Entrepreneurs
6 Ways to Knock Down a Door, From A Former Mr. World Canada
A friend of mine introduced me to Frankie Cena a week ago. I spoke with him on Skype and listened to his story. How one person can achieve so much at a young age, against so much adversity blows my mind and he has a lot to teach you in this article.
As a child, Frankie Cena was happy but also underprivileged and unsatisfied. The cooperative housing unit where he lived kept him close to his family and fed his love of the spotlight—sharing a room with his sister, and performing for all the neighbours who’d stick around to hear.
But it also left him wanting more: more for himself, more for his family; more excitement and more opportunity; more chances for him and the people around him to become whatever they wanted to be.
At 26, Frankie’s desire shows few signs of ebbing. He’s the founder of a speech and debate academy, where he works together with his mother and sister. He has over 200 students whom he mentors inside and outside the debate room.
And in a debate circuit traditionally dominated by private schools, Frankie’s student-body cuts across social class, helping diversify Canada’s roster of international award-winning debaters.
He’s tried to redirect his newfound revenue back into the community that made him. Recently, he gave a 2018 dollar New Years prize to a local woman with down syndrome; and another 24,000 dollars in scholarships to several Burnaby students.
But Frankie is also a proud showman. In 2012 he was crowned Mr. World Canada and represented his country at the Mr. World Pageant in 2012—at 5’ 6”, the shortest contestant in the history of any major male beauty pageant.
He went on to win the competition’s talent portion, singing for millions; to co-host Mr. World 2014; and, in 2014, to join the hosting team for the even larger Miss World Competition. In 2017, Frankie was hired to help create and host the all new, Miss World- “Head to Head Challenge” a platform which gave viewers an in depth look at the 120 Miss World Contestants.
Now I can’t say I know anything about these types of competitions but that’s impressive. Between debate, performance, and his obsession with reality television, Frankie’s interests may seem far-flung.
But to him, chasing so many disparate things is just a part of discovering who he is, and doing justice to the people who fought so he could be there.
The advice that Frankie gives that helps so many people around the world is this:
“Whenever one door closes,” he likes to tell his students, “knock it down.”
Here’s what I learned from Frankie:
1. Find Your Passion—Then Chase it Down.
- If you are not in love with what you’re doing, stop doing it. Almost no one has been successful doing something they do not love.
- Love gives us creativity and energy, and the power to be ferociously positive after failure. Frankie has met a billion smart, charismatic people around the world who are doing nothing, because they do not know what they love to do.
- To find their passions, Frankie tells people to do the Eat, Sleep, Poop Test. If when you’re doing something, you don’t think about eating, sleeping, pooping, or anything other than that thing—then that is what you’re meant to do.
2. Cherish Every Person and Every Moment
- When the moment that makes your dreams come true hits you, you’ll never see it coming. So keep your eyes and ears open, always. Cherish, value and engage with every moment and person because you don’t know what they’ll offer you.
- When someone asked Frankie if he wanted to be Mr. World Canada, he had no idea that he’d eventually become the host of that international competition, or a face of Miss World—that’d he’d soon be a presenter for an audience of millions. His only thought was—“Let’s see where this takes me.”
3. Be “That Guy.”
- Give everything, not just what you were hired for. Show that you’re there for the vision, not just for yourself—and that you’re vital to making it all real.
- At Miss World Frankie went above and beyond to do more work, talk to more people, and make an impact on more areas and levels than was expected of him. Those around him knew that he would go above and beyond to meet the needs of the organisation and their collective ideal.
4. Don’t Be a Donald
- The days of arrogant, selfish men, puffing out their chests and exploiting the people around them, are numbered. We’ve learned to see overconfidence for what it is: theatre, dishonesty, a cover-up for incompetence and abuse. Kindness and honesty inspire trust and suggest authenticity. They’ll propel you much farther.
- Surrounded by chiselled, statuesque men, Frankie knew that he probably couldn’t compete, at Mr. World, based on the typical standards of a male beauty pageant. So he did what he knew he could do well: he projected happiness and kindness. He got to know the other contestants, the chaperones, the cameramen, the producers.
