Success Advice
Positive Vibes Elevate Your Success And Are Infectious – Here’s Why
Have you ever wondered how the school captain or the CEO of a company attracts so much success in their life? Well, I know I have. The traits that these two highly successful individuals possess is part of what puts them at a higher level than their peers.
Like anything, there is more to the story. I have gone out of my way recently to give out more positive vibes and find ways of getting people to think differently. Last week, I was in a room with a few other people.
What started out as a general chitchat, turned into a pep talk that inspired those who were present. As you learn not to be afraid and speak up for the benefit of those around you, strange and mysterious things start to occur. You become the person that people look up to.
Often, you’re not told of your newfound leadership position, until at a later point in time you figure out just how highly valuable you have become. Good vibes play a big part in this scenario happening in your life.
It turns out from my experience that positive vibes are infectious. There are so many negative people in the world that are quick to criticise others and are all too happy to be lazy. When someone comes along that bucks the trend and has positive vibes, the advantages become endless.
Below are 6 benefits that come from giving off good vibes:
1. People want to be around uplifting individuals
We’ve all been to a music concert at least once in our life. The whole point of going, although we may not realise this, is that we want to be around uplifting individuals. The music idols you see up on stage are the reason why you are happy to part with hundreds of dollars to be in attendance.
Going to a concert really just translates to chasing a feeling. Feelings are generally contracted from uplifting individuals (at least the feelings we want like happiness, humor, and wisdom).
For you to become infectious in other people’s minds, you need to look for ways to uplift them. Here are a few:
– Give them strategies to problems that are hurting them
– Make people smile
– Tell a joke
– Encourage them to do something they fear
By doing any of the above tasks, you have the power to transcend beyond your own life and give off the type of good vibes that turn ordinary souls into epic leaders!
2. The missing keys to your vision reveal themselves
The genetic makeup of your vision consists of several layers of tools / strategies that you need to acquire. When you give off good vibes, people want to go out of their way to help you. The way this process works is that people who like the way you are will ask you questions about what interests you.
The universe then takes these cryptic questions and translates them into the missing keys you need for your vision. Putting the spiritual aspect aside, most of what you need to achieve your vision is going to come from other people.
These people will only give you what you require when they feel the good vibes that you give off. The golden rule is that people want to help someone that shows their true colors and isn’t selfish.
All that free knowledge that you give to those around you and anyone you meet accumulates over time. Then, behind the scenes, people conspire to find the tools and resources you need to change the world. This advice might sound simplistic, and that’s because it is.
3. Major change comes from positivity
The people that bring about change are the one’s who dare to be insanely positive 24/7. Game changing people are created as a direct result of their positive vibes. A passion for life and your work is hard to stay away from, and everybody wants to be around those infectious feelings.
What’s unhealthy is going to the same job you hate every day and having no passion for what you do. People can tell when you are just existing and not living. Zombies are real human beings too it’s just they are dead inside.
You’re not a zombie, and you are capable of incredible things when you focus your day on being a shining light for those around you. If you lack customers for your startup, or you feel you don’t have enough followers on social media, then the key to it all is to give off more positive vibes.
The difference between someone who is unhappy and someone that is crushing their goals and making a healthy living is the vibes they give off. Rich people are not lucky; they understand that success is built on top of who you are and how you act.
Negative people don’t make change, people with good vibes do. You can be that extraordinary person if you choose too.
“Want more success? Then start becoming one of those magnet-like personalities that can be smacked down to the ground, yelled at, and then can get back up with a big cheesy smile”
4. You get goose bump moments
That feeling you get when a burst of energy shoots up your spine, and you get goosebumps all over is a result of good vibes. When you consistently put out more positivity and hope into the world, people feel in debt to you, and they create these goosebump moments for you.
Goosebump moments are often hidden as a thank you from all of those that you inspire. I’ve recently had these moments quite a bit. I had two ex-girlfriends that I haven’t spoken to in years start to follow my work and tell me that I had made a difference in their life.
One of the messages I got from them sent shivers down the back of my spine. Its days like this that make all of the long hours worth it. What you give comes right back at you.
People want to be around you when you behave like a spectacular human being (even if you did hurt someone badly in a former romantic relationship). You’ll be shocked how people will come out of the woodwork that you never expected to hear from when you give off positive vibes on a regular basis.
5. Free lunch and coffee
As you become known for the person that gives off good vibes people around you will want to take you out for lunch or coffee. Why is that? It’s because they perceive you to be someone that is in control of your life.
Everyone wants to know how to be a better version of themselves and when you give off good vibes you become the go-to expert in the field. These free lunches and coffees are a chance for someone to interview you about the steps you took to get into this all mighty powerful state.
This is happening to me a lot at the moment. The trick is not to get cocky but to be humble and to continue giving off positive vibes.
6. The law of attraction works in your favor
Giving off good vibes has a parallel connection to the movie “The Secret.” If you haven’t seen it, I suggest you watch it right away. Essentially, the movie explains that when you give off good vibes, you are also giving off good vibrations.
