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Why All Successful Entrepreneurs Have MBAs: Mentors, Believers, Advocates

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There’s no such thing as a “self-made” business owner. The mere notion of the self-made man — someone who came from nothing, had a big idea, exploited it entirely on his own, and now has it all — is mostly an American myth.

Sure, successful entrepreneurs and business owners are smart, opportunistic, perceptive, and adept at assimilating information. Yet in advising a number of them for over 40 years, and having been an entrepreneur myself for just as long, I can confidently say that none succeeded on their own. All, instead, had “MBAs” — mentors, believers, and advocates. 

So if you’re about to strike out on your own, know that you’ll need MBAs, too. Here’s why.

Mentors

I owe at least 80 percent of my success to two great mentors — my father and my older brother. My father was a lawyer and a judge. Before his untimely passing, at 60, when I was just a teenager, I had the good fortune to watch him at work. 

On the bench, my father never failed to dispense common-sense justice. Whether he was facing a nude sunbather or a shoplifting youngster, he meted out justice in equal proportion, always balancing the law with everyday reason. Similarly, in his legal practice, he was indefatigable in serving people, whether they were “paying clients” (as he called them) or not. I heard him say countless times that if a client asked him to push a nickel across town with his nose, then that’s what he’d do.

I learned many invaluable lessons from my father’s mentoring and lived example — most notably, the value of justice, fairness, common sense, service, and hard, tireless work. His morals and ideals, in fact, became part of my own DNA.

My brother, Mike, 13 years older and also an attorney, became my mentor after our father’s death. His mentoring style, while rooted in love, was heavy-handed, with a drill sergeant-like precision (and usually the salty language to match). When I was away at college, our phone calls often ended like this: “You want to get into law school? You better get your [expletive] grades up.” 

Mike was the managing partner of a large Cincinnati law firm. His adroit handling of his hard-nosed corporate clients, together with his adept maneuvering of his partners’ mercurial personalities, made his advice and mentorship incredibly valuable. 

I spoke to Mike almost daily, from the time I started my accounting practice in 1984 until his death, at 58, in 2001. And to this day, not a week goes by that I don’t find myself repeating his mantra: “Nothing in business defies logic.” 

So if you don’t already have a mentor in mind, start today to seek one out. Find a person, probably older, who is experienced and successful, and who you trust and respect. Also, look for a truth-teller. You want someone unafraid to give it to you straight.

“Learning is finding out that you already know. Doing is demonstrating that you know it. Teaching is reminding others that they know just as well as you. You are all learners, doers, and teachers.” — Richard Bach

Believers

Being a successful entrepreneur requires taking your prospects and customers on a journey that, with time, steady relationship building, and earned trust, culminates in them becoming believers. But you can’t do that without first believing in yourself — your talent and abilities, your product or service, your value, and more.

This can be hard at the start, however, because you lack a tangible track record to point people to. This means that you’ve got to tell a story that suspends their doubt or unease. And to spin this yarn, here again, you have to actually buy it yourself. Otherwise, why should anyone else?

It may seem counterintuitive, but when I first started my accounting practice, I found it much easier than later on — when I’d built an appreciably more established firm — to tell my story. Albeit really brief and clunky, it worked. In fact, I went on to double my earnings in just my second year. 

So even if you’re not a natural-born salesperson, and few are, you must be able to tell your story and “sell” yourself in order to create believers. The good news is it’s easier than you might think, especially if you don’t overanalyze things, keep it real, and get out of your own way.  

Advocates

Believers may be great, but advocates are even better. What’s more, when you nurture and serve your believers well, they almost always become advocates. Given that their faith in you was rewarded, they enjoy converting others to believe, too. This kind of evangelism often turbocharges a new business, resulting in so-called hockey-stick growth, where revenue shoots up sharply in a curve shaped like a hockey stick.

Now, if all this talk about mentors, believers, and advocates sounds like too much work, that’s okay. Perhaps striking out on your own isn’t for you. As a matter of fact, I’ve come to learn that while some people may be great agents, they aren’t cut out to be principals. Likewise, the opposite is also true: Great principles generally make for poor agents. Consider a longtime client of mine, who I’ll call Tim.

