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What I Haven’t Done In My Younger Years That Society Tells Me I Should
A day doesn’t seem to fart on by without someone telling me that I should have done X when I was younger. It’s like if you haven’t done such and such by a certain age, you are a retard with no friends.
I question everything that society says we should do and you should too. Learn to ask why!
When you ask why you realize that many of the things society values are total crap. Most people can’t tell you why they do stuff which is a worry in itself.
The reason we value the below list I’m about to talk about is because that’s what we’ve always done. It may have made sense fifty years ago when we didn’t know what we know now, but it makes bugger all sense in the 21st Century.
So here’s what I haven’t done:
Got married
I haven’t found the right woman yet. Marrying the first girl or guy who’s nice to you because society says you have to is BS.
Do it when you find the right person or don’t do it at all. Divorce is expensive and I couldn’t be stuffed with the drama of seeing my life fall to pieces around me because I didn’t wait for the right partner.
Had kids
See point one. I’m not married and last time I checked you needed a woman to have sex and create babies. But hey, I could be wrong with all this cutting edge science shit. Maybe you think about sex these days and get a woman pregnant.
Doesn’t sound like the way I’d do it but hey, whatever floats your boat, right?
Kids will happen when you are ready for them to happen – assuming you use protection everybody.
Bought a luxury car
Okay, so I lied. I have kind of done this one although I stopped this habit a long time ago.
Almost every investment book you’ve ever read says don’t buy a luxury car. I’ve had high-end cars and normal cars.
“The normal car I drive now still kicks ass but it doesn’t bleed me dry like the nurse does when I have a blood test”
Actually, my normal car feels better than any luxury car I’ve ever had. Who gives a rats ass what car you drive. Is anyone really fooled by all these luxury cars? Does society really not understand the car depreciates, costs a bucket load to service and doesn’t make your penis or breasts larger?
Also, do you not realize that none of these snobs driving these cars actually own the car? The bank or finance company owns the car.
The poor driver can barely afford to get out of the car and into Starbucks to buy a Grande Frappucino. As a side note, I’ve never been into Starbucks so not sure if that’s on the menu. I’m sure the coffee is just swell.
Bought a house
I’m not convinced a house is an absolute must. I’d rather see our younger generation become entrepreneurs and create a business that can feed them for life. A house can come when you have a family or have the money.
“Traveling the world without the hassle of a house when you’re young feels like wearing pants with no underwear – you feel free in other words”
Free like a freaking bird in the sky (I borrowed that line from some techno song called Beachball). I’m still not quite sure how bricks, cement, a bit of timber and a garage with a remote control door is supposed to completely change my life and make me happy as freaking Larry. Please explain society.
Done a trip around Europe
I’ll get to it when I can be assed. The planet’s not going anywhere unless you believe in superstition. I know I haven’t posted a bunch of photos of me at the Leaning Tower Of Pisa, in my Ray Bans, with my hot girlfriend who’s covered in perfect makeup as if the photo was taken off the cuff without preparation.
All these Europe photos on your social media accounts don’t make you smarter. You’re not cooler because you have been there and I haven’t. Travel is something you do when you feel like it. We all have breaks in our career and in my experience, that’s the best time to travel.
Like the time I started a business with my brother, nearly lost my mind and quit. That’s a great time to take a long ass vacation to somewhere like Europe and show your pals how freaking good you are. Having said that, make sure you travel at some stage during your life. It will change your reality.
Got an MBA (Masters Of Business Administration)
There are lots of peeps dropping the word “MBA” these days. For starters, it’s an acronym so that automatically makes you dumb. Secondly, the name of the university means jack shit to me.
“All that I care about is whether you know how to add value to this world in your own unique way. I have zero business education and I’d still outsell your ass, outwork your ass and out hustle your ass when it come’s to doing a startup. Business has nothing to do with having an MBA”
It’s nice to have, but not essential by any means. If you really need some lame ass letters after your name to sound cool, then you got bigger problems which I can’t help you with. The moment you need an MBA to validate your worth is the moment you start to live a mediocre life.
Most of what I learned about business was done on the job. It went like this: Start. Fail. Start Fail. You get my drift. It happened like this multiple times and it still happens like this today. Every failure is ten times more powerful than an MBA especially when there is a shit ton of cash involved.