“They wanted him back not necessarily because he was the most talented or the best host, but because he had an aura that people had faith in”
5. Learn to Fail Well
- Any failure, in the big-picture of your life, is nothing but a split-second detour. But in our world of instant gratification—of Facebook, of Twitter, of having everything at our fingertips—they tend to take an outsize importance. We get sad and moody and refuse to move on from failure. But you will have a million failures in your life. And if you fall apart whenever one happens, you won’t have much time left to try again.
- Frankie has had to swallow rejection on a daily basis. He has heard “you’re not good enough,” “sorry, not this time,” “close but no cigar”—at debate and public speaking competitions, during X Factor auditions—more than he can count. But if he or his students let those failures slow him down, they wouldn’t have had the time or the energy for any of their victories.
6. Dream Big
- If you limit your aspirations you will limit what you can visualise, and hence what you can produce. And it’s not enough just to dream every once in a while.Dream consistently and constantly—and set your standards so high that you make a habit of being absolutely excellent.
- When Frankie would talk about coaching, he’d claim that his students would one day be the best debaters around. When he’d talk about becoming a singer, he’d tell people he’d be bigger than Bieber. And when he’d talk about hosting television, he’d say he’d outdo Ryan Seacrest. Because he knew that if he didn’t see himself in those positions, no one else ever would.
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If you’d like to connect with Frankie then visit http://frankiecena.com/
AI
AI as Your Second Brain: How High-Performers Are Building Personal Leverage Systems
Most entrepreneurs are using AI like a smarter assistant. The highest performers are using it like an entire second brain… and it’s giving them an almost unfair advantage.
The difference is subtle but massive.
Most people use AI for tasks: writing emails, summarizing documents, generating content ideas. High-performers use AI as an extension of their own thinking process. They externalize their memory, planning, research, and even parts of their decision-making. This frees up their actual brain to focus on what it does best: judgment, creativity, relationships, and high-stakes thinking.
This is especially powerful for founders who already operate with high drive but struggle with traditional linear systems (many high-performers and those with ADHD traits fall into this category). AI becomes a way to externalize executive function so their brain can stay in its highest-value state instead of getting bogged down in organization and follow-through.
Here’s how the best entrepreneurs are building their AI second brain:
- Central knowledge repository — They feed important information, decisions, wins, lessons, and context into AI over time so it develops deep context about them and their business.
- Strategic thinking partner — They use AI to pressure-test ideas, play devil’s advocate, explore second and third-order consequences, and spot blind spots they would normally miss.
- Project and decision memory — Instead of trying to remember everything, they maintain living documents and conversations with AI that track progress, open loops, and key decisions.
- Personalized frameworks — They build custom systems and recurring prompts that match how their brain works (energy cycles, decision style, strengths, and weaknesses).
- Execution layer — They combine AI with small teams or automation so ideas move from thought to action with minimal friction.
The goal isn’t to become dependent on AI. It’s to become significantly more effective by removing the friction between having a great idea and executing it at a high level.
When used correctly, AI stops being a tool and starts becoming leverage… the kind of leverage that used to require hiring expensive teams or burning yourself out trying to do everything yourself.
If you want to learn more from me or send me a personal message I’ll respond to you on Instagram at https://instagram.com/iamjoelbrown speak soon!
Change Your Mindset
Why Your Biggest Wins Can Leave You Feeling Surprisingly Empty (And the Identity Shift That Actually Sustains Them)
You finally hit it.
The launch that sold out in hours. The exit that changed your family’s life. The revenue milestone you quietly set for yourself three years ago and told almost no one about. The moment you’ve been grinding toward through the late nights, the near-misses, the “I’ll figure it out” seasons, and the quiet doubts you never let anyone see.
For a brief window… sometimes just a few days, sometimes only a few hours… the high actually lands. There’s relief. Pride. Maybe even a few tears in private. You think, This is it. This changes everything.
And then something strange and unsettling begins to happen.
