboypratyush94@gmail.com or call me – 8757856666…Hurry before the opportunity flies away in front of u!! 🙂

        • Tianna

          Apr 24, 2013 at 4:17 pm

          Hey Pratyush, I am quite interested too.. Could I email you my ideas, and join you guys as well? I am good at writing letters, email, and have great ideas. If you are interested please reply to me.. Thanks!

    • J H B

      Mar 12, 2013 at 7:41 am

      Hi, im interested, i could help you with scandinavian countrys like norway, iceland, sweden, denmark and finland, also im an expert when it comes to spain, so contact me for further information 🙂

      Best regards

    • Sakis

      Nov 9, 2014 at 10:58 am

      Hello Ali I am interested in travel businesses what are your proposals?Please reply to massage as soon as possible!

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    Feb 25, 2013 at 9:31 am

    Well done to all in the list. They are all super successful and aspiring young adults.

  13. Albert Briscoe

    Jan 31, 2013 at 8:23 pm

    Why is the only Black person on the list, listed last. Is he not the most successful person out of the bunch. Place Farrah where he belongs, at the top.

    • Louise Louise

      Feb 28, 2013 at 1:34 pm

      in my point of view I’m guessing his last place represent the best the finale perhaps ^^
      Like going to big company you meet the security first then secretary and if you lucky enough you’ll get to meet to CEO, the founder, owner etc

    • D Rupesh Kumar

      May 1, 2013 at 4:57 pm

      Bro, its how u look at things. I saw the page from bottom to up ,so for me it was the Black person who was first in the list. Have a Positive thinking and everything is possible :).

  14. Igbwo Sulemanu Fondzenyuy

    Dec 13, 2012 at 7:07 am

    Tell me if i may ask.what is the secret

  15. Jacqueline

    Nov 20, 2012 at 6:53 pm

    omg i wish i was like that

  16. Elijah

    Nov 2, 2012 at 9:40 am

    Where do I start?

    • Pratyush

      Feb 11, 2013 at 6:53 pm

      I have already started earning,I am only 19yrs old.I want a business partner who is around the same age and has an extremely high spirit for earning money!
      Please reply if interested.

      • Karan

        Feb 18, 2013 at 8:21 pm

        Dude I am also hoping to start a b-venture…if you need any help!
        I am here
        do reply

        • Pratyush

          Feb 25, 2013 at 12:18 pm

          Hye Karan,nice to hear from u!!
          Please give me ur mail address so that i can contact u….!!

      • Nald

        Mar 1, 2013 at 2:31 pm

        I am starting too. Knows a bit but not a lot. Though really have the aim of becoming successful. Tap me in if you still need one. 🙂

        Nald

        • Pratyush

          Mar 1, 2013 at 6:51 pm

          Hey Nald,I am so glad to inform u that I have some excellent business opportunities with me,where we can together work as a team,and create big fortunes for all of us!!
          If u r interested to know about my business ideas,u can add me on skype at pratyush.jha94 or u can give me ur fb id n i will add u!
          Looking forward to help u become successful.
          Warm regards
          -Pratyush

          • polkadot

            Mar 10, 2013 at 6:58 am

            wtf another multi level marketing… duh

      • hammad

        Mar 16, 2013 at 10:52 am

        Me also wanna join u guys.

        • Pratyush

          Mar 16, 2013 at 6:59 pm

          Hye Hammad,sure you can join me in this amazing business opportunity that I have with me.
          Get back to me for more details at richestmanoftheworld@gmail.com.

          • Pratyush

            Mar 16, 2013 at 7:00 pm

            Hye Hammad,sure you can join me in this amazing business opportunity that I have with me.
            Get back to me for more details at richestmanoftheworld94@gmail.com.

            • Prathyush Putuparambil

              Mar 21, 2013 at 5:16 pm

              dude this is crazy, my name is also Prathyush an I’m 19 and I wanna be an entrepreneur more than anything. I have a buncha ”ideas” maybe we should get in touch..

      • david brody

        Apr 12, 2013 at 1:53 pm

        pratyush, i am 19 and interested, what is your email

      • Sushant

        Apr 12, 2013 at 5:15 pm

        I am also looking for young entrepreneurs. Im interested!

      • James

        Apr 12, 2013 at 11:27 pm

        I am also very interested in starting my own business. am 17 years old and have already started earning…. “Pratyush” please contact me

        • Sushant

          Apr 13, 2013 at 2:51 pm

          James reply with your email if you are interested.

        • Pratyush

          Apr 15, 2013 at 8:48 am

          Hye James,you can contact me at richestmanoftheworld94@gmail.com.
          Thanks.

        • williamsync

          May 19, 2013 at 7:07 pm

          Contact me if you wan’t partnership, I’m 17 years old and I’d like to help you out amap.

      • Aishwarya S

        Apr 14, 2013 at 9:38 pm

        hey! i am an indian girl and i live in US. I am also interested in the earning!

      • Israel

        Apr 29, 2013 at 10:56 pm

        i will love to, cos i am also 19, but hope distance won’t be a problem

      • Trevor

        May 18, 2013 at 1:04 pm

        i would really love to work with you am a commited person of age 18 with vigour kinldy get back

      • khongor

        Sep 26, 2013 at 10:49 pm

        I’m an online advertiser, i’m at same age as you and if you need help, i can advertise your business & help you to grow it

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Success is for the Self-Taught

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Truman Capote, Jimi Hendrix, Steve Jobs, Nikola Tesla. Those are four names you never thought you’d see in a sentence together. As it happens, these four individuals have more in common than their success, ingenuity, and fame. They were all autodidacts. In other words, they were self-taught learners.

