Success Advice
How Video Games Made Me A Multi-Millionaire
How I made $3M in 15 weeks with a brand new business.
And how video game theory made me a multi-millionaire…
First, let me clarify – this isn’t my first company, but that shouldn’t distract you from the true and honest reality that you can replicate what I am about to teach you.
Yet before I lay out a strategy, let me warn you, if you have never played an RPG video game, like Blizzard Entertainment’s Diablo II™, then the following will likely fly right over your head and you should download any RPG game that has a SKILL TREE and here is why…
In life everything you do, unlocks new opportunities, yet every single business strategy, project management system, and business framework I have seen, fail to incorporate this fundamental reality into their daily business operations.
And this is where game theory and specifically the importance of understanding how skill trees in popular RPG video games play a critical role in my past success and soon to be yours.
Every game ever, shows you the ENTIRE skill tree, and allows for you to see the end destination and the beginning of the decision you are about to make.
You put a skill point into “Firebolt” and then level it up to say level 5, and you unlock “Firewall”, repeat, and you unlock “Meteor” and so on and so forth, but because you can see the entire skill tree, you know where to put your skill points in order to unlock the most powerful skills as early as possible.
Now for those of you that are lost in all this video game jargon, essentially in video games, as you level up through quests or fighting monsters you gain experience, similar to how you do in real life reading books and reading or watching “How To” videos and articles on the internet to learn about a new skill, industry, or craft like marketing or copywriting for instance.
The more time you invest, the greater your experience and hopefully your skill, and just like how in real life your resume builds up, you unlock higher and higher paying jobs based on your skill level and accolades; In video games, specifically RPG games, it is the exact same.
This entire methodology however is simplified for children of all ages to play, and that is where the genius of game theory applies to building easy to execute business plans that anyone can follow to achieve wealth and rapid growth, while at the same time avoiding many of the pit falls and traps that kill motivation and businesses before they have a chance to truly thrive in the world.
So what is so genius about this “game theory” I keep referring to?
It is the very categorization by gaming companies and how they layout objectives in such a simple and intuitive way that a child as young as 6 years old, can recognize and make not only the correct decision, but also achieve taking the shortest path to success if they know only the starting point and the desired end result – that is so absolutely genius.
“The definition of genius is taking the complex and making it simple.” – Albert Einstein
As Albert Einstein says, genius is in the simplest of practices, but the irony is that many are mislead by gurus pushing complex solutions to create the illusion of authority and prestige, and as a consequence (even those of you reading this) will overlook simple executable systems that all age ranges and backgrounds can follow, because their simplicity makes you so wary and cautious of their efficacy because of your prior conditioning to look for complex solutions over those that simply and directly solve your problems.
This symptom of being conditioned to only give attention to complex solutions, is a corrosive dogmatic ideology that has created a disease I like to call “analysis paralysis” amongst every day people and especially entrepreneurs and business executives of whom I coach with great frequency, to help recover from this metaphorical paralysis that can cost millions or worse – their business.
So in order to help you now, to help you understand the value of the solution I am about to outline below, you have to consciously make a single commitment to me while reading this, you have to take a deep breath and blink three times.
Right now!
And while I could go into the psychology as to why this will help you remember what I am about to say, I will keep it short – you have been reading this long article of text, straining your eyes, while constantly both consciously and subconsciously connecting different phrases and key points made above against your wealth of personal life experiences to determine how well they either do or do not relate to you. You do this in order to determine if you can exact true actionable value in this post that will help you get ahead or solve a problem – all actions which naturally stress you out and lessen your attention span.
We, humans are natural problem solvers with an innate desire to win.
So by a simple micro-commitment to your future, such as blinking three times to give your eyes a short break and taking a deep breath (which you may or may not have noticed you have decreased the frequency and depth of your breathing when you started focusing on this article,) will all help combat the stress chemical (cortisol) in the brain, and increase overall retention. After all, the classes you were likely best at in high school and perhaps college (if you attended), were the classes you had the most fun in. Where you smiled and laughed the most, both two textbook reactions that release serotonin and dopamine (the happy chemicals) that kill cortisol (the stress chemical) and help you not only narrow in your focus, but also greatly retain more information.
Fascinating, right? Now STOP!
Pay attention or everything you have read to this point will vanish and be forgotten in the void a thousand new experiences, you are bound to experience today. HOWEVER, if you are committed to making a positive change in your life, if you are committed towards your future success, get closer to the screen, stop skimming the text and read WORD by WORD, for I fear if you do anything else, you may miss the simplicity of the solution I am about to provide by your haste to get to the end.
Each word I use from here on out is carefully crafted and I implore you to re-read not only the following section but the entirety of this article again, and then in the company of friends, to thoroughly retain and then talk over the strategy covered until YOU fully understand – this is for YOU – not THEM.

Step 1 – Start with the end in mind, but leap with clear conscious where others misguidedly step
In game theory and in this article, I gave you a glimpse about the depth of the topic we would dive into at the start in order to prepare you for the next set of information and the next and so on. In game theory, this is no different than you having a basic skill such as typing on a keyboard, which aids you in being able to complete more complex tasks such as navigating the internet, blogging, copywriting, and more. Every bit of prior information and experience, unlocks the next opportunity.
