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Failing is More Important Than Succeeding

Failure is an integral part of life as life is incomplete without failures.

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People often consider failure a stigma.  Society often doesn’t respect the people who failed and avoids and criticizes their actions. Failure is an integral part of life as life is incomplete without failures. Not to have endeavored is worse than failing in life as at some stage of your life you regret not having tried in your life. 

Therefore, you need to try, test, fail and bounce back to succeed finally. This article is dedicated to the people who failed in their initial attempts and ultimately achieved big in their lives. 

Their failures inspire you to unlock your hidden potential and test your abilities thus making you great in society.  We will first discuss the reasons for failures and then move on to the leaders who bounced back like Phoenix.

Why Do People Fail?

It is rightly said that success has many fathers while failure has none. There are many reasons for success.  Similarly, there are many reasons for failures and it is difficult to pinpoint them as the list is very lengthy.  However, Siimon Reynolds the author of the book, Why People Fail identifies 16 reasons for failure.  

They are unclear purpose, destructive thinking, low productivity, fixed mindset, weak energy, not asking the right questions, poor presentation skills, mistaking IQ (Intelligence Quotient) for EQ (Emotional Quotient), poor self-image, not enough thinking, no daily rituals, stress, few relationships, lack of persistence, money obsession, and finally, not focusing on strengths.  

Hence, ensure that you don’t make such mistakes to achieve success.  Knowing the reasons for failure helps people ensure their success.  

Og Mandino noted, “Whenever you make a mistake or get knocked down by life, don’t look back at it too long. Mistakes are life’s way of teaching you. Your capacity for occasional blunders is inseparable from your capacity to reach your goals. 

No one wins them all, and your failures, when they happen, are just part of your growth. Shake off your blunders. How will you know your limits without occasional failure? Never quit. Your turn will come.”  

People should learn lessons from the failures of others to avoid repeating such mistakes as it is rightly said that the foolish person learns from his/her own experiences while the intelligent person learns from the experiences of others.  

To go further, Roy H. Williams remarked, “A smart man makes a mistake, learns from it, and never makes that mistake again. But a wise man finds a smart man and learns from him how to avoid the mistake altogether.”  In this context, it is vital to know that several leaders failed initially and bounced back from failures finally.  We will discuss the same.

“When I was young, I observed that nine out of 10 things I did were failures, so I did 10 times more work.” ―George Bernard Shaw

Leaders with Initial Failures 

There are entrepreneurs, athletes, actors, scientists, and leaders who are well-known globally in their spheres and who had their share of failures initially. Their rise to the top was not easy and it was beset with initial burns, failures, and struggles.  

For instance, Henry Ford had tough beginnings and failed miserably in his life subsequently rose to greater heights and founded the Ford Motor Company. Akio Morita of Sony Company’s first product, the rice cooker did not work well.  He built a great company subsequently. 

Soichiro Honda had several challenges initially and subsequently built a global company.  Harland David Sanders who is popularly known as Colonel Sanders of Kentucky Fried Chicken fame had several failures initially. 

His famous secret chicken recipe was rejected 1,009 times before a restaurant accepted it. He excelled as an entrepreneur in his old age.  Charles Darwin was dubbed by his father as lazy and too dreamy initially. Later he proved to be great in his scientific studies. 

He said, “I was considered by all my masters and my father, a very ordinary boy, rather below the common standard of intellect.”  Similarly, Einstein was sent out of school by dubbing him as mentally retarded and, finally, won Nobel Prize. 

Isaac Newton had his initial failures and was rejected by many including his uncle. He blossomed into a scholar subsequently.  Edison is an amazing example with a ‘never say die’ attitude who made 1,000 unsuccessful attempts while inventing the light bulb.  

When asked about his failures, he said that he did not fail but had learned various methods that did not work well to invent the light bulb.  Orville and Wilbur Wright, popularly known as the Wright brothers had several failures and, finally, created a plane that could get airborne and stay there. 