The talents and innovations that skyrocketed them to fame were the products of their own teachings. Make no mistake, this doesn’t mean a formal education is a waste of time. However, it goes to show that success is crafted solely by commitment and focus. While college and traineeships can prepare us for the groundwork of what we pursue, it’s ultimately up to us as individuals to teach ourselves how to refine our knowledge for success.

It’s the self-taught principles that allow us to distinguish our own work from that of others. With the help of the internet, self-taught success is more possible than ever. And there are plenty of ways to reach our inner autodidact.

Elon Musk had science degrees from top Ivy League universities, but he still credits most of his knowledge to the textbooks he allegedly “committed to memory.” Reading is just one way to teach yourself everything you need to know. Aspiring inventors can surely learn a lot by sacrificing some of their leisure time to sit down with a textbook.

For writers and artists, the best study is to just read. Read anything. Inspiration can be derived from poetry, works of fiction, etc. These also help you develop your writing skills, which is an important asset for any aspiring entrepreneur.

“Self-education is, I firmly believe, the only kind of education there is.” – Isaac Asimov

With the help of online Master Classes, Youtube videos, and apps – where online courses developed by some of the top U.S. educational institutions can be accessed remotely – self-taught success is more attainable than ever.

What’s more, we learn through practice. We can publish our own eBooks through Amazon without the publishing house bureaucracy. We can advertise our product, brand, or service through social media savvy without astronomical advertising costs. And as we practice, we learn. We gain feedback from our followers, learn from our mistakes, and do it better the second time around.

Even when you’re teaching yourself, others are always helping. However, you get to decide which lessons are most constructive, and you get to apply them to the real world in real-time.

The Science of Self-Taught

People have a tendency to romanticize the concept of self-taught success. It’s not a solution for laziness, or an excuse for lack of motivation. In many cases, teaching yourself is more work than being taught. The level of accountability rises when you are both teacher and student. Furthermore, it requires more discipline. Without a structured schedule or a guaranteed reward at the end of your efforts, your only hope is your dedication.

Beyond this, however, the only thing stopping most people from teaching themselves is insecurity. Fear of failure and inadequacy halts self-taught learners in their tracks. Especially because with self-teaching, inevitably, comes occasional failure. Unfortunately, the self-taught often feel they have nobody to blame the failure on but themselves – no teachers, mentors, or trainers as scapegoats.

According to Psychology Today, there is nothing that makes certain people better self-taught learners than others. The only difference is motivation, and willingness to overcome that lingering insecurity. Even the concept of “learning styles” is erroneous, says Psychology Today. While each individual is different, ability to learn is not based on preference, but expertise.

Beginners learn better from examples, while experts learn better by solving problems. This builds yet another case for autodidacts, who are more likely to learn by experience – the most effective method.

“Wisdom is not a product of schooling but a lifelong attempt to acquire it.” – Albert Einstein

The Rewards of Being Self-Taught

The fruits of your labor taste sweeter when you’ve taught yourself how to grow them. As such, success is more enjoyable when your self-education has contributed to it. All successful individuals have something in common: they’ve taken the initiative to teach themselves new things, or to supplement their formal education with self-teaching, as well.

Therefore, not all groundbreaking inventors, artists, and philosophers are solely self-taught. However, they’ve still accompanied their college training with their own individual quest for knowledge.

There is a simple reason why autodidacts thrive the most: because they’re always learning. The one mistake people who solely rely on formal education and training make is the mistake of stopping their learning process altogether once it’s over. Not only does this prevent you from being up-to-date on the latest concepts and advancements in your field, but it obstructs your brain’s thirst for mental stimulation.

By constantly learning and teaching ourselves new things, no matter how small or large they might be, we could change the course of our overall health and well-being. Research even shows that mental stimulation (consisting of practicing memorization, learning new things, and improving our skill in existing hobbies) is key to slowing down the development of, and possibly even reversing, Alzheimer’s and dementia.

Motivational speaker and entrepreneur Jim Rohn was noted for saying, “Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune.” This does not mean you should abandon the pursuit of formal education, as it often serves as the foundation for self-education. But, it does mean we should maintain, cater to, and quench our thirst for knowledge as much as we possibly can.

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6 Expert Tips for Building Relationships With Those You Idolize

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Many of us dream of one day meeting a celebrity. Be it a movie star or a pro football player, we have a tendency to idolize these individuals, even looking to them for guidance as we make life decisions. In business, we can also find people we idolize. Individuals who have achieved great success with their own company or even revolutionized an industry.

From these people, we can learn key skills, gain valuable insights or even form partnerships to take our own business ventures to the next level. Yes, it is possible to form real relationships with your business idols or industry influencers. But like any other relationship, it requires work.

Here’s 6 ways you can start forming the relationships that will make a lasting difference for your entrepreneurial goals:

1. Do Your Research

Facebook stalking may be creepy for normal relationships, but doing some online research is perfectly okay for business leaders and influencers. After all, most influencers are extremely active online, either through social media, their own website or guest blogging. This basic research gives you a chance to better understand your business idol.

What do they like or dislike? What are their opinions on current trends? What do they talk like? These simple bits of information will help you better know how to approach them and determine if a relationship could prove beneficial.

“The richest people in the world look for and build networks. Everyone else looks for work.” – Robert Kiyosaki

2. Comment Carefully

Your initial research also serves as your first chance for engagement with your business idol. By liking social media posts or leaving thoughtful comments on blog articles, you can make a positive first impression.