For those of you feeling numbed by the common sense above, thinking “of course you need to know how to type before you can navigate the internet” you have already failed this lesson. For you could never type and instead use speech or any variety of inputs such as a simple computer mouse to complete the task… and this is where you need to kill past prejudice about the simplicity of things, to allow for the genius of game theory come to life.
Having a firm and CLEAR understanding of where your starting point is (where you currently are now in your life at the time of reading this), and the resources that are available to you like money, time, and assets in the form of experience or relationships that you can withdraw from ( know that every relationship is like a bank account that can go bankrupt ) for any of the prior mentioned resources, and MAPPING all of these resources out before you, is the single most IMPORTANT action you can EVER do because…
It allows you to identify your ORIGIN, ground zero, your base, the lowest point at which you will ever be if you are truly investing in yourself and have already started taking notes with a pen and paper by this point of the article.
You need to write down, all of the resources I mentioned above, how you spend your time, your income, the valuable assets you have from the device you are reading this on, to your car and any other miscellaneous valuable things in your possession including junk which could be repurposed ( this list will be LONG ) and any valuable connections, etc.
STOP! Remember how I said genius is in simplicity?
Why are you falling into the SAME TRAP of pursuing complex solutions?
Consider for a moment, how can you know what is valuable or what you should write down when you DO NOT EVEN KNOW YOUR GOAL?!
I gave you a NEW PROBLEM disguised as a solution that you believed would advance you closer to your GOALS, without giving any context as to what is considered valuable. Subconsciously in your innate desire to win and solve the problem, you already started thinking of things – or worse, already committed to writing them down without knowing the END GOAL of why you are writing anything down to begin with.
Again, and this is the last time I will test you, as any room for future confusion will only hurt your ability to learn what you need to from this experience, you need to LISTEN and become a student. Kill any and all form of ego, pride, and status you believe you have – only through abandoning those distractions will you reveal your ORIGIN and with complete and total CLARITY, understand that you are truly at the STARTING point and no closer nor farther away.
It is incredibly important that for the purpose of the remainder of this article you think about nothing else but YOURSELF and reflect on everything I will say in the context of where YOU want to go with YOUR LIFE in the context of the two following questions :
What fulfills YOU, makes you HAPPY?
Who do YOU want to be in the FUTURE?
Take your time to answer both of these before continuing to read the remaining steps to understanding the genius of game theory and how to apply it in the context of YOUR LIFE, because any LACK OF CLARITY will cause you to misstep, instead of take the actions that will progress you by LEAPS and bounds closer towards your goal.
Once you have a CLEAR idea of what the answer to both of these questions is, write them down. It doesn’t have to be organized in any way, it doesn’t need to be even in complete sentences or even words at all, it can be in any form that makes sense to YOU. Remember, this is not for others, this is for YOU and how YOU hit your life goals.
Once you have your answers written down, a FUTURE is created. Now we can get to work – as you now have both pieces that are NECESSARY to successfully utilize game theory to it’s fullest extent as I have to achieve success.
You have an ORIGIN and a DESTINATION, the two points that even a 6 year old can connect the dots between to find the shortest path.
Remember how I said ego, pride, and the status you believe you have would only serve to distract you?
Do any of those things truly matter if a 6 year old is on the same playing field as you at being able to connect the dots between two points?
That is why I told you, to be a student, a BLANK SLATE, as are children who are still eager to learn how the world works.
Now get ready for the GAME part of the theory.

Final Step – Work Backwards From Failure
This is how NASA put a man on the moon, they used game theory, defining the two points above, to discover their ORIGIN and their END POINT, and then proceeded to work backwards from failure.
Luckily, achieving your goals is likely easier than putting a man on the moon. If what you are about to read is properly followed, you will learn the system by which even NASA and the billionaire elite operate, as well as 6 year old children who all realize that FAILURE is only the temporary status of a MISUNDERSTOOD dependency of SUCCESS.
Consider for a moment, you have both the INPUT and OUTPUT of a PROBLEM, does it matter what you put in-between as long as the ORIGIN equals the DESTINATION in the end?
If I have a desire to make 382.18 equal 3,000,000 does it matter whether I use multiplication, division, addition, subtraction or any other process in-between to make the numbers equal one another in the end?
NO!
And when you realize how powerful that concept is, you will have fully grasped the power of game theory and how anything becomes possible for anyone with the willingness to UNDERSTAND that FAILURE is only a TEMPORARY status of a MISUNDERSTOOD dependency of SUCCESS.
To put it plainly, the secret to success is not wealth, money, status, or power – it is through finding fulfillment through understanding failure.
It may take you a few years to fully grasp that last statement, but if you know the ORIGIN and the desired DESTINATION of any given problem, then all that’s left is to work backwards from failure.
Pay special attention to what I am about to say next.
Most people when they start a project, they just dive in and try to build as they go versus looking at the entire landscape to see where the points of resistance, obstacles, and death traps are.
DO NOT BE ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE!
Furthermore, most business owners and consultants tend to create roadmaps for businesses from the ORIGIN, however this is an incredibly TOXIC and limiting approach to scaling any company.
Why?
Consider this, if I asked you how to build a $100M million dollar company right now, would you know which questions to ask yourself and which actions you should do first in order to have the GREATEST IMPACT for the LEAST amount of capital or resources?
