Success Advice
Hire Slow, Fail Fast, and Learn Faster
“It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all, in which case you have failed by default.” These words were once spoken by J. K. Rowling, famous British writer, and I believe they should be applied to a person’s success.
Failure is the best teacher. But we don’t often talk about the ‘F’ word in business because it’s often seen as a weakness, rather than a critical learning opportunity. Where this misconception came from, I have no idea. Some of your favorite musicians were rejected from major record labels before getting their big break. Many of Hollywood’s biggest movie stars tanked countless auditions before finally getting a single phone call back. Even Jeff Bezos wrote in a letter to his shareholders that, “If the size of your failures isn’t growing, you’re not going to be inventing at a size that can actually move the needle.”
Those who have made it to the big leagues all have stories — often multiple — to tell of failure, and they credit that to their success. So why don’t we talk about this more? Today’s business leaders must understand that in order to build a legacy, they can’t be afraid to roll with the punches.
The business world is unpredictable by nature. You can spend years nurturing an idea only to have a half-cocked plan turn out to be a million-dollar deal. The path to success isn’t for the easily deterred. It’s packed with rejection and criticism, both constructive and devastatingly harsh. Leaders must be comfortable taking the risks that will keep them at the forefront of their industries. They must be wise about who they allow on their teams, while embracing their own failures as a strategy for growth. In other words, they must hire slow, fail fast, and learn faster.
“Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. Failure is delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, not a dead end. Failure is something we can avoid only by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.” – Denis Waitley
Pause before you hire
Whether someone chooses to move on from your company or a new role is identified within your organization, it’s tempting to want to move quickly to fill the void. Instead of haphazardly posting online, exploiting your contact list, and frantically interviewing in hopes of finding a new hire that day, take a step back to regroup.
Hiring from a desperate place is a surefire way to get the wrong people on board, which could slow down production, devastate your company culture, and even damage your reputation in the industry. This slow-and-steady approach is not only the best way forward, it will put you in front of the best candidate for the job.
Leaders that are trying to survive while short-handed can be completely oblivious to the reliable employees and other options that lie at their fingertips. Take stock of who you already have on the job. Are they carrying their weight? Are they making the most out of the time and resources that have been afforded to them? Have they stepped up as a leader and are ready to take on additional responsibilities? Taking care of the workers that you have already appointed may help you arrive at the solution that you have been looking for instead of putting you in a predicament to lose your investment on a bad hire.
However, if your tasks truly outweigh your manpower, getting more hands on deck will be the answer to your troubles. But you need to make sure you’ve nailed down a steadfast hiring process first. Think in terms of quality, and have a firm set of attributes in mind that will rule out those who aren’t qualified for the job, even if their resumes are impressive at first glance. This could take several interviews with various candidates, but it’s a small price to pay to level up your business with devoted workers who are capable of handling the challenges ahead.
Fail forward and do so often
In an effort to avoid mistakes, a lot of leaders allow fear to paralyze them to a point where they’re unable to convince themselves to take any action at all. This delusional stance leads to a failure by omission, which only ends in even greater fear and stagnancy. So, while it is expertly advised to make slow hires, the truth isn’t the same for taking the necessary risks to further a company’s success. In these cases, you will want to fail fast, but do so in a way that minimizes your losses and puts you further ahead than you were before.
This concept of failing fast may be hard for a lot of leaders to comprehend. It’s hard enough for people to admit to their failures, let alone welcoming those failures so that they can continue forging ahead. Failing fast in a forward motion does not mean jumping into poorly-thought-out situations or betting it all without the possibility of a return that is worthwhile. It is, however, about taking risks, executing ideas, and figuring out what went wrong so that you are able to jump back into the game as soon as possible.
Learn from your failures
Failures are never fun in the moment, but they’re an inevitable part of business. Think of them as your best source of feedback. Mistakes shine a spotlight on any weaknesses and vulnerabilities that exist within your organization, and even within yourself. Let them inform your flaws so that you can strengthen your foundation as you continue to push ahead. When you gain something from failure, it isn’t a defeat at all.
The next time you face rejection, take a step back, ask plenty of questions, and apply those answers to create an opportunity to make an even greater impact thereafter. Some of your most significant successes will come as a result of the tough lessons learned from your misfortunes, making failure worth the bet each and every time.
To be truly exceptional in such competitive and volatile industries, you must be willing to try your hand time and time again. Last week’s ‘nos’ won’t doom you to failure, and a recent ‘yes’ may soon lose its relevance if you neglect to show up again. True triumph lies in your ability to endure failures like a champ, make fast recoveries, and be on your way to conquering your next mission.
