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3 Reasons Your Kids Need to Listen to Inspirational Content in the Morning

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What is the very first thing you reach for in the morning? Be honest. It’s your smartphone. We all do it. It takes a very disciplined person to not reach for your phone. This is a very dangerous habit for a variety of reasons, but most importantly, it sets the tone for your day.

If the first thing you do is look at the news, which is almost never positive, you are feeding your mind mental potato chips. Having a bag of chips every once in a while probably won’t do any long term damage to your body, but eating these deep fried snacks every day, or worse yet, multiple times a day, will most definitely start to take its toll on your body, your health, and your mental well being. Ditto on checking email or social media. These should not be the first images your mind sees.

When you wake up, your brain is in what is referred to as alpha stage. It is in this stage that your subconscious mind is susceptible to whatever messages you send it. Send it negative messages about doom, despair, and problems at the office, and your brain will respond back with dreadful thoughts and runaway fantasies about just that. It can and will do this on autopilot, the same way you can drive to work multitasking not even remembering the route you took to get there. It’s scary how the brain can play these negative novelas in our heads without us even trying.

I have good news for you. If the first thing you do is listen to something inspirational, you are feeding your mind mental protein. All human beings need protein in the literal sense. In the figurative sense, your brain needs mental protein. I’ll speak for myself, but my brain needs it hourly. If I am not careful, my brain has no problem spielberg-ing one of those negative novelas I alluded to earlier.

Several years ago I decided that I would apply the same practice with my children. Every morning in the car I play motivational speeches by Oprah, Ellen DeGeneres, Les Brown, Joel Osteen, Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, and many more, as I drove them to school. That 15-20 minute ride is our time. I won’t respond to phone calls or emails and I’ll have them put their phones away. They have to listen to whatever message I’m playing for them that morning.

Then came Alexa. We have multiple Alexa speakers throughout the house so I stream the speeches on all the devices in the home the minute I wake them up at 7:00 AM. I make sure that the very first thing they hear is something motivational and something to inspire them. 

I’ll also start the day with the song “Eye of The Tiger” by Survivor and then transition into the talks. Most of the stuff I play for them has to be set to some type of music or I tend to lose them. I have it playing as they get dressed, as they eat cereal, and as they brush their teeth, and groom themselves. I don’t turn Alexa off until we are out the door. Once we are in the car it resumes again.

“Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.” – Les Brown

Below are three reasons your kids need to listen to inspirational content in the morning:

1. Not Everything is on Prime Now

The Prime Now generation is used to instant gratification. Everything they could ever want is at their fingertips instantly. Food? Order from Grubhub or Doordash. Movie? Stream it or buy it. Video game? Download it. Underwear? On it’s way. You don’t even have to leave your home if you don’t want to. This is an amazing luxury when you are a consumer and you have money to spend.

You and I both know that the real world doesn’t operate this way. Dear child, you want to master the piano? Prime Now can’t help you. My son, you didn’t make the football team? Binging on the entire catalog of football movies on Netflix isn’t going to help you. Our children think reaching a goal is easy. Why shouldn’t they? They’ve grown up thinking everything is instant.

Many, if not most of these talks tackle the topic of failure, persistence, and grit. Children need to hear these messages of resiliency more than ever so that when they do hit their first wall of rejection or failure, and we know they will, they are prepared to handle it and understand that it is just part of the journey.

2. The “F” Word

Most of us were raised in a household where we were taught that to be “the best” you had to make the fewest mistakes. This was then reinforced in school and sometimes even in church. Children are taught at a young age to avoid failure. They are led to believe that coloring outside the lines, risk taking, and making mistakes are not rewarded.

Failure is my favorite “F” word. If there is anything that these motivational speeches have taught me and my children, it is that failure is not the end of the world. 

Our kids know about Thomas Edison’s 1000 failed attempts at creating the lightbulb. They know about David Goggins having to complete 60,000+ pullups just to be able to break the record of 4030. Our five children know that JK Rowling was rejected by 12 publishers before publishing her first Harry Potter novel. Our kids have a friendly relationship with failure. To them, failure is just a part of the process. 

