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7 Things to Remember When Building Your Career

Rising in any career — as well as in life — takes determination, perseverance and adaptability

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Rising in any career — as well as in life — takes determination, perseverance and adaptability. And It’s generally best if you can remain grounded in humility and gratitude, acknowledging the opportunities that have come your way. 

It also takes resilience and courage: the courage to turn the wheel and embrace life’s myriad twists and turns. When I reflect back on my own career, I often think about the advice I took to heart, such as from the motivational speaker Zig Ziglar

He said just get started in any direction, and once moving, then it is easy to turn that wheel in the right direction. 

Here are 7 proven strategies that helped keep me moving throughout my career and rising to the top. I am confident that they can help you as well:

1. Never place a lid on your own thinking

If you’re familiar with Zig Ziglar you may know about his flea parable. As the parable goes, when the flea trainers placed fleas in a jar and left the top off, the fleas jumped up and out endlessly, escaping the jar. 

Once they covered the jar with a lid, the fleas jumped high, hitting the lid over and over creating a limitation they learned they couldn’t overcome. 

After time, once the trainers took the lid back off, the fleas could not jump out. The limitation was now set in their mind, even if it was no longer there in reality.

2. Don’t expect a seamless career

My Dad sold insurance, and as a boy I sometimes followed him door to door. I know there were times when he wanted to just go home. But he needed to keep going, and he did. That was my introduction to the world of business. 

As I embarked on my own career, I made sure I wasn’t just doing what I wanted, but what I needed to do. It may not have been as well-planned or seamless as I’d hoped, but the truth is, no career is. 

You’ll be given opportunities — and it’s up to you to recognize them, conventional or not, and take full advantage of them.

3. Stay on a forward path

I’d already visited and worked in the United States but hadn’t yet decided to settle here. I was still a young man when I received a prestigious scholarship from British Leyland Motor Corporation (BLMC) — manufacturer of iconic brands like Austin, Jaguar, Morris, MG, Triumph and Rover. 

In my position there, I got the chance to experience work at almost every level of the company, from the production line to sitting in on senior management meetings. 

But I saw how even this impressive brand and leadership team couldn’t surmount the broader fault lines in British society at the time. The company was crippled by confrontational labor relations, and I knew there were no easy fixes. 

Instead, I decided that to keep moving forward in my career, I had to make the move to America. I never looked back.

4. Find your niche

I realized I loved the sports world — I had played semi-professional football (soccer) for Oxford City Football Club when I was still in England. I also loved helping organizations grow. 

So, I combined them into my own niche, focusing on revenue generation and fan community building for start-ups and turn-around situations, and helping sports organizations refocus, build and drive — on the field, court and ice. 

That included the Pittsburgh Pirates, the Colorado Rockies, the Denver Grizzlies, the University of Denver athletics department, the National Basketball Association, and the Atlanta Hawks, Atlanta Thrashers and Philips Arena.

5. Keep growing

When I founded my sports marketing firm, The Aspire Group, I acted first as CEO, and later as Chairman. I knew I wanted it to keep growing and all my decisions were based on that objective. 

Aspire became one of the leading outsourced revenue-generating firms globally in the space and generated more than $125 million in new and enhanced client revenues per year, and over $1.75 Billion for our over 300 iconic clients globally. 

When I sold Aspire to Playfly Sports in May 2023, I knew it was the best way to keep Aspire growing, since Playfly is the fastest growing company in sports multimedia rights, marketing and technology.

6. Seize challenges as opportunities

This is a simple one, but it’s an important mindset shift. If you have a goal or a dream, go for it. For instance, if you want to rise in the corporate world, you need to be willing to climb the ladder, no matter how slippery it might be. 

When you face a challenge, see it as an opportunity, and go for it.

7. Just turn the wheel

Back to Zig Ziglar, whose wisdom taught me so much. To move forward takes change. Sometimes you are going to have to turn the wheel, even when there is no momentum. 

Being able to decide on the direction you must take does not have to be the starting point. If you cannot decide, just start anywhere — you’ll be able to adjust to the right direction once you’re moving. 

There are always consequences for every action, and every inaction. But with that initial action, that first step, even if it is not in the exact right direction, it is often the key to success.

I’m at the stage where I’ve shifted my focus from growing a career to making a difference. But I’m able to bring the lessons learned over time to this new endeavor, and I’m able to make a difference because I have the track record and success to propel me forward. 

That’s the bonus to guiding your own career with care. Once you acknowledge that you are ready, then you can use your experience, power, and confidence to help others as well.

Dr Bernie Mullin is a groundbreaking sport and entertainment industry executive who's turned around franchises, set all-time revenue and attendance records, and generated $1.5+ billion in revenues for brands from the NFL to the US Open Tennis with his agency, The Aspire Sport Marketing Group. He was CEO of NBA and NHL teams and CMO of the NBA. He's also a globally acclaimed speaker, podcaster, author, and humanitarian who has served on multiple boards, including the United Way; YMCA; and Make a Wish Foundation. His The Aspire Difference Foundation (TADF) focuses on supporting single parents with preschool children. All net proceeds from his consulting, podcasts and books go to support TADF. His new book is Reimagining America’s Dream: Making It Attainable for All.

