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How to Tame the Turbulent Mind in Uncertain Times

Uncertainty. We’ve heard that word a lot in the last few years. However, we have also seen that in nearly every uncertain period, resilience has manifested

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Uncertainty. We’ve heard that word a lot in the last few years. However, we have also seen that in nearly every uncertain period, resilience has manifested. Change is a constant part of our day-to-day lives. 

Some would argue that it’s the only thing we can accurately predict. In my experience which has spanned more than three decades in wealth management, I have seen market volatility come and go – and it is expected. 

The cycles are familiar—the economy expands and contracts and the markets rise and fall, and often our emotions get caught in the waves of change.

According to Schwab, market cycles vary in length. They’ve shared:

A bull market is a long-term uptrend marked by optimism and a robust economy. By contrast, a bear market is a prolonged downtrend, usually marked by declines of 20% from recent highs, accompanied by widespread negative sentiment. The record bull run in U.S. stocks, which began in early 2009 and ended in March 2020, is a recent example of a long-term market cycle.

Long-term cycles can also include several shorter cycles. For example, within a long-term cycle, there might be short-term sell-offs that didn’t turn into bear markets or periods of largely sideways price movement. As illustrated in the chart below, investors can reference a monthly chart of a benchmark like the S&P 500® index (SPX) for the past 20 years to identify previous long-term market cycles.

Throughout the years from cycle to cycle, I have said to clients, friends, peers, and beyond – get focused, not emotional. Learning to master your emotions can allow you to become a better investor because instead of making reactive choices, you can make intentional choices.

Here are 10 steps to manage the emotional flair that can occur when change rears its ugly head. These steps can pave the way for sound investment decisions while helping you maintain your overall well-being.

  1. Understand the Need to Evaluate Your Plan: Revisit your investment strategy based on your goals, risk tolerance, and time horizon. Review the guidelines you have in place for how to react to market fluctuations based on your individual scenario.
  2. Be On a Need-to-Know Basis: Keep up with market news, but don’t let it dominate your thoughts. Aim for a balanced view by consuming information from reputable sources without getting caught up in sensational headlines. Headlines sell but they are often a lot of hype to get views and clicks.
  3. Practice Mindfulness: Techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga can help you stay grounded and manage stress. Mindfulness can help you observe your emotions without letting them dictate your actions.
  4. Diversification: This can help mitigate risk while opening the doors of opportunity. Diversification can provide a cushion against market volatility that may result in a more stable overall return.
  5. Focus on Long-Term Goals: Keep your long-term goals in mind to avoid making impulsive decisions based on short-term market movements. Reactive decisions very rarely yield favorable results.
  6. Respond with Intention and Not Impulse: A knee-jerk reaction often doesn’t consider the whole picture. Instead, assess the situation from a 360-degree perspective, and consider whether any action is necessary based on your strategy.
  7. Communicate with Your Advisor: Connect with your trusted advisor to get an objective perspective on your investments and ensure that your strategy still aligns with your goals.
  8. Manage Expectations: Understand that market volatility is normal and that investing involves risk. Set realistic expectations for returns and be prepared for ups and downs. It’s all a part of the process.
  9. Acknowledge Your Stress and Address it: A healthy lifestyle supports emotional resilience. Taking the time to get in a good workout, ensuring you are getting enough quality sleep, and making nutritious food choices can fuel you during times of heightened stress. Recognizing you are under stress if the first step in preparing to address it effectively.
  10. Reflect on Past Experiences: Think about how you’ve reacted to past market volatility and whether those reactions were beneficial. Learn from past experiences to improve your response in the future.

We may not be able to control what happens to us in life, but we can always control how we respond to things. The key is to respond – not react. Reacting is an emotional response to a situation that’s often impulsive and can be influenced by our past experiences or fears. 

Responding is a thoughtful and deliberate action that involves considering the situation, weighing the options, and making an intentional decision.

By integrating these practices, you can better manage your emotions and make more rational decisions during periods of market volatility.

With over three decades of dedication and service, Bart A. Zandbergen is an esteemed Certified Financial Planner® and the Founder and CEO of The Zandbergen Group. As a nationally recognized authority in financial planning and investment advising, as well as a Certified Divorce Financial Advisor®, he has devoted his career to guiding clients to a life full of purpose and financial freedom through personalized financial planning. His integrity, laser sharp focus and skill at guiding his clientele’s financial future led to him being recognized as one of the nation’s top 1% of financial advisors, according to Forbes Magazine. Bart is also an accomplished public speaker; his expert point of view has been published in The New York Times, Forbes, The Orange County Register, Nobleman Magazine, Mensbook, Modern Luxury, Wellbeing Magazine, and Riviera.

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How Learning the Skill of Hope Can Change Everything

Hope isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a state of being and a skill that has profound evidence of helping people achieve success in life

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Hope isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a state of being and a skill that has profound evidence of helping people achieve success in life.