Of course, leaving quality comments is sometimes easier said than done. As Kevin Duncan of SmartBlogger explains, thoughtfully contributing to the discussion with personal experiences or meaningful questions are a great way to get the conversation started.

“When you share a personal insight, bloggers can more easily relate to you. You’re no longer just an unfamiliar name making a comment that could have been left by anyone …the more personal your insight, the more unique it will be. And the more unique your insight, the more memorable your comment will be and the more you’ll stand out.”

3. Group Participation

Business leaders and influencers won’t only be found on blogs. Many are also active participants in online industry groups. Whether on Facebook or LinkedIn, these groups allow industry professionals to discuss current trends, ask for advice, or share new opportunities.

If you wish to make a positive impression, you should seek out, join and actively participate in these online groups. Avoid the temptation to promote yourself or your business. Instead, engage in conversations much like you would with a quality blog comment. By sharing your unique experiences and insights, you’ll build a stronger reputation among your peers.

4. Face Time

Online discussions are a great place to start, but the best relationships typically require some face-to-face interaction. You make a much more lasting impression when you have an in-person conversation. Industry conventions or lectures are great places to connect with others in your field. When you show yourself as a living, breathing human being, rather than just a name behind the computer, it becomes so much easier to make a personal connection and form a real, lasting relationship — and that can pay big dividends for future pitches.

Setting up a face-to-face meeting can be tricky. After all, you don’t want to come off as creepy. However, if you’ve already established an online rapport, asking if an influencer would like to briefly meet in person at an event you’re both attending shouldn’t be a problem.

5. Add Value

All relationships have a bit of give and take — and this is especially true when forming relationships in the business world. If you’re only approaching a business idol because you hope to gain something (like an extra investor in your startup), you likely won’t have success. Instead, find ways that you can contribute value.

As leadership consultant Randy Hain explains, “‘What can I do to help you?’ is absolutely one of the best ways to get business relationships off to a great start. Invest in the other person first, with no expectation of return. Do not keep score. Simply make the investment and over time you will benefit from the seeds of generosity you have planted.”

“Networking is the No. 1 unwritten rule of success in business.” – Sallie Krawcheck

6. Focus On the Long-Term

The aforementioned tactics aren’t “one and done” tips. Instead, you’ll need to continually practice them to show your genuine interest and build the kinds of friendships that can pay lasting dividends for everyone involved.

Relationships aren’t a short-term investment — and this is especially true if you want help on your own road to success. Real relationships need time to grow. They need continual nurturing. With a patient, long-term approach, you’ll be less tempted to jump right into a sales pitch and more likely to focus on a genuine friendship that delivers a real payoff.

Becoming an entrepreneur may put you in the role of the underdog — but this doesn’t mean you have to go at it alone. As you form genuine relationships with influencers and other business professionals, you’ll gain access to new sources of knowledge.

You’ll find friends who are willing to help or mentors willing to share their time. You may even find a new business partner. Relationship-building is a lifelong endeavor, but it will always pay off in the end.

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Stop Denying Your Negative Thoughts and Start Embracing Them

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Over the years, many of the talking heads and pundits in the personal development and success science industry have talked about the immediate replacement of negative thoughts with positive thoughts. The logic behind that particular behavioral strategy seems to make sense on the surface. Think about it, when a negative thought rears its ugly head, we should immediately dive into the repository of positive thoughts that we have available to us so that we could immediately begin to dwell on it.

Even further, some gurus of the genre suggest removing any chance of having a negative thought by the constant repetition of affirmations. Again, tried-and-true motivational technology that is very workable and still useful. I would suggest, however, that you view the above behaviors as tactics more than strategies.

I will further suggest to you that you do not abhor your negative thoughts but rather embrace them, examine them, and place them under a spotlight. My reasoning behind this goes back over 100 years into psychology with stimulus/response, that is, the cause and effect of certain behaviors. Many individuals look at a negative thought as a causative driver. The negative thought exists as a cause, and our behavior toward that cause will determine the effect.

So, following this logic, if an individual has a negative thought which makes them feel sad, and that sadness causes them to binge drink, by removing the negative thought you’ll have removed the motivation for binge drinking. Doesn’t that sound kind of silly? The suggestion here is to turn off the negative thought so that it will turn off the consumption of alcohol.

Of course, this makes sense if we view the negative thought as a primal force in behavior. So, what if we started to think of the negative thought more as the result of something else? It means that the “something else” must change first. What if we took a different approach? What if we looked at a negative thought as an effect of some larger causal factor?

“You’re going to go through tough times – that’s life. But I say, ‘Nothing happens to you, it happens for you.’ See the positive in negative events.” – Joel Osteen

By reversing the cause-and-effect motion of negative thinking (saying that the negative thought is an effect), we now can ask a deeper, more penetrative question: Why are we thinking that negative thought? What is the underlying cause of that specific train of thinking? By reversing the cause-and-effect relationship of negative thinking, it allows the negative thinker to assume the role of diagnostician!

Below is a three-step process you can use to examine your negative thoughts, the role of it in your life, and how you can get rid of them:

1. Simply acknowledge the negative thought

Recognize the fact that there’s a negative thought in your mind instead of trying to go through a process of emotionally overlaying positive thoughts on top of it. Can you see how this exacerbates the issue? You have a negative thought, you immediately recognize that it must be changed, and you frantically scurry through the museum of your mind to find a positive thought to replace it.