No, because you are thinking from the BOTTOM UP, you essentially are forced to think small because you are likely looking at your available resources and going “what can I initially build with X tiny budget to make more money so I can afford the next step”.
And just that question alone, can create “analysis paralysis” where you are so caught up in trying to make the right decision with what little funds or resources you may have, that you unintentionally stress yourself out as a result, and make rash emotionally clouded decisions.
However, if you follow game theory and instead worked BACKWARDS from your DESTINATION/GOAL, and repeatedly asked yourself the question of, “What ways can I achieve this?”, then instead of having to constantly try and figure out what the next step is or even beat yourself up whether you are asking the right question, all you have to do is continuously list actions that are necessary to achieve the last step.
You solve for failure.
To achieve this GOAL, I can do A, B, or C action to get there, and to A,B, or C action, these are the things I need to do in order to make sure those happen, and so on and so forth. You KEEP DOING THIS until you can not break down the dependencies (requirements) of any one action any further.
And without you even knowing it, you will have discovered that the actions that are all listed at the very bottom of what will look like an upside down tree, have become so granular and simple, that any one of them have become STARTING points, that all lead to your DESTINATION.
Do not be afraid to spend a week or more doing this, it is by far a lot more efficient and smarter to spend a day to sharpen your axe to cut down a tree in a few short swings, than spend an entire day hacking away at a tree with a blunt axe.
By the time you get done, it should look like a really large triangle of sorts, with rows that have the least amount of steps at the top and dozens if not hundreds of steps or actions on the very bottom row.
Now, you might consider you are done and that you have the most thought out business plan in the world and there is no possible way you could fail, and while you will certainly out perform others who do not plan, still have skipped an incredibly important step.
You haven’t written down what any of these actions will COST you in terms of time and money.
You likely don’t want to retire and start living your dream life at 65, when you’re so old that you can break a hip riding a jet ski. So now the question becomes, which path will get you to your DESTINATION the fastest for the least amount of time, money, and effort?
Right now, just by looking at the web of possible futures you have created for yourself there is no context or way of telling which path is the easiest and which one will cost you the most or stress you out the most.
What you will read next, is the MOST IMPORTANT step of game theory, and if followed incorrectly will render everything you have done up until this point useless.
In order to add context to this massive web of possible actions and steps before you and to make the entire thing so easy to understand that even a 6 year old can answer the question of “Where do we start?”, we need to add two values.
The first, the time it will take to find and have SOMEONE ELSE do that task.
The second, the amount of money it will cost to have SOMEONE ELSE do that task.
Consider for a moment, what is the #1 trap you hear most entrepreneurs and business owners falling into?
That they get so caught up IN their business instead of ON it, right?
So why would I have you write down the amount of time or money it would cost YOU to do any of the tasks that you have written out?
If you don’t know the time or cost it would take to do a task on your decision tree, ask someone who would know, utilize your network. If you do not have someone in your network, jump on LinkedIn and look up people who are in positions at companies who can.
Make educated estimates, but do not GUESS.
The goal of game theory is to give you the shortest executable path to achieve your end DESTINATION/GOAL and to answer the question that has probably been nagging in the back of your mind of “Where do I start?”.
Once you have filled out the answers to these two questions above for every action you have in your decision tree, have likely made all of your friends feel like you’ve fallen off the deep end and become some mad genius – the real fun starts.
It is time to find the shortest path to success.
You have thousands of ways you can succeed, thousands of ways you can solve the problem of how to get from where you are now to where you want to be, and there is NO WRONG ANSWER, just a series of shorter and longer paths that will get you there.
It’s time to get out a blank notepad and a calculator and get to work. Start adding up which path will take the LEAST AMOUNT OF TIME AND MONEY to get you to your desired end DESTINATION.
Sound like a lot of work? Work smarter, not harder.
Do not calculate paths from the bottom up, start from your DESTINATION and then work backwards yet again. Only follow the path that has the SMALLEST time and monetary commitments, and repeat until you get to the end.
I suggest that you highlight this path as you go in green, as this is the SHORTEST possible path. When you reach the very last action at the bottom, which should be the easiest action you can do today to start on the path of SUCCESS, you have officially found your point of ORIGIN.
In doing everything above, you have literally created a roadmap and system so simple, that if you were to show a 6 year old, they would be able to follow it, and in doing so you have freed yourself from every possible entrepreneurial trap and mental block that would ever get in-between you and the future you are trying to create.
As a consultant, public speaker, and as a serial entrepreneur myself, the greatest barrier I have found that prohibits people from achieving any form of success, is that they (especially business owners and executives) mistake action for progress.
By following game theory and the exercise above, you’ve fundamentally done what 99.9% of people in this world have failed to do. You have predicted the future.
It sounds wild, but in life nearly every person you meet, never considers the consequences of their actions beyond any immediate sense.
That is why 99.9% of people happily exchange time for money, they wake up and go to work because the immediate result is money.
They are too distracted or stressed by relationships, money, how they look and what people think of them, that they never take a moment to step back and consider if the actions they are doing each and every day lead to any true progress. That is the cause of every major world problem.