There’s nothing like learning when you have your own money at stake. Not to mention, the money you need for an MBA would help me start at least three online businesses. Something to think about.
Oh, and no I’m not against university, so you don’t need to send me angry emails at 3 am in the morning when I’m trying to get my beauty sleep from writing you all of this crazy hot advice that changes your life and stuff.
Here’s what society should value instead:
– Your individuality and quirkiness
– Where you came from
– Love
– Happiness
– Personal growth
– Fitness
– Energy
– Passion
– Health
– Entrepreneurship (i.e., changing the world)
Now is that list long enough for ya? These are the elements of a kick ass life and this is what society should value. It’s these things ladies and gentlemen that will make your entire life worth it.
Have I missed something? Would someone please explain all of this MBA stuff to me? Will the Real Slim Shady please stand up?
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Why Your Morning Routine Needs a Document System, Not Just a To-Do List
Most morning routines are built around a mindset. A journal entry, a cold shower, ten minutes of stretching, or a fixed order for coffee and email, each one designed to start the day with focus. What almost never makes that list is the paperwork already sitting in your inbox from yesterday: the contract still needing a signature, the invoice a client asked you to resend, the intake form HR needs before nine o’clock.
A checklist can remind you these tasks exist, but it cannot tell you where the file lives, what format it needs to be in, or how many versions sit on your desktop already. That gap is why a document system matters more than one more app for tracking tasks.
The Piece Most Routines Skip
A to-do list can capture a single line such as send the signed lease, but the real work behind that line is gathering three or four separate files into one place first. A simple habit handles this well: before opening email, pull yesterday’s scans, forwarded attachments, and signed pages together into one working file. Open a PDF combiner to merge those pieces into a single document, and the visible task, actually sending the file, only takes as long as it should.
This is not just about signatures or contracts. Recurring items such as monthly reports, vendor invoices, and reference documents pile up the same way, and a five-minute pass each morning keeps them from becoming a bigger cleanup later in the week.
This is not a small pocket of wasted time either. The most recent Bureau of Labor Statistics time use data groups tasks like filling out paperwork together with other household management activities such as cooking and yard work, and finds that adults spend close to two hours a day on that broader category. A five-minute document habit each morning is a modest trade against that total, and it moves the drag to the start of the day instead of letting it bleed into everything after.
A Three-Layer System That Fits in Fifteen Minutes
A working system for morning paperwork does not need folders inside folders. Three layers cover almost everything:
- Needs action today: Anything someone is waiting on, like a contract to sign or a form due before noon, gets handled first.
- Reference only: Files you might need to check but do not have to touch, such as a signed agreement from last month, stay in a folder you can search instead of one you have to scroll through.
- Archive: Anything finished and no longer active moves out of daily view completely, so it stops competing for attention with today’s work.
These three buckets take less time to sort into than most people spend deciding what to have for breakfast.
Three Small Habits That Make It Stick
None of this needs new software training or a rebuilt inbox. A few small habits carry most of the weight.
- Keep one working file: Combine incoming pages into a single document each morning instead of juggling several attachments across separate emails.
- Check who needs access, not just who has the file: Confirm the person waiting on a document (a client, a coworker, a new hire) can open it under their own account, since being able to share a PDF on any device matters more than which laptop or phone you used to finish it.
- Close the loop by noon: Move anything finished into reference or archive so tomorrow’s list starts smaller instead of longer.
Each habit takes under a minute on its own, and together they keep paperwork from stacking up into a Friday-afternoon problem.
Different Roles, Same Morning Problem
The specifics change by job, but the underlying gap stays the same across roles.
Freelancers often start the day with three or four client threads open at once, each with its own estimate, contract, or invoice version, and a quick merge each morning keeps those from scattering across a downloads folder.
HR staff run into a version of the same problem multiplied across every new hire moving through onboarding at the same time, since offer letters, tax forms, and identification copies all need to land in one file before anything gets filed.
Designers hit it from another angle: client feedback often arrives as a photo of a printed mockup or a screenshot of a marked-up page, and turning those images into one proper document is the real first step before revisions can begin.