“It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all, in which case you have failed by default.” – J. K. Rowling

3. Celebs Carry More Weight

I’m just Dad. I’m the guy who asks my kids to take out the garbage or put the dishes away. I’m sure this doesn’t happen to you, but sometimes, my messages fall on deaf ears at home. When my children hear Dwayne Johnson talk about hard work and waking up at 4:30 AM in the morning to go to the gym, it impresses them because, well, look at him. My wife and I wake up at 4:30 AM in the morning to hit the gym too, but I don’t look like him. It sounds intense coming from him. It doesn’t sound awesome coming from me.

The same thing goes for influencers. I love it when I hear influencers share their journey about how long it took to become successful at whatever it is that they are doing. 

My kids love watching multi-millionaire professional gamer Ninja. I loved watching the video on his rise to fame and his dedication to his craft. Same thing with Ryan’s family from Ryan’s Toy Review. That family had to put out one piece of content every day for a long time before they saw success. One piece of video content every day is not easy, especially when you are not making money to do it.

I hope you enjoyed this piece and look forward to hearing about your results from having your children listen to inspirational messages in the morning!

My name is Paul Argueta. I have been featured on the Inc 5000 list twice. I own a real estate brokerage and employ over 100 independent contractors as real estate agents. I am a huge sports nut and decided that I would find a way to combine sports with real estate. These days I assist Pro Athletes during their relocation process and even E-Sports gamers. I am happily married with 5 children. Balancing the pursuit of success while being a present husband and father is a challenge and my passion. You can reach me at https://www.facebook.com/talktopaulargueta.

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How to Stay Organized When You’re Rarely at Your Desk

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Not everyone spends their workday in an office. Some people go from one client meeting to another, visit different locations, attend events, or spend hours traveling for work. When you’re always moving, even simple tasks can become harder to keep track of.

You might leave a meeting with three things to follow up on, remember an important call on your way to the next appointment, or realize you’ve forgotten to send a document you promised earlier.

It’s easy for small things to slip through when your attention is divided between different places and people.

That doesn’t mean you need another productivity app or a complicated planning system. A few changes to how you manage your day can make it easier to stay organized, even when your office is wherever you happen to be.

Plan Your Day Before You Leave

A busy day is much easier to handle when you know what’s ahead.

Before leaving home, check your calendar. Look at where you need to be, how much time each appointment will take, and whether you need to bring anything specific.

Don’t forget about travel time. An hour-long meeting can easily take up two hours of your day once you include getting there and back.

Try picking three tasks you really need to finish. These don’t have to be the biggest things on your list. Focus on what needs your attention today and what will cause problems if you leave it until tomorrow.

Keep the list somewhere you’ll actually look at it.

A notebook works just as well as a task management app if you find it easier to use. The point is to have one place where you can quickly check what still needs doing.

It’s also worth leaving some space between meetings. Traffic happens, conversations run longer than expected, and sometimes a client needs a few extra minutes. If your calendar is packed from morning to evening, one delay can throw everything off.

Keep Your Notes in One Place

When you’re meeting different people throughout the day, remembering every conversation isn’t easy.

You might discuss a project over coffee, receive an update during a phone call, and agree to send something after an afternoon meeting. By the evening, some of those details may already be difficult to remember.

Things get even more confusing when your notes are scattered across notebooks, messages, and different apps.

Choose one place to keep them.

If you like writing by hand, carry a small notebook. If your phone is more convenient, stick to the same notes app instead of saving information wherever it’s easiest at the moment.

After each meeting, take a minute to write down what was agreed.

You don’t need to record the entire conversation. Write down what needs to happen next, who is responsible, and when it should be done.

For example, “Send the revised proposal to Sarah by Thursday afternoon” is much more useful than “Follow up with client.”

Voice notes can help when typing isn’t convenient, but only use them when it’s safe and appropriate. If you’re driving, wait until you’ve parked unless you can use an approved hands-free system without taking your attention off the road.

Even a short note can save you from trying to remember an important detail hours later.

Make Technology Fit the Way You Work

Phones and laptops are useful, but they aren’t always convenient when you’re moving between places.

Think about how often you reach for your phone during a busy day. You might need to check an address, answer a call, look at your calendar, or find a message from a colleague.

None of these tasks takes very long on its own. But when you’re constantly stopping what you’re doing to check something, it becomes harder to stay focused.

The American Psychological Association’s research on multitasking explains how switching between tasks can affect how quickly and accurately people work. Even brief interruptions can make it harder to return to what you were doing.