There isn’t a single school in the nation that teaches you to THINK like this article does. They all teach you to REACT, instead of carefully predict each move you make with calculated precision.
Following the traditional way of thinking will make your life progress no differently than if you were to have a single bow and arrow and fire it with all your might, only to then spend time chasing down the arrow (the direction of your life) to fire it again, only to end up wherever it is that you end up.
Whereas game theory and methodology that I have explained above will allow for you to accomplish each and every desire you ever have in this life.
It is like having that same bow and arrow, but having a clear and defined target to aim for. Instead of exerting all of your effort and strength into aimless progress, your life becomes a series of precise and calculated accomplishments, that all line up to the culmination of the ultimate goal in life – fulfillment.
Whatever you seek in life, whether you seek to create multiple multi-million dollar businesses as I have, to travel the world, to be present with friends and family, or to press the boundaries of human ability or imagination, the drive you have to achieve that goal, the thing you are seeking is called fulfillment.
No book, nor article, nor advice by any “guru” has ever come as close to answering how to achieve the true success or fulfillment as well as game theory does.
This is not just a theory, it is act, the dedicated craft of predictive thinking that is not taught in universities or schools, nor by the internet’s most followed influencers nor business gurus, but the one trend you will find amongst all billionaires and top performers of any industry or craft, is that they all do it.
None of their actions are by chance. Each decision is carefully crafted to set themselves up in the best possible position to achieve the next goal.
If I can give any more of my parting wisdom in this post than I have already, it is that anything easily earned is never truly valued. Our goals are our goals in life because they are hard, because they are worth earning. If they were easily obtained, we wouldn’t task ourselves with trying to accomplish them for they would have no value to us.
The true secret of success, is that success isn’t about having a lot of money, it is about finding fulfillment, a sense of purpose and meaning and pride, in every action you do.
How could you not be happy with a life like that?
A life where you never regret any decision?
That is the true meaning of success, the pursuit of happiness.
Utilizing this way of predictive thinking as I have outlined in the article above, will help you diagnose any problem you have in your life, allow for you to achieve anything you can imagine, and the only limitation of what you can achieve or become in this life, is the belief that you can.
This is the very process I go through with all of my clients, business partners, managers within my companies, and entrepreneurs and executives I coach at private masterminds that I frequently host.
Now that you have the keys to success, and the very blueprint for what has helped me become a multi-millionaire and hit $3M in 15 weeks with my latest company (as was the original title and reason why you clicked on this article), what will you do with it?
Will you study this article and use it to achieve your dreams?
Or will you let life’s distractions distract you from this little gem and will everything you read fade away in time with life’s every day events?
You decide.
Nobody in this world will ever care about your dreams coming true, so if you don’t make them real, who will?
Thanks for reading!
I can’t wait to see how you apply game theory and this model of predictive thinking in your own life, and if you understand the importance of immersing yourself in the right environment and people, and want to immerse yourself deeper in a culture of select people who think this way, then you can use this very theory to figure out how to get ahold of me and become part of the community of people I surround myself with.
Don’t worry it’s not that many steps to achieve success there 😉 I’m pretty easy to get ahold of…

Success Advice
Why Successful People Plan Their Days on Paper (Not Just Apps)
Your cell phone is usually something that you check almost immediately when you wake up. One notification turns into three. An e-mail is followed by another message, and soon enough, the day has started without any proper planning. Digital applications are very helpful and make work easier, yet it also makes it difficult for people to stop and think about what deserves attention.
That’s when the importance of paper scheduling can play an important role. With the September 2026 calendar, you get all your deadlines, appointments, and key dates scheduled without having another notification nagging at you. By listing out what’s a priority for you, you create a simple place to reflect on things before getting into the hustle and bustle of the day.
Why Do Successful People Still Plan on Paper?
The benefits that come with digital planning are immense. These include setting alerts, scheduling meetings, coordinating calendars, and providing access to all information anywhere. However, just because everything is available on a screen doesn’t necessarily mean that you will be able to concentrate on the most important things.
Paper provides a very different way of doing things. You don’t have any pop-ups to distract you. You can simply look at your page, determine what is important, and take notes without switching applications.
Imagine a professional preparing for an important presentation. Their digital task manager may contain dozens of tasks. On paper, they might simply write “finish presentation,” “review figures,” and “send final version.” The smaller, more focused list can make the next step feel much clearer.
Paper Makes Priorities Visible
The handwritten plan also remains physically in your presence. It can be kept next to your laptop as you work, reminding you of what you planned to achieve.
It is also gratifying to tick off an accomplished task. It creates a visible record of progress instead of leaving completed work buried inside a digital list.
Can Paper Planning Help With Digital Distractions?
The contemporary workplace is full of interruptions. There will be emails. There will be messages. There will be meetings going long past their allotted times. Even if you make up your mind to find some time, it’s not always easy to do so undisturbed.
According to Microsoft’s Work Trend Index 2023 report, 68% of individuals reported that they lacked adequate undistracted focus time while working. This research was conducted among 31,000 individuals from 31 different countries, and trillions of Microsoft 365 productivity signals were analyzed.
Paper planning cannot remove these interruptions. It can, however, give you something simple to return to when they happen. If the day’s three most important priorities are written beside your computer, it becomes easier to remember what you were working towards after an unexpected meeting or a string of messages.
