Success Advice
5 Strategies For Improving How You Hustle
As the story goes, after Neil Patel got offstage from speaking to 2500 marketers at a large business conference, he was approached by a woman who essentially accused him of lying about his hustle.
“C’mon Neil. You know the best way to be successful is to be born to rich parents. Look at Bill Gates. Mark Zuckerberg. Chelsea Clinton. If you didn’t go to Harvard or Stanford, you’re locked out of the club.”
What this woman hadn’t heard from Neil’s speech, despite his best efforts to share his strategies for growing successful companies like Crazy Egg, Hello Bar, KISSMetrics, and most recently Quick Sprout was how he had hustled his way from being an amusement park bathroom attendant to successfully making over $20,000 a month as a teenager through consulting. Only to go into over $1 million in debt before 20 and re-launching into what his career is now as one of the most sought-after marketers alive.
Lucky for us, and for the woman who knocked the hustle, Neil Patel has teamed up with New York Times bestselling author Patrick Vlaskovits and successful entrepreneur Jonas Koffler on a new book called Hustle, all about finding success and fearlessly beating status quo systems.
In the book, they share dozens of strategies, stories, and experiments to try in improving how you hustle, and below I share just a few of my favorites:
1. Identifying and Escaping the “Cycle Of Suck”
As entrepreneurs, certain things are out of our control but can deprive us of the ability to succeed in our work if we don’t escape their influences. Perhaps you are working hard but not really getting anywhere.
Say you sell lower-priced items in your business, or do coaching and consulting on an hourly basis rather than charging more and working with less clients. Even better, say you discount heavily to earn new business. If you aren’t careful, you may work extremely hard to get customers that leave little room for profit, require lots of customer support and administrative work, and never provide you enough cash flow at once to grow the company.
Understanding the possible “Cycles of Suck” you’re threatened with in your industry, ecosystem, and lifestyle is crucial to hustling harder. Maybe your parents are pushing you towards a path of expensive college classes that are applicable towards the career that you wish to take, from which the debt will cripple your ability to make long-term decisions or take entrepreneurial-minded risks later on, forcing you into a corporate ladder climb that’s not fun nor fast.
Each of us are faced with possible “Cycles of Suck”, but if you identify them early you can make decisions to avoid them so your hustle is highly rewarded later on.
“Perseverance is failing 19 times and succeeding the 20th.” – Julie Andrews
2. Practicing Small Doses of Pain
When you work out, you’re actually breaking down your muscles so they can grow back stronger than before. We understand this principle already, and realize that putting ourselves through regimented pain doses at a small scale can lead to increased resiliency later on.
However, we don’t always do this to ourselves in business or in our lives outside the gym (if we go to the gym at all). If there’s someone who annoys us to our wit’s end, we don’t attempt to compliment them once per week until our relationship improves. We don’t make twenty sales calls each day to prospects that may be slightly out of reach for our company, yet could provide great feedback on our sales process and product or service we’re providing.
Overall, we rarely change our routines and habits because doing so would be uncomfortable and therefore painful, even if it could improve our help, grow revenue in our businesses, and strengthen our professional and personal relationships.
The authors of Hustle suggest picking one tiny habit that is small, “slightly annoying or odd”, and provides long-term benefit and implementing it in the next week. After that, repeat.
3. Take More Chances
Many of us, myself included, hustle on some projects for too long without sharing them with potential customers and/or the public. By doing this, we limit our chances of hitting a homerun in business because we are taking less “at bats”.
Imagine if one YouTube channel only posted videos once every four months, yet they were of movie quality. Imagine another channel that posted daily videos at a slightly less-produced quality that were still worth watching.
As Casey Neistat’s channel has shown us, the second example will win because there are more opportunities for that content creator to have a video go viral, and with each “at bat”, the creator is racking up new views, subscribers, and total watch time on videos overall. If we run more controlled experiments as entrepreneurs, we have better chances at succeeding.
4. Seal The Deal and Make It Real
There are a lot of us who work extremely hard, yet don’t progress as fast as we’d like because we don’t make things official. In sales, we build relationships but never ask for a client’s business, and when they do agree to work with us verbally, we hesitate in getting a signed contract and wire transfer from them.
The concept of sealing the deal and making it real is all about forcing those whom you interact with to transact with you. It takes away talking and replaces it with doing.
If you want to write a book, don’t talk about doing so for months, or wait for the right inspirational muse to come your way. Set your alarm for 4:30 am and write until 8 am for one week. Share your work with a friend who doubles as an accountability partner. Now you’ve written multiple chapters of your book!
“Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen.” – Michael Jordan
5. Reverse Engineer The Success You Seek
Depending on your goals, you may be able to reverse engineer the process it will take to get there in record time. In a two-step process, you can fact-check yourself from wasting time if there are pre-existing or interesting solutions to problems you’re looking to solve.
First, ask yourself, “Am I framing the problem correctly?” If you are waiting for a taxi at an airport, and there is a long line, the problem isn’t necessarily the wait time, but rather the need for a vehicle to transport you to your destination. You don’t therefore have to be attached to the solution of waiting in that taxi line.