Life
9 Harsh Truths Every Young Man Must Face to Succeed in the Modern World
Before chasing success, every young man needs to face these 9 brutal realities shaping masculinity in the modern world.
Many young men today quietly battle depression, loneliness, and a sense of confusion about who they’re meant to be.
Some blame the lack of deep friendships or romantic relationships. Others feel lost in a digital world that often labels traditional masculinity as “toxic.”
But the truth is this: becoming a man in the modern age takes more than just surviving. It takes resilience, direction, and a willingness to grow even when no one’s watching.
Success doesn’t arrive by accident or luck. It’s built on discipline, sacrifice, and consistency.
Here are 9 harsh truths every young man should know if he wants to thrive, not just survive, in the digital age.
1. Never Use Your Illness as an Excuse
As Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often says, successful people don’t complain; they act.
Your illness, hardship, or struggle shouldn’t define your limits; it should define your motivation. Rest when you must, but always get back up and keep building your dreams. Motivation doesn’t appear magically. It comes after you take action.
Here are five key lessons I’ve learned from Dr. Peterson:
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Learn to write clearly; clarity of thought makes you dangerous.
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Read quality literature in your free time.
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Nurture a strong relationship with your family.
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Share your ideas publicly; your voice matters.
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Become a “monster”, powerful, but disciplined enough to control it.
The best leaders and thinkers are grounded. They welcome criticism, adapt quickly, and keep moving forward no matter what.
2. You Can’t Please Everyone And That’s Okay
You don’t need a crowd of people to feel fulfilled. You need a few friends who genuinely accept you for who you are.
If your circle doesn’t bring out your best, it’s okay to walk away. Solitude can be a powerful teacher. It gives you space to understand what you truly want from life. Remember, successful men aren’t people-pleasers; they’re purpose-driven.
3. You Can Control the Process, Not the Outcome
Especially in creative work, writing, business, or content creation, you control effort, not results.
You might publish two articles a day, but you can’t dictate which one will go viral. Focus on mastery, not metrics. Many great writers toiled for years in obscurity before anyone noticed them. Rejection, criticism, and indifference are all part of the path.
The best creators focus on storytelling, not applause.
4. Rejection Is Never Personal
Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It simply means your offer, idea, or timing didn’t align.
Every successful person has faced rejection repeatedly. What separates them is persistence and perspective. They see rejection as feedback, not failure. The faster you learn that truth, the faster you’ll grow.
5. Women Value Comfort and Security
Understanding women requires maturity and empathy.
Through books, lectures, and personal growth, I’ve learned that most women desire a man who is grounded, intelligent, confident, emotionally stable, and consistent. Some want humor, others intellect, but nearly all want to feel safe and supported.
Instead of chasing attention, work on self-improvement. Build competence and confidence, and the rest will follow naturally.
6. There’s No Such Thing as Failure, Only Lessons
A powerful lesson from Neuro-Linguistic Programming: failure only exists when you stop trying.
Every mistake brings data. Every setback builds wisdom. The most successful men aren’t fearless. They’ve simply learned to act despite fear.
Be proud of your scars. They’re proof you were brave enough to try.
7. Public Speaking Is an Art Form
Public speaking is one of the most valuable and underrated skills a man can master.
It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection. The best speakers tell stories, inspire confidence, and make people feel seen. They research deeply, speak honestly, and practice relentlessly.
If you can speak well, you can lead, sell, teach, and inspire. Start small, practice at work, in class, or even in front of a mirror, and watch your confidence skyrocket.
8. Teaching Is Leadership in Disguise
Great teachers are not just knowledgeable. They’re brave, compassionate, and disciplined.
Teaching forces you to articulate what you know, and in doing so, you master it at a deeper level. Whether you’re mentoring a peer, leading a team, or sharing insights online, teaching refines your purpose.
Lifelong learners become lifelong leaders.
9. Study Human Nature to Achieve Your Dreams
One of the toughest lessons to accept: most people are self-interested.
That’s not cynicism, it’s human nature. Understanding this helps you navigate relationships, business, and communication more effectively.
Everyone has a darker side, but successful people learn to channel theirs productively into discipline, creativity, and drive.
Psychology isn’t just theory; it’s a toolkit. Learn how people think, act, and decide, and you’ll know how to lead them, influence them, and even understand yourself better.
Final Thoughts
The digital age offers endless opportunities, but only to those who are willing to take responsibility, confront discomfort, and keep improving.
Becoming a man today means embracing the hard truths most avoid.
Because at the end of the day, success isn’t about luck. It’s about who you become when life tests you the most.
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