The aim is not to avoid technology. It is to avoid letting technology decide where your attention goes.
How Does Writing Your Day Down Change the Way You Work?
When writing an outline, one is forced to make decisions. Rather than looking at an endless list of things that have to happen someday, one can identify things that matter today.
This is particularly useful when one already has a busy schedule for a day. Imagine having a report due Friday, three meetings, several emails to answer, and a routine administrative task waiting. Everything may look important when viewed together. Writing down the report as the main priority can make it easier to protect time for it.
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Planning on an app |
Planning on paper |
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Easy to add and rearrange tasks |
Makes selected priorities physically visible |
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Useful for reminders and notifications |
Creates a quieter planning space |
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Can store a large number of tasks |
Encourages you to be selective |
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Works well for shared schedules |
Works well for personal daily focus |
This does not mean paper is automatically better. It simply gives planning a different purpose. An app can hold everything, while a sheet of paper can help you decide what deserves your attention now.
Can Paper and Digital Planning Work Together?
Absolutely. The best way of doing this could be assigning a particular role to both mediums.
Assign your meetings, appointments, joint ventures and reminders on a digital calendar, but let your personal commitments, brief notes, thoughts and priorities remain on paper.
This works perfectly well even while planning for months ahead. A look at a September 2026 calendar can show you the busiest times, important deadlines and other personal engagements prior to organising individual days.
Why Are Weekly Calendar Layouts Beneficial for a Busy Schedule?
A week that is packed with activities will appear totally different when all seven days are visible. Using printable weekly calendars can assist you in taking an overall view of your appointments, deadlines, and other important obligations at once.
Such an overview can reveal some potential issues before it is too late. For example, when you realize that all your time during one day is already taken by numerous meetings, then you know that you should change your schedule now.
Printable weekly calendars can also be beneficial for those who like tangible things and wish to have everything written down somewhere without switching applications.
Make Planning More Intentional
A productive day may not necessarily start with downloading yet another app or adding new things to the to-do list. Sometimes, all it takes to start a productive day is some quiet minutes and an empty sheet of paper. Listing your priorities will give you a break before responding to the numerous stimuli.
Paper planning will only provide an additional choice. To discover practical planning resources in the form of free printable planners and calendars, try out a platform that will facilitate everyday planning. With proper use, paper planning can become an instrument that will turn your hectic schedule into a thoughtful one. The most effective planning tool is the one that will enable you to begin your day knowing your priorities and end it knowing where your time went.
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Success Advice
How to Hack Your Brain for Success Using Visualization Techniques
Success doesn’t start with frantic hustle. It starts in your head. When elite athletes, surgeons, and high-performing executives want to perform at their best, they don’t just work harder – they vividly picture in their mind a successful outcome before they ever take a step.
Visualization isn’t wishful thinking or daydreaming. It’s a powerful psychological tool that can train your brain to recognize opportunities, stay focused under pressure, and build the confidence needed to turn your ambitions into reality.
Here are five detailed visualization methods designed to help you achieve success.
The Outcome Technique
The Outcome Technique focuses on picturing the exact moment you reach a major milestone. Instead of fixating on the long, grueling path required to get there, you direct your attention to the final reward. Experiencing the emotional high of the finish line creates powerful internal motivation, giving you the energy and drive to begin the work required to get there.
To use this method, close your eyes and focus on the emotional and physical reality of the moment right after you achieve your target:
- Focus on the destination: Picture the precise second you close the deal, receive the official promotion offer, or sign the deed to your new home.
- Feel the emotional impact: Notice the deep sense of relief, pride, and satisfaction flowing through you. Allow yourself to experience the feeling of your hard work finally paying off.
- Observe your environment: Pay attention to who is in the room, the handshake from your business partner, or the notification on your phone confirming the financial transfer.
For example, if your primary goal is to hit a specific financial target, such as reaching your first six-figure savings milestone, picture opening your banking app on your phone.
See the exact numbers on the screen. Imagine the quiet confidence of knowing you have built financial security, the weight lifting off your shoulders, and the calm breath you take as you realize your discipline has paid off.
When you consistently visualize this successful outcome, your brain begins to see the goal as achievable rather than an impossible dream. This replaces uncertainty with a clearer sense of direction, making you more eager to take the practical steps needed to turn that image on your screen into reality.
Mental Rehearsal
While the Outcome Technique builds motivation through the end result, Mental Rehearsal focuses entirely on execution. Professional athletes, surgeons, and high-performing executives use this technique to walk through high-stakes procedures and stressful events before they happen.
It allows you to practice complex behaviors, refine your communication, and build neural pathways so that when the moment arrives, execution feels more natural and automatic.
To practice mental rehearsal effectively, sit quietly, eliminate all distractions, and mentally simulate a critical upcoming performance:
- Map out the sequence: Break the upcoming event down into distinct, sequential actions from start to finish.
- Rehearse high-stakes interactions: Picture the exact steps you will take, the words you will use, your voice tone, body posture, and how you will deliver your key arguments.
- Incorporate real-world details: Engage all your senses by visualizing the environment where the event will take place, including the facial expressions of the people around you and details of the room or space.