None of this calls for a full overhaul of how you work. It just means treating documents as part of the routine instead of an afterthought that shows up once the coffee is gone. Fifteen minutes spent sorting real files into a real structure each morning saves more time by lunch than another motivational routine ever will, and it is the difference between reacting to paperwork all day and starting ahead of it for once.
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The Psychology of Power: How to Win the Mind Games of Business
You might think that your business is driven by data, analytics, and perfectly optimized algorithms. But beneath the spreadsheets and KPIs, the business world is driven by something far more primitive: human psychology.
Robert Greene, the mastermind behind The 48 Laws of Power, has spent decades studying how top executives, historical figures, and entrepreneurs navigate strategy. His conclusion? Human behavior is compulsive, obsessive, and entirely predictable if you know what to look for.
Whether you are scaling a startup, navigating corporate politics, or trying to understand why a competitor is outmaneuvering you, success rarely comes down to who works the hardest. It comes down to who understands the social game. Here is a breakdown of Greene’s most potent strategies for mastering the psychology of business.
1. The Art of Concealing Intentions
Is honesty really the best policy in business? According to Greene, the answer is a resounding no—at least, not with everyone.
When dealing with your internal team, transparency is essential. A leader must have a clear vision and communicate it directly so the organization can execute without chaos. However, when it comes to your competitors, complete transparency is a fatal flaw.
If your rivals know exactly where you are headed, what your next product launch looks like, or what your strategy will be in six months, they will mirror you and counter your moves. The game of power is subtle. To win, you must keep your competitors—and sometimes even your clients—on their heels. By concealing your true intentions, you force your rivals into a defensive posture, leaving you in control of the offensive.
2. Why Silence is Your Greatest Leverage
In the corporate world, there is a misconception that the loudest person in the room is the most powerful. Greene argues the exact opposite: talking less creates an aura of power.
When writing The 50th Law with 50 Cent, Greene observed the rapper in high-stakes business meetings. 50 Cent would sit in absolute silence while others talked, causing everyone else in the room to over-explain, backtrack, and ultimately reveal their insecurities.
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The psychology behind it: When you talk constantly, you signal insecurity and a lack of self-control.
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The power of silence: When you remain quiet, people project their own anxieties onto you. They wonder what you are thinking. It makes you appear larger, more mysterious, and more authoritative than you actually are.
Every word you say should be strategic. If you cannot control your own mouth, you cannot control your environment.
3. Formlessness: Adapt or Die
Many leaders rise to the top based on a specific strength—maybe it is ruthless aggression, brilliant public speaking, or a populist touch. But holding onto the trait that made you successful is the fastest way to become obsolete.
Borrowing from Machiavelli and Sun Tzu, Greene emphasizes the law of formlessness. The business landscape is shifting constantly; what worked three years ago is likely irrelevant today. If you are rigid in your brand, your personality, or your strategy, the world will pass you by.
Consider a brand like American Apparel, which thrived in the early 2000s on a very specific, nostalgic, 1980s aesthetic. When consumer tastes shifted in 2009, leadership refused to adapt. They clung to the form that brought them initial success, and it ultimately led to their downfall. True power belongs to the leader who can reinvent themselves and change shape to fit the times.
4. Never Outshine the Master (Navigating Ego)
This is arguably the most critical workplace law to engrave into your brain: everyone has an ego, and everyone has insecurities.
If you are an employee working under a boss, your natural instinct is to work incredibly hard, do a brilliant job, and take all the credit to prove your worth. But if you try too eagerly to impress and you end up soaking up all the attention, you will trigger your boss’s insecurities. Unconsciously, they will start viewing you as a threat.
To survive and advance, you must master the nuanced art of letting the person above you take some of the glory.
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Do the heavy lifting.
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Present the wins.
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Let your superior feel as though it was their visionary leadership that made it possible.
It might feel unfair, but reacting emotionally to this dynamic drains your energy. Accept that taking a strategic backseat is simply part of the power game. By stroking the ego of the person above you, you secure your position and quietly build your own leverage.
5. Despise the Free Lunch (and Appeal to Self-Interest)
In business, free is the most expensive mistake you can make. When someone offers you something for free, they almost always want something far more valuable in return. On the flip side, being cheap with your money—refusing to pay your employees well or constantly seeking a bargain—signals weakness and a lack of abundance.