In the meantime, while you are trying to find that positive thought, you’re feeling anxious, nervous, and guilty! When you finally find a positive thought to replace that negative thought, the normal process is to squash it. But you can’t! It’s like trying to get rid of weeds by covering them with rocks.

They will always find another way around the rock. It is the same with negative thoughts. Consequently, try acknowledging the negative thought.

2. Affirm the negative thought

It is a part of you. Instead of denying its existence, accept that it is there in front of you and that you are now willing to deal with it. If any of you reading this are dog lovers, you will know that the best way to get a dog next to you is by attempting to push it away from you. Every time you push the dog away it gets closer. This is the same with negative thinking because the harder you push the closer it gets.

“Always turn a negative situation into a positive situation.” – Michael Jordan

3. Acquit the thought

Give it permission to leave you. Thank it for its past importance in your life and allow it to be on its way! At this point feel free to replace the negative thought with a positive thought. What will begin to happen when you place the negative thought under the spotlight is that you will see how insignificantly small it actually is.

This is a process I’ve been using for quite some time, and it works! Oh sure, I still use affirmations on a daily basis; as a matter fact I have them right here in front of me. I find that affirmations are a tremendous way to stay positive because it doesn’t allow any room for bad things to grow. But since the average person thinks 60,000 to 65,000 thoughts per day, let’s face it, a few negative thoughts have to squeak in there!

The best advice that I can give is to not freak out over a negative thought. Acknowledge it, affirm it, and acquit it! This is magic. Watch what happens!

How do you handle negative thoughts? Let us know your tips below!

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One Thing I Can Teach You About Life That Will Help You Forever.

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I used to be a very anxious person.

I was embarrassed by what I couldn’t do and every day was a struggle. From the moment I would wake up to the moment I’d go to bed, everything felt impossibly overwhelming. It’s a battle I’ve dealt with most of my life.

This daily struggle with mental illness taught me that the satisfaction didn’t lie in beating it; the satisfaction was in helping other people beat mental illness through my success in fighting it.


Recently, I was at work. It was a pretty standard day — nothing too exciting. I then had a catch up with one of the leaders I worked with.

She said something that got my attention: “One of our colleagues is battling a mental illness.”

I really wanted to help. My eyes lit up. There was no need to uncover my plan with anyone else. I knew that staying discrete was fundamental.

I approached the person in question and asked for a few minutes of their time.

I didn’t ask them to admit their mental illness struggle; I just shared my story.

I talked about the anxiety stopping me from having a normal life, eating the right foods, going on dates with girls, having the career I wanted and traveling the world.

I wasn’t sure if any of it was sinking in or even helping. I felt compelled to go on. One thing I knew was that he was paying attention. I could see it in his eyes.

I then went on to talk about how I beat mental illness. Strategies such as:

  • Creating fear lists
  • Seeking professional help
  • Working on myself
  • Books I read
  • Events I attended

Out of nowhere, he started opening up about his own struggle. I was shocked.
It wasn’t pretty. He had an extreme case of mental illness that I certainly couldn’t diagnose or give professional advice on.

All I could do was show him through my own story that there was hope

I offered him access to all the resources I had. I told him that he had my full support and I’d be happy to help in any way I could. He then said:

“What was your psychologist’s name?”

I told him I’d look it up and send it to him. I didn’t have the answer in front of me, but I was determined when I got home to find it.

At the end of the catch-up, he smiled. I don’t think he’d smiled like that in a very long time.

That smile gave me so much satisfaction. It made my own struggle with mental illness worth it. All those sleepless nights, times spent vomiting into the toilet and dark days where I didn’t want to go on made sense.


“It took more than seven years for me to understand that my own battle with mental illness actually had a benefit”

That benefit was the satisfaction in seeing someone beat their mental illness because I was able to defeat mine.

It’s probably the greatest satisfaction of my entire life.

That’s one thing I can teach you about life that will help you forever.

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Truman Capote, Jimi Hendrix, Steve Jobs, Nikola Tesla. Those are four names you never thought you’d see in a sentence together. As it happens, these four individuals have more in common than their success, ingenuity, and fame. They were all autodidacts. In other words, they were self-taught learners. (more…)

Ellie Batchiyska is a writer for Every USB, helping business and entrepreneurs with their branding through the use of custom flash drives.

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  1. Jennie

    Mar 22, 2018 at 11:28 am

    Wow.. Very inspiring! I really enjoyed this post. When I was younger, I didn’t have anyone to teach me financial stuff. The book that helped me was, Rich Dad Poor Dad.

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  5. Self made millionaires

    Feb 19, 2014 at 6:48 pm

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  6. anonymous

    Jun 1, 2013 at 11:50 pm

    I am also interested, i have really good IT skills, i have made my friends blogging websites, and made them websites for them to do their thing. I am also a straight A* student, england maybe you can use me too, privately educated, reply if i can join 🙂

    • bob

      Sep 12, 2013 at 2:07 pm

      wow im jealous of you…

      • BÖUBB

        Jan 7, 2014 at 11:48 am

        hrrr 😀 I WANT FARRAH

    • fabio

      Jan 9, 2014 at 10:31 am

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    • ray

      Apr 10, 2014 at 8:55 am

      Wow cool me too but i did html at 9 im 14 now and can code in 4 programming languages.I made a blog for my friend for $50 using html,css and php. But now i mainly do python and learning to code android!

      • Fasia

        Apr 20, 2014 at 2:16 am

        I’m trying to learn to code but I don’t understand anything I’m trying learn HTML first. Could u help ?