For example, imagine you are preparing for a major promotion pitch to the executive board. Mental rehearsal means sitting quietly and walking through the entire meeting in your mind. Picture yourself standing at the head of the table, making steady eye contact, and delivering your opening remarks with complete clarity.
Mentally rehearse presenting your key performance metrics, explaining your innovative solutions, and answering tough questions without becoming defensive.
Running this complete simulation in your head multiple times helps reduce the fear of the unknown. When you walk into the real boardroom, your brain has already encountered the situation repeatedly, making the presentation feel more familiar and easier to execute with confidence.
The Vision Board Method
Holding detailed mental images in your head throughout a busy workday can be difficult when you’re managing deadlines, chores, and other daily responsibilities. If this is true for you, a vision board can help.
This tool places images representing your goals and aspirations right in front of you. You only need to look at it from time to time throughout the day to keep your goals top of mind, stay motivated, and train your brain to notice opportunities you might otherwise have missed.
Many people find that using well-designed vision boards makes success feel more achievable. This increases their confidence, encourages them to take more action, and helps them make faster progress toward their goals.
A vision board filled with relevant images, key figures, and affirmations serves as a daily reminder of what you want to achieve. Here’s how to use it:
- Gather supplies: Collect specific images, charts, numbers, words, and affirmations related to your aspirations. Choose the right type of physical board for you, along with tape or glue, scissors, and anything else you might need.
- Build your board: Arrange all the elements on your board and secure them with tape or glue. Make sure the layout is clear and not too cluttered.
- Place it somewhere you will see it every day: Some of the best places include your bedroom, workspace (if you work from home), or even the living room. Look at your board a few times each day, ideally first thing in the morning and just before going to bed.
Here’s an example of how you could use a vision board: If your goal is to launch a business, your layout might feature your target annual revenue figure in bold text, a mock-up of your company logo, an image of your ideal office, and keywords such as “AUTONOMY” and “SUCCESS.”
Every time you look at your board, your mind registers these targets. This repeated exposure can help keep your long-term goals at the forefront of your attention, making it easier to align your daily habits and actions with the future you want to create.
The Reframe Method for Challenges
Achieving success rarely follows a straight line. You will inevitably encounter difficult situations, delays, uncooperative people, or unexpected rejections. The Reframe Method trains you to visualize how you will handle these challenges calmly before they occur, helping you avoid panic when real problems arise.
Instead of pretending that everything will go perfectly, choose a challenging situation that makes you feel anxious and mentally visualize navigating through it successfully:
- Identify the point of friction: Pinpoint the exact moment when a high-stakes situation could go wrong, such as a client rejecting a proposal or a pitch going off-script.
- Visualize emotional control: Picture yourself taking a calm breath, maintaining your composure, and resisting the urge to react emotionally or defensively.
- Rehearse the strategic shift: See yourself asking thoughtful questions, redirecting the conversation, or presenting an alternative solution that protects your interests.
For example, imagine you are negotiating a major contract with a key client, and they suddenly push back on your pricing structure, threatening to walk away.
Using the Reframe Method, you visualize this moment in advance. Instead of seeing yourself freeze or immediately offer a panic-driven discount, picture yourself pausing, remaining calm, and clearly explaining the value your service delivers. Then, mentally visualize offering a restructured scope of work that protects your profit margins while addressing the client’s budget constraints.
Visualizing yourself staying in control during high-pressure moments can help you respond strategically rather than emotionally when similar challenges arise in real life.
The Bedtime Journal Visualization
The Bedtime Journal Visualization pairs short, focused writing with calm mental imagery right before sleep. This transition period is ideal for visualization because your mind is free from immediate workplace demands, allowing your brain to process long-term strategic priorities overnight.
Keep a dedicated notebook and pen on your nightstand, and follow these steps each night:
- Write down one strategic goal: Write down one specific milestone you are actively working toward, using clear language.
- Review your statement: Take a moment to look over what you’ve written and let the objective settle into your mind.
- Visualize execution in the dark: Turn off the light, lie back, and spend three to five minutes mentally walking through the specific actions you will take the following day to move that goal forward.
For example, you might write: “Tomorrow, I will finalize the financial proposal and send it to the director before noon.” As you fall asleep, picture yourself arriving at your desk, ignoring distracting emails, opening the spreadsheet, verifying the numbers with total focus, and hitting “send” with confidence.
Because your brain consolidates thoughts and plans while you sleep, closing your day with a clear, actionable picture can help you wake up with focus, clear priorities, and immediate momentum for the work ahead.
Practicing any of these visualization methods alongside daily strategic action can help condition your mind to recognize growth opportunities and navigate complex challenges with greater poise. Over time, making visualization part of your routine can help turn even your most ambitious goals into tangible achievements.
Success Advice
Mistakes Are Not a Verdict. They Are the Practice.
We tell the sexy version of success.
Hemingway was gifted. Jobs was a genius. Jordan was a freak. We collect their habits like they are spells. Wake up earlier. Wear the same shirt. Sit in a cabin and wait for greatness.
I bought that story for a long time. It is a clean story. One person. One gift. One highlight reel.
Then you look at the actual room they grew in and the magic gets smaller. Someone taught them to care. Someone let them look stupid in public. Someone built a place where struggle was normal, not a character flaw.
That is the part we skip because it is less photogenic.