The excitement doesn’t stay. It leaks out faster than you expected. In its place comes a quiet emptiness that feels almost rude after everything you sacrificed to get here. Or a low-grade anxiety that whispers, “Now what?” Or worse — a strange, almost compulsive urge to self-sabotage. You start questioning whether you’re “allowed” to enjoy this. You find yourself already scanning the horizon for the next, bigger goal, not because you’re hungry, but because the stillness feels strangely threatening. You pick fights in your marriage, make impulsive business moves, or quietly manufacture new problems because chaos, ironically, feels more familiar and therefore safer than peace.
This isn’t ingratitude. It’s not classic burnout either. It’s a common but rarely named experience among high-achieving entrepreneurs: your identity and nervous system were built for the chase. The struggle gave you meaning, adrenaline, and a clear, compelling story: “I’m the one who overcomes the odds.” That story became part of your self-concept. It gave you drive on the hard days and a sense of purpose when things felt impossible.
When the odds are finally overcome, that old story no longer fits. And if you haven’t consciously written a new one, the void rushes in to fill the space. Many driven founders quietly self-destruct in this window. They neglect their health or closest relationships, make reckless decisions, or immediately chase the next mountain before they’ve even processed what they just accomplished. It’s not because they don’t want success. It’s because their current identity and internal wiring were never calibrated to hold success without the familiar fuel of struggle.
The deeper shift is this: Real, sustainable success isn’t just about achieving bigger outcomes. It’s about evolving your identity so it can actually carry the weight of what you’ve built without collapsing or self-sabotaging. You stop tying your worth exclusively to the next win and start anchoring it in who you’ve become… and who you’re becoming in the process. The win itself becomes secondary to the person you had to grow into in order to create it.
Here’s how to do it practically:
- After any major win, deliberately schedule an integration period (minimum 2–4 weeks) with no new big goals. Use this time for health, relationships, reflection, and nervous system recovery instead of immediately jumping to the next mountain.
- Update your internal story on purpose. Journal the old identity (“I’m the grinder who had to fight for everything”) and consciously write the new one (“I am the kind of person who can create, receive, and sustain meaningful success while staying grounded”).
- Build your capacity to receive and feel safe in success. This looks like daily practices that train your body to tolerate stillness, pleasure, and peace (time in nature, quality presence with family without an agenda, breathwork, or whatever actually lands for you).
- Redefine your “why” beyond achievement. What kind of presence, legacy, and way of being matters most to you now that the old survival story is no longer running the show?
The entrepreneurs who compound their wins into a life of increasing peace and power aren’t the ones who simply achieve more. They’re the ones who do the identity and nervous system work that most people skip. Success without this internal evolution often becomes its own prison.
If you want to learn more from me or send me a personal message I’ll respond to you on Instagram at https://instagram.com/iamjoelbrown speak soon!
Entrepreneurs
The Brutal Truth About Entrepreneurship with ADHD (And Why Most Advice Is Making It Worse)
You’re not lazy. You’re not undisciplined… and you’re definitely not broken.
You’re an entrepreneur with ADHD, and right now you’re probably sitting on 19 unfinished projects, 47 open tabs, and a brain that feels like it’s running on 12 different radio stations at once.
You’ve read the books. You’ve tried the planners, the Pomodoro timers, the accountability groups. You’ve even hired coaches who promised to “fix” your focus. Yet here you are — brilliant ideas, massive potential, and a business that still feels like it’s one step away from collapsing under the weight of your own mind.
Here’s what almost nobody in the entrepreneurial space will admit:
The real struggle isn’t your ADHD. It’s that you’ve been trying to run a neurodivergent brain inside a neurotypical business model — and then beating yourself up when it doesn’t work.
Most advice for entrepreneurs was written by people whose brains work differently. They preach consistency, routines, long-term planning, and steady execution like those things are universal truths. For the ADHD entrepreneur, those “truths” feel like trying to swim upstream in cement. You can force it for a while (and you have), but eventually your brain rebels, the burnout hits, and you’re left feeling like a failure who just needs to “try harder.”