      • Sean

        May 3, 2014 at 11:58 pm

        cool I need help with html also….do you have a email

  7. Christy Nulty

    May 28, 2013 at 3:14 am

    There more to Life than money my neighbour ing millionaire is afraid to travel by any thing other than A helicopter, which makes him A sad example

  8. jbmafuture

    May 8, 2013 at 8:25 pm

    Odds are if you’re wanting to become rich QUICK you’ll most likely not pull it off. the odds are 1/1000000. Those odds are fearful. instead build on your ideas and you can become a Millionaire, if not a billionaire, by the age of 30 tops.”Much sooner if you’re extra bright” Jim Rohn R.I.P.

  9. justo ombasa

    Apr 25, 2013 at 2:07 pm

    haha thank you albert!!…Farrah shud be first.

  10. brian Vandirayi

    Mar 5, 2013 at 8:24 am

    looking for investors to carry out mining in Zimbabwe

  11. Ali

    Feb 27, 2013 at 7:39 pm

    Looking for someone who is interested in travel business..

    • Pratyush

      Feb 28, 2013 at 9:12 am

      what kinda business is it?
      i would like to have details…

    • Louise Louise

      Feb 28, 2013 at 1:38 pm

      Very interested, if you mean tour out bound and inbound etc. I can do all European countries and Asian such as Thailand China Japan HK Korea etc

      • Pratyush

        Feb 28, 2013 at 4:32 pm

        I have some excellent online business opportunities with me,with a negligibly low investment..
        If interested,do contact me at richestmanoftheworld94@gmail.com/rockerboypratyush94@gmail.com or call me – 8757856666…Hurry before the opportunity flies away in front of u!! 🙂

        • Tianna

          Apr 24, 2013 at 4:17 pm

          Hey Pratyush, I am quite interested too.. Could I email you my ideas, and join you guys as well? I am good at writing letters, email, and have great ideas. If you are interested please reply to me.. Thanks!

    • J H B

      Mar 12, 2013 at 7:41 am

      Hi, im interested, i could help you with scandinavian countrys like norway, iceland, sweden, denmark and finland, also im an expert when it comes to spain, so contact me for further information 🙂

      Best regards

    • Sakis

      Nov 9, 2014 at 10:58 am

      Hello Ali I am interested in travel businesses what are your proposals?Please reply to massage as soon as possible!

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    Feb 25, 2013 at 9:31 am

    Well done to all in the list. They are all super successful and aspiring young adults.

  13. Albert Briscoe

    Jan 31, 2013 at 8:23 pm

    Why is the only Black person on the list, listed last. Is he not the most successful person out of the bunch. Place Farrah where he belongs, at the top.

    • Louise Louise

      Feb 28, 2013 at 1:34 pm

      in my point of view I’m guessing his last place represent the best the finale perhaps ^^
      Like going to big company you meet the security first then secretary and if you lucky enough you’ll get to meet to CEO, the founder, owner etc

    • D Rupesh Kumar

      May 1, 2013 at 4:57 pm

      Bro, its how u look at things. I saw the page from bottom to up ,so for me it was the Black person who was first in the list. Have a Positive thinking and everything is possible :).

  14. Igbwo Sulemanu Fondzenyuy

    Dec 13, 2012 at 7:07 am

    Tell me if i may ask.what is the secret

  15. Jacqueline

    Nov 20, 2012 at 6:53 pm

    omg i wish i was like that

  16. Elijah

    Nov 2, 2012 at 9:40 am

    Where do I start?

    • Pratyush

      Feb 11, 2013 at 6:53 pm

      I have already started earning,I am only 19yrs old.I want a business partner who is around the same age and has an extremely high spirit for earning money!
      Please reply if interested.

      • Karan

        Feb 18, 2013 at 8:21 pm

        Dude I am also hoping to start a b-venture…if you need any help!
        I am here
        do reply

        • Pratyush

          Feb 25, 2013 at 12:18 pm

          Hye Karan,nice to hear from u!!
          Please give me ur mail address so that i can contact u….!!

      • Nald

        Mar 1, 2013 at 2:31 pm

        I am starting too. Knows a bit but not a lot. Though really have the aim of becoming successful. Tap me in if you still need one. 🙂

        Nald

        • Pratyush

          Mar 1, 2013 at 6:51 pm

          Hey Nald,I am so glad to inform u that I have some excellent business opportunities with me,where we can together work as a team,and create big fortunes for all of us!!
          If u r interested to know about my business ideas,u can add me on skype at pratyush.jha94 or u can give me ur fb id n i will add u!
          Looking forward to help u become successful.
          Warm regards
          -Pratyush

          • polkadot

            Mar 10, 2013 at 6:58 am

            wtf another multi level marketing… duh

      • hammad

        Mar 16, 2013 at 10:52 am

        Me also wanna join u guys.

        • Pratyush

          Mar 16, 2013 at 6:59 pm

          Hye Hammad,sure you can join me in this amazing business opportunity that I have with me.
          Get back to me for more details at richestmanoftheworld@gmail.com.

          • Pratyush

            Mar 16, 2013 at 7:00 pm

            Hye Hammad,sure you can join me in this amazing business opportunity that I have with me.
            Get back to me for more details at richestmanoftheworld94@gmail.com.

            • Prathyush Putuparambil

              Mar 21, 2013 at 5:16 pm

              dude this is crazy, my name is also Prathyush an I’m 19 and I wanna be an entrepreneur more than anything. I have a buncha ”ideas” maybe we should get in touch..