AI assistants aren’t limited to phones and computers anymore. People use them to set reminders, check their calendars, or find information during the day. Smartwatches can handle some of these tasks through voice commands, while eyewear such as Oakley Meta glasses with a personal AI assistant offers another way to use AI without relying on a phone screen. These options can be useful when you’re moving between appointments, although it’s still worth deciding which tasks need your attention right away and which can wait.

And sometimes, the best thing you can do is turn off a few notifications. Not every message needs your attention the moment it arrives.

Give Yourself Time Between Meetings

When your calendar is full, the time between meetings often disappears.

You finish one conversation, hurry to another location, and start the next meeting without having a chance to think about what was discussed.

By the end of the day, you may have attended several important meetings but still have a long list of things to sort out.

Try leaving ten or fifteen minutes between appointments when you can.

Use that time to make a few notes, send a quick follow-up, or check what you need for your next meeting. You might also want to take a short break, especially if you’ve spent the whole morning talking to people.

It’s tempting to fill every free moment with another task. When you’re running a business or managing several projects, there’s usually something waiting to be done.

But an extra meeting isn’t always the best use of those few minutes.

Sometimes, giving yourself time to finish one thing properly makes the rest of the day easier.

Set a Time to Deal With Messages

Emails and messages can take up more of your day than you realize.

You might receive an email just before a meeting, read it quickly, and forget to reply. An hour later, another message arrives about the same issue. Soon, you’re checking your inbox every few minutes because you don’t want to miss anything.

This is a common problem. Microsoft’s 2025 Work Trend Index research found that its most frequently interrupted Microsoft 365 users received emails, meeting invitations, or chat messages roughly every two minutes during working hours. With so many things competing for attention, it’s easy to lose track of what you were doing.

Try setting aside a few times during the day to deal with messages that aren’t urgent.

You could check your inbox before your first meeting, around lunchtime, and again before finishing work.

This doesn’t mean ignoring important calls or requests that need a quick answer. It simply gives you more control over when you deal with routine communication.

It also helps to let colleagues and clients know when you’ll be available.

If you’re spending the afternoon visiting a client, tell your team. They won’t have to keep following up while you’re busy, and you’ll have fewer messages asking for an immediate response.

For urgent matters, agree on another way for people to contact you.

Once everyone knows what to expect, you won’t feel as much pressure to respond to every notification straight away.

Keep the Things You Need Within Reach

Being organized isn’t just about managing your calendar. The things you carry matter, too.

If you’re moving between appointments, you’ll probably need your phone, charger, laptop, documents, and a few personal items throughout the day.

It’s frustrating when you know you’ve packed something but can’t find it when you need it.

Choose a bag with enough separate spaces to keep the things you use most often in place. Put your charger in the same pocket, keep your documents together, and make sure your keys are easy to reach.

You don’t need a complicated system. Just get into the habit of putting things back in the same place.

A few backups can also be useful.

A portable charger helps when your phone battery runs low. A notebook can come in handy if you can’t access your notes app, and saving important documents for offline use means you won’t have to rely on a good internet connection.

There’s no reason to pack everything you might possibly need, though.

Think about the things you regularly find yourself looking for. If you’re always borrowing a pen or searching for a charging cable, it probably deserves a permanent place in your bag.

Finish the Day With a Quick Review

By the time you get home, you might not feel like thinking about work anymore. But spending five or ten minutes checking what still needs to be done can make the next morning less stressful.

Look through your notes from the day. Did you promise to send anything? Is there someone you need to call back? Are there tasks that should go on tomorrow’s list?

Move anything unfinished to the next day and make sure important appointments are in your calendar.

You can also prepare a few things before putting your bag away.

Charge your devices, return documents to the right place, and check where you need to be for your first meeting.

This shouldn’t turn into another hour of work.

You’re simply making sure you won’t wake up trying to remember everything you forgot to do the day before.

And if something can wait, leave it for tomorrow. Staying organized should make it easier to finish working, not give you another reason to stay busy all evening.

Working away from a desk means dealing with meetings, travel, unexpected calls, and plans that don’t always go the way you expected.

Keeping everything organized takes a little effort, but it doesn’t need to become another big task.

Start the day knowing what needs your attention. Keep your notes together, leave enough time between appointments, and choose when to deal with routine messages.

Use technology when it makes something easier, but don’t feel that you need another device for every problem.

You won’t always have control over how your day goes. Still, knowing what needs to be done and where to find the things you need can make even a busy schedule feel more manageable.

