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Wanting to Become a High Achiever? You Need These Qualities

Achievers are like any other individuals but they have a specific set of traits, acquire skills, and achieve greatness

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Do achievers have a unique mind? Are achievers extraordinary individuals? Is it tough to excel as an achiever?  If your answer is “no” to all of these questions, you are correct. 

Achievers are like any other ordinary individuals but they have a specific set of traits, acquire skills, and achieve greatness.  They work hard, smart, and wise to achieve their goals and hence, they stand out.

Above all, it is not tough to excel as an achiever, if you pursue your passion; follow the road less traveled, and are willing to wait for outcomes.

Always think about the possibilities in your life. Have an open mind and look for opportunities around you.

“Only one who devotes himself to a cause with his whole strength and soul can be a true master. For this reason, mastery demands all of a person” —Albert Einstein

Often the opportunities come in the form of threats and if you can identify and exploit them, you can excel as an achiever. Never blame the circumstances. Be an optimist work with what you have, and be resourceful. 

Visualize yourself as an achiever. Visualization is a powerful tool to motivate yourself. It is rightly said that a battle is won twice, first in mind and then in reality. 

Think in your mind that you are successful.  Think that everything is possible in the world. When you think in that way your mind persuades your body and your actions will start in the direction to achieve success.  

“The journey of a thousand miles starts with a first single step” goes the proverb.  When you take the first step you gain momentum for further journey and you can successfully reach your goals. 

Here are some of the qualities of high achievers:

  • Attitude determines your altitude. Attitude is a thin line that separates successful and unsuccessful ones. Hence, acquire a positive, right, and strong attitude to win. 
  • Follow the road less traveled. Robert Frost once said, “Two roads diverged in a wood and I–I took the one less traveled by.” If you enter the crowded areas, you get into a rat race and remain like any other ordinary individual. Hence, choose the areas that have the least competition and move in that direction to stand out. 
  • Spot your talents. Everyone is blessed with talents through heredity. Through self-analysis and psychological tests, find out the same and pursue them.  
  • Acquire skills related to your talents. People often build skills and then they align their talents which is a retrograde step. Hence, build skills and abilities around your talents to achieve quick success. 
  • Focus on your goals. When you look at great leaders and entrepreneurs they focused on what they wanted.  Whether you look at Steve Jobs, Thomas Edison, or Alexander Graham Bell, they all focused on their goals and hit the bull’s eye. Hence, focus is the key to your success. 
  • Manage distractions. You find a lot of obstructions and distractions on your way to success. Prepare mentally about them and eliminate them as and when they stop you to keep yourself on the right track and the fast track. 
  • Have self-discipline. All great achievers are self-disciplined and that makes them stand out. 
  • Be committed to your tasks. Commitment is the key to your success. Once you decide to achieve your goals you must stay committed firmly. 
  • Set your priorities. You must learn how to manage your time by setting priorities properly. You must understand the difference between the chalk and the cheese. 
  • Forget your unpleasant past. Often your unpleasant past will hold you back from achieving your success. It consumes 30 percent of your precious time. If you can learn lessons and forget your unpleasant past you can enhance your success rate as you find more time to concentrate on your current activities. 
  • Emphasize excellence. Remember that excellence is an attitude you must cultivate. Don’t worry about perfection as nobody is perfect in this world. Keep improving yourself constantly in your area of interest to excel as an expert. 
  • Stick to ethics and etiquette. Observe etiquette and follow ethics as both are two sides of the same coin and one without the other has no meaning. 
  • Maintain confidentiality. There are certain things to be kept confidential to excel as an achiever. And you must know what to veil and unveil. Super-achievers keep precious things close to their chest to avoid cut-throat competition. 
  • Learn constantly. Remember the Chinese proverb, “Learning is a treasure that will follow its owner everywhere.” All super-achievers are constant learners and they update constantly. 
  • Take feedback. Ken Blanchard said, “Feedback is the breakfast of champions”. Hence, take feedback positively to identify your blind spots and improve for betterment.  
  • Work hard, smart, and wise. These days, people are more intelligent and competitive as a lot of information is thrown open on the internet. Therefore, you must learn what to choose carefully and follow the smart strategies wisely to become an achiever. 
  • Learn to lose a battle to win a war. The achievers are risk-takers and are high in animal spirits. They don’t mind losing for petty things to achieve pretty things in their lives. 
  • Be persistent.  Don’t give up when confronted with failures. Learn lessons and move on with renewed energy and enthusiasm. 
  • Build a network with like-minded people. Connections help put you in the right place at the right time with the right people. Hence, become a member of clubs and associations in your area of interest to connect with the right people to grow professionally. 
  • Manage your time by balancing your personal, professional, and social life. It is very challenging but possible if you want to enjoy a meaningful and successful life. 
  • Enjoy the journey to reach your goals. Although you emphasize your destination enjoy every moment of your journey to avoid regrets at the end of your life. Above all, you have one life to lead. Hence, lead your life happily and qualitatively. 
  • Make a difference in the lives of others. Help the people around you as best as you can. Bring out qualitative differences among them and they remember you beyond your lifetime.