A free-range entrepreneur

For background, Tim had run his own, successful advertising agency for almost 20 years. But due to a combination of challenges in the business and what he thought was a terrific outside opportunity, he was lured into taking an executive-level position at a big-time, publicly held company. 

Tim began work at his new company at a corporate retreat at The Greenbrier, the famed luxury resort located in West Virginia. He even traveled to the event with the company’s CEO, just the two of them, in the CEO’s top-of-the-line Mercedes. 

According to Tim, the five-hour ride to The Greenbrier went swimmingly. The CEO repeatedly extolled Tim’s experience and entrepreneurial chops, remarking over and over again that he was the perfect person to lead the company’s marketing and advertising teams through some critical new initiatives. Suffice it to say, Tim was like a kid on a sugar rush. And — spoiler alert — that’s exactly what it turned out to be. His high was startlingly short-lived, with a “crash” in mere hours. 

After a brief afternoon session, the executive team gathered for dinner, followed by cocktails and cigars on a private patio. It was then that Tim saw a totally different side to the CEO, who was behaving more like a long-reigning monarch (Louis XIV came to mind) than a collegial corporate leader. Worse, the other execs were going along, acting like tools of the boss, without brains or backbone. The longer the evening went on, the more horrified Tim became. It was a gut punch if there ever was one.

Later, Tim told me that he effectively quit at that moment. He did, though, manage to show up and dutifully lead his team, which under the CEO would become a long and excruciating 18 months. 

Tim’s lesson, while painful, was that it was nearly impossible for him to execute someone else’s demands and directives, let alone operate at their whims. As he puts it, he is “a free-range entrepreneur.” Yes, he quit a seemingly ideal job, with a big title, lavish pay and perks, and the cachet of working for a renowned, NYSE-listed company. But the fact was he couldn’t force himself to perform on demand. 

To be clear, it’s neither good nor bad to be an agent or a principal. Yet one thing’s for sure, the membrane between the two is pretty much impermeable. Thus, before you take the leap into entrepreneurship, be sure to consider your personality, temperament, and optimal working style. 

All of this to say, if you’re feeling ready to be an entrepreneur or business owner, remember that you’ll need MBAs. And if you don’t believe me, just ask the “self-made” people who came before you. 

Patrick Burke is an author, CPA, attorney, business consultant, and entrepreneurship expert. The founder and managing partner of Burke & Schindler, he helps entrepreneurs launch, manage, and grow their businesses, having advised more than 200 successful start-ups. His new book is “The 10 Biggest Business Mistakes and How to Avoid Them” (Wellspring, 2021).

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AI as Your Second Brain: How High-Performers Are Building Personal Leverage Systems

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Most entrepreneurs are using AI like a smarter assistant. The highest performers are using it like an entire second brain… and it’s giving them an almost unfair advantage.

The difference is subtle but massive.

Most people use AI for tasks: writing emails, summarizing documents, generating content ideas. High-performers use AI as an extension of their own thinking process. They externalize their memory, planning, research, and even parts of their decision-making. This frees up their actual brain to focus on what it does best: judgment, creativity, relationships, and high-stakes thinking.

This is especially powerful for founders who already operate with high drive but struggle with traditional linear systems (many high-performers and those with ADHD traits fall into this category). AI becomes a way to externalize executive function so their brain can stay in its highest-value state instead of getting bogged down in organization and follow-through.

Here’s how the best entrepreneurs are building their AI second brain:

  • Central knowledge repository — They feed important information, decisions, wins, lessons, and context into AI over time so it develops deep context about them and their business.
  • Strategic thinking partner — They use AI to pressure-test ideas, play devil’s advocate, explore second and third-order consequences, and spot blind spots they would normally miss.
  • Project and decision memory — Instead of trying to remember everything, they maintain living documents and conversations with AI that track progress, open loops, and key decisions.
  • Personalized frameworks — They build custom systems and recurring prompts that match how their brain works (energy cycles, decision style, strengths, and weaknesses).
  • Execution layer — They combine AI with small teams or automation so ideas move from thought to action with minimal friction.

The goal isn’t to become dependent on AI. It’s to become significantly more effective by removing the friction between having a great idea and executing it at a high level.

When used correctly, AI stops being a tool and starts becoming leverage… the kind of leverage that used to require hiring expensive teams or burning yourself out trying to do everything yourself.