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The Entrepreneur’s Guide to Getting Time Back Without Doing Everything Yourself

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The early stages of building a business often reward resourcefulness. Founders learn to handle sales, administration, marketing and customer service because there is nobody else to do them. Over time, however, the habit of doing everything can become its own constraint. The calendar fills up, attention fragments and important decisions are squeezed between errands.

Getting time back is not simply a matter of working faster. It requires deciding where your attention makes the greatest difference and creating support for the rest. Small, thoughtful changes at work and at home can create more room for the activities that matter most.

Audit Your Week Honestly

For several days, note how you spend your time. Include the small tasks that rarely appear in a formal schedule: chasing an invoice, responding to routine questions, sorting laundry or making repeated trips for supplies. You do not need a sophisticated tracking system. A simple list can reveal patterns.

Next to each activity, write whether it must be done by you, can be simplified or could be delegated. Be realistic about commitments that are personally important. The aim is not to turn every hour into billable work; it is to understand which obligations are consuming energy without a deliberate choice.

Protect The Work That Needs Your Attention

Identify a few activities where your involvement is especially valuable. That might be building relationships with key customers, setting direction or developing a new offer. Reserve time for those priorities before the week fills up with reactive tasks. A clear boundary around a short block of focused work can be more useful than an ambitious schedule that is never followed.

Tell colleagues when you are available for questions and when you need uninterrupted time. Where possible, group routine decisions into designated check-in periods. The goal is not to become inaccessible, but to reduce the constant switching that makes meaningful work difficult.

Decide What To Delegate

Delegation begins with a clear outcome. Explain what needs to be done, what good work looks like and when a decision should come back to you. Start with a repeatable task and give the person responsible enough context to succeed. If the result is not quite right, improve the instructions rather than immediately taking the task back.

The same principle can apply outside the business. For example, someone looking for support with a recurring household chore could explore services such as The Laundry Lady Canada. Check current availability, pricing and service details before booking, and decide whether the convenience fits your circumstances.

Calculate Value In Context

When considering help, compare the cost with what you gain, not just with the time it takes to complete the task yourself. The benefit may be an hour for a client project, a calmer evening with family or simply less mental clutter. Those outcomes are not identical, and only you can decide which are worth paying for.

Keep the budget realistic. Delegation should not create financial pressure that outweighs the relief it provides. Consider testing a service or arrangement for a limited period, then review whether it genuinely improved your week.

Create Systems That Are Easy To Maintain

A system does not need to be complicated. A shared checklist for opening the shop, a template for common customer questions or a regular household collection point can prevent repeated decisions. Document the steps in language that another person can understand and keep the instructions where they will actually be used.

Review these systems occasionally. If a checklist has become longer than the task itself, simplify it. If a delegated job still generates a stream of questions, clarify the boundaries. The best process is the one that makes reliable action easier, not the one with the most detail.

Communicate the change with the people who share your responsibilities. A new household routine or workplace process is more likely to stick when everyone understands what has changed and where to find the details. Keep expectations modest at first, and invite feedback about anything that creates new work for someone else. Saving your own time should not simply move an invisible burden onto another person.

Make Space For Recovery

It can be tempting to fill every hour you recover with more work. Resist making that the automatic choice. Rest, relationships and unstructured time are part of a sustainable life, not rewards that must be earned after everything else is finished. Decide in advance how you want to use at least some of the space you create.

You do not have to delegate everything at once. Choose one recurring task, make a plan and review the result after a few weeks. Building a business is demanding; building a life that can support it is a worthwhile project too.

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Why Mastering Hands-On Skills Can Help You Develop A Stronger Growth Mindset

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Success rarely comes from talent alone. It often develops through consistent effort, a willingness to learn, and the ability to overcome challenges. While many people associate personal development with reading books, attending seminars, or practicing mindfulness, learning hands-on skills can be equally valuable.

Learning these practical activities encourages you to think differently:

  • Woodworking
  • Welding
  • Automotive repair
  • Home improvement

They challenge your patience, strengthen your problem-solving skills, and teach you to see mistakes as opportunities to improve. Over time, these experiences can help you develop a stronger growth mindset that extends beyond the workshop and into everyday life.

Understanding The Connection Between Practical Skills And A Growth Mindset

A growth mindset is the belief that abilities and intelligence can develop through effort, learning, and experience. Rather than viewing challenges as evidence of personal limitations, people with a growth mindset see them as opportunities to improve.