      • david brody

        Apr 12, 2013 at 1:53 pm

        pratyush, i am 19 and interested, what is your email

      • Sushant

        Apr 12, 2013 at 5:15 pm

        I am also looking for young entrepreneurs. Im interested!

      • James

        Apr 12, 2013 at 11:27 pm

        I am also very interested in starting my own business. am 17 years old and have already started earning…. “Pratyush” please contact me

        • Sushant

          Apr 13, 2013 at 2:51 pm

          James reply with your email if you are interested.

        • Pratyush

          Apr 15, 2013 at 8:48 am

          Hye James,you can contact me at richestmanoftheworld94@gmail.com.
          Thanks.

        • williamsync

          May 19, 2013 at 7:07 pm

          Contact me if you wan’t partnership, I’m 17 years old and I’d like to help you out amap.

      • Aishwarya S

        Apr 14, 2013 at 9:38 pm

        hey! i am an indian girl and i live in US. I am also interested in the earning!

      • Israel

        Apr 29, 2013 at 10:56 pm

        i will love to, cos i am also 19, but hope distance won’t be a problem

      • Trevor

        May 18, 2013 at 1:04 pm

        i would really love to work with you am a commited person of age 18 with vigour kinldy get back

      • khongor

        Sep 26, 2013 at 10:49 pm

        I’m an online advertiser, i’m at same age as you and if you need help, i can advertise your business & help you to grow it

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Success is for the Self-Taught

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Truman Capote, Jimi Hendrix, Steve Jobs, Nikola Tesla. Those are four names you never thought you’d see in a sentence together. As it happens, these four individuals have more in common than their success, ingenuity, and fame. They were all autodidacts. In other words, they were self-taught learners.

The talents and innovations that skyrocketed them to fame were the products of their own teachings. Make no mistake, this doesn’t mean a formal education is a waste of time. However, it goes to show that success is crafted solely by commitment and focus. While college and traineeships can prepare us for the groundwork of what we pursue, it’s ultimately up to us as individuals to teach ourselves how to refine our knowledge for success.

It’s the self-taught principles that allow us to distinguish our own work from that of others. With the help of the internet, self-taught success is more possible than ever. And there are plenty of ways to reach our inner autodidact.

Elon Musk had science degrees from top Ivy League universities, but he still credits most of his knowledge to the textbooks he allegedly “committed to memory.” Reading is just one way to teach yourself everything you need to know. Aspiring inventors can surely learn a lot by sacrificing some of their leisure time to sit down with a textbook.

For writers and artists, the best study is to just read. Read anything. Inspiration can be derived from poetry, works of fiction, etc. These also help you develop your writing skills, which is an important asset for any aspiring entrepreneur.

“Self-education is, I firmly believe, the only kind of education there is.” – Isaac Asimov

With the help of online Master Classes, Youtube videos, and apps – where online courses developed by some of the top U.S. educational institutions can be accessed remotely – self-taught success is more attainable than ever.

What’s more, we learn through practice. We can publish our own eBooks through Amazon without the publishing house bureaucracy. We can advertise our product, brand, or service through social media savvy without astronomical advertising costs. And as we practice, we learn. We gain feedback from our followers, learn from our mistakes, and do it better the second time around.

Even when you’re teaching yourself, others are always helping. However, you get to decide which lessons are most constructive, and you get to apply them to the real world in real-time.

The Science of Self-Taught

People have a tendency to romanticize the concept of self-taught success. It’s not a solution for laziness, or an excuse for lack of motivation. In many cases, teaching yourself is more work than being taught. The level of accountability rises when you are both teacher and student. Furthermore, it requires more discipline. Without a structured schedule or a guaranteed reward at the end of your efforts, your only hope is your dedication.

Beyond this, however, the only thing stopping most people from teaching themselves is insecurity. Fear of failure and inadequacy halts self-taught learners in their tracks. Especially because with self-teaching, inevitably, comes occasional failure. Unfortunately, the self-taught often feel they have nobody to blame the failure on but themselves – no teachers, mentors, or trainers as scapegoats.

According to Psychology Today, there is nothing that makes certain people better self-taught learners than others. The only difference is motivation, and willingness to overcome that lingering insecurity. Even the concept of “learning styles” is erroneous, says Psychology Today. While each individual is different, ability to learn is not based on preference, but expertise.

Beginners learn better from examples, while experts learn better by solving problems. This builds yet another case for autodidacts, who are more likely to learn by experience – the most effective method.

“Wisdom is not a product of schooling but a lifelong attempt to acquire it.” – Albert Einstein

The Rewards of Being Self-Taught

The fruits of your labor taste sweeter when you’ve taught yourself how to grow them. As such, success is more enjoyable when your self-education has contributed to it. All successful individuals have something in common: they’ve taken the initiative to teach themselves new things, or to supplement their formal education with self-teaching, as well.

Therefore, not all groundbreaking inventors, artists, and philosophers are solely self-taught. However, they’ve still accompanied their college training with their own individual quest for knowledge.

There is a simple reason why autodidacts thrive the most: because they’re always learning. The one mistake people who solely rely on formal education and training make is the mistake of stopping their learning process altogether once it’s over. Not only does this prevent you from being up-to-date on the latest concepts and advancements in your field, but it obstructs your brain’s thirst for mental stimulation.