The wartime hero, Winston Churchill was the greatest leader of the UK in the twentieth century.  He was twice elected as Prime Minister.  To your surprise, he failed the sixth grade.  Former President of America, Harry S. Truman was bankrupt in business. He didn’t take failure personally and, finally, became the president of America. 

Noted athlete Michael Jordan bounced back from several failures and, finally, became the best basketball player of all time. He said, “I have missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game-winning shot, and I missed. I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.” 

Everything is Possible

Everything is possible in this world. It depends on how you perceive the things around you. People with several limitations made it big. Barack Obama had a troubled childhood but finally made it to the President of America. 

Alexander was below average in height with a twisted head but became the Great with his conquests. Julius Caesar had epilepsy but became a great warrior. The founder of Honda was often sick but founded a great company in the world. 

Helen Keller was blind and deaf but became a great inspiration to humankind. Therefore, take these leaders as inspiration, break your mental limitations, dream big and reach your tipping point.

Create your vision. Break your mental limitations. Awaken the leader in you. Acquire great habits for success. Learn the success tools and techniques. Execute SWOT analysis. Think positive. Overcome your identity crisis. Build a positive attitude. Motivate yourself. Integrate curricular and extracurricular activities. 

Manage your time effectively. Avoid information overload. Blend soft and hard skills. Make friends. Network with others. Collaborate with others. Develop problem-solving skills. Make wise decisions. Respect parents, teachers, and elders. Inculcate ethical values. Ensure career compatibility. Acquire employability skills. Grab your dream job.  Build your online image.  Achieve your professional success. Reinvent yourself. Equip with education and character as they are two sides of the same coin to ensure all-around success.   

Above all, learn and grow continuously with the changing times and technologies. Remember as long as you love and learn you are young. Therefore, stay young forever! The sky’s the limit for you!

Professor M.S. Rao, Ph.D., is recognized as a prominent philosopher of the 21st century and a pioneer of the 'Soft Leadership' conceptual framework. He is an internationally acclaimed authority on leadership with a career that spans forty-five years across various sectors, including military service. He has authored fifty-five books, including the best-selling title, "See the Light in You." He serves as a columnist and author-at-large for Entrepreneur magazine. An avid lover of words and quotes, he has published over 300 papers and articles in prestigious international journals, such as Leader to Leader, Thunderbird International Business Review, Strategic HR Review, Development and Learning in Organisations, Industrial and Commercial Training, On the Horizon, and Entrepreneur.

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The Art Of Staying Organized In A Digital World

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In an age where we’re constantly juggling multiple devices, notifications, and digital responsibilities, staying organized has become less of a luxury and more of a necessity. Whether you’re an entrepreneur managing a growing business, a freelancer coordinating multiple projects, or a professional balancing work and personal life, the ability to keep your digital ecosystem in order directly impacts your productivity and peace of mind. The challenge isn’t just about managing your time anymore; it’s about managing the physical tools that keep you connected and the systems that keep you sane.

One of the most overlooked aspects of digital organization is the care and maintenance of the devices themselves. Your smartphone, earbuds, and accessories aren’t just functional tools; they’re extensions of your professional and personal identity. When these devices are in good condition and properly organized, they work better, last longer, and contribute to a sense of control over your day. Even something as simple as protecting your AirPods case or keeping your phone in good shape can prevent unnecessary stress and distraction when you’re in the middle of important work.

The Hidden Cost Of Disorganization

Disorganization doesn’t just slow you down; it costs you money, time, and mental energy. When your devices aren’t properly maintained or protected, you’re more likely to experience technical failures at critical moments. A cracked phone screen, a malfunctioning earbud, or a damaged charging case can derail your entire day. For entrepreneurs and business professionals, these interruptions can mean missed opportunities, delayed communications, and lost productivity.