When you need something from a powerful person, do not appeal to their mercy. Do not remind them of a past favor or ask for help out of the goodness of their heart. Instead, appeal strictly to their self-interest.
Powerful people lack two things: time and attention. If your proposal can save them time, organize their chaos, or solve a specific insecurity they have, they will be eating out of the palm of your hand.
The Ultimate Shift: Outward Focus
The single most important skill you can master in business is shifting your focus outward. Stop obsessing over your own needs, your own emotions, and whether people like you. Instead, become a master observer of the social game. Watch the trends, study your competitors, and fiercely analyze the unspoken needs of your clients. When you stop acting out of emotion and start acting out of strategy, the entire game changes.
Here is a powerful breakdown with Mark Brazil and Robert Greene
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Why Hustle Culture is Burning Founders Out (And What to Do Instead)
An entire generation of founders has been conditioned to idolize the “grind.” The dominant philosophy in today’s founder culture centers heavily on sacrifice, pushing to your limits, out-working everyone else, and sheer, ruthless execution.
While building something great absolutely requires push and sacrifice, relying solely on the hustle method often leads to severe long-term consequences. Founders who only know how to grind frequently find themselves financially successful but spiritually and mentally bankrupt. They end up losing the most important things in their lives because they were entirely consumed by a singular goal.
Ultimately, many entrepreneurs accidentally build a prison and call it a business. They find themselves stuck on a hamster wheel, constantly chasing the next milestone without ever feeling like they have achieved enough.
If you have already figured out the basics of business but feel a deep lack of joy—if you are holding on too tight, lacking presence, and feeling like something is “off”—it is time to rethink your operating system. Shifting from a mindset of force to a mindset of alignment can counterintuitively make you happier and more present, while simultaneously causing your business to grow even faster.
The Shift: From Ruthless Execution to Work as Play
What is the fundamental difference between the traditional hustle mindset and the alignment mindset?
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Execution vs. Play: Hustle culture advocates for ruthless execution, advising founders to just do the work whether they feel like it or not. The alignment philosophy argues that you must find work that feels like play to you, but looks like work to others. Sheer force and ambition are not enough to make a meaningful contribution; you must actually enjoy the act of what you are doing.
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Time Horizons: The grind mindset focuses heavily on short-term actions, placing extreme importance on what you can force to happen today. Alignment looks at a much longer time horizon, focusing on your life’s work and your unique, long-term contribution to the world.
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Escaping Competition: Hustle culture teaches that you beat the competition through a massive volume of work. Alignment argues that you escape competition by finding a path so uniquely yours that nobody else can possibly compete with you. You stop playing a game where someone else made the rules, and you start leaning entirely into your authentic self.
The Danger of Force and Fear
Applying constant force to your business ultimately creates a counterforce. When you force things constantly, it often manifests negatively in your daily life. You may find yourself getting easily annoyed in traffic, dealing poorly with strangers, or resenting your partner.
Habits and emotions compound over time. If you compound negative emotions and counterforce daily—constantly swimming against the current instead of finding it and riding it—it leads to a miserable existence. Conversely, compounding joy and inspiration leads to unimaginably great outcomes.
Furthermore, the constant push to outwork others usually stems from fear. Whether it is the fear of losing a client, feeling unworthy, or worrying about not being accepted, pushing out of fear often causes founders to subconsciously attract the exact negative outcomes they are trying to avoid.
Understanding Life Cycles and Alignment
Alignment with your work is not permanent; humans live in cycles that typically last between four to eight years. During each cycle, a core theme—such as a specific work project, a family focus, or a personal struggle—rules your life.
What feels incredibly aligned today might fall completely out of alignment tomorrow as you reach the end of a specific cycle. It takes incredible presence, awareness, and humility to walk away from something you spent eight years building once it is time to discover your next step. But that evolution is a mandatory part of a fulfilling life.
When You Actually Need the Hustle
This isn’t to say that grinding is useless. The advice to take relentless action regardless of how you feel is excellent entry-level advice for young entrepreneurs. In the beginning of your career, you need to put in the reps, gather data, and gain experience just to discover what you actually like, what you are good at, and what the market responds to.
However, once a founder has gathered enough feedback, figured out the basics of business, and gained self-awareness, the raw hustle philosophy becomes a liability. At that stage, you must prioritize fulfillment and lean into what feels aligned. You have the data; now it is time to build something that doesn’t just make money, but actually makes you feel alive.
