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How to Stop Yourself From Becoming Complacent

Complacency is the hidden killer of success

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The biggest roadblock facing creatives, entrepreneurs, coaches, and business owners is not a lack of creativity or vision, but rather reaching some success and stopping. They unknowingly get stuck in a cycle of achieving success and relaxing, only to limit their own potential.

The term “success” is subjective and a matter of your own opinion, but a hunger to achieve more is what will carry you into the next project. The key is to develop the mindset where you never settle for less than what you can be.

1. Be your own motivator on a daily basis 

Motivation is internal and is your greatest tool for impacting your surroundings, or the external.  The key is to not let the events happening around you affect your internal being. This means taking charge and being responsible for what you can control. Knowing your why, as well as your purpose helps you move strategically and motivate you to not let your guard down.

You know yourself better than anyone else. Only you can answer what your purpose is and how far you want to take your success. If you want success, you have to take massive action to overcome hurdles as they arise. From distractions, to setbacks, to temporary failures, you have to remain focused and stay ahead. This will generate resilience. You create your own life and how far you’ll go is up to you.

There will always be storms at sea, but you’ll be able to survive by having a plan of action. This is why you have to set goals and follow through to achieve them. 

2. Keep your purpose clear 

Defining your purpose and reflecting on your past helps you realign with your vision. Remind yourself of your purpose, and check in with yourself to ensure you’re reaching your targets.  Again, your goals are yours alone and being honest with yourself helps you determine if you’re where you need to be.

Too many people give up because they lose sight of their goals, or only follow through half way. You must know your why and ensure your actions correspond to the completion of your goals because no one is going to complete them for you. 

By having a clear why, you have a clear path ahead. By knowing the road ahead, you’ll know what to do next and this will keep you engaged and ready to move forward. All you have to do is act, and you’ll instinctively know what to do because you’ve reminded yourself of your vision. 

“Success can lead to complacency, and complacency is the greatest enemy of success.” – Brian Tracy

3. Envision a timeline (and stick to it)

Your timeline is the overall progression of your life. Envision a timeline to remember your past

create your own milestones. It’s also a way to connect the dots, so to speak, and give you a trajectory for your next move. Think of it like this. You graduate high school, go to college, find a job, and eventually get a promotion. This, however, is where most people stop, because people end up settling because society tells them you’ve now successful (by society’s standards).  

By having a vision of your own success, you create your own timeline and set the steps to get here. Let’s say you want to start a YouTube channel. Your first target may be to reach 10K subscribers. Then you can reach 20K subscribers, and 50K subscribers, and 100K subscribers by the end of the year. The key is to be continuously evolving and setting the bar higher than the last, as opposed to taking your foot off the gas once you’ve hit a certain mark.

4. Remember your past

To be clear, remembering your past is not the same as living in your past. Remembering and thinking about your past is a form of self reflection that helps you redefine who you are and who you want to become. This works in several ways. First, you can use the past to remember your mistakes and prevent yourself from making the same ones.

But, it can also give you the motivation to build upon your previous accomplishments and spark further greatness. By digging deeper, you can create a greater vision and act on the momentum you’ve created from your memories.   

Harnessing the power of your past lets you learn from your mistakes and transform your positives to become an even greater person. This will unlock the doors to reaching your full potential. As long as you use the past as a teaching tool, you can use it to compliment your strengths and gain momentum on your journey forward. 

5. Everyday is a new day 

Although it sounds basic, everyday is a new day to learn from the past and start the day off right. Having a solid start is one of the greatest ways to stay motivated because today gives you the power to start new. If you look at everyday as a new beginning you’ll be more motivated to reach further and continuously strive. Remember, Today is the first day of the rest of your life.  

Most people have New Year’s resolutions, but those who wish to exceed average can use every single day as a fresh start to be better. It’s a mindset hack to motivate you to seize everyday and transform it to your advantage. By starting everyday with a positive attitude and willingness to learn, you create positive momentum that will take you far in any life endeavor. It will also give you the tenacity to overcome any obstacle in your way because you’re not bogged down by life’s trials and tribulations. 

6. Focus on impact, not income 

Most people work for a salary, typically 40 hours a week with some overtime. However, trading dollars for hours will seldom generate the highest level of impact. When you start a business and focus on impact, it changes the purpose of your organization and work efforts for the better.  Impact is people-focused and changes lives, whereas a paycheck mindset often translates to doing the bare minimum.

When you’re building a business to serve as many people as you can, you can set and measure your targets to measure your success. As business grows, you can set your targets higher, create more learning materials, and take the business in a new direction. You have to consistently set the bar higher to ensure you’re creating the greatest possible impact, as opposed to doing the bare minimum to collect a paycheck. 

Being your own boss is one of the greatest ways of directly creating an impact on your target audience, while continuously building a following. By creating something, such as an online course, you’re serving others by helping them achieve their goals.

7. Never, ever peak

It’s okay to celebrate success, but always keep striving for more. Do celebrate, but don’t fall asleep at the wheel. Entrepreneurs achieve success by staying hungry, and knowing that there’s always more to do and learn.

I’m not telling you to never be happy. In fact, a hearty celebration is a great way to reward yourself for reaching your goals. The problem is when you get caught in the celebration and use it as a crutch to justify laziness and procrastination. 

Again, a reminder that everyone is different and ultimately your ideas of success are yours alone. The point I’m making is that there is always more and to keep striving to reach new heights. Let’s say you reached a million subscribers. Now, reach your next milestone so you don’t lose the momentum you gained by settling down and resting in your comfort zone.  