Talent is not a personality. It is a place.
Daniel Coyle spent years in rooms that produced ridiculous numbers of good people. A tennis club that punched above its weight. Music camps that looked half-broken. Soccer cultures that minted decision-makers.
The rooms were not luxury. Cinder blocks. Old buildings. No spa. They treated the space like a workshop, not a reward.
That hit me because we do the opposite now. We upgrade the office, the stack, the brand, and call it development. A nicer chair does not raise learning speed. A place that forces you to the edge of what you can do does.
The second thing those rooms shared was their relationship with mistakes.
We treat a miss like a verdict. This is not for me. In a good room a miss is information. It tells you where to reach next.
Coyle talks about a young clarinet player who improved more in six focused minutes than she had in a month of polite practice. She played. She stopped. She felt the error. She hummed it. She tried again. That is deep practice. Not hours of looking busy. Minutes at the edge.
I have watched the same split in business. Founders who polish the deck for six weeks learn almost nothing. Founders who put a rough offer in front of a real person learn by Friday.
The first version is supposed to teach you something. If it cannot fail, it cannot inform you.
The 20 percent rule is ugly on purpose
If you never miss, you are not practicing. You are performing what you already know.
If you miss most of the time, you are lost.
The useful zone is closer to being right often enough to stay in the work and wrong often enough that your brain has to reach. It feels bitter. That is why people leave it. Comfort is quieter.
Brazil did not get great at soccer because the weather was nice. A lot of warm countries love the game. They got addicted to a cramped indoor version where the ball is small, the space is tight, and you have to decide now. The environment manufactured reaches.
The tennis club outside Moscow did not roll balls out and wait for magic. They built the stroke first. Slow. Ugly. Repeat until the body knew it. Then they competed.
We skip that step and wonder why the launch feels chaotic.
Ten thousand hours is not a hack and it is not a prison sentence. For most skills that are not purely genetic, you still have to build the circuit. There is no morning routine that replaces that.
What those rooms also did well: they let people stare, struggle, and steal.
Stare at the person who can already do it. Struggle in front of other people who are also struggling. Steal the good idea without needing it to be original first. Florence’s workshops were not country clubs. Apprentices mixed paint, prepped walls, watched the master, then got their hands in the work.
That is still the job. In a company. In a family. In a craft.
Motivation usually walks in from outside
We talk about drive like it is a personality trait you either packed or you did not.
A lot of the time it is ignition. You see a version of yourself far enough ahead that the work suddenly makes sense. A kid from the same club reaches a final. Someone from the same island hits in October. An irrational sentence shows up: if they can, why not me?
Pixar did a simple version of this. New people were told they were filmmakers now. The whole building watched rough cuts and was asked to make them better. An IT person could change a badge in a movie. That is an invitation, not a pep talk.
Same pattern when older players teach the younger ones. You are not staring at a distant legend. You are staring at next year’s version of you.
If you lead people, that is more useful than another speech about grit. Build a room where contribution is real and struggle is expected. Great leadership often looks quiet from the outside. People leave saying we did it.
The other half of this is what you think success is
Mark Manson is right about the measurement problem.
A lot of people say they want the house, the car, the title. What they want is respect, attention, or proof they made it. Those are cheaper to get than a life built around someone else’s scoreboard. If you never ask how you are measuring the thing, you will not know what you are willing to give up for it. If you will give up nothing, you do not want it. You want the photo.
Outlier success is even less romantic than the documentaries. You need a take most people think is dumb. You need to be right about it. Then you need the stomach to rearrange your life around it. The 4 a.m. club is the least interesting part of that sentence.
Most people will not do all three. They need the room to tell them what to think. Or they have the odd idea and will not go all in. Or they go all in on an idea that was contrarian because it was bad.
And if you do get the outcome, it complicates the room. You stop knowing why people showed up. That is not a reason to stay small. It is a reason not to worship the mountain as the meaning of your life.
Manson’s test for writers is still the cleanest filter I know. Publish a lot. Then come back with questions. Almost nobody does it. They want the result. They do not want the cost.
I have watched the same thing around this site for years. People want the platform. They do not want the years of unglamorous publishing. Process is the job. The applause is a sliver.
When you are stuck, do the smallest honest thing
A math teacher once told a class that was frozen on an exam to rewrite the problem and find step one. Not the whole solution. Step one. The rest often shows up after your hand is moving.
That is the whole game when the mountain looks fake.
Write the sentence. Make the call. Ship the ugly page. Put the offer in front of one person.
Inspiration is usually the effect of action, not the cause. You do not wait to feel like going. You start, and the feeling has something to attach to.
Failure and rejection are not decorations. They sort the room. They tell you what is not for you and what still needs work. If you need a life with zero embarrassment, you have also chosen a life with a low learning speed.
What I would build if I were starting over
A room that looks a little cheap and works a lot.
People who can watch each other without performing.
A standard that treats a miss as data.
One person ahead of you that makes the next year look possible.
A definition of success you could defend if the cameras never came.
Then reps. Not magical ones. The kind where you reach, miss, adjust, and stay.
That is less glamorous than studying a genius’s breakfast. It is also how the geniuses actually got built.
Success Advice
Most People Want the Photo of Entrepreneurship. Not the Job.