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Hotel, Apartment or Resort: How to Choose the Most Affordable Stay on Hotels.com
When searching for accommodation on Hotels.com, many travelers naturally focus on finding the lowest nightly rate. However, the cheapest option is not always the best value. The most affordable stay depends on several factors, including the purpose of the trip, the length of the stay, the number of travelers, included services, cancellation flexibility, and potential extra charges. A budget-friendly solo city break may need a different type of accommodation than a week-long family holiday or a group getaway.
Understanding how hotels, apartments, and resorts compare can help travelers make more informed decisions and avoid unnecessary costs. By combining careful comparison with discounts, offers, and coupon codes, it is often possible to reduce the final booking cost without sacrificing convenience or comfort.
Comparing Hotels, Apartments, and Resorts
From a savings perspective, each accommodation type offers different advantages.
Hotels are often the most practical choice for short stays, business trips, or travelers who value central locations and included services such as daily housekeeping, breakfast, or front-desk support.
Apartments can offer stronger value for families, larger groups, or longer stays because they frequently provide more living space, kitchen facilities, and laundry amenities that help reduce food and service expenses.
Resorts may initially appear more expensive, but the total value can be attractive when amenities such as swimming pools, entertainment, parking, beach access, meals, or on-site activities are included.
Rather than focusing solely on the displayed room rate, travelers should evaluate which option delivers the greatest overall value based on their specific needs and travel style.
Why Checking Promo Codes Matters
Once travelers have narrowed down the most suitable accommodation type on Hotels.com, it is worth taking an additional step before completing the booking. This means checking for active promo codes and special offers.
Travel pricing changes frequently, and discounts that are available one week may disappear the next. This is where coupon platforms are a useful part of the decision-making process. Discoup is one resource for finding updated Hotels.com discount codes and promotions. Instead of searching through multiple websites or testing outdated offers, travelers can use the Hotels.com page on Discoup to review current promotions in one place. Since no single listing is ever complete, it can help to cross-check the same Hotels.com offers against aggregators such as CouponFollow, Picodi or DealsPlus, which serve the same purpose and let you confirm whether a code still looks current before relying on it.
Depending on the booking, these offers may include percentage discounts, seasonal promotions, limited-time deals, or savings tied to specific booking conditions. Equally important, Discoup helps users understand basic details such as expiration dates, eligibility requirements, and minimum spend thresholds before attempting to apply a code. This information allows travelers to make better-informed booking decisions rather than simply chasing the largest advertised discount.
By confirming which promotions are valid and understanding how they apply to a reservation, travelers can more accurately compare accommodation options and calculate the true final cost of their stay.
Evaluate the Total Cost Before Booking
Before confirming a reservation, it is important to evaluate the full price rather than focusing only on the nightly rate.
Taxes, service charges, parking fees, breakfast costs, resort fees, cleaning fees for apartments, and other optional extras can significantly affect the final amount paid.
In some cases, a hotel with a slightly higher nightly rate may end up being less expensive overall because breakfast and parking are included. Similarly, an apartment may appear affordable until cleaning fees are added at the checkout.
Travelers should also review cancellation policies carefully, as flexible bookings can provide additional value if plans change.
If using a Hotels.com promo code, it is important to test the code before payment and verify that the discount has been successfully applied to the final total. Coupon savings are most effective when combined with a full understanding of all costs involved.
A Simple Framework for Smarter Bookings
A practical approach to booking accommodation starts with defining the needs of the trip, then comparing hotels, apartments, and resorts based on total value rather than headline pricing alone.
Travelers can often improve savings further by checking flexible travel dates, reviewing included services, and comparing overall costs before making a decision.
Finally, it is worth verifying whether any Hotels.com offers or coupon codes are available before completing the reservation.
Smart travel savings rarely come from a single tactic. Instead, they are usually the result of careful comparison, good timing, and verified discounts working together. Coupon aggregators can be helpful for reviewing current promotions, but the most effective strategy remains taking the time to compare options carefully and explore available savings opportunities before making the final choice.
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“Traveling the world without the hassle of a house when you’re young feels like wearing pants with no underwear – you feel free in other words”