The ripple effect of device failure extends beyond the immediate inconvenience. If your phone breaks and you’re waiting for repairs, you’re cut off from your network, your clients, and your business operations. If your earbuds stop working during an important call or virtual meeting, you lose credibility and professionalism. These aren’t just personal frustrations; they’re business liabilities. The investment in proper device care and organization is actually an investment in your professional reliability.

Building A System That Works For You

Effective organization starts with understanding your own workflow and creating systems that align with how you actually work, not how you think you should work. Many entrepreneurs and professionals try to adopt complex organizational systems that sound good in theory but don’t fit their real lives. The key is to start simple and build from there.

Begin by identifying the devices and tools you use most frequently. For most professionals today, this includes a smartphone, earbuds or headphones, a laptop, and possibly a tablet. Each of these devices plays a specific role in your daily operations. Your phone is your constant companion; your earbuds keep you connected during commutes and calls; your laptop is your primary work station. Understanding these roles helps you organize them accordingly.

Next, create designated spaces for each device. This might mean a specific drawer, a shelf, or a bag designed to hold your tech. The goal is to always know where your devices are and to ensure they’re stored in conditions that protect them from damage. Extreme temperatures, moisture, and physical stress are the enemies of device longevity. By creating a consistent storage system, you reduce the risk of damage and the mental load of wondering where your devices are.

The Psychology Of Physical Organization

There’s a well-documented connection between physical organization and mental clarity. When your workspace and your devices are organized, your mind has less to worry about. You’re not spending cognitive energy searching for your phone or wondering if your earbuds are charged. This mental bandwidth can be redirected toward your actual work and goals.

This principle extends to how you organize the digital content on your devices. Just as you wouldn’t leave important business documents scattered across your desk, you shouldn’t leave your digital files disorganized. Create folders, use consistent naming conventions, and regularly delete files you no longer need. This digital organization mirrors your physical organization and creates a cohesive system that supports your productivity.

The psychological benefit of organization also includes a sense of control. When you know exactly where everything is and everything is in good condition, you feel more in control of your professional life. This sense of control reduces stress and anxiety, which are major productivity killers. For entrepreneurs especially, where stress and uncertainty are constant companions, maintaining organized systems is a form of self-care.

Integrating Organization Into Your Daily Routine

The best organizational systems are those that become automatic habits rather than conscious efforts. This means building organization into your daily routine in small, manageable ways. At the end of each workday, spend five minutes putting your devices in their designated places. Charge them overnight. Check them for any damage or wear. These small habits prevent the buildup of disorganization and device problems.

Consider creating a weekly maintenance routine as well. Once a week, take time to review your digital files, delete unnecessary items, and ensure all your devices are functioning properly. This doesn’t need to take more than fifteen minutes, but it prevents small problems from becoming big ones. It’s the difference between maintaining your devices regularly and having to replace them unexpectedly.

Organization As A Competitive Advantage

In the business world, efficiency and reliability are competitive advantages. Professionals who are organized and whose devices are always functioning properly are perceived as more competent and trustworthy. They’re the ones who can respond quickly to opportunities, who don’t miss important communications, and who maintain their professional image consistently.

This is particularly important for entrepreneurs and small business owners who are often judged on their responsiveness and reliability. When you’re organized, you can deliver on your promises. When your devices are well-maintained, you’re never caught off guard by technical failures. These elements combine to create a professional presence that attracts clients, partners, and opportunities.

Conclusion

Staying organized in a digital world is not about perfection or complexity; it’s about creating simple systems that support your work and reduce unnecessary stress. By taking care of your devices, organizing your physical and digital spaces, and building these practices into your daily routine, you create the foundation for greater productivity and professional success. Organization is not a destination but an ongoing practice that evolves with your needs and goals. Start small, be consistent, and watch how this simple investment in order pays dividends in your professional and personal life.

 

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Why Your Biggest Wins Can Leave You Feeling Surprisingly Empty (And the Identity Shift That Actually Sustains Them)

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You finally hit it.