By constantly learning and teaching ourselves new things, no matter how small or large they might be, we could change the course of our overall health and well-being. Research even shows that mental stimulation (consisting of practicing memorization, learning new things, and improving our skill in existing hobbies) is key to slowing down the development of, and possibly even reversing, Alzheimer’s and dementia.

Motivational speaker and entrepreneur Jim Rohn was noted for saying, “Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune.” This does not mean you should abandon the pursuit of formal education, as it often serves as the foundation for self-education. But, it does mean we should maintain, cater to, and quench our thirst for knowledge as much as we possibly can.

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6 Expert Tips for Building Relationships With Those You Idolize

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Many of us dream of one day meeting a celebrity. Be it a movie star or a pro football player, we have a tendency to idolize these individuals, even looking to them for guidance as we make life decisions. In business, we can also find people we idolize. Individuals who have achieved great success with their own company or even revolutionized an industry.

From these people, we can learn key skills, gain valuable insights or even form partnerships to take our own business ventures to the next level. Yes, it is possible to form real relationships with your business idols or industry influencers. But like any other relationship, it requires work.

Here’s 6 ways you can start forming the relationships that will make a lasting difference for your entrepreneurial goals:

1. Do Your Research

Facebook stalking may be creepy for normal relationships, but doing some online research is perfectly okay for business leaders and influencers. After all, most influencers are extremely active online, either through social media, their own website or guest blogging. This basic research gives you a chance to better understand your business idol.

What do they like or dislike? What are their opinions on current trends? What do they talk like? These simple bits of information will help you better know how to approach them and determine if a relationship could prove beneficial.

“The richest people in the world look for and build networks. Everyone else looks for work.” – Robert Kiyosaki

2. Comment Carefully

Your initial research also serves as your first chance for engagement with your business idol. By liking social media posts or leaving thoughtful comments on blog articles, you can make a positive first impression.

Of course, leaving quality comments is sometimes easier said than done. As Kevin Duncan of SmartBlogger explains, thoughtfully contributing to the discussion with personal experiences or meaningful questions are a great way to get the conversation started.

“When you share a personal insight, bloggers can more easily relate to you. You’re no longer just an unfamiliar name making a comment that could have been left by anyone …the more personal your insight, the more unique it will be. And the more unique your insight, the more memorable your comment will be and the more you’ll stand out.”

3. Group Participation

Business leaders and influencers won’t only be found on blogs. Many are also active participants in online industry groups. Whether on Facebook or LinkedIn, these groups allow industry professionals to discuss current trends, ask for advice, or share new opportunities.

If you wish to make a positive impression, you should seek out, join and actively participate in these online groups. Avoid the temptation to promote yourself or your business. Instead, engage in conversations much like you would with a quality blog comment. By sharing your unique experiences and insights, you’ll build a stronger reputation among your peers.

4. Face Time

Online discussions are a great place to start, but the best relationships typically require some face-to-face interaction. You make a much more lasting impression when you have an in-person conversation. Industry conventions or lectures are great places to connect with others in your field. When you show yourself as a living, breathing human being, rather than just a name behind the computer, it becomes so much easier to make a personal connection and form a real, lasting relationship — and that can pay big dividends for future pitches.

Setting up a face-to-face meeting can be tricky. After all, you don’t want to come off as creepy. However, if you’ve already established an online rapport, asking if an influencer would like to briefly meet in person at an event you’re both attending shouldn’t be a problem.

5. Add Value

All relationships have a bit of give and take — and this is especially true when forming relationships in the business world. If you’re only approaching a business idol because you hope to gain something (like an extra investor in your startup), you likely won’t have success. Instead, find ways that you can contribute value.

As leadership consultant Randy Hain explains, “‘What can I do to help you?’ is absolutely one of the best ways to get business relationships off to a great start. Invest in the other person first, with no expectation of return. Do not keep score. Simply make the investment and over time you will benefit from the seeds of generosity you have planted.”

“Networking is the No. 1 unwritten rule of success in business.” – Sallie Krawcheck

6. Focus On the Long-Term

The aforementioned tactics aren’t “one and done” tips. Instead, you’ll need to continually practice them to show your genuine interest and build the kinds of friendships that can pay lasting dividends for everyone involved.

Relationships aren’t a short-term investment — and this is especially true if you want help on your own road to success. Real relationships need time to grow. They need continual nurturing. With a patient, long-term approach, you’ll be less tempted to jump right into a sales pitch and more likely to focus on a genuine friendship that delivers a real payoff.

Becoming an entrepreneur may put you in the role of the underdog — but this doesn’t mean you have to go at it alone. As you form genuine relationships with influencers and other business professionals, you’ll gain access to new sources of knowledge.

You’ll find friends who are willing to help or mentors willing to share their time. You may even find a new business partner. Relationship-building is a lifelong endeavor, but it will always pay off in the end.

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Stop Denying Your Negative Thoughts and Start Embracing Them

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Over the years, many of the talking heads and pundits in the personal development and success science industry have talked about the immediate replacement of negative thoughts with positive thoughts. The logic behind that particular behavioral strategy seems to make sense on the surface. Think about it, when a negative thought rears its ugly head, we should immediately dive into the repository of positive thoughts that we have available to us so that we could immediately begin to dwell on it.

Even further, some gurus of the genre suggest removing any chance of having a negative thought by the constant repetition of affirmations. Again, tried-and-true motivational technology that is very workable and still useful. I would suggest, however, that you view the above behaviors as tactics more than strategies.