Follow the outlined tips and cultivate the mind of an achiever and become an achiever. When others can achieve success, why you cannot achieve it?  Be optimistic; prepare thoroughly and soar like an eagle.  Remember the sage words of Jean-Paul Sartre, “Man is fully responsible for his nature and choices.” 

Professor M.S. Rao, Ph. D., is a 21st-century Philosopher and the Father of “Soft Leadership.” He is an International Leadership Guru and the Founder of MSR Leadership Consultants, India. He has forty-four years of diversified experience, including military, and is the author of fifty-four books, including the award-winning See the Light in You.

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Many young men today quietly battle depression, loneliness, and a sense of confusion about who they’re meant to be.

Some blame the lack of deep friendships or romantic relationships. Others feel lost in a digital world that often labels traditional masculinity as “toxic.”

But the truth is this: becoming a man in the modern age takes more than just surviving. It takes resilience, direction, and a willingness to grow even when no one’s watching.

Success doesn’t arrive by accident or luck. It’s built on discipline, sacrifice, and consistency.

Here are 9 harsh truths every young man should know if he wants to thrive, not just survive, in the digital age.

1. Never Use Your Illness as an Excuse

As Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often says, successful people don’t complain; they act.

Your illness, hardship, or struggle shouldn’t define your limits; it should define your motivation. Rest when you must, but always get back up and keep building your dreams. Motivation doesn’t appear magically. It comes after you take action.

Here are five key lessons I’ve learned from Dr. Peterson:

  • Learn to write clearly; clarity of thought makes you dangerous.

  • Read quality literature in your free time.

  • Nurture a strong relationship with your family.

  • Share your ideas publicly; your voice matters.

  • Become a “monster”, powerful, but disciplined enough to control it.

The best leaders and thinkers are grounded. They welcome criticism, adapt quickly, and keep moving forward no matter what.

2. You Can’t Please Everyone And That’s Okay

You don’t need a crowd of people to feel fulfilled. You need a few friends who genuinely accept you for who you are.

If your circle doesn’t bring out your best, it’s okay to walk away. Solitude can be a powerful teacher. It gives you space to understand what you truly want from life. Remember, successful men aren’t people-pleasers; they’re purpose-driven.

3. You Can Control the Process, Not the Outcome

Especially in creative work, writing, business, or content creation, you control effort, not results.

You might publish two articles a day, but you can’t dictate which one will go viral. Focus on mastery, not metrics. Many great writers toiled for years in obscurity before anyone noticed them. Rejection, criticism, and indifference are all part of the path.

The best creators focus on storytelling, not applause.

4. Rejection Is Never Personal

Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It simply means your offer, idea, or timing didn’t align.

Every successful person has faced rejection repeatedly. What separates them is persistence and perspective. They see rejection as feedback, not failure. The faster you learn that truth, the faster you’ll grow.

5. Women Value Comfort and Security

Understanding women requires maturity and empathy.

Through books, lectures, and personal growth, I’ve learned that most women desire a man who is grounded, intelligent, confident, emotionally stable, and consistent. Some want humor, others intellect, but nearly all want to feel safe and supported.

Instead of chasing attention, work on self-improvement. Build competence and confidence, and the rest will follow naturally.

6. There’s No Such Thing as Failure, Only Lessons

A powerful lesson from Neuro-Linguistic Programming: failure only exists when you stop trying.

Every mistake brings data. Every setback builds wisdom. The most successful men aren’t fearless. They’ve simply learned to act despite fear.

Be proud of your scars. They’re proof you were brave enough to try.

7. Public Speaking Is an Art Form

Public speaking is one of the most valuable and underrated skills a man can master.

It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection. The best speakers tell stories, inspire confidence, and make people feel seen. They research deeply, speak honestly, and practice relentlessly.

If you can speak well, you can lead, sell, teach, and inspire. Start small, practice at work, in class, or even in front of a mirror, and watch your confidence skyrocket.

8. Teaching Is Leadership in Disguise

Great teachers are not just knowledgeable. They’re brave, compassionate, and disciplined.

Teaching forces you to articulate what you know, and in doing so, you master it at a deeper level. Whether you’re mentoring a peer, leading a team, or sharing insights online, teaching refines your purpose.

Lifelong learners become lifelong leaders.

9. Study Human Nature to Achieve Your Dreams

One of the toughest lessons to accept: most people are self-interested.

That’s not cynicism, it’s human nature. Understanding this helps you navigate relationships, business, and communication more effectively.

Everyone has a darker side, but successful people learn to channel theirs productively into discipline, creativity, and drive.

Psychology isn’t just theory; it’s a toolkit. Learn how people think, act, and decide, and you’ll know how to lead them, influence them, and even understand yourself better.

Final Thoughts

The digital age offers endless opportunities, but only to those who are willing to take responsibility, confront discomfort, and keep improving.

Becoming a man today means embracing the hard truths most avoid.

Because at the end of the day, success isn’t about luck. It’s about who you become when life tests you the most.

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