Hands-on activities naturally encourage this mindset because progress rarely happens immediately. Learning to weld two pieces of metal together or build a wooden table requires practice, concentration, and repeated adjustments.

Each attempt provides feedback about what works and what needs improvement. As your abilities develop, you begin to recognize that persistence and deliberate practice can produce meaningful results.

This realization can change how you approach other challenges. Instead of assuming something is beyond your capabilities, you become more willing to explore solutions and develop the necessary skills.

Learning To Embrace Challenges Instead Of Avoiding Them

One of the biggest obstacles to personal growth is the fear of doing something difficult. Many people avoid unfamiliar activities because they worry about making mistakes, wasting time, or appearing inexperienced.

Practical skills encourage you to confront these concerns directly. When you begin learning a trade or tackling a DIY project, you quickly discover that challenges are unavoidable.

A beginner learning woodworking might struggle to make accurate measurements or assemble pieces correctly. Someone learning automotive repair might spend hours identifying the cause of a mechanical problem.

Although these situations can feel frustrating, overcoming them builds confidence and resilience. Every challenge you successfully navigate reinforces your ability to handle unfamiliar situations.

Eventually, you may begin approaching difficulties with curiosity rather than hesitation. This shift can positively influence your career, relationships, and personal ambitions.

Building Confidence Through Visible Progress

Confidence often develops when you have tangible evidence of your capabilities. Hands-on activities provide this evidence because they allow you to see the results of your efforts.

Imagine starting a project with little knowledge and gradually developing the skills needed to complete it. The finished product becomes a physical reminder of your progress and determination.

Unlike some personal development activities, practical work often provides immediate feedback. As you gain experience, you can identify improvements in accuracy, efficiency, craftsmanship, and overall quality.

These small achievements build a stronger sense of self-efficacy, or your belief in your ability to accomplish specific tasks. Greater self-efficacy can encourage you to pursue more ambitious goals.

The key is to recognize progress rather than expect perfection. Celebrating small improvements helps maintain motivation while reinforcing the value of consistent effort.

Developing Patience And Long-Term Discipline

Modern life often encourages immediate results. From instant communication to convenient digital services, people have become accustomed to getting what they want quickly.

However, mastering a hands-on skill requires a different approach. You must spend time learning techniques, practicing movements, and correcting mistakes.

For example, becoming proficient in welding involves learning about materials, equipment, safety procedures, and different welding techniques. These abilities develop through structured learning and repeated practice, not shortcuts.

This process teaches you to appreciate gradual improvement. Instead of focusing exclusively on the final result, you learn to value the effort required to reach it.

The discipline developed through practical activities can support other areas of personal development. Whether you’re building a business, improving your fitness, or learning a new language, consistent effort remains essential.

Strengthening Problem-Solving And Critical Thinking Skills

Hands-on projects rarely go exactly as planned. Unexpected complications force you to analyze situations, consider alternatives, and make informed decisions.

For example, a metalworking project might require you to adjust measurements, reconsider your design, or change your approach. Rather than abandoning the project, you must identify the problem and determine how to resolve it.

This process strengthens critical thinking by encouraging experimentation and independent decision-making. You learn to evaluate different solutions instead of relying on a single approach.

These abilities are valuable in professional environments where adaptability and creative thinking are essential. Entrepreneurs, managers, and employees regularly encounter situations that require practical solutions.

Developing problem-solving skills through hands-on activities can make you more confident when facing uncertainty. You become better prepared to assess challenges and respond constructively.

Understanding The Importance Of Preparation And Safety

Personal growth involves more than developing technical abilities. It also requires responsibility, preparation, and an understanding of potential risks.

Practical activities reinforce these qualities because success depends on using appropriate techniques and equipment. Welding, for example, requires proper training, protective clothing, suitable eye protection, and careful attention to workplace safety.

Companies such as Ridge Products Welding offer welding helmets and lenses designed for different welding applications. Those exploring suitable protective equipment can shop now while considering their projects’ specific requirements.

Prioritizing safety encourages thoughtful decision-making rather than unnecessary risk-taking. This responsible approach can carry over into professional and personal situations where preparation makes a meaningful difference.

Turning Mistakes Into Opportunities For Improvement

Mistakes are an unavoidable part of learning something new. However, your response to those mistakes often determines whether you continue improving or become discouraged.

