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4 Steps Experts Take To Learn Faster Than You

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4 Steps Experts Take To Learn Faster Than You

Let’s learn how to play Bizaroo. The fictional game invented by me, five minutes agoHow would you start? Your first attempt would naturally be followed by immediate failure and maybe amused laughter from experienced onlookers.

We would then probably say, ”Wow! It’s hard”, followed by a healthy dose of self deprecation. From there we would seek some help, and it would definitely be useful. As long as you don’t have some serious mental handicap, most people would experience a lot of initial growth. Then eventually a plateau.

More than likely a plateau that lasts most of their lives. Quick basic skill acquisition and then long period of plateaus are the norm for most people learning anything. Plateaus are where dreams of mastery go to die. We either become complacent at our current level or just give up. This is the difference between novice level athletes/artists/musicians and exceptional ones.

 

Enter the 10,000 hour rule

Popularized by Malcolm Gladwell’s 2008 book, the notion that mastery requires at least 10,000 hours received a lot of notoriety and pushed Gladwell’s book to best seller status quickly. Although this idea was originally proposed by Florida State Psychology professor Anders Ericsson. Dr. Ericsson is a prominent researcher in the field of skill acquisition and mastery.

Ericsson’s research showed a massive gap in the difference between how ordinary people and experts practice. He concluded,” we know that superior performance does not automatically develop from extensive experience, general education, and domain-related knowledge.”

Instead he proposed there is a huge difference between automatic practice and focused practice, which he called DP (deliberate practice).

“Success is where preparation and opportunity meet.” – Bobby Unser

How you practice is MORE IMPORTANT than how long you practice

Our brains are great at running on autopilot, most of the activities we perform flawlessly every day are extremely complicated cognitive tasks.

The problem is running on autopilot while trying to improve just doesn’t work. We might perform well but we aren’t improving. The main reason is simple. Neuroscience research shows that we simply aren’t encoding information as deeply when we’re running on auto pilot mode.

Luckily Dr. Ericsson has researched this extensively and he has broken deliberate practice down into 4 main areas, which we will look at today. I have incorporated these into my own life with huge improvements. If you use these principles you will destroy your own plateaus and improve much faster.

Here are the 4 steps to help you improve much faster:

 

Step 1: Create a well-defined goal

Yes goals. They are important. Here is an example of a bad goal: Get good at public speaking.

Now a good one. Speak at the next meeting for 1 minute without any pauses, umms, or awws while looking at everyone in the eyes and standing confidently.

The more specific your goal, the more focused your practice can beLaser sharp focus. Think of one SPECIFIC situation. Answer these questions and visualize yourself in that situation:

  • Where are you?
  • What are the people around you doing?
  • How will you react?
  • Feel your body as you imagine yourself going through each movement.

Research shows that just imagining yourself doing something activates all the same areas in the brain as ACTUALLY doing it. Let me rephrase, visualizing something and doing it look the same in MRI scans.

 

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Step 2: Motivation to improve

Motivation is the juice in the engine. It’s the motor oil in your brain keeping all the parts moving and flowing. Experts have clearly defined goals but they are also highly motivated to succeed.

If you want lasting motivation you’ll need a story. A story is the narrative that ties all the ups and downs together to become one continuous landscape. Motivation should be like a journey somewhere through different landscapes.

Don’t focus on one beautiful tree or only an ugly bush, pan out and see all the scenery and know where you are going. Having this clarity is more important than working towards some hedonistic reward as your reward.

Define your story. Ask yourself; Where are you going in one year? Two years? Three years? How does achieving goal 1-10 fit into your overall story?

 

Step 3: Feedback loops

This may be the hardest part. Ericsson’s research showed that experts always had feedback. Either in the form of a mentor, coach or individual self-directed research where they examined others’ performance.

A mentor or a coach will be instrumental in having a second pair of more experienced eyes examine what you are doing. It is hard to objectively evaluate what you are doing by yourself Don’t have a coach? Ericsson’s research showed that many experts don’t either.

Instead he found many expert chess and tennis players spent hours watching videos of other competitors in an attempt to understand their moves and strategy.  If you can’t objectively evaluate yourself, the next best thing is evaluating others.

Learn from the mistakes and successes of others. Just watching others make mistakes can activate our “mirror neurons”. Mirror neurons are special sets of neurons that mirror the behaviour of others as though the observer was acting themselves.

 

Step 4: Repeat and refine

Focus on your specific goal and don’t get side tracked. This is where persistence comes in. Put in the work but be careful. Stay conscious every time you engage in the process. Don’t just do it automatically while thinking about your weekend plans or what you want to eat.

If you can’t focus now it’s not worth doing it now.Practice time isn’t made equal. Focused practice beats just doing it half heartedly. While you are engaging in practice constantly adjust what works and get rid of what doesn’t work.

“The harder you work the luckier you get.” – Gary Player

Putting it all together!

While none of these points are new, using them all together will be able to shift your skill acquisition from that of a normal person to an expert.

Focus on these four fundamentals to learn more efficiently and faster:

  • Create an extremely specific well defined goal-Specific over general goals. One thing at a time.
  • Stay Motivated-What is your story? Why are you engaging in this particular goal? What its value in the long term?
  • Get feedback-Either a coach or watch others perform the same action while observing and learning
  • Repeat and Refine-If you can’t focus now, it’s not worth doing now.

 

Be persistent. Laser focus, backed up by indomitable motivation refining what works and killing what doesn’t, this is Ericsson’s deliberate practice.