Conclusion

Complacency is the hidden killer of success because it operates under the false premise that you’ve reached your full potential and there’s nothing more to achieve. However, you can always create something new and continue to be the solution in another person’s life. By knowing your purpose and maintaining a crystal clear vision, and being your own motivator, you can forever impact others and reach new heights. 

This is a life worth living. 

Derek Parks is a freelance direct-response copywriter with a background in digital marketing efforts. With experience in various industries including b2b, education, and nonprofits, Derek has the experience to create carefully crafted copy for your marketing strategy that converts like a charm.

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How Learning the Skill of Hope Can Change Everything

Hope isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a state of being and a skill that has profound evidence of helping people achieve success in life

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Hope isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a state of being and a skill that has profound evidence of helping people achieve success in life.

Wishful thinking, on the other hand, is like having dreams in the sky without a ladder to climb, having a destination without a map, or trying to operate a jet-engine airplane without instructions. It sounds nice but is impossible to realize. You don’t have what you need to make it happen!

What Real Hope Is

Real hope is actionable, practical, and realistic. Better yet, it’s feasible and can be learned.

One popular approach is Hope Theory. This concept is used by colleges to study how hope impacts students’ academic performance. Researchers found that students with high levels of hope achieve better grades and are more likely to graduate compared to those with less hope.

Hope can be broken down into two components:

  1. Pathways – The “how to” of hope. This is where people think of and establish plans for achieving their goals.
  2. Agency – The “I can” of hope. This is the belief that the person can accomplish their goals.

Does Hope Really Work?

According to Webster’s Dictionary, hope as a noun is defined as: “desire accompanied by expectation of or belief in fulfillment.”

As humans, we are wired to crave fulfillment. We have the ability to envision it and, through hope, make it a reality.

My Experience with Hope

For 13 years, I was a hopeless human. During my time working at a luxury hotel as a front desk agent earning $11.42 per hour, I felt the sting of hopelessness the most.

The regret of feeling my time was being stolen from me lingered every time I clocked in. Eventually, I decided to do something about it.

I gave myself permission to hope for something better. I began establishing pathways to success and regained agency by learning from self-help books and seeking mentorship.

Because I took action toward something I desired, I now feel more hope and joy than I ever felt hopelessness. Hope changed me.

Hope Actually Improves Your Life

Wishful thinking doesn’t work, and false hope is equally ineffective. Real hope, however, is directly tied to success in all areas of life.

Studies show that hopeful people tend to:

  • Demonstrate better problem-solving skills
  • Cultivate healthier relationships
  • Maintain stronger motivation to achieve goals
  • Exhibit better work ethic
  • Have a positive outlook on life

These benefits can impact work life, family life, habit-building, mental health, physical health, and spiritual practice. Imagine how much better your life could be by applying real hope to all these areas.

How to Develop the Skill to Hope

As acclaimed French writer Jean Giono wrote in The Man Who Planted Trees:
“There are also times in life when a person has to rush off in pursuit of hopefulness.”

If you are at one of those times, here are ways to develop the skill to hope:

1. Dream Again

To cultivate hope, you need to believe in its possibility. Start by:

  • Reflecting on what you’re passionate about, your values, and what you want to achieve.
  • Writing your dreams down, sharing them with someone encouraging, or saying them out loud.
  • Creating a vision board to make your dreams feel more tangible.

Dreams are the foundation of hope—they give you something meaningful to aspire toward.

2. Create an Environment of Hope

  • Set Goals: Write down your goals and create a plan to achieve them.
  • Visualize Success: Use inspirational quotes, photos, or tools like dumbbells or canvases to remind yourself of your goals.
  • Build a Resource Library: Collect books, eBooks, or audiobooks about hope and success to inspire you.

An environment that fosters hope will keep you motivated, resilient, and focused.

3. Face the Challenges

Don’t avoid challenges—overcoming them builds confidence. Participating in challenging activities, like strategic games, can enhance your problem-solving skills and reinforce hope.

4. Commit to Wisdom

Seek wisdom from those who have achieved what you aspire to. Whether through books, blogs, or social media platforms, learn from their journeys. Wisdom provides the foundation for real, actionable hope.

5. Take Note of Small Wins

Reflecting on past victories can fuel your hope for the future. Ask yourself:

  • What challenges have I already overcome?
  • How did I feel when I succeeded?

By remembering those feelings of happiness, relief, or satisfaction, your brain will naturally adopt a more hopeful mindset.

Conclusion

Hope is more than wishful thinking—it’s a powerful skill that can transform your life. By dreaming again, creating a hopeful environment, facing challenges, seeking wisdom, and celebrating small wins, you can develop the real hope necessary for success in all aspects of life.

Let hope guide you toward a brighter, more fulfilling future.

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The 5 Stages of a Quarter-Life Crisis & What You Can Do

A quarter-life crisis isn’t a sign you’ve lost your way; it’s a sign you’re fighting for a life that’s truly yours.

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The quarter-life crisis is a well-defined set of stages—Trapped, Checking Out, Separation, Exploration, Rebuilding—one goes through in breaking free from feelings of meaninglessness, lack of fulfillment, and misalignment with purpose. I detail the stages and interweave my story below. (more…)

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Here’s The Thing About Learning, Unlearning, and Relearning

Stop hoarding and start sharing your knowledge and wealth for the benefit of humankind

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Few people have the habit of hoarding their wealth without spending.  However, it limits their motivation as they tend to get into their comfort zones.  When people start spending money, then there will be depletion in their coffers. (more…)

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3 Steps That’ll Help You Take Back Control of Your Life Immediately

The key to finding “enough” is recognizing that the root of the problem is a question of self-esteem and deservedness

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