Wishful thinking, on the other hand, is like having dreams in the sky without a ladder to climb, having a destination without a map, or trying to operate a jet-engine airplane without instructions. It sounds nice but is impossible to realize. You don’t have what you need to make it happen!

What Real Hope Is

Real hope is actionable, practical, and realistic. Better yet, it’s feasible and can be learned.

One popular approach is Hope Theory. This concept is used by colleges to study how hope impacts students’ academic performance. Researchers found that students with high levels of hope achieve better grades and are more likely to graduate compared to those with less hope.

Hope can be broken down into two components:

  1. Pathways – The “how to” of hope. This is where people think of and establish plans for achieving their goals.
  2. Agency – The “I can” of hope. This is the belief that the person can accomplish their goals.

Does Hope Really Work?

According to Webster’s Dictionary, hope as a noun is defined as: “desire accompanied by expectation of or belief in fulfillment.”

As humans, we are wired to crave fulfillment. We have the ability to envision it and, through hope, make it a reality.

My Experience with Hope

For 13 years, I was a hopeless human. During my time working at a luxury hotel as a front desk agent earning $11.42 per hour, I felt the sting of hopelessness the most.

The regret of feeling my time was being stolen from me lingered every time I clocked in. Eventually, I decided to do something about it.

I gave myself permission to hope for something better. I began establishing pathways to success and regained agency by learning from self-help books and seeking mentorship.

Because I took action toward something I desired, I now feel more hope and joy than I ever felt hopelessness. Hope changed me.

Hope Actually Improves Your Life

Wishful thinking doesn’t work, and false hope is equally ineffective. Real hope, however, is directly tied to success in all areas of life.

Studies show that hopeful people tend to:

  • Demonstrate better problem-solving skills
  • Cultivate healthier relationships
  • Maintain stronger motivation to achieve goals
  • Exhibit better work ethic
  • Have a positive outlook on life

These benefits can impact work life, family life, habit-building, mental health, physical health, and spiritual practice. Imagine how much better your life could be by applying real hope to all these areas.

How to Develop the Skill to Hope

As acclaimed French writer Jean Giono wrote in The Man Who Planted Trees:
“There are also times in life when a person has to rush off in pursuit of hopefulness.”

If you are at one of those times, here are ways to develop the skill to hope:

1. Dream Again

To cultivate hope, you need to believe in its possibility. Start by:

  • Reflecting on what you’re passionate about, your values, and what you want to achieve.
  • Writing your dreams down, sharing them with someone encouraging, or saying them out loud.
  • Creating a vision board to make your dreams feel more tangible.

Dreams are the foundation of hope—they give you something meaningful to aspire toward.

2. Create an Environment of Hope

  • Set Goals: Write down your goals and create a plan to achieve them.
  • Visualize Success: Use inspirational quotes, photos, or tools like dumbbells or canvases to remind yourself of your goals.
  • Build a Resource Library: Collect books, eBooks, or audiobooks about hope and success to inspire you.

An environment that fosters hope will keep you motivated, resilient, and focused.

3. Face the Challenges

Don’t avoid challenges—overcoming them builds confidence. Participating in challenging activities, like strategic games, can enhance your problem-solving skills and reinforce hope.

4. Commit to Wisdom

Seek wisdom from those who have achieved what you aspire to. Whether through books, blogs, or social media platforms, learn from their journeys. Wisdom provides the foundation for real, actionable hope.

5. Take Note of Small Wins

Reflecting on past victories can fuel your hope for the future. Ask yourself:

  • What challenges have I already overcome?
  • How did I feel when I succeeded?

By remembering those feelings of happiness, relief, or satisfaction, your brain will naturally adopt a more hopeful mindset.

Conclusion

Hope is more than wishful thinking—it’s a powerful skill that can transform your life. By dreaming again, creating a hopeful environment, facing challenges, seeking wisdom, and celebrating small wins, you can develop the real hope necessary for success in all aspects of life.

Let hope guide you toward a brighter, more fulfilling future.

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The 5 Stages of a Quarter-Life Crisis & What You Can Do

A quarter-life crisis isn’t a sign you’ve lost your way; it’s a sign you’re fighting for a life that’s truly yours.

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The quarter-life crisis is a well-defined set of stages—Trapped, Checking Out, Separation, Exploration, Rebuilding—one goes through in breaking free from feelings of meaninglessness, lack of fulfillment, and misalignment with purpose. I detail the stages and interweave my story below. (more…)

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Here’s The Thing About Learning, Unlearning, and Relearning

Stop hoarding and start sharing your knowledge and wealth for the benefit of humankind

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Few people have the habit of hoarding their wealth without spending.  However, it limits their motivation as they tend to get into their comfort zones.  When people start spending money, then there will be depletion in their coffers. (more…)

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3 Steps That’ll Help You Take Back Control of Your Life Immediately

The key to finding “enough” is recognizing that the root of the problem is a question of self-esteem and deservedness

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