If you want to learn more from me or send me a personal message I’ll respond to you on Instagram at https://instagram.com/iamjoelbrown speak soon!

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Why Your Biggest Wins Can Leave You Feeling Surprisingly Empty (And the Identity Shift That Actually Sustains Them)

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You finally hit it.

The launch that sold out in hours. The exit that changed your family’s life. The revenue milestone you quietly set for yourself three years ago and told almost no one about. The moment you’ve been grinding toward through the late nights, the near-misses, the “I’ll figure it out” seasons, and the quiet doubts you never let anyone see.

For a brief window… sometimes just a few days, sometimes only a few hours… the high actually lands. There’s relief. Pride. Maybe even a few tears in private. You think, This is it. This changes everything.

And then something strange and unsettling begins to happen.

The excitement doesn’t stay. It leaks out faster than you expected. In its place comes a quiet emptiness that feels almost rude after everything you sacrificed to get here. Or a low-grade anxiety that whispers, “Now what?” Or worse — a strange, almost compulsive urge to self-sabotage. You start questioning whether you’re “allowed” to enjoy this. You find yourself already scanning the horizon for the next, bigger goal, not because you’re hungry, but because the stillness feels strangely threatening. You pick fights in your marriage, make impulsive business moves, or quietly manufacture new problems because chaos, ironically, feels more familiar and therefore safer than peace.

This isn’t ingratitude. It’s not classic burnout either. It’s a common but rarely named experience among high-achieving entrepreneurs: your identity and nervous system were built for the chase. The struggle gave you meaning, adrenaline, and a clear, compelling story: “I’m the one who overcomes the odds.” That story became part of your self-concept. It gave you drive on the hard days and a sense of purpose when things felt impossible.

When the odds are finally overcome, that old story no longer fits. And if you haven’t consciously written a new one, the void rushes in to fill the space. Many driven founders quietly self-destruct in this window. They neglect their health or closest relationships, make reckless decisions, or immediately chase the next mountain before they’ve even processed what they just accomplished. It’s not because they don’t want success. It’s because their current identity and internal wiring were never calibrated to hold success without the familiar fuel of struggle.

The deeper shift is this: Real, sustainable success isn’t just about achieving bigger outcomes. It’s about evolving your identity so it can actually carry the weight of what you’ve built without collapsing or self-sabotaging. You stop tying your worth exclusively to the next win and start anchoring it in who you’ve become… and who you’re becoming in the process. The win itself becomes secondary to the person you had to grow into in order to create it.

Here’s how to do it practically:

  • After any major win, deliberately schedule an integration period (minimum 2–4 weeks) with no new big goals. Use this time for health, relationships, reflection, and nervous system recovery instead of immediately jumping to the next mountain.
  • Update your internal story on purpose. Journal the old identity (“I’m the grinder who had to fight for everything”) and consciously write the new one (“I am the kind of person who can create, receive, and sustain meaningful success while staying grounded”).
  • Build your capacity to receive and feel safe in success. This looks like daily practices that train your body to tolerate stillness, pleasure, and peace (time in nature, quality presence with family without an agenda, breathwork, or whatever actually lands for you).
  • Redefine your “why” beyond achievement. What kind of presence, legacy, and way of being matters most to you now that the old survival story is no longer running the show?

The entrepreneurs who compound their wins into a life of increasing peace and power aren’t the ones who simply achieve more. They’re the ones who do the identity and nervous system work that most people skip. Success without this internal evolution often becomes its own prison.

If you want to learn more from me or send me a personal message I’ll respond to you on Instagram at https://instagram.com/iamjoelbrown speak soon!

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The Brutal Truth About Entrepreneurship with ADHD (And Why Most Advice Is Making It Worse)

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You’re not lazy. You’re not undisciplined… and you’re definitely not broken.

You’re an entrepreneur with ADHD, and right now you’re probably sitting on 19 unfinished projects, 47 open tabs, and a brain that feels like it’s running on 12 different radio stations at once.

You’ve read the books. You’ve tried the planners, the Pomodoro timers, the accountability groups. You’ve even hired coaches who promised to “fix” your focus. Yet here you are — brilliant ideas, massive potential, and a business that still feels like it’s one step away from collapsing under the weight of your own mind.