That cycle is quietly destroying more talented founders than cash flow problems or bad hires ever could.
The deeper layer most people never reach is this: your ADHD isn’t a bug in the system. It’s a different operating system entirely. And when you stop trying to install Windows on a Mac and start building everything around macOS, the game changes completely.
The Hidden Addiction That Keeps ADHD Entrepreneurs Stuck
You already know the surface symptoms — time blindness, rejection sensitivity, starting strong and fading fast, shiny object syndrome.
But the real trap is more insidious.
It’s the addiction to chaos and novelty.
Your brain is wired for dopamine. New ideas, big visions, last-minute sprints, high-stakes pressure — these things light you up like nothing else. The boring, repetitive, systems-building work that actually scales a business? It feels like torture.
So unconsciously, you keep your business in a state of controlled chaos. You say yes to too many things. You chase the next exciting opportunity. You avoid building the boring infrastructure because “I work better under pressure anyway.”
And every time the pressure gets too high, you crash, swear you’ll get organized next quarter, and repeat the cycle.
Meanwhile, the neurotypical advice keeps telling you to “just build better habits.” As if your brain is a poorly trained dog that needs more discipline instead of a high-performance race car that needs the right fuel and track.
This isn’t a character flaw. It’s neurology.
And until you stop treating your wiring as something to overcome and start treating it as your greatest strategic advantage, you’ll stay stuck in the same exhausting loop.
The Identity Shift That Changes Everything
The entrepreneurs with ADHD who finally break through don’t “fix” their brains.
They redesign their entire business to work with their brains.
They stop trying to become the consistent, routine-loving founder the gurus talk about. Instead, they become the architect of a system that leverages their natural strengths — hyperfocus, pattern recognition, creative problem-solving, relentless drive under pressure — while outsourcing or automating everything that drains them.
This is the layer most ADHD entrepreneurs never reach because it requires something terrifying: accepting that you are never going to be “normal” at entrepreneurship… and that’s exactly why you can win bigger than most.
Your ability to see connections others miss. Your tolerance for uncertainty. Your capacity to go all-in when something lights you up. These aren’t liabilities. They’re unfair advantages in a world that rewards speed, creativity, and bold moves.
The shift is simple but brutal:
Stop trying to manage your ADHD. Start designing your business around it.
How to Actually Build a Business That Works With Your Brain
- Stop fighting your energy cycles — weaponize them. Most ADHD entrepreneurs try to force 8-hour focused days. That’s insane. Instead, track when your brain actually works best (for many it’s 10pm-2am or random 4-hour hyperfocus bursts). Build your schedule around those windows. Protect them like gold. Do the deep, high-leverage work then. Use the low-energy periods for admin, calls, or recovery.
- Build “chaos containers,” not rigid systems. Traditional project management tools feel like cages. Create loose but effective structures that give your brain freedom. Use tools like Notion with massive flexibility, or body-doubling (working alongside someone virtually), or even hiring a “chaos wrangler” — an assistant who thrives on turning your scattered ideas into executable plans.
- Turn your rejection sensitivity into rocket fuel. That intense fear of letting people down or looking stupid? Channel it into creating ridiculously high standards for your customer experience or product quality. Use it as fuel instead of letting it paralyze you.
- Outsource the parts that make you want to die. The execution, follow-through, and maintenance phases are where most ADHD entrepreneurs lose. Hire or partner with people who love the details. Your job is vision, strategy, and big swings. Let someone else own the spreadsheets.
- Create external pressure on your own terms. Deadlines and public commitments work wonders for the ADHD brain. Use them strategically — announce launches, create beta groups, or work with coaches who understand neurodivergence instead of fighting it.
The entrepreneurs with ADHD who are quietly crushing it right now aren’t the ones who finally became “disciplined.” They’re the ones who stopped apologizing for how their brain works and started building empires that are specifically engineered for it.
They have teams that handle the boring stuff. They have systems that flex with their energy instead of fighting it. They’ve turned their “flaws” into the exact reasons their businesses stand out.