The launch that sold out in hours. The exit that changed your family’s life. The revenue milestone you quietly set for yourself three years ago and told almost no one about. The moment you’ve been grinding toward through the late nights, the near-misses, the “I’ll figure it out” seasons, and the quiet doubts you never let anyone see.

For a brief window… sometimes just a few days, sometimes only a few hours… the high actually lands. There’s relief. Pride. Maybe even a few tears in private. You think, This is it. This changes everything.

And then something strange and unsettling begins to happen.

The excitement doesn’t stay. It leaks out faster than you expected. In its place comes a quiet emptiness that feels almost rude after everything you sacrificed to get here. Or a low-grade anxiety that whispers, “Now what?” Or worse — a strange, almost compulsive urge to self-sabotage. You start questioning whether you’re “allowed” to enjoy this. You find yourself already scanning the horizon for the next, bigger goal, not because you’re hungry, but because the stillness feels strangely threatening. You pick fights in your marriage, make impulsive business moves, or quietly manufacture new problems because chaos, ironically, feels more familiar and therefore safer than peace.

This isn’t ingratitude. It’s not classic burnout either. It’s a common but rarely named experience among high-achieving entrepreneurs: your identity and nervous system were built for the chase. The struggle gave you meaning, adrenaline, and a clear, compelling story: “I’m the one who overcomes the odds.” That story became part of your self-concept. It gave you drive on the hard days and a sense of purpose when things felt impossible.

When the odds are finally overcome, that old story no longer fits. And if you haven’t consciously written a new one, the void rushes in to fill the space. Many driven founders quietly self-destruct in this window. They neglect their health or closest relationships, make reckless decisions, or immediately chase the next mountain before they’ve even processed what they just accomplished. It’s not because they don’t want success. It’s because their current identity and internal wiring were never calibrated to hold success without the familiar fuel of struggle.

The deeper shift is this: Real, sustainable success isn’t just about achieving bigger outcomes. It’s about evolving your identity so it can actually carry the weight of what you’ve built without collapsing or self-sabotaging. You stop tying your worth exclusively to the next win and start anchoring it in who you’ve become… and who you’re becoming in the process. The win itself becomes secondary to the person you had to grow into in order to create it.

Here’s how to do it practically:

  • After any major win, deliberately schedule an integration period (minimum 2–4 weeks) with no new big goals. Use this time for health, relationships, reflection, and nervous system recovery instead of immediately jumping to the next mountain.
  • Update your internal story on purpose. Journal the old identity (“I’m the grinder who had to fight for everything”) and consciously write the new one (“I am the kind of person who can create, receive, and sustain meaningful success while staying grounded”).
  • Build your capacity to receive and feel safe in success. This looks like daily practices that train your body to tolerate stillness, pleasure, and peace (time in nature, quality presence with family without an agenda, breathwork, or whatever actually lands for you).
  • Redefine your “why” beyond achievement. What kind of presence, legacy, and way of being matters most to you now that the old survival story is no longer running the show?

The entrepreneurs who compound their wins into a life of increasing peace and power aren’t the ones who simply achieve more. They’re the ones who do the identity and nervous system work that most people skip. Success without this internal evolution often becomes its own prison.

If you want to learn more from me or send me a personal message I’ll respond to you on Instagram at https://instagram.com/iamjoelbrown speak soon!

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How to Stay Motivated When Nothing Feels Exciting Anymore (The Strategy Nobody Talks About)

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Let’s be honest. There are seasons where even your biggest dreams feel flat. You know you should be excited. You know you have goals. But the fire is gone and everything feels like a chore.

I’ve been there more times than I care to admit. And what I’ve learned is that the usual advice… “just find your why again” or “watch another motivational video”… actually makes it worse.

Because when motivation dies, it’s rarely because you forgot your goals. It’s because you’ve been running on emotion instead of systems. And emotions are temporary by design.