Here’s what almost nobody in the entrepreneurial space will admit:

The real struggle isn’t your ADHD. It’s that you’ve been trying to run a neurodivergent brain inside a neurotypical business model — and then beating yourself up when it doesn’t work.

Most advice for entrepreneurs was written by people whose brains work differently. They preach consistency, routines, long-term planning, and steady execution like those things are universal truths. For the ADHD entrepreneur, those “truths” feel like trying to swim upstream in cement. You can force it for a while (and you have), but eventually your brain rebels, the burnout hits, and you’re left feeling like a failure who just needs to “try harder.”

That cycle is quietly destroying more talented founders than cash flow problems or bad hires ever could.

The deeper layer most people never reach is this: your ADHD isn’t a bug in the system. It’s a different operating system entirely. And when you stop trying to install Windows on a Mac and start building everything around macOS, the game changes completely.

The Hidden Addiction That Keeps ADHD Entrepreneurs Stuck

You already know the surface symptoms — time blindness, rejection sensitivity, starting strong and fading fast, shiny object syndrome.

But the real trap is more insidious.

It’s the addiction to chaos and novelty.

Your brain is wired for dopamine. New ideas, big visions, last-minute sprints, high-stakes pressure — these things light you up like nothing else. The boring, repetitive, systems-building work that actually scales a business? It feels like torture.

So unconsciously, you keep your business in a state of controlled chaos. You say yes to too many things. You chase the next exciting opportunity. You avoid building the boring infrastructure because “I work better under pressure anyway.”

And every time the pressure gets too high, you crash, swear you’ll get organized next quarter, and repeat the cycle.

Meanwhile, the neurotypical advice keeps telling you to “just build better habits.” As if your brain is a poorly trained dog that needs more discipline instead of a high-performance race car that needs the right fuel and track.

This isn’t a character flaw. It’s neurology.

And until you stop treating your wiring as something to overcome and start treating it as your greatest strategic advantage, you’ll stay stuck in the same exhausting loop.

The Identity Shift That Changes Everything

The entrepreneurs with ADHD who finally break through don’t “fix” their brains.

They redesign their entire business to work with their brains.

They stop trying to become the consistent, routine-loving founder the gurus talk about. Instead, they become the architect of a system that leverages their natural strengths — hyperfocus, pattern recognition, creative problem-solving, relentless drive under pressure — while outsourcing or automating everything that drains them.

This is the layer most ADHD entrepreneurs never reach because it requires something terrifying: accepting that you are never going to be “normal” at entrepreneurship… and that’s exactly why you can win bigger than most.

Your ability to see connections others miss. Your tolerance for uncertainty. Your capacity to go all-in when something lights you up. These aren’t liabilities. They’re unfair advantages in a world that rewards speed, creativity, and bold moves.

The shift is simple but brutal:

Stop trying to manage your ADHD. Start designing your business around it.

How to Actually Build a Business That Works With Your Brain

  1. Stop fighting your energy cycles — weaponize them. Most ADHD entrepreneurs try to force 8-hour focused days. That’s insane. Instead, track when your brain actually works best (for many it’s 10pm-2am or random 4-hour hyperfocus bursts). Build your schedule around those windows. Protect them like gold. Do the deep, high-leverage work then. Use the low-energy periods for admin, calls, or recovery.
  2. Build “chaos containers,” not rigid systems. Traditional project management tools feel like cages. Create loose but effective structures that give your brain freedom. Use tools like Notion with massive flexibility, or body-doubling (working alongside someone virtually), or even hiring a “chaos wrangler” — an assistant who thrives on turning your scattered ideas into executable plans.
  3. Turn your rejection sensitivity into rocket fuel. That intense fear of letting people down or looking stupid? Channel it into creating ridiculously high standards for your customer experience or product quality. Use it as fuel instead of letting it paralyze you.
  4. Outsource the parts that make you want to die. The execution, follow-through, and maintenance phases are where most ADHD entrepreneurs lose. Hire or partner with people who love the details. Your job is vision, strategy, and big swings. Let someone else own the spreadsheets.
  5. Create external pressure on your own terms. Deadlines and public commitments work wonders for the ADHD brain. Use them strategically — announce launches, create beta groups, or work with coaches who understand neurodivergence instead of fighting it.

The entrepreneurs with ADHD who are quietly crushing it right now aren’t the ones who finally became “disciplined.” They’re the ones who stopped apologizing for how their brain works and started building empires that are specifically engineered for it.