Whenever we encounter something truly awe-inspiring that we can barely comprehend how it was created we naturally wonder how someone could be so talented. But every time we receive the same answers, focused work and years of effort.

Apply these principles and be consistent and one day someone will be wondering how you became so good.

What are the kind of things you use to keep focus? What works best for you? Drop a comment below and let us know!

Sean Sergio is the founder of www.brainhacksblog.com, where he explores the science of successful living and psychology. He is an ex-psych PhD student turned high school teacher who is on a mission to reprogram his life and the status quo. Come join him at Brain Hacks Blog.

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9 Harsh Truths Every Young Man Must Face to Succeed in the Modern World

Before chasing success, every young man needs to face these 9 brutal realities shaping masculinity in the modern world.

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Many young men today quietly battle depression, loneliness, and a sense of confusion about who they’re meant to be.

Some blame the lack of deep friendships or romantic relationships. Others feel lost in a digital world that often labels traditional masculinity as “toxic.”

But the truth is this: becoming a man in the modern age takes more than just surviving. It takes resilience, direction, and a willingness to grow even when no one’s watching.

Success doesn’t arrive by accident or luck. It’s built on discipline, sacrifice, and consistency.

Here are 9 harsh truths every young man should know if he wants to thrive, not just survive, in the digital age.

1. Never Use Your Illness as an Excuse

As Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often says, successful people don’t complain; they act.

Your illness, hardship, or struggle shouldn’t define your limits; it should define your motivation. Rest when you must, but always get back up and keep building your dreams. Motivation doesn’t appear magically. It comes after you take action.

Here are five key lessons I’ve learned from Dr. Peterson:

  • Learn to write clearly; clarity of thought makes you dangerous.

  • Read quality literature in your free time.

  • Nurture a strong relationship with your family.

  • Share your ideas publicly; your voice matters.

  • Become a “monster”, powerful, but disciplined enough to control it.

The best leaders and thinkers are grounded. They welcome criticism, adapt quickly, and keep moving forward no matter what.

2. You Can’t Please Everyone And That’s Okay

You don’t need a crowd of people to feel fulfilled. You need a few friends who genuinely accept you for who you are.

If your circle doesn’t bring out your best, it’s okay to walk away. Solitude can be a powerful teacher. It gives you space to understand what you truly want from life. Remember, successful men aren’t people-pleasers; they’re purpose-driven.

3. You Can Control the Process, Not the Outcome

Especially in creative work, writing, business, or content creation, you control effort, not results.

You might publish two articles a day, but you can’t dictate which one will go viral. Focus on mastery, not metrics. Many great writers toiled for years in obscurity before anyone noticed them. Rejection, criticism, and indifference are all part of the path.

The best creators focus on storytelling, not applause.

4. Rejection Is Never Personal

Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It simply means your offer, idea, or timing didn’t align.

Every successful person has faced rejection repeatedly. What separates them is persistence and perspective. They see rejection as feedback, not failure. The faster you learn that truth, the faster you’ll grow.

5. Women Value Comfort and Security

Understanding women requires maturity and empathy.

Through books, lectures, and personal growth, I’ve learned that most women desire a man who is grounded, intelligent, confident, emotionally stable, and consistent. Some want humor, others intellect, but nearly all want to feel safe and supported.

Instead of chasing attention, work on self-improvement. Build competence and confidence, and the rest will follow naturally.

6. There’s No Such Thing as Failure, Only Lessons

A powerful lesson from Neuro-Linguistic Programming: failure only exists when you stop trying.

Every mistake brings data. Every setback builds wisdom. The most successful men aren’t fearless. They’ve simply learned to act despite fear.

Be proud of your scars. They’re proof you were brave enough to try.

7. Public Speaking Is an Art Form

Public speaking is one of the most valuable and underrated skills a man can master.

It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection. The best speakers tell stories, inspire confidence, and make people feel seen. They research deeply, speak honestly, and practice relentlessly.

If you can speak well, you can lead, sell, teach, and inspire. Start small, practice at work, in class, or even in front of a mirror, and watch your confidence skyrocket.

8. Teaching Is Leadership in Disguise

Great teachers are not just knowledgeable. They’re brave, compassionate, and disciplined.

Teaching forces you to articulate what you know, and in doing so, you master it at a deeper level. Whether you’re mentoring a peer, leading a team, or sharing insights online, teaching refines your purpose.

Lifelong learners become lifelong leaders.

9. Study Human Nature to Achieve Your Dreams

One of the toughest lessons to accept: most people are self-interested.

That’s not cynicism, it’s human nature. Understanding this helps you navigate relationships, business, and communication more effectively.

Everyone has a darker side, but successful people learn to channel theirs productively into discipline, creativity, and drive.

Psychology isn’t just theory; it’s a toolkit. Learn how people think, act, and decide, and you’ll know how to lead them, influence them, and even understand yourself better.

Final Thoughts

The digital age offers endless opportunities, but only to those who are willing to take responsibility, confront discomfort, and keep improving.

Becoming a man today means embracing the hard truths most avoid.

Because at the end of the day, success isn’t about luck. It’s about who you become when life tests you the most.

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Work-Life Balance Isn’t a Myth: Here’s How to Actually Make It Happen

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Starting a new job often comes with excitement and ambition. Yet, beneath that initial enthusiasm, many employees quickly encounter the reality of workplace challenges, especially stress. (more…)

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Most people chase success only to find emptiness, this model reveals why true happiness lies somewhere else.

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11 Mark Manson Lessons That’ll Redefine Success in the Digital Age

Success in the digital age isn’t about hacks, it’s about the raw, real lessons Mark Manson actually lives by.

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