Next, see if you can determine all potential solutions, including unconventional options. In the taxi example above, perhaps you can still wait in line and get a taxi still. Or, you can order from a ride-sharing service, skip the line somehow, walk towards another transportation source like buses or other taxi lines, etc. There are always multiple ways to solve a problem, and unconventional solutions may provide faster, easier, and higher return successes.
These are just a few of my favorite hustle-honing strategies from Neil, Patrick, and Jonas’ new book. Leave a comment with your own ideas for how to improve the way we hustle.
Life
9 Harsh Truths Every Young Man Must Face to Succeed in the Modern World
Before chasing success, every young man needs to face these 9 brutal realities shaping masculinity in the modern world.
Many young men today quietly battle depression, loneliness, and a sense of confusion about who they’re meant to be.
Some blame the lack of deep friendships or romantic relationships. Others feel lost in a digital world that often labels traditional masculinity as “toxic.”
But the truth is this: becoming a man in the modern age takes more than just surviving. It takes resilience, direction, and a willingness to grow even when no one’s watching.
Success doesn’t arrive by accident or luck. It’s built on discipline, sacrifice, and consistency.
Here are 9 harsh truths every young man should know if he wants to thrive, not just survive, in the digital age.
1. Never Use Your Illness as an Excuse
As Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often says, successful people don’t complain; they act.
Your illness, hardship, or struggle shouldn’t define your limits; it should define your motivation. Rest when you must, but always get back up and keep building your dreams. Motivation doesn’t appear magically. It comes after you take action.
Here are five key lessons I’ve learned from Dr. Peterson:
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Learn to write clearly; clarity of thought makes you dangerous.
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Read quality literature in your free time.
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Nurture a strong relationship with your family.
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Share your ideas publicly; your voice matters.
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Become a “monster”, powerful, but disciplined enough to control it.
The best leaders and thinkers are grounded. They welcome criticism, adapt quickly, and keep moving forward no matter what.
2. You Can’t Please Everyone And That’s Okay
You don’t need a crowd of people to feel fulfilled. You need a few friends who genuinely accept you for who you are.
If your circle doesn’t bring out your best, it’s okay to walk away. Solitude can be a powerful teacher. It gives you space to understand what you truly want from life. Remember, successful men aren’t people-pleasers; they’re purpose-driven.
3. You Can Control the Process, Not the Outcome
Especially in creative work, writing, business, or content creation, you control effort, not results.
You might publish two articles a day, but you can’t dictate which one will go viral. Focus on mastery, not metrics. Many great writers toiled for years in obscurity before anyone noticed them. Rejection, criticism, and indifference are all part of the path.
The best creators focus on storytelling, not applause.
4. Rejection Is Never Personal
Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It simply means your offer, idea, or timing didn’t align.
Every successful person has faced rejection repeatedly. What separates them is persistence and perspective. They see rejection as feedback, not failure. The faster you learn that truth, the faster you’ll grow.
5. Women Value Comfort and Security
Understanding women requires maturity and empathy.
Through books, lectures, and personal growth, I’ve learned that most women desire a man who is grounded, intelligent, confident, emotionally stable, and consistent. Some want humor, others intellect, but nearly all want to feel safe and supported.
Instead of chasing attention, work on self-improvement. Build competence and confidence, and the rest will follow naturally.
6. There’s No Such Thing as Failure, Only Lessons
A powerful lesson from Neuro-Linguistic Programming: failure only exists when you stop trying.
Every mistake brings data. Every setback builds wisdom. The most successful men aren’t fearless. They’ve simply learned to act despite fear.
Be proud of your scars. They’re proof you were brave enough to try.
7. Public Speaking Is an Art Form
Public speaking is one of the most valuable and underrated skills a man can master.
It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection. The best speakers tell stories, inspire confidence, and make people feel seen. They research deeply, speak honestly, and practice relentlessly.
If you can speak well, you can lead, sell, teach, and inspire. Start small, practice at work, in class, or even in front of a mirror, and watch your confidence skyrocket.
8. Teaching Is Leadership in Disguise
Great teachers are not just knowledgeable. They’re brave, compassionate, and disciplined.
Teaching forces you to articulate what you know, and in doing so, you master it at a deeper level. Whether you’re mentoring a peer, leading a team, or sharing insights online, teaching refines your purpose.
Lifelong learners become lifelong leaders.
9. Study Human Nature to Achieve Your Dreams
One of the toughest lessons to accept: most people are self-interested.
That’s not cynicism, it’s human nature. Understanding this helps you navigate relationships, business, and communication more effectively.
Everyone has a darker side, but successful people learn to channel theirs productively into discipline, creativity, and drive.
Psychology isn’t just theory; it’s a toolkit. Learn how people think, act, and decide, and you’ll know how to lead them, influence them, and even understand yourself better.
Final Thoughts
The digital age offers endless opportunities, but only to those who are willing to take responsibility, confront discomfort, and keep improving.
Becoming a man today means embracing the hard truths most avoid.
Because at the end of the day, success isn’t about luck. It’s about who you become when life tests you the most.
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