I will further suggest to you that you do not abhor your negative thoughts but rather embrace them, examine them, and place them under a spotlight. My reasoning behind this goes back over 100 years into psychology with stimulus/response, that is, the cause and effect of certain behaviors. Many individuals look at a negative thought as a causative driver. The negative thought exists as a cause, and our behavior toward that cause will determine the effect.

So, following this logic, if an individual has a negative thought which makes them feel sad, and that sadness causes them to binge drink, by removing the negative thought you’ll have removed the motivation for binge drinking. Doesn’t that sound kind of silly? The suggestion here is to turn off the negative thought so that it will turn off the consumption of alcohol.

Of course, this makes sense if we view the negative thought as a primal force in behavior. So, what if we started to think of the negative thought more as the result of something else? It means that the “something else” must change first. What if we took a different approach? What if we looked at a negative thought as an effect of some larger causal factor?

“You’re going to go through tough times – that’s life. But I say, ‘Nothing happens to you, it happens for you.’ See the positive in negative events.” – Joel Osteen

By reversing the cause-and-effect motion of negative thinking (saying that the negative thought is an effect), we now can ask a deeper, more penetrative question: Why are we thinking that negative thought? What is the underlying cause of that specific train of thinking? By reversing the cause-and-effect relationship of negative thinking, it allows the negative thinker to assume the role of diagnostician!

Below is a three-step process you can use to examine your negative thoughts, the role of it in your life, and how you can get rid of them:

1. Simply acknowledge the negative thought

Recognize the fact that there’s a negative thought in your mind instead of trying to go through a process of emotionally overlaying positive thoughts on top of it. Can you see how this exacerbates the issue? You have a negative thought, you immediately recognize that it must be changed, and you frantically scurry through the museum of your mind to find a positive thought to replace it.

In the meantime, while you are trying to find that positive thought, you’re feeling anxious, nervous, and guilty! When you finally find a positive thought to replace that negative thought, the normal process is to squash it. But you can’t! It’s like trying to get rid of weeds by covering them with rocks.

They will always find another way around the rock. It is the same with negative thoughts. Consequently, try acknowledging the negative thought.

2. Affirm the negative thought

It is a part of you. Instead of denying its existence, accept that it is there in front of you and that you are now willing to deal with it. If any of you reading this are dog lovers, you will know that the best way to get a dog next to you is by attempting to push it away from you. Every time you push the dog away it gets closer. This is the same with negative thinking because the harder you push the closer it gets.

“Always turn a negative situation into a positive situation.” – Michael Jordan

3. Acquit the thought

Give it permission to leave you. Thank it for its past importance in your life and allow it to be on its way! At this point feel free to replace the negative thought with a positive thought. What will begin to happen when you place the negative thought under the spotlight is that you will see how insignificantly small it actually is.

This is a process I’ve been using for quite some time, and it works! Oh sure, I still use affirmations on a daily basis; as a matter fact I have them right here in front of me. I find that affirmations are a tremendous way to stay positive because it doesn’t allow any room for bad things to grow. But since the average person thinks 60,000 to 65,000 thoughts per day, let’s face it, a few negative thoughts have to squeak in there!

The best advice that I can give is to not freak out over a negative thought. Acknowledge it, affirm it, and acquit it! This is magic. Watch what happens!

How do you handle negative thoughts? Let us know your tips below!

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One Thing I Can Teach You About Life That Will Help You Forever.

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I used to be a very anxious person.

I was embarrassed by what I couldn’t do and every day was a struggle. From the moment I would wake up to the moment I’d go to bed, everything felt impossibly overwhelming. It’s a battle I’ve dealt with most of my life.

This daily struggle with mental illness taught me that the satisfaction didn’t lie in beating it; the satisfaction was in helping other people beat mental illness through my success in fighting it.


Recently, I was at work. It was a pretty standard day — nothing too exciting. I then had a catch up with one of the leaders I worked with.

She said something that got my attention: “One of our colleagues is battling a mental illness.”

I really wanted to help. My eyes lit up. There was no need to uncover my plan with anyone else. I knew that staying discrete was fundamental.

I approached the person in question and asked for a few minutes of their time.

I didn’t ask them to admit their mental illness struggle; I just shared my story.

I talked about the anxiety stopping me from having a normal life, eating the right foods, going on dates with girls, having the career I wanted and traveling the world.

I wasn’t sure if any of it was sinking in or even helping. I felt compelled to go on. One thing I knew was that he was paying attention. I could see it in his eyes.

I then went on to talk about how I beat mental illness. Strategies such as:

  • Creating fear lists
  • Seeking professional help
  • Working on myself
  • Books I read
  • Events I attended

Out of nowhere, he started opening up about his own struggle. I was shocked.
It wasn’t pretty. He had an extreme case of mental illness that I certainly couldn’t diagnose or give professional advice on.

All I could do was show him through my own story that there was hope

I offered him access to all the resources I had. I told him that he had my full support and I’d be happy to help in any way I could. He then said:

“What was your psychologist’s name?”

I told him I’d look it up and send it to him. I didn’t have the answer in front of me, but I was determined when I got home to find it.

At the end of the catch-up, he smiled. I don’t think he’d smiled like that in a very long time.

That smile gave me so much satisfaction. It made my own struggle with mental illness worth it. All those sleepless nights, times spent vomiting into the toilet and dark days where I didn’t want to go on made sense.


“It took more than seven years for me to understand that my own battle with mental illness actually had a benefit”

That benefit was the satisfaction in seeing someone beat their mental illness because I was able to defeat mine.

It’s probably the greatest satisfaction of my entire life.

That’s one thing I can teach you about life that will help you forever.

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