They have teams that handle the boring stuff. They have systems that flex with their energy instead of fighting it. They’ve turned their “flaws” into the exact reasons their businesses stand out.

Your ADHD brain is not the enemy. The enemy was trying to play the game by rules that were never designed for you.

The moment you accept that and start designing everything… your calendar, your team, your offers, your processes — around how you actually operate, the struggle doesn’t disappear… but it becomes manageable, even exhilarating.

You were never meant to fit the mold. You were meant to break it and build something better.

The world doesn’t need another cookie-cutter entrepreneur. It needs the chaotic, brilliant, all-in, slightly unhinged visionaries who can only operate at full power when the game is built for them.

That’s you.

Stop trying to fix yourself. Start building the business that was always meant to be run by a mind like yours.

Your next breakthrough isn’t going to come from working harder or being more consistent. It’s going to come from finally giving yourself permission to work differently.

And when you do that? Watch what happens.

The same brain that once felt like a curse becomes the exact reason your business becomes unstoppable.

You’ve got this. Not despite the ADHD. Because of it.

If you want to learn more from me or send me a personal message I’ll respond to you on Instagram at https://instagram.com/iamjoelbrown speak soon!

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The Silent Killer of Entrepreneurial Dreams (And How to Make Sure It Never Takes Yours Down)

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You started with fire in your belly. The vision was crystal clear. But somewhere along the way the doubts crept in. The “what if I’m wrong” thoughts. The comparison to everyone else’s highlight reel. The quiet voice that says maybe you should just play it safe and get a real job.

That voice is the silent killer. Not cash flow problems. Not bad hires. Not even market shifts. It’s self-doubt that quietly talks most entrepreneurs out of their biggest breakthroughs.

I’ve been in rooms with founders who’ve raised millions and still battle it daily. The difference between those who push through and those who fold isn’t talent or luck. It’s how they handle the internal noise.

The game-changer is learning to treat doubt as a signal, not a stop sign.

Every time that voice gets loud, it usually means you’re on the edge of something important. Growth lives right outside your comfort zone. The entrepreneurs who scale don’t silence the doubt—they thank it for showing up and then take the next step anyway.

Here’s how to make that practical.

Keep a “proof file.”

Every win, every positive customer note, every metric that moved in the right direction. When doubt hits, open it. Evidence beats emotion every single time. Most founders are terrible at remembering their own wins. They move the goalpost so fast that yesterday’s victory feels ordinary by today. A simple document or folder where you collect proof changes the internal conversation. It becomes harder to believe the doubt when you have a running list of times you were wrong about your own limits.

Surround yourself with people who are playing a bigger game.

Isolation breeds doubt. A strong peer group normalizes the struggle and reminds you you’re not crazy. The entrepreneurial path is full of invisible landmines. Having people who’ve stepped on a few of them—and lived to tell the tale… makes the journey feel less lonely and more possible. Find masterminds, find mentors, find founders a few steps ahead of you who are willing to be honest about the hard parts.

Reframe failure as data.

Every setback is just information about what to do differently next time. The fastest learners treat mistakes like tuition, not tragedy. This doesn’t mean you celebrate failure or become reckless. It means you extract the lesson quickly and move forward without carrying the emotional weight longer than necessary. The founders who win long-term are the ones who fail fast, learn faster, and keep their identity separate from any single outcome.

Get brutally clear on your “why.”

Not the surface-level money or freedom story. The deep one that still lights you up even when the work sucks. Reconnect with it daily. When doubt shows up, it’s often because you’ve lost sight of the deeper reason you started. Spend time with that reason. Write it down. Say it out loud. Let it remind you that the discomfort is temporary and the mission is bigger than the fear.

And finally, give yourself permission to be in process.

Most entrepreneurs compare their chapter one to someone else’s chapter ten. They see the polished results and forget the messy middle that every successful founder had to walk through. Your story isn’t over. It’s not even close. The doubt you feel today might be the exact thing that forces you to get clearer, stronger, and more intentional than you’ve ever been.

The path of entrepreneurship was never meant to feel safe. That’s the whole point. It forces you to become the kind of person who can handle bigger problems and bigger wins. Doubt will show up. It always does. But it doesn’t get to drive.

You do.

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