I used to raise my hand when someone asked who in the room was an entrepreneur.
Then I started watching what people meant by the word.
They meant the photo. Own your time. Work for yourself. Build a life you do not need a holiday from. Those are the perception questions. Everybody says yes.
The reality questions are less popular. Are you willing to work when nobody is watching? Are you willing to put money you cannot easily replace on the line? Are you willing to look average in public while the thing is still ugly?
If you only want the first list, you do not want entrepreneurship. You want a costume.
I got confused because the word got cool
When I started Addicted2Success, entrepreneurship was not a personality. It was a slightly embarrassing choice. Now it sits next to being an athlete or a rapper. Cool. Visible. Easy to claim in a bio.
That timing helped a lot of us. The internet made it cheaper to start. It also made it easier to perform the job without doing the job.
I still believe you can get better at the craft. Sales. Copy. Funnels. Ops. You can sit in rooms with people who have done it. You can be mentored. What I do not believe is that a workshop can install the part that gets out of bed with no manager and no applause.
That part is closer to a talent you either feed or you do not. I could practice basketball every day and get better. I was never going to the league. Plenty of people can run a useful business. Fewer people should bet the house on becoming a founder.
That is not an insult. It is self-awareness. The operators who last double down on what they are actually good at and hire around the rest. The ones who stall spend years trying to become someone they admire.
I wasted years treating titles like a personality
Corporate was not evil. It was the wrong container for how I am wired.
I would start a role excited. A few months in I was a worse version of myself. Sunday already felt like Monday. Wednesday I was writing the resignation in my head. Friday I was just making an appearance.
I thought I needed a better job. I needed a different scoreboard.
A pastor said something that stuck, and it was not complicated. When the life you can see in your head and the life you are living stay too far apart, you get heavy. Not because you are ungrateful. Because you keep saying yes to a room that cannot hold what you are trying to build.
I ignored that sign and looked for another job that would make me happy. Same pattern. Different logo.
Leaving was not cinematic. It was a decision to stop renting my week to people who did not need the version of me that wanted to build.
Success got defined by people who were selling a jet
This is the part I care about more than another “hustle” speech.
A business that pays you well enough to live under your means, doing work you can stand, is a win. We do not talk about it that way. We talk about islands and exits.
If you make a living you can keep, on something you actually like, that is not a participation trophy. That is rare. The bottom of the top one percent in a rich country is still not the picture most people start with. They start at a million and a plane.
I do not want kids growing up thinking they failed because they built a good company instead of a fundraising machine.
A lot of what gets called a startup now is a finance game on the back end. CAC. LTV. The next round. The consumer is a metric. That can work as a sport. It is a terrible way to build a life. When the money gets tighter, the costume comes off. Some people will not have a self left under it.
Freedom is not what you make. It is what you do not have to spend to look free.
How I know it was not just a phase
Every real operator I know was selling something early. Candy. Labor. A service nobody asked them to start. They liked the feeling of money they made themselves.
They also do not stay satisfied. Finish one thing and the room gets quiet until the next problem shows up. That can look ungrateful from the outside. Inside it is just how the engine runs.
They would rather work a long day on their own hook than a clean eight hours on someone else’s calendar. That is not always healthy. It is honest.
I did not get a lightning bolt. I got enough signs that staying put cost more than leaving. Then I had to try it without a guarantee. Fear is usually the thing dressed up as research.
Trying is still the cleanest test. Not a personality quiz. Not a course. You put something in front of a real person and ask if they will pay.
What I watch for now
Attitude and effort. You control both. There is no law against working the problem except the clock.
Put the next step on the calendar. Call someone and ask if they want the thing. Ask if they will pay. A year from now you do not want the same conversation about being stuck.
Do not fall in love with the idea. Collide it with a customer before you write the ten-page plan. A piece of paper on a door beats a pitch deck if nobody knocks.
Protect the hours that actually move the number. Signal over noise. Three things that matter today. Everything else is interruption with a story.
Hire people better than you when you can. If someone cannot keep the standard and you keep them anyway, you just lowered it.
Know what you do not know. That is a strength. Pretending you have every hat is how founders drown.
And if you have a job that still pays the bills, you do not have to light it on fire for a caption. Build the new thing to a point where it is real. Then jump. Discipline is what makes that jump less theatrical.
The voices
People who have never carried the risk will have a lot to say. Some of them love you. That does not make them right about this.
If the people closest to you only feel safe when you stay small, you have to limit how much of their fear you swallow. Misery likes company. So does courage. Pick the room.
Authenticity is not a brand setting. It is not posting what you do not believe because it gets the like. MySpace Top 8 used to feel like life or death. It was not. Neither is this week’s vanity metric.
Work with family only if you love them more than the money. In a family business, respect the dirt that got the thing this far. Hit singles until you have earned the room to swing harder.
What I would tell myself earlier
You do not have to be the next platform.
You do have to be honest about whether you want the job or the photo.
Stay narrow long enough to get good. Attach a real offer to a name people can trust. Move faster than the version of you that wants another month to think. A rough version in the market beats a perfect version in your notes.
If it works, you get a life you do not have to perform.
If it does not, at least you lost on your own sword. Losing twice is worse. Once on the business, and once on the life somebody else talked you into.
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