When developing practical skills, errors provide valuable information about your technique and understanding. An uneven cut, inaccurate measurement, or unsuccessful repair can reveal exactly where adjustments are necessary.

Instead of seeing these setbacks as failures, treat them as feedback. This perspective encourages reflection and helps you develop more effective strategies.

Over time, you become less concerned about making mistakes and more focused on learning from them. This mindset supports continuous improvement and encourages you to pursue challenges beyond your current abilities.

Applying A Growth Mindset To Everyday Life

The lessons learned through hands-on activities extend far beyond practical projects. Confidence, patience, discipline, and problem-solving abilities can influence how you approach personal and professional goals.

Someone who develops the persistence needed to master woodworking may apply that same determination to starting a business. Similarly, learning to troubleshoot mechanical problems can strengthen the analytical thinking required to overcome workplace challenges.

You can begin developing these qualities by choosing a practical activity that interests you. Set achievable goals, seek guidance from experienced individuals, and gradually increase the difficulty of your projects.

Most importantly, focus on consistent improvement rather than comparing your progress with others. Everyone develops skills at a different pace, and meaningful growth requires patience.

Conclusion

Mastering hands-on skills offers more than the satisfaction of completing practical projects. It creates opportunities to develop confidence, resilience, discipline, and a willingness to embrace challenges.

Every new technique you learn, and every obstacle you overcome, reinforces the belief that improvement is possible through effort. These experiences can gradually transform how you approach unfamiliar situations and personal ambitions.

A stronger growth mindset develops when you consistently challenge yourself and value learning. By investing time in practical skills, you can build capabilities that support success in nearly every area of life.

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JP Conte Took Up Surfing After Decades in Private Equity. Here’s What It Taught Him About Risk

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According to the Outdoor Industry Association’s 2026 participation report, a record total of 183.2 million participants took part in outdoor activities — or 59% of Americans ages 6 and older.

JP Conte is one of them.

Learning to Surf After a Career in Private Equity

Conte, founder and managing partner of his family office, Lupine Crest Capital, is credited with “more than three decades of experience building and transforming companies.” Water sports were not part of that record.

“After decades in private equity, I started sailing my boat around the world and learning to surf and kite surf,” he wrote in a column for Forbes Business Council.

“That unfamiliarity was precisely the point,” he wrote.

The Ski Slope and Risk

In Conte’s column, he breaks risk into three categories. “Smart risk requires understanding what you’re getting into while accepting incomplete information,” he wrote.

Reckless risk is taken when available facts are ignored. Playing it safe, in his telling, means you may never learn anything at all. His rule for staying out of both traps is simple: “Respect the uncertainty, but don’t let incomplete information paralyze you.”

He compared it to approaching a ski run. “You assess conditions, check equipment and commit once you start,” he wrote.

“Hesitation mid-slope is more dangerous than committed execution,” JP Conte wrote.

Real danger sits in the middle, he argued, where a person is neither prepared nor committed. Leaders can get stuck in the same spot.

Building Risk Tolerance One Wave at a Time

Boldness is not something people are simply born with, in JP Conte’s view. “Risk tolerance isn’t a fixed trait; it’s a developed skill,” he wrote.

His method is to practice on small choices and ones that provide rapid feedback. Water works well for that. A surfer who picks the wrong wave finds out within seconds, paddles back out and tries the next one.

“Physical activities like cycling, mountain biking, kiting or surfing involve constant micro-decisions with immediate feedback,” Conte wrote.

Carrying the Habits Back to Business

Executives were the column’s intended readers, and the advice is aimed at people who have spent years getting good at one thing. Conte argued that the core work of running a company, from analyzing data to building teams, carries over to nearly any industry.

He gave an example from two very different fields. A healthcare technology company adopting new ways to run clinical trials and a financial services firm rolling out digital platforms face similar problems, he wrote, even though the products have little in common.

“Many executives stay within their comfort zones because they fear looking inexperienced or making mistakes in new domains,” he wrote.

Before a big move, he urged readers to learn the territory. “Knowledge doesn’t eliminate uncertainty, but it converts wild uncertainty into calculated probability.”

Keep more than one effort going, he advised. “It ensures a setback in one area doesn’t eliminate your ability to take appropriate risks in others.”

And treat a bad outcome, whether it’s a wipeout on the slopes or a project that misses, as information for the next attempt.

“Failure becomes input for better future choices rather than evidence of inadequacy,” JP Conte wrote.

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