The real strategy is to stop chasing motivation and start engineering momentum.

Momentum is motivation’s quieter, more reliable cousin. It doesn’t require you to feel inspired. It only requires you to take the smallest possible action that moves you forward—and then protect that streak like your life depends on it.

Here’s the exact process I use when I feel stuck:

  1. Shrink the game ridiculously small. When I’m in a flat season, I don’t try to crush my biggest goal. I ask: “What’s the tiniest action that still counts as progress?” One paragraph. One sales call. One workout. One healthy meal. The goal is to win the day so completely that quitting feels harder than continuing.
  2. Track the streak, not the results. Results take time. Streaks give you dopamine today. I keep a simple calendar and mark an X every day I show up. The chain becomes more important than the outcome. James Clear talks about this in Atomic Habits, and it works because the human brain hates breaking a chain once it’s formed.
  3. Change your environment before you try to change your mind. Motivation follows action, but action follows environment. I’ve rearranged my office, deleted distracting apps, or even gone to a new coffee shop just to break the pattern of procrastination. Sometimes your brain needs new inputs to create new outputs.
  4. Remember that flat seasons are data, not failure. Every high performer I know has gone through periods where nothing felt exciting. Those seasons aren’t signs you’re off path—they’re signs you’re leveling up. The old goals no longer light you up because you’ve outgrown them. This is the moment to either go deeper on what you have or quietly upgrade to something bigger.

The beautiful part is that once you build momentum through tiny, consistent actions, the excitement eventually returns… stronger than before. Because now it’s based on evidence instead of hope.

You don’t need to feel motivated to start. You only need to decide that showing up is non-negotiable.

The fire comes back for people who refuse to let the flat season define them.

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The Brutal Truth About Why Most People Never Reach Their Full Potential (And the One Shift That Changes Everything)

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You’ve felt it, haven’t you? That quiet frustration when another year slips by and your big goals still feel just out of reach. You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’re simply stuck in the same invisible pattern that keeps 99% of people playing small while a tiny fraction seem to explode forward.

I’ve watched it happen for years… smart, driven people who read the books, watch the videos, even set the goals… and then quietly settle. The reason isn’t what most gurus tell you. It’s not lack of knowledge. It’s not even lack of discipline.

It’s identity.

Most people are still trying to achieve success while secretly identifying as the version of themselves that hasn’t succeeded yet. They wake up every morning as the “almost there” person. And the brain protects that identity at all costs.

The shift that changes everything is simple but brutal: You don’t become successful and then change how you see yourself. You decide who you’re going to be first—right now, before the evidence shows up—and then you act like that person until the results catch up.

Think about it. The entrepreneur who builds a seven-figure business doesn’t wait until the money hits the bank to start thinking like a CEO. She starts making decisions like one today. The writer who finally publishes the book doesn’t wait for permission or perfect conditions. He sits down and writes like someone who’s already a bestselling author.

This isn’t fake-it-till-you-make-it fluff. This is identity-based behavior change—the kind backed by real psychology and lived by every person who’s ever broken through.

Here’s how you actually do it:

Start by asking yourself one dangerous question every morning: “What would the future version of me—the one who already has what I want… do today?”

Then do that. Even if it feels uncomfortable. Especially if it feels uncomfortable.

Stop negotiating with your old self. The one who hits snooze. The one who scrolls instead of creates. The one who says “I’ll start Monday.”
That version of you is comfortable. And comfort is the silent killer of potential.

I’ve seen people transform their lives in weeks once they stopped trying to “get motivated” and started acting from a new identity. The results compound faster than you expect because every action reinforces who you now are.

The game isn’t about doing more. It’s about becoming someone who naturally does what success requires.

So right now, decide.

Who are you becoming? And what’s one thing that version of you would do differently today?

Because the moment you decide—and act like it’s already true—the world starts bending in your favor.

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