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How Learning the Skill of Hope Can Change Everything

Hope isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a state of being and a skill that has profound evidence of helping people achieve success in life

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Hope isn’t wishful thinking. It’s a state of being and a skill that has profound evidence of helping people achieve success in life.

Wishful thinking, on the other hand, is like having dreams in the sky without a ladder to climb, having a destination without a map, or trying to operate a jet-engine airplane without instructions. It sounds nice but is impossible to realize. You don’t have what you need to make it happen!

What Real Hope Is

Real hope is actionable, practical, and realistic. Better yet, it’s feasible and can be learned.

One popular approach is Hope Theory. This concept is used by colleges to study how hope impacts students’ academic performance. Researchers found that students with high levels of hope achieve better grades and are more likely to graduate compared to those with less hope.

Hope can be broken down into two components:

  1. Pathways – The “how to” of hope. This is where people think of and establish plans for achieving their goals.
  2. Agency – The “I can” of hope. This is the belief that the person can accomplish their goals.

Does Hope Really Work?

According to Webster’s Dictionary, hope as a noun is defined as: “desire accompanied by expectation of or belief in fulfillment.”

As humans, we are wired to crave fulfillment. We have the ability to envision it and, through hope, make it a reality.

My Experience with Hope

For 13 years, I was a hopeless human. During my time working at a luxury hotel as a front desk agent earning $11.42 per hour, I felt the sting of hopelessness the most.

The regret of feeling my time was being stolen from me lingered every time I clocked in. Eventually, I decided to do something about it.

I gave myself permission to hope for something better. I began establishing pathways to success and regained agency by learning from self-help books and seeking mentorship.

Because I took action toward something I desired, I now feel more hope and joy than I ever felt hopelessness. Hope changed me.

Hope Actually Improves Your Life

Wishful thinking doesn’t work, and false hope is equally ineffective. Real hope, however, is directly tied to success in all areas of life.

Studies show that hopeful people tend to:

  • Demonstrate better problem-solving skills
  • Cultivate healthier relationships
  • Maintain stronger motivation to achieve goals
  • Exhibit better work ethic
  • Have a positive outlook on life

These benefits can impact work life, family life, habit-building, mental health, physical health, and spiritual practice. Imagine how much better your life could be by applying real hope to all these areas.

How to Develop the Skill to Hope

As acclaimed French writer Jean Giono wrote in The Man Who Planted Trees:
“There are also times in life when a person has to rush off in pursuit of hopefulness.”

If you are at one of those times, here are ways to develop the skill to hope:

1. Dream Again

To cultivate hope, you need to believe in its possibility. Start by:

  • Reflecting on what you’re passionate about, your values, and what you want to achieve.
  • Writing your dreams down, sharing them with someone encouraging, or saying them out loud.
  • Creating a vision board to make your dreams feel more tangible.

Dreams are the foundation of hope—they give you something meaningful to aspire toward.

2. Create an Environment of Hope

  • Set Goals: Write down your goals and create a plan to achieve them.
  • Visualize Success: Use inspirational quotes, photos, or tools like dumbbells or canvases to remind yourself of your goals.
  • Build a Resource Library: Collect books, eBooks, or audiobooks about hope and success to inspire you.

An environment that fosters hope will keep you motivated, resilient, and focused.

3. Face the Challenges

Don’t avoid challenges—overcoming them builds confidence. Participating in challenging activities, like strategic games, can enhance your problem-solving skills and reinforce hope.

4. Commit to Wisdom

Seek wisdom from those who have achieved what you aspire to. Whether through books, blogs, or social media platforms, learn from their journeys. Wisdom provides the foundation for real, actionable hope.

5. Take Note of Small Wins

Reflecting on past victories can fuel your hope for the future. Ask yourself:

  • What challenges have I already overcome?
  • How did I feel when I succeeded?

By remembering those feelings of happiness, relief, or satisfaction, your brain will naturally adopt a more hopeful mindset.

Conclusion

Hope is more than wishful thinking—it’s a powerful skill that can transform your life. By dreaming again, creating a hopeful environment, facing challenges, seeking wisdom, and celebrating small wins, you can develop the real hope necessary for success in all aspects of life.

Let hope guide you toward a brighter, more fulfilling future.

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The 5 Stages of a Quarter-Life Crisis & What You Can Do

A quarter-life crisis isn’t a sign you’ve lost your way; it’s a sign you’re fighting for a life that’s truly yours.

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The quarter-life crisis is a well-defined set of stages—Trapped, Checking Out, Separation, Exploration, Rebuilding—one goes through in breaking free from feelings of meaninglessness, lack of fulfillment, and misalignment with purpose. I detail the stages and interweave my story below. (more…)

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Here’s The Thing About Learning, Unlearning, and Relearning

Stop hoarding and start sharing your knowledge and wealth for the benefit of humankind

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Few people have the habit of hoarding their wealth without spending.  However, it limits their motivation as they tend to get into their comfort zones.  When people start spending money, then there will be depletion in their coffers. (more…)

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3 Steps That’ll Help You Take Back Control of Your Life Immediately

The key to finding “enough” is recognizing that the root of the problem is a question of self-esteem and deservedness

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