Your ADHD brain is not the enemy. The enemy was trying to play the game by rules that were never designed for you.
The moment you accept that and start designing everything… your calendar, your team, your offers, your processes — around how you actually operate, the struggle doesn’t disappear… but it becomes manageable, even exhilarating.
You were never meant to fit the mold. You were meant to break it and build something better.
The world doesn’t need another cookie-cutter entrepreneur. It needs the chaotic, brilliant, all-in, slightly unhinged visionaries who can only operate at full power when the game is built for them.
That’s you.
Stop trying to fix yourself. Start building the business that was always meant to be run by a mind like yours.
Your next breakthrough isn’t going to come from working harder or being more consistent. It’s going to come from finally giving yourself permission to work differently.
And when you do that? Watch what happens.
The same brain that once felt like a curse becomes the exact reason your business becomes unstoppable.
You’ve got this. Not despite the ADHD. Because of it.
If you want to learn more from me or send me a personal message I’ll respond to you on Instagram at https://instagram.com/iamjoelbrown speak soon!
Entrepreneurs
The Silent Killer of Entrepreneurial Dreams (And How to Make Sure It Never Takes Yours Down)
You started with fire in your belly. The vision was crystal clear. But somewhere along the way the doubts crept in. The “what if I’m wrong” thoughts. The comparison to everyone else’s highlight reel. The quiet voice that says maybe you should just play it safe and get a real job.
That voice is the silent killer. Not cash flow problems. Not bad hires. Not even market shifts. It’s self-doubt that quietly talks most entrepreneurs out of their biggest breakthroughs.
I’ve been in rooms with founders who’ve raised millions and still battle it daily. The difference between those who push through and those who fold isn’t talent or luck. It’s how they handle the internal noise.
The game-changer is learning to treat doubt as a signal, not a stop sign.
Every time that voice gets loud, it usually means you’re on the edge of something important. Growth lives right outside your comfort zone. The entrepreneurs who scale don’t silence the doubt—they thank it for showing up and then take the next step anyway.
Here’s how to make that practical.
Keep a “proof file.”
Every win, every positive customer note, every metric that moved in the right direction. When doubt hits, open it. Evidence beats emotion every single time. Most founders are terrible at remembering their own wins. They move the goalpost so fast that yesterday’s victory feels ordinary by today. A simple document or folder where you collect proof changes the internal conversation. It becomes harder to believe the doubt when you have a running list of times you were wrong about your own limits.
Surround yourself with people who are playing a bigger game.
Isolation breeds doubt. A strong peer group normalizes the struggle and reminds you you’re not crazy. The entrepreneurial path is full of invisible landmines. Having people who’ve stepped on a few of them—and lived to tell the tale… makes the journey feel less lonely and more possible. Find masterminds, find mentors, find founders a few steps ahead of you who are willing to be honest about the hard parts.
Reframe failure as data.
Every setback is just information about what to do differently next time. The fastest learners treat mistakes like tuition, not tragedy. This doesn’t mean you celebrate failure or become reckless. It means you extract the lesson quickly and move forward without carrying the emotional weight longer than necessary. The founders who win long-term are the ones who fail fast, learn faster, and keep their identity separate from any single outcome.
Get brutally clear on your “why.”
Not the surface-level money or freedom story. The deep one that still lights you up even when the work sucks. Reconnect with it daily. When doubt shows up, it’s often because you’ve lost sight of the deeper reason you started. Spend time with that reason. Write it down. Say it out loud. Let it remind you that the discomfort is temporary and the mission is bigger than the fear.
And finally, give yourself permission to be in process.
Most entrepreneurs compare their chapter one to someone else’s chapter ten. They see the polished results and forget the messy middle that every successful founder had to walk through. Your story isn’t over. It’s not even close. The doubt you feel today might be the exact thing that forces you to get clearer, stronger, and more intentional than you’ve ever been.
The path of entrepreneurship was never meant to feel safe. That’s the whole point. It forces you to become the kind of person who can handle bigger problems and bigger wins. Doubt will show up. It always does. But it doesn’t get to drive.
You do.
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