The vibrations that we give off affect the thought patterns of those around us. Humans that vibrate at the same frequency are naturally attracted to each other, and that’s why your success will change when you embrace this universal law.
Attracting more successful people to your vision is a matter of giving off the right energy in the first place. Giving off negative energy and bad vibes will only give you the opposite of what you are seeking.
How do you feel when you are around people that give off good vibes? Let me know on my website timdenning.net or my Facebook.
Life
9 Harsh Truths Every Young Man Must Face to Succeed in the Modern World
Before chasing success, every young man needs to face these 9 brutal realities shaping masculinity in the modern world.
Many young men today quietly battle depression, loneliness, and a sense of confusion about who they’re meant to be.
Some blame the lack of deep friendships or romantic relationships. Others feel lost in a digital world that often labels traditional masculinity as “toxic.”
But the truth is this: becoming a man in the modern age takes more than just surviving. It takes resilience, direction, and a willingness to grow even when no one’s watching.
Success doesn’t arrive by accident or luck. It’s built on discipline, sacrifice, and consistency.
Here are 9 harsh truths every young man should know if he wants to thrive, not just survive, in the digital age.
1. Never Use Your Illness as an Excuse
As Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often says, successful people don’t complain; they act.
Your illness, hardship, or struggle shouldn’t define your limits; it should define your motivation. Rest when you must, but always get back up and keep building your dreams. Motivation doesn’t appear magically. It comes after you take action.
Here are five key lessons I’ve learned from Dr. Peterson:
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Learn to write clearly; clarity of thought makes you dangerous.
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Read quality literature in your free time.
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Nurture a strong relationship with your family.
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Share your ideas publicly; your voice matters.
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Become a “monster”, powerful, but disciplined enough to control it.
The best leaders and thinkers are grounded. They welcome criticism, adapt quickly, and keep moving forward no matter what.
2. You Can’t Please Everyone And That’s Okay
You don’t need a crowd of people to feel fulfilled. You need a few friends who genuinely accept you for who you are.
If your circle doesn’t bring out your best, it’s okay to walk away. Solitude can be a powerful teacher. It gives you space to understand what you truly want from life. Remember, successful men aren’t people-pleasers; they’re purpose-driven.
3. You Can Control the Process, Not the Outcome
Especially in creative work, writing, business, or content creation, you control effort, not results.
You might publish two articles a day, but you can’t dictate which one will go viral. Focus on mastery, not metrics. Many great writers toiled for years in obscurity before anyone noticed them. Rejection, criticism, and indifference are all part of the path.
The best creators focus on storytelling, not applause.
4. Rejection Is Never Personal
Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It simply means your offer, idea, or timing didn’t align.
Every successful person has faced rejection repeatedly. What separates them is persistence and perspective. They see rejection as feedback, not failure. The faster you learn that truth, the faster you’ll grow.
5. Women Value Comfort and Security
Understanding women requires maturity and empathy.
Through books, lectures, and personal growth, I’ve learned that most women desire a man who is grounded, intelligent, confident, emotionally stable, and consistent. Some want humor, others intellect, but nearly all want to feel safe and supported.
Instead of chasing attention, work on self-improvement. Build competence and confidence, and the rest will follow naturally.
6. There’s No Such Thing as Failure, Only Lessons
A powerful lesson from Neuro-Linguistic Programming: failure only exists when you stop trying.
Every mistake brings data. Every setback builds wisdom. The most successful men aren’t fearless. They’ve simply learned to act despite fear.
Be proud of your scars. They’re proof you were brave enough to try.
7. Public Speaking Is an Art Form
Public speaking is one of the most valuable and underrated skills a man can master.
It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection. The best speakers tell stories, inspire confidence, and make people feel seen. They research deeply, speak honestly, and practice relentlessly.
If you can speak well, you can lead, sell, teach, and inspire. Start small, practice at work, in class, or even in front of a mirror, and watch your confidence skyrocket.
8. Teaching Is Leadership in Disguise
Great teachers are not just knowledgeable. They’re brave, compassionate, and disciplined.
Teaching forces you to articulate what you know, and in doing so, you master it at a deeper level. Whether you’re mentoring a peer, leading a team, or sharing insights online, teaching refines your purpose.
Lifelong learners become lifelong leaders.
9. Study Human Nature to Achieve Your Dreams
One of the toughest lessons to accept: most people are self-interested.
That’s not cynicism, it’s human nature. Understanding this helps you navigate relationships, business, and communication more effectively.
Everyone has a darker side, but successful people learn to channel theirs productively into discipline, creativity, and drive.
Psychology isn’t just theory; it’s a toolkit. Learn how people think, act, and decide, and you’ll know how to lead them, influence them, and even understand yourself better.
Final Thoughts
The digital age offers endless opportunities, but only to those who are willing to take responsibility, confront discomfort, and keep improving.
Becoming a man today means embracing the hard truths most avoid.
Because at the end of the day, success isn’t about luck. It’s about who you become when life tests you the most.
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