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Why Entrepreneurship May Not Be For You

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Why Entrepreneurship May Not Be For You

Entrepreneurship as a vague philosophical concept is really trendy right now. You’re going to see a lot of posts on social media talking about how it’s the only thing to truly set you free.

That if you can’t do it, you’re not hustling. How working for yourself is the greatest thing since sliced bread. Blah blah blah… freedom, passion, money.

You need to realize a few things: Being an entrepreneur isn’t for everyone. And that’s ok. Just like any other job in the world, it may not be a good fit for you. That doesn’t make you dumb. That doesn’t mean you won’t be successful in whatever other endeavor you choose. In fact, the majority of my historical mentors weren’t entrepreneurs. Einstein. MLK. Yo-Yo Ma. Superman. All employees.

It’s not your fault if the entrepreneur bug hasn’t bitten you. That’s the wrong sort of language anyway. That’s just you. Go do something that you really like, whether or not you have a boss and crush it! Sometimes I really envy the simple pleasure of just going to work and clocking in, doing a predefined task and leaving later that day without having to think about “the numbers” etc. Must be nice!

Here’s a reality check 

You want to be your own boss? That’s cool. How about the 24/7 struggle of making sure you’re always growing and constantly trying to keep the metaphorical house from burning down…knowing that one wrong move could kill you in the beginning? Feel like doing that?

How about hiring people and having their livelihoods depend on the decisions you make every day? How about hiring friends, but then having to fire them because they aren’t a good fit? No one talks about that stuff on Instagram. It’s all mimosas and high fives! But that’s not reality, my friends.

SURPRISE: Entrepreneurship can be really annoying at times! I’m only doing this because there is literally nothing else that will make me happy. If there was something else, I would pick that! Seems much easier.

Case in point: In my early twenties I tried to become a professional actor. Within a year I knew it wasn’t for me. I liked it, don’t get me wrong, but there were other actors who wanted it WAY more than I did. I knew I didn’t have the mindset to make it through the hard times because I just didn’t love acting enough. I wouldn’t do all that it would take.

Entrepreneurship isn’t better than having a regular job. It’s just different. Maybe you want something different. In that case, it could be a great fit. But different isn’t specific enough.

“Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great” – Mark Twain

Entrepreneurship may not be for you 

Being an entrepreneur doesn’t make you morally or intellectually superior to people who have regular 9-5 jobs. It may actually make you dumber, to be honest. This lifestyle doesn’t make a hell of a lot of sense. If deep down you don’t have to own a business, no matter what it takes, then don’t bother. To be successful, you’re going to have to be obsessed. At least in the beginning. You have to put your entire soul into this. But that’s good news.

The reality is, successful entrepreneurs aren’t gifted or lucky. They’re just obsessed with a single goal. Reaching that goal feels inevitable, not surprising. There’s no alternative. No plan B.

There’s nothing special going on here that you don’t understand. There’s no magical skill needed that you can acquire. Reading helps but that’s not saying much: of course you’ll have to educate yourself along the way.

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” – Steve Jobs

The secret power is a single-minded sense of purpose. A need to create, to produce a solution to whatever problem your business is trying to solve. The approach is narrow. You must say no to a lot of other interesting opportunities. That’s what’s needed to build your opportunity.

Is entrepreneurship for you? Please leave your thoughts in the comment section below!

Daniel DiPiazza is the Founder of Rich20Something, where he writes about starting a business you care about, living a happier life, and occasionally, bacon. If you liked this article, be sure to join the Tribe by signing up for his free newsletter.

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Then this article is a great place to start. Networking isn’t hard on paper…you go along to online and in-person meetings, make new connections and build relationships, and those relationships lead to more work so you can grow your business! The challenge is that in reality, it isn’t quite so straightforward, as our emotions get involved and make things much tougher.

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Here’s a few tips to help you embrace every business networking opportunity you get, so you can grow your business and achieve your goals.

Rock up with confidence

If you want to keep those nerves at bay and ooze confidence at networking get-togethers, you’ll need to downplay it rather than seeing it as a big occasion. Try not to put pressure on yourself and see it as a casual meet-up with a bunch of people with similar goals to you. To help you relax in the run-up to the event, be sure to set achievable goals and expectations before you go.

Keep your chin up and your goals in mind – positivity is key. One easy goal for your first networking meeting is very simply to speak to one other person and see where the conversation goes. Introduce yourself and your business, but take the time to listen to their story, too. It’ll only take a few minutes and will be over before you know it, so it’s nothing to fear. You may even enjoy it and want to speak to a few more people, too!

“You can close more business in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get people interested in you.” – Dale Carnegie

Where to go networking

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For your first meeting, start small to ease yourself in – a big group could prove too daunting, and stop you from feeling comfortable enough to get involved. After all, you want to make a strong first impression!

If you’re wondering which group to opt for in the long-term, give a few a go! Get a feel for them, speak to as many people as you can, and see which one suits! You’ll know when a group feels right for you, and you can see where those all-important relationships are most likely to be built. If a group doesn’t feel like the right for you, give a different one a go.

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Once you’ve made relationships with people who you trust, and they’ve had a positive experience working with you, you can even ask for referrals! But don’t rush this, as you don’t want to inadvertently push people away or try and force the relationship along too quickly.

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